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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Why did he say his only regret was that I didnt come with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

16 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - i need to know how my friend really feels about me. lately hes been cool with me and hardly contacting me since moving to a new work section in my company. i was very hurt that he was ignoring me so called him for a coffee and told him how i felt he saud he was sorry and didnt ... (112 words)

My married boyfriend doesn't want to lose his son so he keeps me as a secret

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5087 days ago

16 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 7months. He is married and has a son but he told me he isn't in love with her he said he's in love with me. But he said she would take his son and go to IN and stay with her family and they don't like him. So he wants to keep me ... (137 words)

My ex misses the sex but wants to be single!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5087 days ago

16 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, my girlfriend of 14 months broke up with me a month ago. I acted like an arrogant so and so.. and deserved to be dumped. As I wouldn't stop talking to my ex. When she left me i saw the error of my ways and stopped talking to my ex. I told her that I have changed and woul... (313 words)

I slept with my ex...what do I do now?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5088 days ago

16 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so on Wednesday I saw my ex out at the same club, he text me seeing where I was and then we ended up talking at the bar for about 10 minutes. Was all good, general talk...seeing how each other was etc. He brought me a drink to 'break the ice' then I had to leave. Once I ... (496 words)

What's the difference between anal and vaginal sex that guys feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5086 days ago

16 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend often try both anal and vaginal sex, and even though he says that anal sex feels 'tighter' (and therefore better right?), he prefers vaginal sex saying that 'it feels better inside than the anus'. I seriously don't get it - what's the difference that guys ... (85 words)

My self-obsessed boyfriend won't let me have a say in sex... And makes me hold up a mirror.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5083 days ago

16 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Because we've been together for nearly eight months, I've always known my boyfriend spends time on his appearance, sometimes even more than me! (He has nearly as many beauty products as I do, and a lot more hair stuff - which is crazy because I have so much of it all!). He does ... (348 words)

My ex is already moving in with someone else but I want him back

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

16 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, i was just wondering if anyone could offer me any advise as to if its possible to get my ex back. We have been together 4 years and im not just saying it but we had the best relationship. we were best friends aswell as anything and had everything in common. we knew ... (195 words)

I can't get the thoughts of my girlfriend with someone else out of my head!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5087 days ago

16 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been dating my girlfriend for a year now and we have both realised we want to spend our lives together. I am not religious but i am one of the ever decreasing people that believe you should give your virginity to the one you want to spend your life with. I have had3 gi... (256 words)

I'm attracted to my girlfriend's mom

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4237 days ago

16 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - i am attracted to my girlfriends mom,anytime i come over she talks to me like im her friend/boyfriend, and tries to hug me anytime she can(not over the top though), i mean like a loving hug not a crappy 1 second one. its a fantasy to have my girlfriends mom and my girlfriend. ... (154 words)

Why do people cheat even when they're supposedly in love?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

16 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I was watching a movie the other night [Swimfan] and there was a guy in the movie who really loved his girlfriend. Then a new girl moved to their school and she and the guy started talking... then they went out to eat one night, and later that night they had sex. I was like ... (153 words)

I cheated, should I let my wife cheat now?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

16 January 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - i have cheated on my wife now iam wondering if i should let her be with another man so she can feel even ... (23 words)

Virgin and the Future

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5087 days ago

16 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I am 22 will be 23 in a couple months. I am dating a wonderful guy he is 21 and will be 22 this year. We met last year in Feb at work, he had a girlfriend at the time and would talk to me in getting my point of view on things. She was younger then him. Well they broke up ... (686 words)

What to do when she asks for a break?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5088 days ago

16 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been in a 3 year relationship with this girl who i know is the one, however, yesterday we had a conversation where i noticed she was feeling weird. after talking and talking she asked me for a break. she says that she has been thinking about it for some time, but things ... (188 words)

Opinions about using Plan B

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

16 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - What are people's opinion on using Plan B as emergency contraception? Has anyone ever felt guilty after taking it?... (19 words)

My b/f is going to be an assistant teacher at my school

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5084 days ago

16 January 2011 (?) age 30-35 - Hey, my boyfriend told me that in September he will become a student-teacher at our college. By then we will both be eighteen, but I will probaby do another year at college. This would mean that I would be in lessons he would be helping teach. I read something about it being ju... (96 words)

He doesn't ejaculate?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5088 days ago

16 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, I'd love some advice, esp. from any guy readers, about male ejaculation. I've been with my bf 4 months, see him 3-4 times per week, and everything's going great :) But I'm kinda worried about what happens when we have sex. Our libidos seem pretty well-matched, but I've ... (282 words)

