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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Meeting online friend of 7 years for the first time...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3350 days ago

5 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - This might be a little long so i apologize for that in advance:) So i have a friend i've known for several years. Met him on a social networking site and we pretty much hit it off from day one. He's from another country - I'm in the U.S and he lives in Holland. I b... (1181 words)

My fiance is into sheMale porn and has listed himself as bisexual on a dating site. I want him to be faithful and honest to me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

5 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My fiance is into porn like just about every other normal Joe out there. I have no problem with this. I have no problem with him viewing the occasional she-male porn either. I get that some guys just need to look at different things. However, unless I'm around to watch ... (622 words)

I want more interaction between my ex wife, the kids and my girlfriend

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

5 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Back story: After a really dead marriage, I left the family domicile 2 yrs ago, where my ex and 2 younger children still reside. After a few months of living apart, my ex and I made a casual attempt at getting back together without the knowledge of the kids and of course it ... (321 words)

The sex with my new guy just happened. Now I don't know what he thinks of me. How can we go forward?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So basically I dated my boyfriend since high school and everything seemed great. We were worried about our relationship because we were going to different colleges but after a couple months we knew everything would be okay. As I got into my first semester of college I met a boy ... (362 words)

How can I keep my boyfriend's erection?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, i really really need some help at the moment. Me and my boyfriend are both virgins, we have done everything appart from actuall sexual intercourse. We both love each other and are ready for this. Not long ago we attempted to have sex. Usually, it doesnt take much for my ... (148 words)

How do I move up the social ladder when I'm at the way bottom?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some serious help here. I'm 17 yrs old, a junior in high school and I have never been on a date or kissed in my entire life. I don't know anything about boys. Also, I'm a "social outcast". I don't have any let's hang out friends. I spend my weekends alone, at home ... (366 words)

How do I let him know he's the only one?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been friends with a guy for about 3 and a half years now. We always talked on the phone and texted each other, and he made it quite clear he liked me. However I wasn't very responsive to his flirty texts and meaningful things he would say such as I miss you. I would only ... (309 words)

How can I stop myself from wanting to be with or be in contact with my boyfriend all the time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey, I'd love your advice on how to stop myself from wanting to be in contact with/actually with my bf every day. We've been together 4 months, started with hanging out together, then he asked me out, and things have been great since then-I wasn't looking for a relationship, ... (418 words)

Why is it that these guys love me at the beginning but always end up breaking up with me for another girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - hi, so recently for the second time in a year the guy i was with decided to break it off because they were interested in another girl. they both claimed that they loved me then suddenly (out of the blue) it just stopped. both relationships were long distance, rarely seeing each ... (254 words)

Is she looking to get give us another shot at being together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

5 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - my ex gf and I been separated since 08. we have a son together and we were married once, couple years ago before our son. we always had a on/off relationship. since we broke up she has had 2 relationships over a year each. she recently got back together with her last bf. we ... (204 words)

What should I say or do to help him not be teased and to understand him more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - this guy at school acts like a girl and he dresses like a guy . people teases him and call him gay but i dont think they should. i dont know how to approach him asking is he gay or not and might offend him. i personally think he just enjoy acting like girl and he gets upset ... (103 words)

Now I want to kiss her but I don't know what to do and when.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 January 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - I am 13. I have a girlfriend. I have been in a relationship with her for about 6months. We hug every time we leave each other and occasionally hold hands. We have had a small peck on the lips but that was just because our friends were bugging us so we just got it over and done ... (106 words)

I don't know if hes only using me for my body.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

5 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I like this guy hes 17 and im 15 he kissed me, and felt me up the other day and wanted to go further, this does not suprise me because we have talked about going further. But i didnt, i just didnt feel as if we were ready to take that step. Later we talked about it, and he was ... (179 words)

