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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My husband discusses our personal issues with my friends!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

6 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband has on more than one occassion discussed our personal issues with my friends who he is aquainted with and not close. I have asked him to not do this as it has offended me, as I am generally a private person preferring to resolve our issues without involving ... (112 words)

I've know him since preschool and now he's ignoring me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

6 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - hi guys so im so confused! well hears the background story... Ive known this guy since preschool but we went to different schools in elementry school and met again in 6th grade then at the end of 7th he moved... once he moved all my 11:11 wishes were about him and i really ... (163 words)

My ex dumped me months ago but he's still angry

This question has 32 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

6 January 2011 (F)

age - I am completely puzzled by my ex boyfriends behaviour. He obviously did not think i was worthy of his love. After 7 yrs and a child together, despite always having to prove to him i was, he still dumped me anyway and cut all contact with us. that was 3 months ago and i have sta... (165 words)

I still love my first!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

6 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I broke up with my ex about who i went out with for a year and its been about 6 months. Im still not over her i still think about her every day she took my virginity as i did hers. It was primarly her fault she wouldn't stop texting other guys and lying about it i also ... (147 words)

Are we still going to quarrel after we're married?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

6 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear cupid Am into a two years relationship now,but just at the begining of this year we got into a missunderstanding dat almost leaded to a breakup.. I love this girl and i really plans for her to marry..but the main point is we quarrel almost every week,mostly thro... (70 words)

I love her but I'm afraid we're at a dead end

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

6 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Weve been dating/going out for about a year and a half now, at the start, it was great, now there is no spark between us. A few weeks ago she said im not as happy as i was when we first started going out (in general) Yet i dont feel like i have changed, If i have, i dont know ... (383 words)

I get a strange feeling when I'm speaking to him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5098 days ago

6 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hey I am your average 16 year old i drink,party and go into town (clubs) okay im pretty mature for my age! i just dont understand what goes through a males mind all i ever do its get used by them. They say noo this is different your different from all the other girls and ... (318 words)

Does my fetish make me abnormal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

6 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, I would like some advice on a personal and potentially embarrassing issue. I have a sexual fetish for shiny or transparent, glossy pvc plastic. Anything made from shiny or transparent pvc arouses me- pvc raincoats, transparent pvc shower curtains and pvc inflata... (263 words)

My boyfriend wants me to lose weight!

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

6 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Help! My boyfriend has a problem with my weight. I think I'm pretty hot though, and not overweight at all. I am 5'6 and weigh 132 lbs. His problem is, I've gained weight since we've been together. When we first met, I was a professional dancer and weighed about 125. I still ... (172 words)

Was this advice, or a warning?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

6 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, I am posting on this site because well I need help and I havent found any other websites to post to so maybe you all can give me some answers. My girlfriend and I have been toghether for a year and a half and we have always been very happy, finally this week though ... (146 words)

We both want different things, and I'm finding it hard to talk to him about it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

6 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I didnt reply to a text that this guy sent to me, and he was on msn at the same time as me earlier tonight, but i set my status to " Away " as i didn't know what to say to him. There is a bit of a problem that i have with him at the moment, and i'm finding it difficult to talk ... (168 words)

Conflicting feelings about what happened with my friend's brother

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

6 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My family is really close with another family they have 3kids 2 are adopted. Well i think of them as my sisters and brother. 2 of the kids are 16, and the youngest girl, emily is 12. I'm 15, almost 16. Well my sista emily asked me to spend the night so i did. They just got an ... (464 words)

My husband doesn't know how to show affection, but the other guy does!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

6 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a problem I have been married for 6 yrs and have not been in love going on 5. I think I married him for all the wrong reasons but I do love him very much. But here is the thing I met someone else and he is 12 yrs younger than me and I have fallen deeply inlove with him. ... (217 words)

I don't want to be angry forever. Any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

6 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my fiance for almost three and a half years. Our relationship got off to a very rocky start. My (then boyfriend) would say negative things about me (too tall, not thin enough, wrong hair colour etc etc). I put up with this for a while before asking him to stop. ... (572 words)

My girfriend's parents keep asking her for more money; should I get involved?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

6 January 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - My girlfriend is from the Philippines, and her family (father, mother brother, and 2 sisters) is constantly pressuring her (they get nasty) to send them money. She has been supporting them for almost 14 years, and she's tired of it. She doesn't make a lot of money, and she has ... (334 words)

Should I steer clear of this situation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