I don't trust him and now he's asked me to marry him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

16 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend has just asked me to marry him. Problem is I don't trust him completely. He acts weird sometimes, what i mean is he acts like he shouldn't be looking, or he enjoys watching/looking at younger than me women/girls ( thaey are usually between 8-23 or so). He does it ... (816 words)

Years later I wonder why she tormented me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5084 days ago

16 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - A story when I was 12 and in 7th grade. First let me explain that then, I was a nice, good guy when it came to girls. I never checked girls out or anything like that even if I wanted to because I always thought is was disrespectful to do so. I didn't know too much about sex and ... (466 words)

I wish the spark was still there

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5087 days ago

16 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everybody im 16 my boyfriend is 18 we have been dating for 2 years and since about 5 months ago wen we was fighting alot the spark has gone away i wanna be with him but also I just wish the spark was still there and since its not it makes me want to flirt with other guys and ... (78 words)

He has a drinking problem, I don't know what to do about it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5087 days ago

16 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I started dating a guy just over 3 months ago, he appeared the man of my dreams... funny, handsome and caring. However, he has recently informed me he has a serious drink problem. It only came to light following a few days of no contact from him and I called him to see ... (244 words)

Virgin wants to have sex but not with her boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

16 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Am a girl of 20, also a virgin i always feel like having sex but when am with my bf i hate him touching me, kiss or having sex . Pls what is the cause?... (35 words)

My boyfriend's female friends doesn't like me and avoids me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5084 days ago

16 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend loves me, and I love him and things have been going better and better lately. But he has one old friend who is a girl, NOT EVER a romantic attachment, who studiously avoids me at social gatherings. Once when he wasn't there, she even left early to avoid me... (134 words)

Is she just holding out for something better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5082 days ago

16 January 2011 (M)

age - I've been living with my girlfriend for about a year and a half now. I've been divorced for over 7 years and she's been separated for nearly 3 years but has not pursued divorce. They have no assets together so a divorce shouldn't cost very much. She and her ex just barely ... (179 words)

How can I make my friend see that her boyfriend is not good for her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

16 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey so i have this friend she is only 17 and her ex is ruining her life she just cant get over him. She broke up with this guy in feb last year and he has treated her appallingly ever since. He went away over christmas when still with her and came home telling her he wanted to ... (218 words)

Is there a future with my meth addict boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

16 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Should I leave my meth addict partner? I am 23 years old and I have been with my 27 year old boyfriend for six years now. We have had a very rocky relationship and have been through a lot together. He cheated on me a year into our relationship. I caught him in bed with my b... (528 words)

Girlfriend has such random moods and I can't deal with them

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5088 days ago

16 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend goes in random moods and puts me down when she is in them. an example I started to put the recycling out while she did the dishes, I finshed went to sit on the sofa 20 seconds she joined me, and said "thanks for helping me wash the dishes never thought it would be ... (428 words)

She already knew I had kids but got upset when she found a video of their birth of my computer!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5087 days ago

16 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I met a girl 2 month ago, we heard so much fun in a very short period of time, I have 3 kids one 5, and twins 2, with different women, at first I told her I have 1 child, later on as we where getting serious, I knew I really like her, so i told her about my other 2 kids, we ... (231 words)

The girl I have been chasing doesn't have interest in me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

16 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Recently, the girl I have been chasing doesn't seems to have interest with me (based on what we have been talking during a long conversation, and ONLY IF it is honest reply which I hope...) It has been clear that this girl have low esteem, she always have the feeling that she ... (602 words)

Why do many women have the chance to marry more than once in their lives when other none?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

16 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - What does it takes for someone (mostly women) who had a divorce or went through a bad experience to get several chances in their lives and marry once, twice or more and happened to find people who want to marry them. There are others who never find anyone who can see them for ... (130 words)

How to leave my needy, clingy, insecure boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5065 days ago

16 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I met my boyfriend when I was quite vunerable (just got out of hospital). I had also seperated from a man who did not pay me any attention and I have a little girl who is nearly four. I was very lonely and in a bad situation. My current boyfriend came along and literally swept ... (771 words)

The guy I clicked with gave my number to the guy who happens to be a jerk!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

16 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am sure this happens a lot but this is a first for me. So it was my friend's birthday last night and he introduced me these guys. From the beginning one of them was trying to talk to me, Andrew, who apparently is kind of an asshole. I was just being nice and talking to him ... (318 words)

Should I butt out when I see my girlfriend being friendly with her new step father?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5082 days ago

16 January 2011 (M)

age - I am in what seems to be a hopeless situation. My girl-friend and I have been together for nearly 3 years, living together almost 2. Her father died 6 years ago. Her mother hastily remarried a man that is disgusting and boorish. His regulatr topic of conversation is ... (483 words)

I didn't mean to upset my friend but I had to tell him off!

