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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is a condom enough?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

12 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I'm a Uni student who is a virgin and I've been dating this guy for a few months, and I really want to have sex with him but I'm scared to death of getting pregnant. If he uses a condom, do I really have that much to worry about?...... (50 words)

Porno for Valentine's Day?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

12 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My BF is obsessed with the tv show entourage..and I'm thinking about getting him the entourage parody porno for valentines as kinda joke kinda serious ha. is this a good or bad idea?... (33 words)

B/f seems to want me to challenge the bounds

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5092 days ago

12 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have had a bf for 3yrs and I love him lots and would never hurt him. I am one where I like to play it where I wouldnt do anything to him that I wouldnt like myself. However, he WANTS me to do this stuff, cos he's treated me bad before and wants me to lose my insecurity and he ... (126 words)

Hearing about my boyfriends sexual past turns me on...is this common?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4121 days ago

12 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years. We have a wonderful sex life. We have occasionally watched porn together and I noticed that watching him watch porn turned me on more than actually watching it myself. Over about a six month period we used the ... (160 words)

He tells me that he doesn't know what to do because he wants his kids and also wants me. What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

12 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Well here's my crazy story......when I met my husband we had a great relationship he was totally honest with me or atleast I thought he was being honest with me he told ne he had a son and that him and his sons mother had a mutual understanding that was strictly the boys ... (317 words)

Is this guy stalking me??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

12 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Last year I attended a boarding school, and there was a hockey player who was obsessed with me. He had a girlfriend, so never conversed with me, except the first day of school. Incidents that took place last year were , showing up where I was most of the time, staring at... (271 words)

Masculine straight guy who likes cross dressing -- any women for whom this isn't a deal breaker?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5092 days ago

12 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Okay so I've posted here before but this one is too sensitive to a question so I'm going anonymous with my question. Thing is I am a strait male. I'm sure of this as men don't turn me on I've tried and nope its a turn off actually. Now here is the thing. I love to cross dress. ... (213 words)

Older boyfriend is not interested in sex...what could be the problem?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5092 days ago

12 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - my boyfriend is older than me by 15 years. when we first got together he took me places,ate out,he would do anything for me. now everything i do annoys him, he gets mad when i am sick,he won't touch me,kiss me,no sex. i can't bring the subject up because he gets mad and ... (92 words)

Why was I played after everything that I did??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5092 days ago

12 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - ive liked this guy intensely for ages and tonight i was speaking with two of my good friends and they confirmed what i suspected for a while-that ive been played. i cant describe how hurt i am. i really cared for him and he knew it.but he was new at the job and i was very ... (252 words)

I bled when my boyfriend was fingering me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

12 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Recently my boyfriend and I were in the room and started to have oral sex, my boyfriend started to finger me inside my vagina it was hard and exciting, when I went to the bathroom to urinate I noticed there was blood when I cleaned the vagina with toilet paper but I was... (119 words)

Most of the guys who ask me out or flirt with me just make me feel sick; but when I am with a guy who doesn't saying anything about getting together I'm just fine. Help!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3795 days ago

12 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, this kinda makes me feel silly but, I am 21 years old and I have never been in a serious relationship. I really just never put a lot of thought into it in high school; though I basically had majority male friends. Now that I have been in college for a couple of years I ... (198 words)

She's coming for the weekend, might be the first time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5091 days ago

12 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, me and my girlfriend have been together for a month and a half and this weekend she is coming to stay at mine. If I have been reading the signs right and not been misunderstanding them, I think it may be the first time for us. The only thing is I'm not sure if she has done ... (102 words)

I think she's cheating on me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

12 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - k so my girlfriend and me have been together only a few months now but we've been thru more than wat alot of have had to go thru already.. well from here basicly.. a few months ago she sent a message to her x telling him she still love him.. he sent back asking really and she ... (239 words)

He says that he has doubts about us in the future!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5091 days ago

12 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - ive just recently had a fight with my partner. He says that i get upset all the time when he comes home from work tired and miserable. Ive been worrying about him but he says to stop worrying and that he is fine. Im unemployed as i have some medical conditions that require ... (126 words)