6 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all, I fancy my dads partner younger brother - is this bad? He is about 10 years older than me, but extremely fun and attractive and I sense he finds me attractive too.. if we were to be out and drinking alone, I reckon something would happen, - is this something that I... (63 words)

A woman I slept with is claiming she's pregnant with my child

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

6 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - A woman I slept with a while ago is claiming she is pregnant with my child, however I had not slept with her at least two months prior to her pregnancy. Obviously I have no reason to believe the baby is mine, however she seems to think it is. Now all my family, friends and ... (135 words)

He wants to do it all the time... I don't!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

6 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I do not know what to do... my boyfiend wants sex all the time but I do not and I do not want to do it all the time. Please can people give me some help?... (36 words)

Our "casual" relationship!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4998 days ago

6 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So, I fancied the hell outta one of my collegues , eventually we made out, and texted for days, we have since been sleeping together but are not in a 'relationship' as he said hes 'not a relationship person'. I agreed to this and when asked he says 'we are casually seeing each ... (177 words)

That first kiss...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

6 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend want to kiss but are both shy and he thinks he's gonna mess up..... how do I convince him otherwise? ... (24 words)

Bad girls!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

6 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - What does it mean if a guy says "Are you a bad girl?" to you ? It will be something sexual, as he has said that he wants to have sex with me, but what does being "bad" mean exactly? Or is that just something that guys say when they are turned on? We haven't had sex yet, by ... (82 words)

Where do I stand with this man?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

6 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I met a guy about a year ago. I liked him immediately and it was clear that there was a spark between us but he has a girlfriend. I see him out socially and we have mutual friends so I am regularly in his contact. A few weeks ago one of our mutual friends told him that I ... (474 words)

Help! Am I being played???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

6 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 15 and my boyfriend will be 18 this april. we have been dating for 2 months now. things are changing, we used to text all the time, now he is saying we dont need to text as much any more because he is afraid it will become awkward. he says he loves me but he needs time to ... (85 words)

How do you get rid of boredom?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

6 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - How do you get rid of boredom?... (7 words)

My girlfriend's ex texts her often and tells her how he feels. She saysnot to worry but I don't know...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

6 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello I recently started dating a girl about 3 weeks ago and its been going pretty good. We both go out frequently but the only thing that bothers me is that she has a lot of guy friends. They text her often and she tells me not to worry and that they are just her friends... (155 words)

Why am I hooked on him? How can I stop?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

6 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Well it starts off like this, Im a married woman of 6years and I have been with my husband for a total of 10years. So my reason for submitting this letter is because I have been involved with this man for over 13 years. I was in a short but sweet relationship with him and he ... (329 words)

Do any of you feel as though you husband doesn't notice you anymore?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

6 January 2011 (F)

age - would just like to know how many wifes have this problem,you have all the time in the world to spend alone with your husband ,you can do everything you can think of to get him to notice you put on make-up put on sexy night ware even go around necked and he still acts as if your ... (186 words)

Should I not have mentioned my late period to my BF?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

6 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I just want to know, is this my fault? I have been on and off with this man for 5 years. He is the only man i've loved in 5 years. We just got back together and things (I thought) were going really well for the past 3 months. He had told me he was serious about me, and we ... (310 words)

My boyfriend doesn't seem to care about me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

6 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have an uncaring boy friend, he doesnt seem to care at all, he makes dates and forgets and even forgets to appolgize, he doesnt communicate much, he says he doesnt like phone calls and sms. He even doesnt like going out! he says he loves me but his actions say another thing. ... (265 words)

My ex is getting back in touch. Should I reply?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

6 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i broke up with my ex-boyfriend in january 2010 and we weren't together long (4 months) and it ended on bad terms. we haven't been in contact since then and i don't have his number and i am not his friend on a social network site. so on new years eve i was on my way into town ... (188 words)

My husband doesn't respect me and only thinks about money

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

6 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - i still love my husbnd to the core but all he cares about is money. he does not care for me or respect me. he insults me and demeans me i do all the chores for him but am totally not appreciated. we have a baby, he plays with baby ignores me is so frigid. All this attachme... (257 words)

I haven't heard from him since our date. Should I keep waiting?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

6 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't kno what to do anymore. I went on a date with this guy I've known for years but we wernt close we were jst good friend but didn't see eachother often. Anyways he moved out of state and wanted me and my kids to move with him and I explained to him I couldnt do that but ... (141 words)