Can an online romance ever turn from friend to lover?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 January 2011 (F)

age - I recently met someone online who pursued me like crazy for about a month, we had a great mental connection as he could even finish my sentences for me. Well before meeting we ended up having virtual sex online. Just describing what each would do to the other, and it wa... (186 words)

Do men ever regret leaving a woman pregnant and alone?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 2788 days ago

5 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - A question to all males out there or females in my situation. do men ever regret leaving a woman pregnant and alone? my ex boyfriend left me pregnant and alone, we live in different countries and he has never met his son (4 months old). when i was pregnant he disappeared from ... (204 words)

Betrayed by my so-called friend, what should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - It all started about two years ago. I had a huge crush on a boy 1 year older than me. He seemed like the perfect guy. He was nice, cute, funny, athletic, and smart. My really close friends all knew that I liked him, and thought we would make a cute couple. But, one my fr... (299 words)

He's been seeing me since October, but he told me not to tell anyone. Why is he doing this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - A guy and I have been talking for a while at school, he always sits by me, and smiles when he sees me. but he won't admit to his friends that he likes me. i don't know why, and it's not like i'm just somebody to stay away from, he told me to not tell anyone we're talking ... (72 words)

I'm so terribly confused!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello guys... So, to start off directly, I fell in love with my close friend ... and I'm quite sure that he has feelings for me, too. We've always been hugging a lot and stuff, but it became kind of different lately; for example, the two of us spent New Year's Eve together... (1456 words)

How can we make it work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 2 and a half years and really aren't getting on. He doesn't have a job and isn't able to pay rent and no matter what I say he doesn't get one, he just says yeah I'll go tomorrow! I'm not sure what to do cause I'm finding life in ... (88 words)

Husband is sharing a room with a friend during a business trip, feeling uncomfortable about it

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 1658 days ago

5 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, my husband is in another contry doing some bussines.. in this moment he is traveling with some friends that I met before. I talked with him today and asked about his friends, how they are doing...etc.. he told me the hotel right now is very expensive because is high ... (157 words)

Stuck in a love triangle and needs help getting out of it!!! I don't know how to break up.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

5 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I’ve got quite a dilemma. I’ve been in such a sticky situation this past year that I need all the help and advice I can get right now. Please give I am in such a tough situation that to get the best advice from everyone, I will have to give a short summary of the past year. ... (1603 words)

I don't understand why I go bone dry!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a 21 year old lesbian in a serious relationship with my partner. Everything in our relationship is perfect, we love eachother very much, the sex is great, we live together, which is also going great, we're soul mates, the whole sha bang really is just perfect. Except ... (269 words)

Is it possible to repair what has been torn apart?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend and I had been together for nearly 6 and half years. We shared a home for about 5 of those years. Our relationship had always been a good one, but unfortunately, this past fall things started to fall apart. We started to fight more, I started saying mean and nasty ... (339 words)

I dreamt of my ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my ex broke up 2 years ago i'm with someone else now nd he's doing his own thing. We're still cool and all. We speak here and there But jus last night i had a dream about him he was with a cousin of mine nd it broke my heart to see them together. He wouldnt talk to ... (155 words)

Girlfriend doesn't feel like she can love me forever

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend of over 2.5 years told me last night that she loved me but she feels like she can't love me forever.. sure we've had problems but we've always persevered and only actually broken up once and only for a few weeks.. what do I do...... (47 words)

Did my Neighbor Try To pull a sexual Move on me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

5 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey Guys Thank You for taking the time to read my question. I live in a neighborhood where all the houses are really close, but we all tend to keep to ourselves. I live across from this family and they are nothing but wonderful people! One year i started talking to their ... (260 words)

I think about the abortion everyday, but fiance doesn't talk about it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hiii, i fell pregnant when i was 15 but had the abortion when i was 16, my fiance stuck by me through it all and said he would do what i wanted, i know it was the right thing to do , but i think about it every single day and sometimes get upset:/, everytime i speak about it, he ... (85 words)

