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writes: Hello,Im a teenage girl and i have a boyfriend who i have been with for quite a while...One time earlier on in our relationship he tried to finger me and i wasn't ready, i told him 'not today' and he backed off and didn't mention a word.I feel that i am now ready for it, but he doesn't even seem to want to go near that area. Have i scared him off it ? I dont know how to let him know that im ready for it, I dont particularly want to talk to him because that embarrassing.What should i do ??AndOn New Years eve he asked me when i wanted to lose my virginity.. He was quite tipsy and so was i.I replied i didn't know when because i need to make sure im ready for it, but i love him so i want to do it with him because i trust him.He told his best friend, who is also one of my close friends and she had a go at him and i think thats scared him off too..We do talk about it face to face sometimes and all he wants is me to be ready, although he does sometimes sound like he doesn't want to do it with me..Im so confused, i want to lose it to him in the summer or something when i know i will be ready but im worried he wont believe me :/...Thankyou x
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (14 January 2011):
 Ok first off am sure you never scared him he is just respecting you when you said you were not ready and this is great. But if you feel you are ready then just tell him. You mention you dont want to tell him because you will be embarressed. If this embarresses you to talk about it to your boyfriend then am afraid hunny you are just not ready. If you were ready and mature enough the both of you could talk about this kind of stuff openly and honestly. Also just a tip for the future dont get your friend involved in private matters of a relationship as this very well could scare him off. A relationship is based on two people and she should not have got involved.
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