I don't want to go to high school with no friends, no boyfriend, and no chance of ever finding one.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5066 days ago

12 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, I am 14 years old, and im ugly. I have bushy eyebrows, a uni-brow, im as white as all getout, and my hair is super thick. I hang out with all the pretty girls at school because of the sport i play, but no guy has ever liked me. I feel like an outsider in my circle o... (133 words)

What is with his fickle behavior?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5091 days ago

12 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - my ex and i broke up at the end of november. he ended it because he felt like we were drifting apart (school and work got in the way of seeing each other a lot). a week after not talking he chatted me on facebook so we could discuss the break up. he let me ask questions and one ... (615 words)

Do I have ED? I'm only 17!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

12 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Recently i haven't been able to get erections as big as i used to! i used to be able to get big withought trying. I still get hard enough to masturbate but im seriously freaking out. Do i have ED? I'm only 17! My girlfriend noticed a difference when she was giving me a ... (149 words)

Am I just a friend with benefits or are we moving slowly towards a relationship?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

12 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I started hanging out with a guy I know. I love spending time with him. I would love very much to be in a relationship with him. I thought that was the way he was headed too. After hanging out for a while we slept together. We text every day (or at least every other day.. I try ... (314 words)

Why did he stop calling when he got a new job?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

12 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating this guy exclusively for a couple of months now. We began by just hanging out in big groups, but then we realized we really enjoyed spending time together and slowly started dating. He kept telling me he was wary of getting into a relationship before ... (189 words)

What should I do with my girlfriend, stay or leave?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

12 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - me and my girlfriend have a for the most part a good relationship, me and her know what each other is feeling, she a Gemini, so i heard about the split personality, like 2 people, but back to what i was saying, she talkes to her ex's saying they are her friends, they are 700+ ... (559 words)

I don't know about my boyfriend going on holiday to Zante!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5091 days ago

12 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My Boyfriend wants to go on holiday with 2 of his (single) friends, the only problem is he wants to go to zante. we have been together for nearly 4 years and i know what hes like when he is drunk, he flirts stares/oggles and has even admitted to groping. this worries me a... (134 words)

The only thing holding this relationship together is finances and housing!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5092 days ago

12 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years now and we have both stated that we were not "in love" but we still love each other. Now here is where it gets complicated...we fight all the time but when we are not fighting we are best of friends.....originally we stayed ... (104 words)

Help! Get me out of the friend zone!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

12 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I've know this girl for about two months now and I've been trying to meet up with her one on one, to spend more time with her personally rather than in groups and that outside of college. The thing is, I have ended up in the friend zone. She likes this boy who is a ye... (417 words)

We seem too perfect together just to throw it away!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

12 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - okay, so here's the deal. Me and my (now ex) were together for a year and a half. before dating, we were best friends. we are both 17 years old. we both loved eachother alot and have so much in common. he play the same sports and look at things the same way. we have the same ... (359 words)

Sexual vs. Physical attraction

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

12 January 2011 (F)

age - hi , could you explain .what if someone is sexual attrative is ? an what does it mean if they are physical attrative to you . which one is better for you if your looking for a relationship .... (40 words)

I'm trying to get on with life and my ex won't leave me alone!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5091 days ago

12 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - well i have a bit of a problem i went out with this guy for six months and it was the biggest regret of my life, i should have never gone out with him, he wasent a good boyfriend he is a complete jerk this is what he did, he told everyone in his class his friends that he was ... (325 words)

I asked out my best friend, she declined and started dating some new guy!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

12 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I love a girl a lot who is my best friend and I asked her out but she refused and went out with another guy. I told her everything I did I do it for her including when she was upset that another guy took two weeks to decide to ask her out, I was there to support her and ... (221 words)

WIsh he would grow some balls and stop acting like a kid!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