I'm hurt and co-worker is oblivious to what he has done!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - a guy ive worked with the last 18 months is changing to a new team in 2 days. we've had a massive falling out. when he started we got on amazingly well and i was-still am very fond of him. ive helped him with personal trauma, hes borrowed money-never returned it, rarely p... (140 words)

Two relationships may be better than one intense one.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 January 2011 (M)

age - First my background. I've been separated 6 months now after a long term marriage (over 25 years). My wife and I grew apart over the years and two children are grown and gone and the last one is in her third year of HS and has basically encouraged me to leave. I tried for ... (1102 words)

It hurts when he looks at other women

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

5 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I need some insights... My bf and I are in a great relationship for over a year and half, we love each other so much and we plan on getting married. But he's a MAN and he can't help looking at other women. I know, they say it's normal, "men are visual creature... (366 words)

Low self-esteem and looking to get my confidence back.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Up until I was 12, I had many friends, was very outgoing, and loved life. Now its the opposite. When I got to the age of 12, I got really bad acne. Since then, my confidance has gone down, I rarley talk to people, because that means they have to look at my face, and I avoi... (259 words)

I'm graduating, he's a teacher and I'm looking for something to happen between us.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I could use a hand on this issue. There's a guy at school/6th form, he's a fairly new english teacher, and I'm very attracted to him. I think he likes me too, we're really very close and go around town together a lot. At the moment we're just good friends, but he's single, ... (149 words)

Is this younger guy at school crushing on me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

5 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi... straight to the point... there is a guy in school... he is 14 and i am 17 (and gay)... basically as its a small school I have become familiar with most of the faces and being gay I watch all most of the guys in particular. I don't know what to do... I won't deny the fact ... (157 words)

Guy with definite mixed signals!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I like this guy who is very much a ladies man! he has never admitted he likes me but gets with me sometimes and texts me quite a lot, I know he talks to other girls so it isn't just me but I know all he wants is sex because thats what he tells me however in person. He will be ... (116 words)

What do men think about short women?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - What do men think about short women? Are they cuter than a girl that's of average height? I'm really into this girl that's 5 ft. I'm 6 ft 3 and she always jokes that I'm a giant compared to her. I don't think our height difference is a problem, but I was thinking that it might ... (65 words)

Ladies, how do I make it known that I want sex with this woman?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

5 January 2011 (M) age 30-35 - At a dude ranch last summer I met a attractive woman. We had fun during the time at the dude ranch. At the ranch we did a lot of things together. Before leaving the ranch we even had sex. We had a good time in bed. Since going we have stayed in touch. She has invited me to come ... (184 words)

I don't care for this man but I want to be there for my mom.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 January 2011 (F)

- Hey everyone, Well the problem I need help here with is that my step dad is going in to hospital on Monday to have his leg amputated and the thing is I'm just not sympathetic at all! I wouldn't wish it on anybody but he was told numerous amount of times to give up smoking ... (288 words)

Is he using some external sexual source?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

5 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Here is my situation I have been married for 9 years together for 13 years. We also have 5 children I have anyone else to ask. About a month ago I told my husband to give my daughter her phone back he said he needs to change the number first because his friends send dirty ... (368 words)

Sex drive fell off the face of this earth and I want it back.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 January 2011 (?) age 30-35 - I am 19 years old, and I have been dating this amazing man for 3 and a half years! 3 years ago, I had a hard time controling my sex drive, i wanted sex 24/7. In August we moved in with eachother has a 3 year annvirsary kind of deal, however the first few days...we had sex ... (250 words)

Every time I check her emails it is a bad surprise...so how can I trust her?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

5 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - OK, weird situation here. I have a friend who is a girl and I am a guy (last time I checked hahaha). Anyway, don't ask how, but I figured out how to check her email. Yeah I know it's low. But the reason I did it is because I wanted to see what kind of a person she is. I have ... (282 words)

I like him but his friend likes me... what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5097 days ago

