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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:There was this guy I really liked and who seemed to really like me (all the signs were present). Suddenly, out of the blue, he is avoiding me and I do mean obviously avoiding me.I wanna know...what in the world happened?! One day we were flirting, the next day he couldn't get far enough away from me.I am NOT clingy and haven't talked to him since I noticed him avoiding me (several weeks) and I do not have a questionable reputation to where he might hear something unsavory about me. However, this is how he is acting, like he heard a rumor about me....why? He did not then nor does he now have a girlfriend.
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reader, angelDlite  +, writes (22 January 2011):
 hi
maybe he got shy? maybe you have (not realising) done something or not done something and it has made him think you don't like him or are not interested? or maybe he has noticed another girl that he prefers? nobody knows how he feels but him. can you just carry on being friendly with him and see if anything develops?
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reader, girlpearlwhirl +, writes (22 January 2011):
Sometimes a guy is just in it for the thrill of the chase. He was obviously interested in you, and as soon as he realised you possibly were interested back it was over for him.
It sounds harsh but it's happened to me plenty of times. I have a huge crush on a guy, and then literally the minute he acts mildly flirty back I all of a sudden feel repelled. Nothing against you, it's just an inexplicable feeling that can't be helped!
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