12 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I am a woman in my late 30's with a b/f of the same age. I have a grown up child and he has never married or lived with anyone before so I guess I have lived a lot more than him with regard to previous relationships. We get on really well and I really love him apart f... (370 words)

Am I being realistic, or will finding the right guy always be a fantasy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

12 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I m in my early 30s, and at this point of my life i m more than ready to start a family. I m doing a lot of dating, but most of the guys that i meet are not financially stable. I feel bad at times to base my choice on their financial situation, but i cant help it. I have my ... (310 words)

My girlfriend left me just before Christmas!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

12 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi all, My girlfriend left me just before christmas which was pants lol. The reason for it was that she had developed feeling for her flat mate, I was really good when it happened just said what ever and said good luck even though I felt differently, she went back up ho... (316 words)

Is my friend avoiding me or is she really sick?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

12 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Is my friend avoiding me or is she really sick? OK. I keep asking my friend to hang out with me and she keep saying she is so sick. Then when I text her she tells me she went shopping, to church, to choir practice, to get her hair done, to her sister or her cousin's house. ... (156 words)

Will he regret leaving?

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12 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - i worked with this guy for the last 18 months we were very close and i miss him madly because hes moved teams. i know he hates the manager but i would have thought working with me would help. ive helped him a lot with personal stuff to work exams and i really liked him a lot ... (138 words)

Should I smile at her when I catch my crush looking at me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5092 days ago

12 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - hello there everyone i really like this girl at college who's on my course. we speak sometimes and a bit over facebook by commenting on each others statuses but i would like to get to know her more and i want to know how to speak to her on facebook chat without her thinki... (202 words)

Is he just a girl magnet?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

12 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok.. So i'm only 15 and I don't have much experience with relationships but I really like this boy that lives on my street. I see him almost eveyday and he's best friend's with my sister so he comes to my house a lot but he doesnt fancy my sister because she's more of a tom bo... (389 words)

My pregnant friend is getting an abortion and I'm the only one who knows!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

12 January 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - my best friend, who im in love with, told me today she thought she was pregnant. When i asked who it was she told it was one of my best friends who knows i love her. she really dosent want a baby because it was a mistake and dosent want her parents to know so shes going to have ... (131 words)

A guy asked out my friend but, he only wants to date for 2 years?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5092 days ago

12 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - A guy came to my friend and said her that he wants to make her his girlfrnd for 2 years only....she is very confused....are these kind of things normal?????.....to propose a girl along with time span of 2 years...doess this kind of commitments happen normally???...have u ever ... (51 words)

My ex/roommate reads my texts!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

12 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex girlfriend read my texts and is now not talking to me, how should i respond or react? We still live together in a 2br and are good friends, and we have that kind of relationship where we are friends with the occasional benefits....well she went through either through my ... (1221 words)

I find hard to imagine only having sex with my boyfriend for the rest of my life.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

12 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for over two years now, he was my first boyfriend and I lost my virginity to him. I love him and can see myself spending my life with him. For some time now I have been finding it hard to imagine only having sex with him for the rest of my life, I ... (113 words)

How do I get my Dad to sort out his will?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

12 January 2011 (F)

age - My father has not made a will and it will leave very big consequences. He says he will simply pass everything to my Mum. This is fine butt he has not put in place any plan to pass his inhertance tax allowance for her use so that means that hundreds of thousands of pounds will ... (218 words)

What is the source of a girl's attractiveness?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

12 January 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - OK, I had an interesting experience recently. There has been a girl who is stunningly beautiful and very sexy whom I have known. She is always being sought after by guys. But I got to know her with no physical contact, in a friendly way. I began to realize how selfish and ... (170 words)

I have a long term boyfriend but I'm attracted to someone else

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

12 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a long term bf whom I love a lot. But I am attracted to a guy who I know from the gym. It is not something I'd act on, but what does this mean? ... (36 words)

What's missing is a boyfriend.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

12 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys, Lately, I've been feeling really lonely and depressed. I live on my own, away from my parents, because I'm studying in a university that's far from my hometown. Even though my life's supposed to be great: I'm healthy, I have a nci ehouse, a few close friends that are... (354 words)