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16 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - ive upset my friend and i dont know what to do. I feel terrible recently shes been counselling me over another friend-a guy who has been quite a crap friend to me and she was advising me about him. anyway i wanted to have it out with him and i did and told him what i thoug... (135 words)

My husband tells me he doesn't know.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5087 days ago

16 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Why is it, that a guy would have the same answer to literally EVERY question, that he should know: "I don't know" it is driving me insane. I actually feel like I'm going crazy. It could be about food, beer, how to cook something, (he has cooked his whole life, I don't cook, ... (226 words)

Restoring the faith?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5071 days ago

16 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I am new here and i'm hoping you can help me. About 8 months ago my bf and i broke up and he started seeing someone else. Over time i tried moving on, and started dating guys, but it never really worked out as i still had feelings for my ex. He had feelings for... (245 words)

Is it safe without any protection?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5088 days ago

16 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'v been going out with this guy, he is five years older than me, we are committed. This question is related to our sex life. We get to meet each other only once in a year, that too only for a week. When we both make love to each other, we do not use any kind of protection, we ... (127 words)

You're not then you're cold.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5082 days ago

16 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this guy over a month ago, almost two months ago, and things are pretty confusing. In the past three weeks I've spent more nights at his place than not. We don't have sex every time, quiet honestly we haven't had sex very much at all. I'm beginning to really like him and ... (342 words)

Should I be happy that he won?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5053 days ago

16 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I played chess with my boyfriend 3 times and I lost all of them. My boyfriend is dyslexic (although he is one very talented guy, he loves arts and plays the guitar and piano like a pro) and in school, he's placed in the last class. Me however, I'm one of the smartest kids in ... (286 words)

Thinking of breaking up with my boyfriend.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

16 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'll try to be as concise as possible but it will be kind of hard since I'm talking about a 6 year relationship. My boyfriend and I met while in undergrad. I am in graduate school and he has moved with me. Most times our relationship is great and we're happy but we argue way... (457 words)

How long do I wait to talk to him as "just friends"

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

16 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy and I just ended our relationship and decided to just be friends. How long do I wait to talk to him again as "friends" I miss him. Even though i'm heartbroken about it I still want to talk to him. Or do I just wait till he writes to me? ... (52 words)

Girlfriend is not 100% honest with me.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

16 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey people I REALLY need some advice... My girfriend and I have been dating for over 4 years now and even though we had our rough periods (4months breakup) that happened almost a year ago we still are back together and are going strong...I think. The problem with our... (823 words)

Should I kiss my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

16 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i am in love with my boyfriend, i just need some tips on what to wear, how to kiss. your answer will be appreciated... (24 words)

My boyfriend buys porn and lies to me about it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5086 days ago

16 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some help. Lately my boyfriend has been buying porn and lieing to me about it. It wasn't a problem before because he would watch porn occasionally and we would still have really great sex! Now, He watches porn and we have sex maybe once or twice a week.. and half the ... (283 words)

Husband has an addiction to she male porn

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

16 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help, I have been happily married to my husband for four years,a couple of months ago his attitude became erratic, he finally confessed that he had an addiction to shemale porn.We are christian and both born agian, I told him that i would try to forgive him, I don't kn... (87 words)

Arranged marriage is ruining my life!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

16 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Aight so here is the situation. I had a girlfriend (Egyptian Muslim) who I really cared for and loved. Recently her mother died and she has decided that she is going to go through with an arranged marriage because her mom was trying to hook her up with some other. So basically ... (150 words)

How do I stop this cheating and going on with my married life?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5087 days ago

16 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been happily married for almost 8 years and together with my husband for almost 13. We met while at university and never really looked back. He is my best friend, we have a great sex life and aside from regular married people arguments we've not had any problems. We do ... (266 words)

Boyfriend manipulates me so I apologize for even his mistakes!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

16 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi my bf often ignores and manipulates me in such a way that i need to apologize even for his mistakes. When ever i try to talk to him about this, he says i am boring him and try to change the subject. He is emotionally distant too. Does all guys behave the same way? Ho... (75 words)

I have asked him to have no contact with her but it continues

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

16 January 2011 (F)

age - I've been in a relationship for 2 and a half years with a man with alot of history with women. He is a very sweet talker and women love him. He met a woman 8 months after we were together at a ski resort where he works. There was no sex involved with her. Shortly after they met ... (144 words)