5 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I've liked a guy in my class for ages and we cyber online, but I still like him in person. The thing is he has a girl abroad who he says is not his girlfriend but he talks about her a lot. His best friend, however, has expressed interest in me. Although I would say yes to the ... (92 words)

How do I force him to seek help?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, and thanks in advance I've been with my bf for 2.5 years and its been a constant battle more so this last 1.5 I'm unable to go anywhere with gf's unless he is present, unable to have my own privacy on Facebook without him having access. He has access to my emai... (352 words)

He is not allowed to date outside his religion!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

5 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, i'm in need of advice! My bf has a very different religion to me and my family. His family's religion is very strict and one of the 'rules' is to be with some one who has the same religion. He doesn't care much as he is with me but he hasn't told his mum and dad about us. ... (133 words)

Are my reasons valid for not telling him how I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 January 2011 (?) age 30-35 - I've never had a proper boyfriend, I've been fairly happy with that until now. Mainly because I loved this guy for longest time and that occupied my affection for other people. During this time i've tended just to hook up with people in a completely not serious way. Howeve... (197 words)

A plea for help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - :/ well this is less of a question as to more of just a plee for help...... me and my gf have been going out nearly 5 months and up until now everything has been perfect no arguments nothing :/ but recently shes just completely shut herself off from me i know somethings ... (123 words)

Which way do I turn?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Not sure which way to turn. There is a lot wrong in my marriage right now and it's not one persons fault more than the other. Granted there are things he has done that i disapprove of and he thinks he did nothing wrong as well as I'm sure there are things I have done but ... (432 words)

Is it possible to be attracted to two guys?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I got with a guy in the summer (a bit of what i thought was a summer fling), he went off to uni a very long way away so i thought nothing would happen, however he kept on being really sweet and charming and wanting me to come up to his. I didn't go as i just never would of had ... (142 words)

Why are two people who like each other, ignoring each other?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

5 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey guys. Can you tell me why two people that have an intense attraction for each other and who have been friendly in the past are now ignoring one another? They still have these feelings but are both ignoring each other. Is this not high school? Any reasons why they would b... (87 words)

Why has she kept my number?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - i met a girl at college and she seemed to be giving me signals of interest. anyway, we eventually exchanged numbers and began flirting and texting until almost 2am on college night (something i wouldnt expect friends to do on a college night). her friends would also keep ... (576 words)

I really like my brother's friend!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5067 days ago

5 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I really like my brothers friend who is 21 where as i'm 16 and i have liked him for a long time and i think he might like me as well but not to sure, i want to ask him out but i don't know how my brother and rest of the family would feel if we went out, as my brother hardly ... (90 words)

Can a one night stand turn possibly turn into a relationship?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

5 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello Can you ever get together with someone after a one night stand or have you completely blown it?? Any opinions?? Anyone ever got with anyone after this?? ... (29 words)

Now's my chance to zone in on her but I'm clueless as to what to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - i currently go to college in the uk and there's this girl in my class. i liked her from the moment i saw her but i then found out that she had a boyfriend. So i tried to not look at her, in that way. a few weeks before christmas she was telling people in our class that he ... (243 words)

Dear God, please give me the courage to talk to him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i like this guy we meet at church. We stare at each other for song as we pass by each other but we don't talk . There was a day when we were about to pass by each other he seemed like he wanted to say something but i was so stupid , gosh i passed him by like i didn't recognise ... (97 words)

I'm sick of being labelled as the sensitive guy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I have come to realize that I am becoming overly sensitive and emotional and its effecting my self confidence! I was not like this previously, ok I was always a little sensitive, but I need to toughen up now, as I am tired of being labelled as the sensitive guy! What can... (236 words)

Should I like this mentally challenged girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 January 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - [Mod Note: It would be very helpful if you could state your age and how old this girl is. This will help you to get better answers] There is this girl(of age 21) who is a couple of years younger than me(i'm 23). She is mentally challenged. She was abandoned by her parents a... (217 words)

