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writes:i am so confused. me and my boyfriend haven't known eachother very long but we already live together (his idea). the thing is we have lived together just over a couple months and sometimes he makes me feel like im the most important thing to him and other times he makes me feel like i don't exist at all. he travels Alot for work which i can deal with. he also does Alot of side work fixing cars and stuff. the thing is he left sunday for 3 days for work came home yesterday did laundry took a shower slept and then left before i got home from work. he didn't come home at all last night and i don't know why. i have missed him like crazy. i even text him to tell him i miss him and he never replied. i don't know what to think. i feel like he doesn't want to be there. like he doesn't want to be with me. i have told him this before and he says that's not the case. he says he doesn't come home because he can't. nothing he does around town should keep him from coming home so i find this hard to believe. i don't know what has changed but something is different and he won't tell me what it is. i don't know what to do. like i said sometimes he makes me feel like im so important and other times like i don't exist. any advice is much appreciated
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2011): I'm not sure how much you really know about him, but it's obvious that he is not a reliable person. He could be married, he could have another gf or he could have other even more serious issues. The situation is not good. I would move back out and find someone more trustworthy. Why put yourself through this kind of stress?
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