I wish my fiance would lose 30 lbs and get his hair back so I'd find him more attractive!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5087 days ago

16 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a bit of a complicated problem. I'm a 24 year old psychologist in-training (who apparently can't heed my own advice). My fiance is a 26 year-old unemployed high school teacher. I've been with my fiance for 4 years and 3 months (like 4 years, 5 months if you count the ... (930 words)

Should I keep looking at her when I talk?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5082 days ago

16 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - i go to college in england and i really like this girl there. one of my best friends likes her too i'm not sure how much and my other best friend really likes her as well but none of them know i like her and i am the only one who knows that my second friend likes her cause he ... (348 words)

Did he think I was a cheap woman?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

16 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello guys, plz i need a sincere advice, i met a wonderful man when we were having a business meeting, and we started texting right after the meeting and decided to meet the next evening before i leave town since we don't live in the same town! i liked him way before i met him ... (176 words)

I sent him a note but he won't know it's from me because I forgot to sign it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

16 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I wrote a not to a guy I really like, but i dont know him at all we only talked a couple of times. Well on the note I asked him if he wanted to go to winter ball with me, and had my friend deliever it she explained to him it wasnt from her but here was no name on it! I forgot ... (79 words)

Should we get separated? We do argue quite a bit.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

16 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and I have been in marriage for 7 years. We have 2 kids. We both love each other. For the past 2 years we don't have much time to spend together because of her job. She run her own business. She come home late, around 1:00am everyday. I work during the day. She wanted ... (217 words)

Is a 10 year age gap ok?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

16 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 26 next month on the 28th of Febuary, and their is a guy I like, he is 10 years older than me, he's 35. Is that age difference okay - someone who is 10 years older than myself? I know people say that age is just a number, and it all depends on if you get on well ect, ... (267 words)

My husband won't slow down during sex and it hurts!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

16 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I try to tell my husband to slow down but he does not listen but I thinkit is hurting because on jan10 and I was having sex and I was in pain that same day so I think that's why so I don't know what to do anymore ... (50 words)

Addicts are great liars..I'm afraid my b/f is doing heavy drugs!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

16 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I found out that my bf's best friend, the one i don't like, is doing drugs.. and it's not an easy drug, it's a heavy drug... It's speed.. Some of his other friends are sniffing too.. Now, my boyfriend has lied to me before, about pot.. But i eventually gave in, so he does it, ... (301 words)

He wont have sex but will wait till I leave the room and then pleasure himself

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

16 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am on the verge of leaving my boyfriend and breaking up our family ( I have a 13 year old daughter and he has a 3 year old son) but Im not sure if the reason is justified or if Im being unreasonable. Ive posted questions before concerning our situation. He often goes 2 or 3 ... (289 words)

The saying that absence makes the heart grow fonder is true, but this absence is killing me. I can't stand that I'm not with her anymore,

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

16 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I'll try to make this as short as possible with as least amount of details as I can because if I wrote out all my feelings about this girl I'd probably run out of space. I know it's really difficult to express how you feel about a girl over the internet in a few paragraphs, ... (829 words)

Is my wife flirting with a man from work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5088 days ago

16 January 2011 (M)

age - My wife talks to this guy at work all the time,one day she said to me: there is a guy at work that I could go out to dinner with, but I won't .Then one day she came home with these $50 gift certificates to a spa that she said the guy at work won and he gave them to her. What ... (84 words)

Music will always be 1st in his life, not me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

16 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of 3 years has told me that I will always be second best to music and it will always be put befor me. What should I do.... (30 words)

He said he'd leave his wife but its been 2 months!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

16 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - i think i miss him so much.. he got my phone number through chat.we spent happy times talking on the phone evry night for almost 7 months.he cared for me like no other man can.his feelings developed until he said that he loves me..i also love him. after a few months he told me ... (240 words)

I just wish my ex missed me like I miss him

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

16 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I posted about two weeks ago a rant about breaking up with my bf. We'd been together for 4 years, and on new years eve i told him i didnt know what i wanted anymore an he agreed and after lots of tears we ended it. now he's sticking to it and i really want him back. it started ... (387 words)

Will he come back to me or stay with his ex this time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

16 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I need advice. I'm 18 and I've know this guy, who's 20 since he was 16 and I was 14. We knew of each other but never really spoke when I was younger the age difference was daunting. I found him Facebook a few months ago, we chatted and exchanged numbers for a month we were hea... (304 words)

How do men feel about having sex on a woman's period?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

16 January 2011 (?) age 41-50 - How do men feel about having sex while she's on her period? I know many may like to claim they don't care or say things like, "put a towel down and go to town," but sometimes I can help but wonder if it the bleeding doesn't gross them out. If you are with someone new, how do... (164 words)

Why can't we be more dirty and sexual?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

16 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I can't tell my boyfriend that I'm horny or that I want him because he acts shocked and says I'm so rude or obcessed with sex. Is that normal? He says he has a low sex drive, but is it normal to not even want to discuss anything sexual, like casually day to day? I just want to ... (187 words)

Help! Is he playing games - How would you handle this with your boyfriend????