Should I continue texting him? Or should I forget my crush?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

12 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i am a nurse and i have a crush in the same hospital i work. almost all nurses who knows me in the hospital knows i have a crush on him. at first, he kept smiling at me whenever he sees me. one night, i was so surprised when he texted me,.. he told me he asked my number from a ... (184 words)

Have I just been fooled?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

12 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - So, here is the situation: I feel like a fool right now. I started to get closer to this girl more than one and a half years ago. She had a boyfriend back then, but I knew that she is unhappy and the guy just does not let her go, even after a few breakups and getting back tog... (828 words)

Why am I so worried about moving?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

12 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hello everyone, im having a problem with a difficult decision and was just wanting some input on it. So my boyfriend of almost 4 years and i are wanting to move in together. we have the whole house situation and all that stuff worked out, but my problem is that im scared t... (189 words)

Should I let this threesome happen?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

12 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - yea is it okay if my gf and i have a threesome i am not keen on the idea because its going to be a stranger plus its another guy should i let this happen?she told me it was going to be better i dont know what to do!... (49 words)

Is going out with other guys (one on one when in a relationship) ok?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

12 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my Gf have been going out for about a year, she's really nice and i'm sure i wanna be with her forever... But there are just some guys that still talk to her, and ask her out one on one. should i feel uncomfortable with that? Because i get rather sad inside when she does ... (69 words)

Re all women this hard to read?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

12 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I know that women have since the beginning of time been hard for men to understand but I keep having a relationship with this girl who baffles me. I wanted to ask you, Wise Agony Aunts, if this is "normal" female behavior or whether it is unusual. Here is one recent examp... (790 words)

I feel trapped in my marriage

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

12 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'm just looking for advice. Im 28 and hes 46 been together for 6yrs... married 1yr. Not sure i wanted to get married. But he was pushing me. asking me everyday when we getting married. Then one day he says will you please just pick a day. So I did. And 2 months later we ... (754 words)

She thinks I hate her... but I love her. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5092 days ago

12 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I used to be in a band with this girl. She and i were very good friends. We're not on speaking terms because we disagreed enormously on her ex boyfriends (my best friends) methods of dealling with their break up. She hates me coz i dnt think her ex's doing anything wrong, she ... (69 words)

My girlfriend has become distant and I don't know why

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

12 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - alright. I've been with my girlfriend for just about 10 months now. The first 3 were great and and then as the months followed things started to get progressively worse. She became more distant and didn't really spend time with me. Now more recently she refuses to show ... (174 words)

He's dragging his feet about commitment.Am I too clingy? And should I allow this relationship to continue?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

12 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating this guy on and off for a while now. We started off being friends. I do not know what I can do to show him I will be a good girlfriend. He definitely cares for me but is dragging his feet when it comes to commiting to me. He has a high profile career and ... (214 words)

Do I have the right to ask my wife not to contact her male friend frequently?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

12 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - We were married for more than 8 years. Neither of us have complained about our friendship with opposite sex. But recentlly there is a guy she befriend. I don't know exactlly why but I don't like their friendship. I told her my feeling. She said it is just in my mind. But I ... (230 words)

She's my second cousin, we are not dating, but she means so much to me. What do I have in this relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5092 days ago

12 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been close to this girl,(17, me 22), for a while now and we talk everyday. she is my second cousin, but there has always been something special between us. we are pretty close to each other and share almost everything and say we love each other(though long distance). she ... (347 words)

My crazy ex is ruining my life. What do I do?!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

12 January 2011 (?) age 41-50 - I'm really lost here people and I don't know what else to do? I've had a few difficult years of late. My Dad was diagnosed terminally ill and as a result past away a few months ago. I was with a girl who literally changed over night. When my family and I were first told ... (773 words)

How do I let go of things from my past relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

12 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so I have a bit of a problem when it comes to letting things go, I suppose. Six months ago, my [now ex]boyfriend broke up with me, and about a month ago I felt like I had finally gotten over him. But I can't help but have thoughts that bug me now and again. Like sometimes I ... (271 words)

