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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2011): Are you having fantasies about sleeping with friend's of your wife or do you want your friend's to have sex with your wife whilst you watch?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2011): You want to have sex with friend's of your wife's or you want your friends to have sex with your wife.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2011): its normal to have fantasies but you need to learn how to control them because later on they could true and hurt your marriage.
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (14 January 2011):
 Fantasies aren't inherently bad as long as they stay in the fantasy realm.
Your question isn't clear though. To me it sounds like you're thinking about a threesome.
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reader, DenimandLace44 +, writes (14 January 2011):
 You have fantasies of your wife having sex with her friends or you having sex with her friends?
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