My fiance wants sex but it's against my beliefs

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

6 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My fiance wants sex and i don't want it becos it is against my religious belief but i allow him 2 make him happy but at the end i feel so unworthy and it's affecting my christain life ... (40 words)

Does it mean anything when a man holds your face when he kisses you?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

6 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Does it mean anything when a man kisses you and holds your face? He cups your face with both hands but is he sending you a message also? Not all men do this? Just looking for opinions? thanks!... (42 words)

I am not religious but have certain beliefs about virginity. Is this hard to appreciate?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

6 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I am currently an 33 year old atheist and virgin. I used to be a devoted christian, but lost my faith some years ago. However, my feelings towards sex has remained the same (or even grown stronger) meaning that I still feel that sex should be "shared" with only one other ... (109 words)

Should I get back together with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5098 days ago

6 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - ok, well i just recently broke up with my girlfriend of a year, but i really regret it because i still love her. the reason we split was because about a week and a half before that, my bestfriend who i grew apart from confessed to me that he has been seeing my girl. he told... (155 words)

We recently broke up and now she is "in a relationship"

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5069 days ago

6 January 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Ok, So i have had quite a few relationships with women.I have unfortunately broken my share of hearts and have had 2 devestating heartbreaks of my own. Until this last summer. Before this past relationship I took about a 3 year break from dating and getting into a relations... (854 words)

I contacted my LDR BF through a fake profile to see what he's up to

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

6 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I did something I probably shouldn't do...sigh! Now I need some advice! My LDR boyfriend is on a travel site which has a setting that looks exactly like match.com (one to one, not a forum), in fact I think it's a combination of dating and meeting global friends/travel m... (360 words)

He took advantage of our friendship and I'm distraught

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

6 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - please guys help im so fed up and upset and yes this is all my own fault. i thought a guy i knew was my friend. at first he was very sincere and in a bad way because his wife cheated on him. i thought he neede a friend so i took him under my wing-in a friendship capacity and ... (171 words)

Should I be worried that my BF added a girl he used to like on facebook?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

6 January 2011 (F) age 36-40 - My boyfriend recently added a girl he used to like on facebook. They originally kept in touch back in 2005, before i met him, and i think originally, they were intouch on msn, although i dont know where they first found each other. She lives in America but we live in England. ... (676 words)

My girlfriend has a "friend" she doesn't even know.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

6 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend is meeting up this this guy she barely knows(they met once a few years ago that's all) and she has been buying new clothes, getting a haircut, dying her hair (she would never dye her hair) and suddenly making herself all stylish and what not within 2 weeks. ... (513 words)

I'm crushing on a straight girl. How do you tell someone you like them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5098 days ago

6 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I’m someone who has had crushes on males and females. I don’t worry about my sexuality because I don’t feel the need to label myself. I also have not made my friends aware that I like women, nor have I had any sexual experience with a woman (I have had with a man, I am not a ... (203 words)

Am I too young to be in a serious relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5098 days ago

6 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 19 and I have been going out with boyfriend for a year and a half and i have only ever slept with him. And we now have a long distance relationship as we have both went to different universities. I just feel like i have found him too soon and I kind of wish that i was ... (125 words)

How long did it take you to move on after being cheated on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

6 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - This is for those who have been cheated on. I have taken my husband back after I found out he had an affair. We have good and bad days - and I don't really see the bad times coming. One minute I'm fine, the next something reminds me of what happened and I flip out. I believe ... (206 words)

Should I salvage teh relationship, remain friends or cut ties?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

6 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - A few weeks ago I got with a guy in a club and one of my best friends started being really weird about it. I didn't think anything of it but then a few days later he confessed to me that he really liked me. I was a bit surprised at first but realised that I felt the same. ... (263 words)

How can I prove that I am serious about this relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

6 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - hi all, after a very rocky 15 years together and after all our promises to try and do the right thing by each other, after trial seperations and actually splitting up we do still love each other what do you suggest i can do to prove im serious as we have both lost faith and are ... (97 words)

Should we date or be friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

6 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - 21 been seeing this guy that i met online for about 2 months.. saw each other about twice a week, but ive been away for the past few weeks and so have been thinking about the relationship etc... this is the first time ive dated someone and so im wondering whether because ... (100 words)

Can a gorgeous woman NOT be selfish, entitled, or cynical about men?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

6 January 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I know a woman who is beautiful. So beautiful that she gets noticed regularly and VIP treatment from people whenever she needs something. For example, when she damaged her fender she brought it to the auto body shop and they did not charge her because she smiled at them and ... (257 words)