I hate him and so do our teenagers! I'm only staying because of the toddlers.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

12 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have been together 17 years and had 4 children. We have 2 teenagers and 2 toddlers. Our first 15 years together were great years. The last 2 years have been pure missery. My husband did a complete 180 and is a totally different person towards me and the ... (489 words)

I'm back in the love-state with him, but he has a girlfriend! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

12 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 20 year old girl and becoming crazy because of my heart racing and chaos in my mind. It's a long story but, in November 2010 i fell headlessly in love with this boy, he lives 20 minutes driving away from me, so i didn't saw him for a very long time. Nonetheless we ... (250 words)

Why is he acting like this if he wants her?

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12 January 2011 (?) age 36-40 - I have no idea where to start so excuse the rambling. This situation has been going on well over a year and i'm just so tired of it. It's a long story so i'm going to leave most of the details out. So, me and and a guy i knew from school, got back in touch over facebook ... (619 words)

Whether to stay or go? My heart says one thing, my head another.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

12 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 and half years on and off and now on for one year and one month. I can't tell whether I am staying with him because it is comfortable or it is because I want to. I feel like as I am writing this I was to be with him.. but there are so many ... (144 words)

What is too friendly?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

12 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - What is too friendly Will try to be as comprehensive as possible. Please keep an open mind My best friend told me she had feelings for me and over a period of months, it developed into love. She told her husband she loved someone else and wanted out of their marriage. H... (755 words)

When poverty comes to a man's life, why does the woman slip away through the window?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

12 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - when poverty comes to a man life why do woman slip away though the window. Y? ... (16 words)

Did she cheat? With son in mind which option will be better for my new family?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

12 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok this question is going to be lengthy but its important that i get the details out.Please give me your thoughts. A year and a half ago I started seeing my gf.(Jul 31) Right at the end of our summers, I was going into my junior year of college, she had graduated the pr... (1092 words)

Did you ex ever come back and leave the rebound relationship for you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

12 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - If your ex come back after a rebound when did he.... Details please. Like was it 4 weeks that they broke up and decided they wanted you or was it 3 months and what did they say? My ex and i were inlove and he asked me to marry him. We then broke up and were gonna get b... (116 words)

Is it possible for a woman to cry on demand?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

12 January 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, Last year I was in a relationship with a woman who in retrospect I feel was manipulating me. She had asked me for a lot of money and I gave it to her over the course of the year, without getting anything back. (We were not even dating.) But I found out she had lied about ma... (293 words)

My brother doesn't support my choice of a wife, he wants me to marry his wife's sister!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

12 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello everybody, i'm 28 yrs old in love with my GF For 5yrs, she is the one i'm planning to marry very soon. My major problem is that, my elder brother who took care of my studies when i was in d university is not in d support to marry her. Now i'm working. It seemed like he ... (86 words)

How do I get over my anger towards him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

12 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm here looking for I guess you can say some understanding about why I'm feeling the way I feel. You see I was madly in love with a guy to the point where I took a rap for him and did 1 year prison time for him. The kicker is when I got released I called him so we could get ... (272 words)

What will happen if she stays or get married to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

12 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - She is 20 this year and is in a relationship with her bf for 5 years already. They have broke up but then patched back many times. Her bf is very possessive, slapped her before 2 yrs back, emotionally abusive at times and she has cried a lot in this relationship, but still, she ... (101 words)

After all these yrs & all that we've been through why porn?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

12 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - In need of some advice. Me and my child's father are trying to work things out. We've been off and on for almost 9 yrs (majority of it was my fault) and we have a 2 yr old. He say's that he's forgiven me and is willing to let the past be the past, but I just don't know. ... (869 words)

I'm frustrated that my boyfriend is watching porn all the time

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

12 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend is always watching porno and more often murstabating. we dont have sex alot and i do like sex i hate what he is doing because he is always hiding and i alwazs know when hes doing it one time i asked him if am not enough for him and all he said was that he loves h... (136 words)

I neglected a woman who I am now in love with. How can I let her know she is the best love I ever had?