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5087 days ago

16 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi... This past Friday my BF was suppose to come over for dinner. When I texted him suggestions on what to make for dinner, he texted back saying: "I might not be able to come - My daughter has a baseball game and I thought it was canceled because of the weather, but I don't ... (447 words)

How do I make a straight boy fall in love with me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5087 days ago

16 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I love a boy very much i cant spend even a single minute without seeing him. Bt till now i haven't talk with him and haven't tried .bt i didn't think that he will interested in me bt i want that he should talk with me. I want some tips that i should use after that he talk and ... (72 words)

I really like but she keeps getting confused about what she wants!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

16 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - hey guys.. i have a problem.. finally i have met someone after being in love with my ex for years, but the problem is ive only known this girl a month but we have strong feelings for eachother, but she met me really soon after she split up with her ex, and she keeps getting ... (98 words)

How do I tell the new love that I'm still good friends with my ex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

16 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 14 years old and a freshman in High School. I'm getting close to this guy who goes to another school and I think he's going to ask me out soon. I like him as well and am excited to get to know him better. My problem is that I'm good friends with my ex (we still get ... (127 words)

I want something more! How do I change our situation?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

16 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - i ve been with my boyfriend for 3 years.i am 29 and he is 32. in july he broke up with me because latelly we had problems. basically as time passed i wanted a more serious commitment from him,but he got pressured,and he started going out all the time without me,thing which h... (253 words)

Why did my boyfriend text disgustingly hurtful stuff about me to his friend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

16 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Why did my boyfriend say that? what am I gunna do?:(? my ex boyfriend has been calling me lately and my boyfriend asked and obviously i couldn't lie so told him the truth. i went through his phone( i know i shouldn't have) in the text he told his friend and his friend said... (161 words)

Am I wasting my time here?

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16 January 2011 (M)

- [MOD NOTE] PLEASE SPECIFY YOUR AGE, SO OUR AUNTS CAN GIVE YOU THE BEST AGE APPROPRIATE ADVICE. THANK YOU. Hi, I am a 39 year old guy. Anyone who has read my previous posts will know that when it comes to finding love, I've not had the greatest measure of luck. ... (535 words)

Is he my soul mate or am I delusional?

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16 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Its a long story, but i'll explain as briefly as possible. I think i found my soul mate, but his actions speak otherwise. We dated a year ago, and ever since then i couldnt get him off my mind. When we were dating strange things happened. The first odd encounter was when i read ... (368 words)

I want to leave but partner says he will make my life hell if I do. Help!

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16 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I have been with my partner for 5 years and have 2 children by him and 2 from a previous relationship,he doesn't get on with my son at all from my previous relationship,my son spends a lot of time with his grandad but when his home its nothin but war with him and my partner ... (121 words)

Should I call, even if I am not sure I want to be with him...?

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16 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been seeing a guy for three months now and whilst he is a lovely lovely guy, I don't think we are right for each other long term. I decided last week that I should give it one last good shot with him to see if we are suited and will last long term. He went away for a ... (182 words)

My wife doesn't want another child but I really do!

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16 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - So heres the deal. My wife and I got pregnant on our honeymoon. Wasn't planned but it happened. We just had our little girl and she is one month old. She is beautiful. My wife was shocked at first when she found out she was pregnant, but came around to the idea and was ... (449 words)

My dating life has just been a disaster!

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16 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear aunts. Hope you can help me out. I've posted before and found it very useful so here goes. I am in my early thirties and my entire love life has been a series of disasters. My first love died in a car crash, the next one I fell in love with at uni was blackmailed by his ... (675 words)

Should I stay in touch with my ex to show her that I am changing?

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16 January 2011 (M)

- As of a week ago my girlfriend of 2 years broke up with me after a large argument. SHE IS THE LOVE OF MY LIFE!!! She said I wasn't showing her any sort of affection. She was always doing things for me and not getting anything in return. This is all true. She still wa... (221 words)

My horoscope said I will meet my love tonight, do you think its true?

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16 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so for a while me and this guy have been a "thing" that no one knew of. HE kissed me once and my heart was racing! So, after a while he asked my friend to a dance... I wasn't allowed to go, so i thought it was just as friends. But it wasn't. He liked her for a long, long ... (176 words)

Should I be worried that he's cheating?