Why can't I get over this unhealthy relationship?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

6 January 2011 (M)

age - I was with my ex for 14 years. However, for the last 4 years we had a purely platonic relationship. This ws difficult for me as sex had always been important to me. We eventually split - relatively amicable too. VERY shrtly afterwards I was approached by a woman who blew me ... (580 words)

My hubby is cheating! What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

6 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 28 and live with my 30 year old husband and 3 kids. I'm in a weelchair so we live in a bungalow , however latly I'm not sure if my hubbys been so honest or faithful to me. It started about 1 month ago, my husband was coming home later and later each night. If I aske... (357 words)

I was with another man and my boyfriend broke up with me. Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

6 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - i am in big trouble..i don't no how it happened? and now what i do, i was in a relationship with my boyfriend from last eight years i was quite long relationship, i tried to convenes my parents but no use the rejected him, and when we decided to back to home town and again we ... (192 words)

Sex: I tend to do things I don’t want to, to avoid making a scene

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

6 January 2011 (?) age 30-35 - I'm basically just curious I’ve only slept with a few people and tend to do things I don’t want to, to avoid making a scene... I guess. It's just a few general questions about sex and what other people think. You don’t have to answer them all, anything’s appreciated. 1) I... (177 words)

Should I get back together with my first love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

6 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - right, basically, me and my ex boyfriend split up 5 months ago after a year and a half, 3 weeks after he started driving and i havent been able to get over him. i still see him around, we have been through a lot of crap, he wasnt very nice and neither was i and we made our ... (260 words)

How do I control my insecurities between dates?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5098 days ago

6 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I've met someone who I am very taken with. We've had two dates, then Xmas came and have had to wait about 2 weeks before seeing her again. We've arranged the third date for this weekend. We've talked a lot inbetween. I don't know what my problem is but I feel so anxious... (209 words)

After breaking up with me, he starts dating my friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5098 days ago

6 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I dated this guy for 3 years, he was my high school sweetheart.We grew together, did everything together and it seemed so perfect. Just 2 months ago, he broke up with me because he was done with our fighting, and fell out of love. I realized how cranky and edgy i was being and ... (111 words)

We're not in a serious relationship despite having a child, always hanging out and sleeping together

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

6 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am still inlove with my child's father. But we havnt been together in years. And weren't even together that long before I got pregnant. We get along great ( minus the few times we do argue) and we still sleep together off and on. I do so much for this guy. And havnt been in ... (99 words)

I'm worried my girlfriend fancies someone else

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

6 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi People, I'm not sure if this question is stupid or not but it has been playing on my mind ever since. I have been with my gf for almost 6 years now and I don’t want to wreck it from paranoia. The other night we got abit drunk and were playing around in bed and ta... (179 words)

My boyfriend makes me cry every day

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

6 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend When he gets mad he says mean things to hurt my feelings -your a bitch/whore/loser/pathetic Gets madder, and makes fun of me and acts like a complete jerk when I'm crying over him Wont listen to me when I tell him that I need him to be more sensitive and... (231 words)

Parents slip us up when they smelled weed. How can I fix this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

6 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi there Dear Cupid Forum! As of 6 months ago I began dating a Woman that I am now in love with. She is my first love, I have known her since I first moved to British Columbia when I was 14. We have been through a lot together, she was my Grad Date when we finished Highsch... (643 words)

I need your input on life priorities

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

6 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Can I just ask - how many of you out there are TRUELY happy in your lives? Life is such a balancing act. One area of your life starts going really well, but the others start failing, or you have to compromise things you want to have something you need more! I'm in ... (722 words)

My girlfriend is busy and I'm worried I'm losing her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5097 days ago

6 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Im a guy from Pakistan and i realy need help.My girlfriend doesnt really seem to give time to me anymore because she is busy with her studies and shes a year junior. this is my last year of school and im gona be leaving school soon and she almost got engaged to someone ( becaus... (169 words)

How do I explain to him that I don't want sex every single day?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5098 days ago

6 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - He wants to have sex everyday ... I enjoy having sex with him, but it's much more fun when we have a break at least one day.. It makes it more exciting.. When i say that i am not in the mood, he thinks that i don't want him, that i don't like our sex, but i just want to lay ... (106 words)

Am I wrong for limiting contact with my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5098 days ago