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12 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey Guys. I'm in love with a girl I treated like shit. I was to busy chasing after my ex who threw me away. stupid me. I got used to the girl I'm now in love with always being available and sweet and caring for me regardless of how cruddy I was to her or how many times I cursed ... (322 words)

She'd do me, but "sort of have a boyfriend". I don't know how to read women, and I not want just a fling, so what does she want with me?

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12 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Okay. I met this girl while out at a kareoke bar. We have talked and we seem to really hit it off. She has my number and we text every so often now. She has said I'm cute and in a text once "I'd do ya, If you dont mind my sayin...lol" She has said she is open sexually so i dont ... (197 words)

I love him, and think that deep down there he loves me too, even though he said I'm not the one for him! How do I get him back?

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12 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I need some help on how to get my boyfriend back. He is 24, very immature, but also the love of my life. He recently broke up with me because he was afraid to committ and said that he loved me although was no longer "in love" with me. He came to this conclusion withi... (155 words)

He announced his love for me, broke up with his girlfriend of 4 years, but how do I enter a relationship with him without becoming a rebound?

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12 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been best friends with my male friend for 7 years. We both were in long term relationships for most of the time we have known each other. My bf and I broke up about a year ago and this last year my best friend has been having relationship problems too. Well, I dont know ... (178 words)

My girlfriend has an irrational fear of pregnancy, even though we never had sex!

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12 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend has an irrational fear of pregnancy I'm afraid. It's not a matter of sex even though, she gets super freaked out about touching my penis in case it somehow got her pregnant. She is even acts worried in the hot tub about over exciting me, because she's afraid I ... (162 words)

The Mom of my married boyfriend has threatened to Dis-Inherit him if he doesn't go back to his wife. What can we do?

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12 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - my boyfriend is married..i know but he left his wife and stayed with his mother and our relationship bloomed. he recently found out that his mother has had him followed, knows all about me..she told him to go back home to raise his 2 girls..(mind you she is a good mother) but ... (98 words)

How do you formalize a breakup without a lawyer?

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12 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Section breaking up. Hello, I wanna break up with my gfriend for cheating, but I would like to avoid going to a lawyer. We have a 2 year old. I figure if I pay for: 100% the apartment they live in including utilities 50% the kinder garden 50% the nanny (we both work) 50... (88 words)

She cheated and I forgave her. Now she's doing it again. How do I deal with it?

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12 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, a year ago my gfriend cheated on me. We broke up for a short period then I forgave her. A year later, now, I discover she is still chatting online with the guy she cheated with. Frankly I want to dump her. It took me some stomach to take her back originally but now agai... (82 words)

I hate being rejected. She's not as interested as before. Our LDR is deteriorating. Help!

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12 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, I've been dating my highschool sweetheart for the past going on three years of college. She is about an hour away at a different college, however hopefully transferring here. Im truly in love with this girl and I would like to spend the rest of my life with her. The on... (450 words)

He's apologized for his remark, but I'm feeling broken and lost inside. He means so much to me.

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12 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't know what's wrong with me now. There was a misunderstanding between my boyfriend and me. He thought I was talking bad about his friends and said something to me that made me feel less important. I love him so much but I feel as if I don't mean anything to him. He ... (128 words)

Using lubricant for sex makes me feel useless! Is there anything I can do?

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12 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - When me and my boyfriend have sex i feel in the moment but then i just like become unwet. it is horrible and now i feel like he is getting mad at me for it even though i cant control it. im kinda anti lube.. no clue why it just makes me feel weird. i can try it but then i feel ... (81 words)

I'm scared I might have hurt her when I chickened out of going further. I don't know what to do

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12 January 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Ok, so i'm 15 and my girlfriend and I are talking about sex. But i'm scared to because i might hurt her. we've reached really close to having sex, but i chickened out. I told her this reason and she keeps saying it'll be ok... i don't know what to do. ... (51 words)

I'm not ready yet. But I seek your guidance on how to initiate sex for the first time?