He's distant after I caught him sexting my friend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help figuring things out. My boyfriend of almost 4 years has always been faithfull and full of love twards me up until two weeks ago. I just returned from a trip to my home town and decided while he was sleeping to look at his phone just curious I guess. I found a bunch ... (348 words)

7 years of marriage have gone by but I'm still not in love with her! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

5 January 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - my question is you been dating a little while, the person you had been dating and wants to be marry and wants to start a family soon because she older and her parents are getting old 70 you like her but she puting pressure on you . you get married but i realized i am not in ... (118 words)

Should I forge ahead with my psychologist career, and ignore my heart? Or chase my dream of being an actress?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

5 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I don't have a relationship question, it's more of a life question. But I read this site everyday, and people seem to be very helpful. I need some advice. I am 18 and in my first year of college. This is normally when people figure out what they want to do, right? Well, I ... (261 words)

For the girls: Is an uncircumcised penis a deal breaker?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

5 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Is an uncircumcised penis a deal breaker? Only for women... (11 words)

I don't want to go to my husband's father's funeral because the women he had an affair with will be there, is this wrong?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 5002 days ago

5 January 2011 (F)

age - My husband has been having an affair with a friend of his family. This has been going on for a while and although my husband is sorry I am still trying to come to terms with it. This lady is well liked by his family and I have never met her. My husband's father has just died ... (139 words)

She is having trouble connecting to me after the death of a parent, what can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 January 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - First time post here, a bit nervous. You know how there are always two sides to a story, right? I am trying my best to keep this non-biased. I really need help. I met my wife when I was 17, she was 16. It is now 20 years later. We never fought, always laughed and had ... (412 words)

What is the 'norm' for hair down below?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

5 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't suppose this is relationship per se but it's just something I've been pondering and can't answer it myself! Well I have been seeing this guy for a while now and we've been making out and stuff but things are starting to get a bit more heated... I've never had much e... (114 words)

I only attract attached men!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

5 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a reasonably attractive, university educated, independent woman in my mid 20's, i'd say i'm humorous, chilled out, my years in 'customer service' have led me to have an understanding of people- i'd say i'm an extremely loyal friend, and about as 'real' as you can get. ... (110 words)

She's getting too much attention after losing over 100 pounds!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend is and always has been gorgeous. I love her dearly and since we've started dating she's lost over 100 pounds! She looks even more incredible than I ever could have imagined although she was always stunning to me. My problem is that I'm terribly jealous... (190 words)

Why hasn't he emailed or called me yet?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 January 2011 (?) age 41-50 - Happy new year everyone! So... before the holidays a colleague of mine I really fancy told me we'd meet up for dinner after Jan 3rd (that is when I got back from the holidays) and, well... I know it's just th 5th today but I'm freakin out already!!! Why hasn't he emailed ... (98 words)

We are living too far away from each other but we want to be together forever! What can we do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - am a 21 years old girl.am in deeply in love with my brother (not real brother)but my family members think that we are like real brother and sister. he is also in love with me.when i was 15 years old he came to our home and live for 9 months .then he was of 18 ,at that time ... (182 words)

Should I bother considering him in my future if he doesn't consider me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for 18 months, we are both university students, though I graduate this year and he graduates next year. Obviously I am thinking about what my options are in terms of finding a job when I graduate and where I would like to live, etc. Though he ... (231 words)

I feel like my infertility is hindering his happiness....