6 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, my ex and i have 2 children together, we split up a while ago and have remained good friends. i am on my path to be happy with being single and my ex has gotten himself involved with a gitl that has a rep for screwing guys over. she only got found out on the the weekend ... (256 words)

How do I know if he cheated on me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

6 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - How do i know if he cheated on me? We have been together for 7 months, and there were no signs of cheating, except, he always accuses me of doing it.. But i never did.. and most people say that he suspects it because he doesn't want to be uncovered.. so, how do i know what is ... (59 words)

I am very sad that my friend is dating someone else and neglecting me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5096 days ago

6 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I been loving this guy friend like two years and we were studying in the same university. Unfortunately I and him have thing more than friends, but he did have feeling on me, because only friend, he will not crying with me when he saw me hurt and sad because of him. We did have ... (893 words)

He doesn't like Valentine's Day but I do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5098 days ago

6 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over a year, on and off. We have a newborn baby together and he is 24 and I'm 21. In the time that we've dated he has never done anything sweet for me. We often go days without talking (we have a long-distance relationship ... (478 words)

I want a woman to dominate me, using her legs!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2535 days ago

6 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Basically I have this extremely powerful desire which is much greater than the desire for intercourse, bjs etc. and it is basically being physically dominated by a woman. By that she overpowers me with her legs - puts me in a body-scissors or head-scissors and squeezes me ... (490 words)

She's engaged, does that mean it's too late?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

6 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi I am looking for immediate answer . I am from India and I am in love with a girl .I know her for nearly a year. Yesterday she said that she is engaged. Know I love her and Today I want to confess my love .Should i confess it? I do not want to loss friendship ... (83 words)

My boyfriend is a crab now that he's quit smoking weed!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

6 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is quitting weed, and seems to be having with draws... is that an excuse to treat me poorly? He was very upset because we were both trying to stop all together, and last night (it has been 4 days) we had some friends over and they offer me a hit, i just stat... (537 words)

I don't want to feel like I'm a sugardaddy!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

6 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Where to begin. Well, I'm a 21 year old gay male who in August moved 1,000 miles away from home to attend graduate school in another part of the country. Moving here was a big challenge not knowing anybody, and another gay graduate student suggested I make an online profile. ... (716 words)

He's got a girlfriend but he seems to have eyes for me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5098 days ago

6 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - There is a guy I like but he has a girlfriend, yet he stares at me and when I'm near he gets all over his girlfriend and checks to see where I am. I was the only girl he hugged other then her at homecoming. Hes made some bad moves like when we had a school show for our play and ... (211 words)

Where did the sex go?

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6 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - hello i am new on the site, well i need answers on how to get my husbands eyes back on me... i get no attention anymore i always feel that i am so needy and i hate feeling like that. we have talked a million times about the almost non existant sex and other topics. i just dont ... (120 words)

I'm not sure what love feels like.

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6 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm not sure what love feels like but there is this girl, everytime we do anything and she laughs i feel a good feeling inside. and puts a smile on my face knowing shes happy. Is this what love is?... (40 words)

Old flame or a con man?

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6 January 2011 (F)

age - I have recently was contacted by an old boyfriend from highschool. It has been almost 30 yrs since we have spoke and he has looked for me online and finally found me on facebook. I had done the same...look for him and googled his name. We are both very excited about being ... (157 words)

Who is the father of my baby?

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6 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hi am going to be 19 in a few weeks i had a bf in high school for 3in a half yrs. we broke up then i started seeing this other guy... it happen to be that i had sex two days straight with the guy i has seeing which were saturday and sunday night ...the on monday my ex came to ... (90 words)

Would it be considered strange to send a woman roses who isn't your girlfriend?

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6 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey, would it be considered strange to send a woman roses who isn't your girlfriend? We both have strong feeling for each other just can't really be together because she lives in a far away state now. I just want to do something nice for her, make her smile and show her I care ... (71 words)

My teacher really dislikes me, how do I handle this when I have him for the rest of the semester?

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6 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, to get right to the point, my teacher doesn't like me...at all. I don't know why, honestly, I've never hardly said two words to the guy. I used to joke around with him a lot because he had my brother before me and he really liked him, and they would kid around all the ... (301 words)

Am I lacking something in this relationship because I considered cheating?

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6 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm dating a guy of three years now, who has done some bad to me in our past. he's started to come around and change, but i worry because of our age difference. he is 21 and i am 27. now the problem is prior to being with him, i had made a mistake, i hooked up with a guy who is ... (453 words)

Dating an 18 year old but her parents have no idea about us....