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12 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay.. Please don't be mean with answers to this. I'm not planning to make an instant decision here. To start off, I'm 19. I am a virgin, by choice. I've had a lot of chances of "Losing it", but I didn't want to until I was ready, and with someone who I truly felt in love wit... (645 words)

He's trying to change me on so many levels. When will these changes be 'enough' for him?

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12 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, i really need some advice!! Iv been with my boyfriend for almost a year. Im 22, he's nearly 30 and he's a christian. Iv never felt like this about anyone before and i really really love him. When we first met everything was great! He was just as random and as 'crazy' as me. ... (477 words)

How far should a 14 year old go sexually?

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12 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey everyone! I have been wanting an answer to this question for a while, so your opinion would mean a lot to me. :) I am 14 years old and have been dating boy for a year and a half now. He was very innocent at first which was very unexpected. He is a very well known guy a... (333 words)

How do you find people for a threesome?

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12 January 2011 (?) age 41-50 - I was just wondering how you go about asking someone to join you for a threesome? I want to try a threesome so bad but can't find anyone that wants to.I am married and I want to do something different in my marriage.It's a choice that I am choosing to do.I just dont know how to ... (83 words)

Paranoid that people are looking at me! What can I do?

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12 January 2011 (F) age 41-50 - I go through life with everyone giving me dirty looks. Store clerks, passers-by, people at general . I know smiling is supposed to help, but I can't freaking smile all the freaking time, and I am HORRIBLE at fake smiling. I am not fat,or ugly. I heard many times, that I l... (198 words)

He asked if I liked him.. I said yes. Now he's silent!

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12 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! Sorry this is a pretty basic question. I want to know what it means when a guy asks you if you still like him. First off He knows I've liked him since 6th grade...(we are in 12th now) Second he just asked me over messaging if I still liked him...So I sucked it up and told ... (120 words)

Been out of the dating game for a while -- how do I approach her?

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12 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Im in a bit of a pickle i seek wisdom help! So here is my situation i was in a relationship for 4 years and then it abruptly ended (she broke up with me) now we always had a good connection no one ever cheated but she would hint at her suspicions of me cheatin whicg i never ... (231 words)

Girl friend can't get over ex-boyfriend -- need advice!

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12 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I just started talking to this girl that goes to my school. We've been out on our first date already and it went well (she likes me and I also like her). The only problem is that she recently got out of a serous relationship. She broke up with her ex (over around new years) ... (263 words)

My heart wants it to work, my head tells me to move on

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12 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel like I'm unable to move on because he's always on the back of my mind. I'm holding on to that little bit of hope that things will work between us, that's what my heart wants. But my head is telling me that it's never going to work and that I need to move on. But of ... (265 words)

Is my coworker interested in me, or is it in my head?

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12 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I like this guy I work with, but I don't know if he is just friendly, or likes me back. To clarify I work part time at a grocery store. Some traits of our relationship: -He helps me whenever I need something -He always laughs at my jokes and seems to brighten up when he sees... (173 words)

I really like him, but he's not very talkative

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12 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I started liking this one boy when he politely opened the door for me at pep band one night. We've talked a little, but not a lot. We have talked enough that he knows my name and I've gotten to be friends with his friends (who I had been friends with years before), but he ... (212 words)

Do women enjoy it?

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12 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Do women enjoy anal? I expect that it differs from person to person, but on average? Or is it only something a girl would let a guy do as something special for him? ... (37 words)

Wondering if I should stay in this marriage?

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12 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Does anyone think I should stay? Will try to keep this short. In my heart I know the answer but although I am a very strong and independant person, I am also afraid of making the wrong choice. Married 16 years with teenaged son. Husband has always been bad tempered with ... (408 words)

Boy Crush, Missing a teacher, help?