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

5 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am aged 31 and have been married for 3 years. I have had an admired relationship with a faithful husband who has always been on my side and supported me. By the time of our marriage, my husband had a 4 year old son who we have happily lived with since we got together. However ... (355 words)

I want her love but I'm not sure if she has a boyfriend! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I love a girl last one year. She is very beautifull. I yet didnt spoke to her. I used to follow her daily on the school campus. Once she smiled to me and i also replied with a smile. I always looked into her eyes and i felt she is looking me also. My friends shouts my name when ... (90 words)

Why don't I enjoy anything sexual? How can I enjoy sex ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

5 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 19 and only lost my virginity a month ago. Since then, I have had sex with my boyfriend twice, both times very uncomfortable and don't feel anything unless it is pain. I know this is quite common after you lose your virginity, to be painful for the next few times. ... (281 words)

Am I a terrible person to behave this way when I should be giving support?

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5 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Am i a terrible person to behave this way when i should be giving support? My partner and i have been having this on off relationship for sometime now, he has moved out. The thing is we have 2 kids, my youngest is 2 and when he was a baby, about 8mts old i discovered that ... (316 words)

Am I too demanding or is she only using me to replace her ex?

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5 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm in a same-sex relationship and have been with my partner for almost four years. She is almost 20 years older than me and while I don't feel that the age difference is a problem, it seems her past is holding her back from having a happy relationship with me. She was with h... (438 words)

How do I know there are no other secrets and if I can ever trust him again??

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5 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - He doesn't respect me enough to tell me about things when I told him everything about me and has lied to me. He wouldn't talk about his past, only the good things that happened and they were far and few in between. He knows my past, my present, literally everything I bared for ... (316 words)

Will she / Wont she??? And should I take the leap or wait??

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5 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, there is this girl i met, we spend a lot of time together. It was really romantic, we kept kissing and we sat next eachother holding hands. She came from bad relationships i knew this but i kinda rushed it.. so she took a bit distance. When i asked her why she told... (475 words)

Why is he looking at porn when he has an available, willing wife in his bed??

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5 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband and I are both in our twenties and have only been married a few months. We're expecting our first child and ever since we've been together I've always been very sexual with him. Since I've been pregnant, my sex drive has doubled and Ive made it known to him that I'm ... (86 words)

How can I get her to choose between me and her boyfriend?

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5 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - We've been so close since a year.we've lots of time together.she's not even spent thirty percent of time with her bf..after my breakup with my gf,my friend helped me to get out of it.and now we're best friends too and share lots of things with each other..but we also love each ... (90 words)

My husband has changed so much since we got married!

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5 January 2011 (F)

age - It will be a year this month since I remarried. My husband has changed. I said no, to his 46 year old brother moving in who they claim to be slow but runs the streets with the worst kind. His mom 76 years old visited us for the first time asking where we get this or that from ... (392 words)

Living with and loving a married man, how do I leave him?

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5 January 2011 (F)

age - i'm in a relationship with a married man, and currently living with him. He is seperated from the wife,yet he communicates with her daily. he says we're just friends and he has several other sex partners. i caare for him deeply but I can't deal with this heartache. how can i go ... (56 words)

I left my wife for another woman but she chose to get married, what do I do next?

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5 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - This is a story about doing everything wrong....it is a story about two people and their partners. One of those people had a new marriage which is now at an end. The other was engaged and is now married. The story begins at the place where I work. It is not a small work... (1539 words)

I don't want to go on the weekend trip with my fiance. How do I tell him?

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5 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My fiance wants me to go on a four drive this weekend to his brothers house. I don't really like staying at other peoples houses. It makes me feel uncomfortable and its not my stuff not my house and I allways feel like I have to ask to use the bathroom. Its dumb I know. But my ... (142 words)

I cant help loving her and now I cant fall for anyone else!

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5 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. I am in love since eight years with my former teacher. She is married, I left my boyfriend, I can't help loving her. I am not able to fall in love with any other person. She is now my mentor and instead of working I spend my time daydreaming about her. I would tell her, but ... (77 words)

I gave my all in this relationship and it still didnt work out.....I feel so lost and broken

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5 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I’ve written about this boy before. We dated long distance for 2 years and 7 months, seeing each other tons. I was his first everything – at least everything we allowed ourselves to do. First kiss, first hand hold, first person he said “I love you” to, first person he ... (1571 words)

Why did I treat her so badly when I loved her so much?