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6 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm in love with my neighbours daughter. (The neighbour I used to have until I sold my house) The problem is there's an age gap. I'm 28 and she's 18. In the beginning, I admired her from a distance. Not wanting to scare her. I eventually got to know her through small talk and ... (293 words)

After he cheated and wont be intimate with me anymore I was the one to beg to save our family!

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6 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi.I guess I'm extremely desperate for advices.My husband cheated twice( although he never slept with any of them).he started doing this since he found out he has a heart problem.I confronted him yet I ended up getting blamed for his weakness.we don' t have intimacy anymore.he ... (208 words)

I feel like I am second best because it didnt work it out with his ex....

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6 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, i need some advice, this is really hard for me to put my feelings into words but ill try. iv been with my husband now for nearly 3years, it was a whirlwind romance at the beginning. i met him online, met him in person and from that day we have never spent a day apart. ... (469 words)

My lack of social life is bothering me......

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6 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay, well its not really a huge deal, but my lack of social life pesters me. i am 27, female, i work for meager wages as a cashier, and i can't afford to really go out. i recently lost a lot of friends because they felt i couldn't keep up with their lifetsyles. most of them ... (176 words)

Planning on losing my virginity but scared about a lot of things!

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6 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Im 13 year old and im planning to loose my virginity to a 16 year old soon ! Dont know what to do! I love him but i got doubts im scared he'll leave me or change towards me , i honestly am confused , his never offered for sex but i feel like i am ready and well he is not a... (106 words)

Will a woman be truly satisfied with an average guy if she has had large lovers in the past?

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6 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - If a woman has had very large lovers in her past , can she really be truly satisfied with an average sized man later in life? ... (26 words)

Should I let my 13 year old sister be with a 21 year old? She claims they are in love!

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6 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey aunts, once again, my little 13 year sister ( who lives with me in my apartment with my boyfriend because of our parents divorce.. Long story) has given me trouble once again. It first started when my after school job hours changed, and I wouldn't be home with her until a ... (219 words)

My girlfriend's past troubles me: She got pregnant in an orgy

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6 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - What is up with my girlfriend? I sent her a text saying that I was having jealousy issues, and that we should be apart tonight, since she practically lives at my house. Basically, this all comes down to her allowing 2 guys that were her "friends" to cum inside her, and she ... (354 words)

Should I just stop searching and just wait for the person who love me?

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6 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Is it true that If I stop searching, the person who love me will appear? I have tried to date two girls in the past two years but both failed miserably. I had tried whatever I could to get girl that I love but they both went out with someone else instead of me. I am tire... (106 words)

Female Readers: Please help me get my mind off the sex in my relationship

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6 January 2011 (M)

- My girlfriend (27) and I (26) have been dating for 5 months. I have never dated anyone as wonderful as her and I am ecstatic. I have also never dated anyone for so long without ANY sexual intimacy. I am horribly inexperienced with such an abstinence scenario, this is new to ... (441 words)

I have a crush on my old teacher and it's depressing me

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6 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 13 years old and I am in the 8th Grade. I don't know what is wrong with me.. For months I've been trying to figure out why I have this strange attraction to my old Science Teacher. She taught me every other day in 6th Grade and taught me as my homeroom teacher everyday ... (273 words)

Is loosing your virginity to another girl any different than loosing it to a guy?

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6 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so I have been dating this girl for like 2 years now. We were totally best friends before we came out and were each other's first real kiss. So far in our relationship we have kept it to the minor stuff, like snogging after school, cuddling while watching a movie at the ... (202 words)

How can I get her to choose between her existing boyfriend and me,whom she loves too?

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6 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Its about my life..please read below n advice me... We(me and the girl whom i love..lets calld D) became best friend just two weeks before..it's been a year we became close to each other.. Just before a year. We'd been to educational tour from college.. And after that we becam... (722 words)

My girlfriend doesn't know what she wants. Am I losing her?

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6 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend said she doesn't know what she wants? She says that the relationship we have is what she wants when she's my age. I'm 27, she's 22. She's in college and I'm in a carreer. She say's that she absolutely loves me and wants to be with me, so that's confusing. She ... (70 words)

My first love and I just broke up. How do I stay strong?

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6 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - We've been dating for a year. We're both 15. We just broke up today, ended it on good terms, because things recently had been getting kinda strained, b/c we didnt have that much to talk about anymore. We still want to be friends, and we will, it's just really hard beca... (114 words)

I don't feel the same way about her. Should I be honest and break up with her?