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12 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright so i've got a couple things. There's this guy i like. I've known him since last summer. i work at a store so he comes in a few days a week and always says hello but usually i am the one to start the conversation on AOL instant messanger. He seems nervous a lot bu... (304 words)

Help me cope with the end of my marriage

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12 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - How can I acept that my husband doesn't want me anymore? How can I acept that he left me because he is tired of me, because he sais I am other person after the marriage. because he sais I am not more of kind of women that he likes? My marriage is over, I just need to now how ... (63 words)

Can sophomores date freshmen?

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12 January 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - This may seem like a silly question when compared to the degree of severety other questions on this website demand, but I am doubtful of my own reasoning. I recently have acquired an infatuation for this girl who's a grade below me. She is very lovely, to say the least. First... (202 words)

Can't get a boyfriend, what am I doing wrong?

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12 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Why can't I get a boyfriend? I am half- japanese, and all of my friends say that I'm really pretty, and guys have called me beautiful, georgeous, hot, ect. And they tell me I could get any guy. I can't even go down the street with my friend without getting whistled at. No ... (203 words)

It only lasted for a month, now my girlfriend isn't sure she wants a boyfriend?

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12 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I just got out of a relationship with my girlfriend of a month or so. I'm in college and we began our relationship kind of suddenly a few weeks before Christmas break. She lives about four hours from me so we didn't see each other at all over the break. We had been close ... (240 words)

Help with oral and vaginal sex!

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12 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - [Mod note: 2 questions by the same poster combined.] Q. Okay, me and my boyfriend have been dating a year. I'm in love with him he's the most amazing person I've ever meet and he has taking everything slow and not rushed me into anything it was 7 months before he ever did anyt... (358 words)

Every time I go to ask her out, she is always telling me how she likes someone else!

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12 January 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Hello. I've been talking to this girl, let's call her Kia, on a friendship basis since about late September, early October. I've always kind of liked her before, but since we've been talking I'm really liking her a whole lot, and I thought she liked me. However, one night she ... (224 words)

He says he likes me but I think this is some kind of joke!

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12 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - im in a dilemma, i have been emailing a guy via facbook, i don't know anything about him apart from that he recently was in a relationship with a girl i went to high school with, they broke up around new years. i am really attracted to him although i know nothing about hi... (252 words)

I've tagged along while she shops for lingerie, so how do I get her in the sack?

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12 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - okay so I am really good friends with this girl. Like, I've known her since grade 5 and I am in grade 12 now. We talk about anything, including A LOT of sexual stuff. She has even taken me lingerie shopping. My question is, how can I get her to go all the way?... (57 words)

I'm in love with a guy that has a girlfriend.

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12 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 17 years old. Ive been secretly seeing this guy that has a girlfriend, for a year now. I totally understand how wrong it is, but my emotions wont let me leave him. Ive tried and tried to leave him, and one time i even did, but a few weeks go by and he calls me, and says ... (179 words)

How can I lower my sex drive?

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12 January 2011 (M) age 30-35 - How can I stop thinking about sex? I have a sweet girlfriend. However, I keep thinking about sex whether or not she is around. I feel guilty to have such dirty thoughts every time I am around her. This desire always trigger without fail when we show intimacy towards each other. ... (98 words)

I feel like I'm contributing majority of the effort in this relationship!

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12 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Sometimes, like now, i get very frustrated with my other half. We're very different people, i'm the more dramatic and reactive of the two and he is the overally passive, predictable one. There are parts of him that are absolutely beautiful, he's caring, patient and reliable and ... (563 words)

My boyfriend wants to have cyber sex, but I'm concerned that if he records the session, it will leak out!

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12 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my boyfriend are in a long-distance relationship and he wants me to have cyber-sex with him. Its been a year into our relationship and I'm not sure of the whole thing. What if he records the session just for his sake and it gets leaked by chance? He finds it very ... (64 words)

Crushing on her.

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12 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I met another female through mutual friends one night. We all went out that night and had a good time. The female was kissing me and my friends girlfriend and after we all had went to bed, me and the female I had met had sex. We were both drunk and I wonder now if she could ... (134 words)