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5 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I revently lost my partner who after 5 years went on a trip to Europe and broke up with me by email 2 days before she got back. She'd just turned 25, and I just turned 34. For the last few years I had been a pretty crap boyfriend. I was angry, I was insecure, I coul... (204 words)

I love you? versus I'm in love with you...hmmm

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5 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello, I was wondering, my soon to be hubby says "I love you" and I love him too, but is there a difference between saying "I love you" versus "I'm in love with you"? Don't get me wrong, but we both love each other, however, I was told by a gf that saying "I'm in love wit... (123 words)

What is REALLY going on with him and his co-worker?

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5 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - What is going on?? Help! I am married for almost 8 years now and have two children. Some years ago i have seen in my husband's mobile a text sent to a female co-worker saying kisses everywhere. we had a big fight over this but he claimed nothing happened and that was just a ... (341 words)

Should I give him a second chance?

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5 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - so my first year in college i met this guy who i really never thought nothing of. we became real good friends and started to hangout every weekend or so. he was tall , dark, and handsome and i thought to myself "wow i have one cute friend"... so i told him that i would ... (221 words)

I'm in love with a girl that hates me!

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5 January 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Ok so this girl I really like hates me, for no reason! When I first met her she was so nice to me, but now she absolutely hates me! I really really like her and i have't done anything wrong. I've tried being nice, didn't work. I tried asking her why she hates me... Didn't ... (61 words)

How should I go about asking her on a date?

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5 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - well theres this girl that i graduated with a few years ago and i saw her at a restaurant the other night along with my friend who happened to be her friend as well, so we talked a lil bit and im pretty attracted to her but we dont know each other too well so how would i go ... (79 words)

How do I attract the bad boys?

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5 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - what is it abour me that attracts unattractive guys i mean my mom always told me to be nice so i am and i attract boys who i dont like how do i get the ones wh i like what do i do.ps i like the bad boys... (50 words)

Several guys and I don't know which way to turn....

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5 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - okay so im a gay guy in college... i dont know what to do as there are a few guys that im either involved with, partially so, or just fancy them. Guy number 1: gay, same age, really nice, same height as me, good body, we are "seeing eachother" as when i suggested a rela... (303 words)

Am I turning him off or is it his ego?

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5 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - i like a guy at school hes in 8th grade imin 7th and we talk sorta and have conversations.so heres my problem i like him a lot but i dont know if im turning him off. before we were at the park and we were talking and he seemed really intrested i gave him my number he call we ... (121 words)

Friend's cheating boyfriend, could he give her an STD?

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5 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - A friend of mine and I were debating over STD's. Her boyfriend has been cheating on her with at least 5 other women repeatedly, as well as still having sex with her. Although they've all been tested (her, her bf, and his other girls) , a different friend of mine told me that ... (108 words)

I want to talk to him but he's always with his friends

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5 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this guy at school that I've liked for awhile now, everytime we cross paths (no classes together right now) we smiles and says "Hi (my name!)" What should I think about this? What should I do now? I'm a senior, and I really don't want to loose him, I don't know him ... (111 words)

If a guy likes girl, why does he ignore her?

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5 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - ok if you guys like a girl why do you ignore her and treat her like shit and not return her texts then act like nothing happens a month later... (30 words)

My boyfriend loves me but I can't love him cause past realationship

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5 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone:) so im a little new to the website. so my boyfriend and i are expecting. and on new years i broke up with him, why? i had a bad night and i realized i really dont love him cause of my past relationship. im scared of getting hurt again. so we were talking ... (275 words)

Should I continue seeing my married lover/

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5 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - i met a lady in a work place a year ago, and i was so mystified by her talk and mind, she is married and has two small sons. i dont know what happeded to me and called again after 15-20 days and we met in a resort had a great time. i look aftr her family needs including the ... (162 words)

Do I tell my current partner about my past?