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6 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, so I'm a 17 year old guy, dating another 17 year old girl for about 6 months. However we go to two totally different schools (I go to a private school, she goes to a public), and we only get to see each other on the weekends if we're lucky. She has had several boyfrien... (155 words)

Why has she kept it a secret that she loves me? And how should I ask her out?

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6 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - For the longest time I've been liking a girl who hangs out with most of my friends but she's popular and I been wanting to ask her out to a date but I don't want to get rejected. Today my cousin told me the girl said she's been liking me for like 2 years and loves me like a ... (89 words)

I am attracted to her, but to start with, how can I tell her my name?

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6 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi I am writing for your advice on a very strange situation I am faced with. There is this woman in my office who has joined recently and her joining was intimated to us by our team lead by email. She works in a different room than mine. But we often pass by each other in the h... (163 words)

I really want to find a girl who is like me to be with. Any advice?

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6 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a 17 year old closeted lesbian...I've never been in a relationship with another female but I have had some drunken hookups (as a closeted lesbian it's easy to "blame" alcohol). Lately, however, I've been really wanting to get into a relationship with another girl. The only ... (132 words)

Trusting a boyfriend who has cheated before...

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6 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I've never used this before I was hoping to get some really good advise. Okay here I go. My boyfriend and I have been dated for a year and 7 months. We're going towards our 8th month this 25th. Recently, a girl came up to me and told me that my boyfriend was cheating on me. ... (162 words)

My wife makes me feel worthless...

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6 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I don't know what to do. My wife makes me feel like a loser and she wants nothing to do with me. I have been unemployed for about a year but am going to school to complete my degree. I am a stay at home dad to keep the cost of daycare down. I want to say in the last 6-12 months ... (309 words)

How can I get him into bed?

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6 January 2011 (?) age 30-35 - There's this guy I know who digs me but is afraid of hurting me or something. He flirts with me all the time, he wont stop staring when we hang out together, does things like plays with my necklace etc.... he kissed me once when we were walking home from a party (he had been... (193 words)

How can I prove to my wife that I'm not cheating on her?

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6 January 2011 (M)

age - my wife and i are having jealousy issues she thinks iget up in the middle of the night and go to a woman but i dont. we split up and we are talking and see each other every day but she has rented an apartment and wont tell me where it is we have had sex after the split and are ... (100 words)

I really like her, but she hates me! I've tried being nice, any other tips?

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6 January 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi... So there's this girl I really like, but she hates me, for no reason! When I first met her she was so nice to me, but now she absolutely hates me! I really really like her and i have't done anything wrong. I've tried being nice, and that didn't work. Any other Tips? I'm ... (65 words)

Will I ever be accepting of his porn usage?

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6 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - First of all, I don’t want answers to my post or comments on it from people who are totally against porn. I am not against it, I am just asking for advice and I don’t want advice that I absolutely will not take. I mean no offense, but I see it on other people’s posts all the ... (713 words)

Will he leave his girlfriend so I can be with him?

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6 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, so i met this guy for the pass 6 months and from day 1 he seem like he like me and we will spend hour talking and getting to know more about each other. but since day 1 i knew he had a girlfriend and he know i knew about it through my sister (he and my sister are best ... (227 words)

How can I seduce somebody?

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6 January 2011 (?) age 30-35 - How do I seduce a guy/get him interested? I've dated people before, but it was always them pursuing me, and this time around I'd rather have a little more say in the matter. I don't even know that I'm looking for a serious relationship. I'm just lonely and pent up but too ... (97 words)

Has anyone else felt unnoticed and unwanted by someone they cared about?

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6 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - why do emotions make me so crazy lol thats not my question but here is some info. I liked this girl in a way I have never liked anyone before i don't know if its because Im older that the last time I have had a crush on a girl or what but she made me feel important so I liked ... (604 words)

Is it okay if I ask her out on the first go?

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6 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - ok. I like a girl(i'll call her G1) at my college, but we have never really met before. just once at a scholarship function. and we haven't really talked. but we have a mutual friend who happens to be a good friend of mine (this one's G2). I really like her and I want to ask G1 ... (120 words)

I don't want to sound shallow, but why is he not making an effort like before?