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16 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so me and my boyfriend have been dating for about, a month and a couple weeks. He dated his ex for about 3 days , but they have known each other for quiet a while before they got together. He broke up with her when she admitted to cheating on him , so they just remained ... (351 words)

Are there any ways to make my feelings grow stronger for my boyfriend?

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16 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel like i'm taking my boyfriend for granted and I wish I wanted to be with him as bad as does. I really love him and I think we could have a future together. But he says he wouldn't be able to live without me and that i'm the only one he'll ever want and that'd he'd do ... (132 words)

Husband confused about female anatomy and thinks I'm cheating!

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16 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - ok ladies i really want to know is it true that when you have sex and get really aroused your vagina hole gets bigger. im havin problems with this b/c my husband thinks im cheating and im not and we havent had sex in about a week in a half were use to at least every 2 days ... (58 words)

I want him back without him feeling like he lost his pride

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16 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I need help getting a really special guy back....whenever I try to tell him I still like Him he's a totaly a** to me....I no he likes me he just won't admit it because he dosnt wanna lose his pride after dumping me because I said he needEd to put more efort into being with ... (74 words)

I'm not sure I can forgive him for losing it with his ex

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16 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm seeing this guy. We were both planning on losing our virginity to each other. He recently told me that he " unintentionally " lost it to his exGirlfriend. Itold him that if he ever did that, iwould move on and forget about him, but ijust can't. However, I'm not sure if ican ... (82 words)

My BF is an Insecure Odd Loner. How Do I understand him better?

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16 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf frustrates me sometimes- I dont get him. We get along great, hes fun to be around and funny but he has a habit of joking 24/7.. it seems he can never be serious..even if I'm trying to be.I also have trouble knowing when he is serious - he talks about the future alot.... (664 words)

My friends say I never should have opened and read the email from my ex

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16 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - i was dating a guy which i fell in love with deeply who broke it off with me cause he was being deported back overseas the next day and was married with a kid, and he loves her husband, since then i have gotten over him after many tubs of ice cream and yes had little set backs ... (149 words)

Do we need time away from each other to realize what we have?

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16 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - We have been married for 8 years now and were courting for almost 4 years before marriage. Everything was going great and we have had a very satisfying and fulfilling relationship. We understood each other perfectly and cared for each other. Until one day when my husband told ... (408 words)

I want to get married but don't want to force him to do so!

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16 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 years now. We have lived together for 2 years. I want to get married and I am getting anxious. Every time we have talked about it, he always says he isn't ready to get married. I'm only 22 and he's 23, but I feel like it's time for a ... (265 words)

My life is with my husband, my heart is with his brother

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16 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I dated this guy for 5 years and he was my first love, my first everything. He went into the service and we parted ways. i ended up marrying his brother and had three children. Now i am in the middle of a divorce, not an ugly one. My husband wants yo get back together.. we had ... (190 words)

Why did she sleep around?

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16 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Why did my good friend sleep around? I have a friend who just broke up with her high school bf of 2.5years. He dumped her in her first week at college. He was an average looking guy at best she is beautiful. My question is why has she suddenly slept around she was so... (177 words)

Broken up, how long should I wait before contacting him?

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16 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My romantic interest lives on the other side of the world and he found someone else. I needed some time to get past the hurt of it, I just want to know what sort of time period shoulld I wait until I contact him to see how he is. i just want to be friends, nothing more anymore, ... (77 words)

Tips on how to stop gagging during a blowjob and how to make it more enjoyable for the man?

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16 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - So i've been curious about this for a while and I would like to know if there are any tips to giving a blow job and not gagging during or gagging less. Ive tried not going down as far but its less enjoyable for him. I really would like to give my boyfriend amazing bjs but i ... (97 words)

Girlfriend found out some bad medical news and says she needs a break, but keeps calling me

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16 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - So i have been dating this girl for almost a year we have talked about marriage having kids, then she finds out some bad medical news then tell me she needs a break, some time alone. she still calls me 3 times a day, still have sex talk for hours on the phone. So how long ... (84 words)

I want a serious relationship, why doesn't anybody else my age want the same?

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16 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 23 and quite mature for my age. I want a serious relationship, but all I find is people my age wanting flings. Or they just play you like my ex did and then dump you by text. Why is this? The problem with guys my age is that they only want sex and will say alomst anything ... (95 words)

I don't know how to handle this long distance relationship

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16 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - So I recently moved to a town about 100 miles from where I used to live. I had been going out with my girlfriend from that town for 2 months before I left for the new town. I used to visit her, but between 2 jobs and school, it's hard to balance things. Plus, i've basically got ... (185 words)

I'm unsure if I'm in love with him?

