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writes:so im going to explain my situation first. . my ex boyfriend and i were dating for 6 months, i know that sounds like a less amount of time, but we were the best of friends and before i met him i didnt go searchng for boys he came to me which made it so much better(: we were both in college, got to see eachother everyday :D . . then he got discharged, which then turned into a long distance relationship, and jealosy kicked in, but we txted and called eachother all the time and seen eachother as much as possible. . and yes i did lie a few times but it was over little things but i never cheated on him , or talked to other guys, and we both hated facebook and made a promise not to get on it anymore, and i went on there and he was on there instead of doing the smart move, and confront him but i didnt instead i lied to his face . . and he said one more i lie im done, and he was planning on joining the army, and he said our relationship would be a "complicated" one i was fine with it aslong as i still had him, and he then broke up with me and recently got dicharged from school for underaged drinking (he was very mad) i go back in mayup and till i came home he still talked to me , and just after that he wont even talk to me, I tried the no contact and we still havent spoken to eachother he has someone else, but my friend told m there not even datin he just has deep feelings for her . . I still love him and i txted him and i said something between the lines, if you were over me u would be my friend , so i dont think your exactly over me,and he replied " hahahaahahaa... I am over you i have someone hotter , smarter, and Nicer" and he told me never to txt him again. . I just dont understand how he can love this girl . . she just walked into his life, and shes only 18 hes 20 I still love him and he was the only boyfriend my parents liked, I have false hope for him returning . . bc i make to much stupid descions but im approving any ideas to bring him back?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYeah I still want him back, it was my fault he left. . .
I understand why we broke up, and Im improving for myself . .
I believe its a rebound relationship, and yeah i would still want him back I love him . . If it was a abusive relationship or something diffrent i wouldnt want him back
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reader, Learner.uk  +, writes (15 January 2011):
 Hi, its going to be hard, like allready mentioned you need to move on and not contact him its the best for both of you and you wont push him away more. All the best.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell thanks i guess,I have hope though i guess i will just stick to my friends and not some online advice :/ esp its negative feed back
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reader, dirtball +, writes (14 January 2011):
 Nope, and you shouldn't try. He told you in no uncertain terms that your advances are unwanted. Any further attempts by you will just drive him further away and make you look like a psycho ex/stalker.
It's not your job to question his relationship. Age is just a number, and two years is really a common age gap. He claims to love her, so you need to respect that.
Does it suck you lost him? Yes. Now it's time for you to grieve the relationship, learn what you can from this experience, and move on.
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reader, EPocket  +, writes (14 January 2011):
 after all and you still want him back :) earth filled with guys out there . he is not the last and as he did this to u ...wat is his use to u ? sometimes it takes alot of pain to learn . :) my own opinion .. u`d not need him . wat if he came back and found someone else again ? will u come here and ask help or go beg him to bring u back . u r away better than this sweetie . unless there is things u haven't told in ur letter .. u better forget abt him .
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