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6 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Probably you will hate me, and think that I am the most shallow person in the world, but please understand that this behavior REALLY surprises me on my BF since he is BIG about holidays and always sure they dont go unnoticed for us. I DONT know how to confront him about this... ... (861 words)

Is there any hope for my sister? Her guy can be a monster to her.

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6 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - my sister dated a guy for a year, and a half she got pregnant after 6 months of dating. He during that 6 months broke up with her every month, because he always found something wrong with her. she never fought back just left his house when he gave her the list..then she would ... (211 words)

I don't feel I can trust him any more. But am I being too jealous about his ex?

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6 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my boyfriend for about 6 months, everything between us is great and we've discussed marriage and kids and everything seems to be perfect. Although, he talks to his ex... which I wouldn't normally mind, because he is open and honest about everything involving ... (442 words)

Do I wait it out in the hope he'll become more responsible, or do I leave and leave it to someone else to suit his needs?

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6 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 3 years. I'm in college and he's working retail. We live together. I feel like it's time to start being responsible adults and he says he does too but he doesn't show it. He is late on ALL necessary payments (rent, internet, phon... (285 words)

How much do you have to do for a guy before enough is enough?

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6 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - how much do you have to do for someone before enoughs enough ? I've adored this guy i know for ages. I've bent over backwards to help him. He was struggling with work, and i fixed it for him. He wa slow on money and again i helped. At the beginning he seemed quite humble, but ... (155 words)

Are the chances slim that this relationship will work?

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6 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I was dating a guy for a few months before I got pregnant. My daughter is now 2 yrs old and I am still in love with him. He left a few weeks after I found out, so we havnt been together for about 3 years. We have had an off and on friendship though. Sometimes we fight like ... (180 words)

Is there any way I can ask him out and he will accept? Because he said No, the first time I asked.

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6 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Well.. first of all. I really like this person in my class and today I asked him out, when no one is around, and i told him i been liking him for 2 months already. He said, 'i'm sorry but i'm not interested,' and I was disappointed, because I really wanted to be with him. Is ... (72 words)

I told a lie, then the truth. He got angry with me. Now I think he's going to break up with me. What can I do?

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6 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - What am I going to do?? i lied to my boyfriend. omg i've been with my boyfriend for 3months now and i love him soo much and he says he loves me too. But today i told him I am actually 20 and not 21, like he thought i was.. and he's now really upset. He swore at me called m... (152 words)

Would it be stupid to leave one good man (who is my baby's daddy) for another man just because the romance was richer??

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6 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating a man for about 8.5 years except for one break-up that lasted about 4-5 months at which time I met this other man and really liked him but when the first man wanted me back I went running, being still in love and all. Its been 5 years since that break-up and ... (449 words)

Making Long Distance Relationships work....any pointers??

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6 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hi all.. basically I am just wanting some peoples opinons on LDR's..I am relativly inexperienced on the relationship front anywyas but have hit it off with this guy who lives quiet far away from me ( we were initally friends and things have developed recenlty after meeting up ... (74 words)

What motivates a man to say "I love you"?

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6 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, sorry if this question sounds stupid. I'd like your advice on guy's motives for saying I love you. I've been with my bf 5 months, he's great-caring, kind, funny, sexy, intelligent, thoughtful. He told me last week that he loves me, and said he wonders when I'm going to ... (304 words)

This is heartbreak at its worst.Any suggested coping mechanisms??

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6 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - There's probably not much anyone can say to this so its probably more like a rant.. Me and my bf of 4 years have just broken up. We both knew it was coming to an end, and I snapped and it was me who said it was over and he agreed. We had become more like friends, things ... (440 words)

Girls, why do you get back with cheating exes?

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6 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I have developed a crush on a coworker. She is 22 and I'm 27. She has worked there for around 3 years, myself for 5. We hardly ever spoke because our paths at work hardly ever crossed and because she seemed to look away or not appear interested if I ever tried to ta... (275 words)

I love her...but I don't know what to make of this situation between this girl and her BF

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6 January 2011 (?) age 26-29 - Hello everyone! I have a strange , very frustrating problem. So there is this girl, one year older then me, (btw, next year we will probably be in the same class) and ahe has a boyfriend. But the boyfriend acts seriously wierd! I see them quite often(she is a friend of... (369 words)

Should I get involved knowing I am second choice, to my best mate?

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6 January 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - My friend and I were mates for years,we did everything together. We were inseparable, that is until a woman came between us. He and she became a couple, and we drifted apart, although staying in touch and the odd lads night out. Years after things went sour between those two, ... (125 words)