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16 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay so i've been dating this guy for 11 months. I know I love him and he loves me. But i'm unsure if i'm in love with him. Because i think theres a difference between loving someone and being in love with them. I always want to spend time with him and I could see myself with ... (214 words)

I've never done one night stands because I don't want to look bad

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16 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey, i have allways been in longterm relationship and never done one night stands as i dont want a reputation as a male slag or look bad on a new girlfriend. Am i rite in thinking like this? You opinions please... (41 words)

Do people in relationships tell each other everything?

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16 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - When two people are in a relationship, do they have to tell everything to each other? example: - schedules? - appointments? - emails? My boyfiend went to a bodybuilding show in the fall, and I am not aware of that. I found a picture of him and a female contestant p... (79 words)

Is it important to date during your youth?

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16 January 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - is it important to have girlfriends or boyfriends during your youth? ... (11 words)

Why does he always kiss and hug me?

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16 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hello, i met a guy at a party and when we were first introduced, he hugged me and gave me a kiss on the cheek. As the night progressed, we got to know each other better. As i was leaving, i went around and gave everyone a hug goodbye. When i got to him, he gave me a hug and ... (90 words)

Will she realise who I was in her life one day?

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16 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - She is in an unhealthy relationship of almost 5 years with him. Many break ups were involved but she patched back with him thinking he might change one day. He is possessive in nature; I heard he slapped her before once or twice. For about a year she started having feelings... (167 words)

My second wife doesn't like my children from my 1st marriage!

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16 January 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I have 4 children from my first marriage who now live in the UK with their mother, and I am in another relationship with a new wife and we have one child together. Ny new wife does not like the children from my first marriage, is resentful to them and now has suggested that onl... (152 words)

Am I in love with this girl?

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16 January 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Should I like her? This girl and I been through alot. I was new to this school and on october I became best friends with her. We talk about sex, flirt , go over each other alot, and pretty much talked about everything.It seem like that she like me. After like a minute si... (213 words)

I want to get some sun but don't want to burn or get red!

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16 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, how's it going! I haven't posted any questions in a while. But I've got one now. Soo... I'm kind of a ginger. Some people say I am, where other people say I'm "more blonde". Truth is, my hair is a strawberry blonde with red highlights. All natural, I've never dyed ... (147 words)

How can I bring myself to trust him after everything he's done?

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16 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, ive been with my boyfriend nearly 2years now and i don't trust him at all, please read all of this, i need advise on alot of things. Lets start from the beginning, he was engaged to a girl who cheated on him more than once and 6months after they got engaged she finished the ... (1044 words)

I just don't trust her and don't know how to make things better

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16 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok I have a problem with my gf, when I finnaly came home from deployment and she came to visit me from her home in detriot, all was good and we had a good time. But when she went back up to detriot I feel like I cant trust her because of the past stuff she did, and when sh... (314 words)

I'm scared I would annoy him so I never contact him first

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16 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - There's this boy I know. I like him a LOT. I'm crazy for him but feel as if I can never tell him. He's had much experience with girls, and I've not had many experience with guys. I'm terrified that by texting or IM'ing him, I'm annoying him, so I never initiate conversa... (114 words)

Will I get a boyfriend when I have braces?

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16 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So i got braces last month, and im going to high school pretty soon. will the guys go for all the girls without braces?? i dont think im ugly, i just hope ill get a boyfriend even with braces. waddya think?... (47 words)

I hate it when my girlfriend drinks!

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16 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Ive got a little problem and Im not sure what to do. In a nutshell, the problem is I hate it when my girlfriend drinks. A little background: We are both in our late 30’s and in a nearly two year, long distance relationship, both of us have been married before and divorced... (434 words)

Xbox has taken my partner and his sense of responsibility. How do I survive this?

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16 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My partner works o/n and I work days, but the weekends we both have off. I'm 6 months pregnant with my second, and at the beginning of the month was the ultrasound. We found out it's a girl, but were really hoping for a boy. Since then he's hardly said anything to me. I've been ... (892 words)

How do I climb out of the pit of dispair?

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16 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a 22 year old virgin, worse I haven't had a girlfriend since the 7th grade and as far as I know only one girl has been interested since. I lost over 75lbs and today am almost at the point of having a 6 pack. I changed my clothes and hair several times, and I've never had ... (236 words)

I get streaks of anger toward my girlfriend. Is this normal?

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16 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Oka i dont know if its because im alittle crazy or its just normal..but i get streaks of anger toward my girlfriend. Some times i love her to death and never ever want her to leave me, when she has to go to work. Ever! Then its like everything she does talk.. touch me..move ... (84 words)

He's constantly hunting down women for sex

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16 January 2011 (F)

age - I am seeing this 54 year old man. Our relationship is a no frills relationship. We occassionally get together to have sex. (Both divorced) Lately he's been bringing up the subject of having threesomes and group sex. And then he sent me this prostitues profile and told... (163 words)

We're Living Together but She Won't Marry Me. Why?

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16 January 2011 (M)

age - I just wonder what is really going on here. My girfriend and I have been living together for a year and a half now. We are both in our mid - late 40's. I have been divorced around 7 years and she has been separated (not yet divorced) for almost 3 years. She has no interest ... (483 words)

There's days I love her and other days I just don't care

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16 January 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - i have been dating this girl for almost 2 years at first we where like made for each other but about a year ago she confessed to me that she send a guy picture of her in her bikini when i went on a 2 weeks vacation. and now she told me she had a crush on some of her other guy ... (110 words)

Was he sick or I just didn't turn him on?

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16 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I just have a small thing thats bothering me but i was finally having a sexy time with this guy who ive liked for a long time and although i know it is just a hook up i was really happy. The thing is the first time we had sex he went soft and i persumed it was because he was ... (142 words)

She wants me to get my penis pierced!

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16 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey everybody! I've been in relationship with this girl for 2 years now... She wants to spice things up so she got a tattoo and she asked me to get my dick pierced!! Is this too much? Is it gonna hurt? Should I do it? So many questions, PLEASE help me to take this ... (67 words)

Should I forgive her for everything while she has treated me like dirt?

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16 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi I am in a dilemma. I met my girlfriend 2 and a half years ago we dated or two months long distance, fell madly in love and she moved in with me in a flat at my area. We ended up arguing and on off splitting up. I stuck with her and chased and chased. She aleays said ... (332 words)

I'm scared of losing my parents or him!

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16 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I was in a relationship with a man for 10 months, however he was 40 and I was 20 at the time and at uni. I tried talking about it with my mum and dad a month into the realtionship but straight away I got a "no way on this earth was this going to happen" answer, but I st... (238 words)

I've never kissed a guy sober and don't know how to initiate it

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16 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - This past month I've been home from school, and this last week I started hanging out with this kid that I have always had a crush on, from afar. He is my friend's brother's friend. But throughout the years hanging out at her house, etc, we got to know each other too. I never in ... (453 words)

Am I a whore for wanting casual sex, sometimes with guys from the same circle of friends?

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16 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 24, single, and I have had 10 sexual partners, my sister is younger than me and is in a relationship, and she constantly dissaproves of my "love" life. She thinks I'm a whore. I've had my one night stands, also my serious relationships, sometimes it just doesn't work out, ... (455 words)

What do you do when your husband wants to live somewhere you don't?

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16 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - What do you do when your husband wants to live in a town (ten years at tops) but you dont want to live there? He used to live there when he was younger and i know some of the people there they were very rude and jerks to me and now that me and him are married the girls i know ... (113 words)

She says too much has happened for us to go back

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16 January 2011 (?) age 41-50 - I have been dating this girl for about a year now, we just broke up a couple weeks now. I miss her so bad and we keep texting back and forth. She tells me that to much has happened to go back when i asked her for a second chance. I just don't know what to do. Its like ... (126 words)

I really hate being shy.

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16 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - [Mod note: 2 questions by same poster combined.] Q. I'm a Freshman in High School, and I feel kind of like the rock that hasn't rolled in with the tide. While all my friends are chatting during lunch about how and where they last had sex, I've never even kissed a guy before. ... (367 words)

I think he likes me, but I'll take being friends too.

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16 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay...So i like this guy. He was in my graphics class last year, there were a lot of hints thinking back to maybe he could just like me too. But now he has a girlfriend...My friends are aware i like him, obviously being my friends..Well i think them think he's out of my leagu... (453 words)

Am I taking this the wrong way?

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16 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm in the Navy currently on a deployment. Right before this deployment began, I had fallen in love with a girl. The feeling was mutual as she was the one to tell me she loved me first. Just before I left, we had promised to communcate as much as we could and learn as much ... (343 words)

He wants a little freedom before he asks me out?

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16 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - i had just recently moved to a new town and i had met a boy a month earlier that month and we both became friends on the spot i had grown feelings for him and i hoped he did to he would hold my hand and rub it with his thumb but my little sister found out i liked him and got ... (269 words)