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5 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - im currently in a 'happy relationship' but recently my ex keeps coming in to my trail of thoughts.... but my main question is that do i tell my current about my past,since he doesnt know nothing about it, or do i not? iv had 2 miscarriages one termination with my last... (103 words)

My mom read my sexual texts and then called me a slag!

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5 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so ive been meeting and sort of casually seeing a guy now for about 4 months, call us friends with benefits if you like, but we like each other.. we were texting last night, rather sexual messages, we werent having phone sex or anything, but the conversation got a little ... (328 words)

I don't know why I cant stop thinking about him.

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5 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Have you ever felt a sharp pain in your chest like you couldn't breath ..laying in bed tears form and then slowly hit the pillow . every night you wake up wanting to scream and burst out crying hoping it is all a bad dream but you look beside you and you see the time ..and then ... (468 words)

I really love my girlfriend and our daughter but I love her 18 yo cousin more

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5 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok, so here is my situation. My girlfriend and I have been together for 7 years we have a 5 year old daughter. The first couple years were great but the middle was horrible. We got together at 19 and I made some mistakes in the relationship that I regret on the account that I ... (155 words)

He wont tell me how old he is!

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5 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it weird for a man not to tell you how old he is when you ask? Especially if it's a man you've been out on a few dates with? He refuses to tell me and gets defensive. I didn't think it was a big deal at the time, so I dropped it. But now I'm wondering if I do need to ... (69 words)

He tells me he misses me and then blows me off!

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5 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Not sure what to ask my bf and father of our unborn child is out of state he has been gone for almost a month. it took him 2 weeks to even call me after he reached his destination he called me on christmas crying saying he misses his home town myself and the baby and he wants ... (286 words)

My parents wont let me see my boyfriend

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5 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for at least 2 years and my parents will not let me see him. We go to the same school around the same age, we are even both mixed. He's perfect for me. I know because even though we fight we always talk it out. And the fact that i got ... (129 words)

She has ignored me since I called her out for slapping me!

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5 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Should my friend Jill be ignoring me because I called her out for slapping me in the face? It was new years eve, a friends house, according to her It was my "stupid little comments about everything" that gave her the idea to slap me in front of a guy I want to like me. I ... (189 words)

Don't want this meeting to end in the "friend zone"

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5 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello my question is how do i stop getting stuck in the friend zone with every female i meet? I have been talking to this girl over text and im meeting her tomorrow, i would love to be more then friends but not sure how to make her aware of my intensions before im in the friend ... (58 words)

Falling in Love with business partner

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5 January 2011 (F)

age - I have been separate 4 years, haven't been with or kissed another man while separated. My husband and I are finally getting a divorce/ My situation is for the past 4 months I have been doing alot of talking on the phone with my business partner who is single and now I want t... (229 words)

Coming out is difficult?

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5 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm gay. I've known I was gay or as long as I can remember. However, I'm afraid to come out. I'm a Junior in High School, and I know i'm not ready. But I find that coming out will be especially hard for me as my brother is also gay, and he is out. Any advice for when I decide ... (117 words)

Is it dangerous for two people to make out with one another when one person is on top of the other, and both have clothes on?

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5 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - This is kind of an odd question.. but my boyfriend of about 2 years and I as we began to become alot closer to one another, we started making out laying down on his futon/bed type thing. It all started because a months after we had begun dating, I began visiting him at ... (316 words)

My b/f got another girl pregnant

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5 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I need help.... I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years. About 3 months ago he told me that he has another girl preggo. She's 28 and he's only 24. To make a long story short he says he loves me and wants to be with me. He know he messed up, he has asked for forgiveness etc. ... (100 words)

Major mind games. Plz help!

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5 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Married guy flirts with me at work. I am married too. He tells me he can't get me out of his head and that he has erotic dreams about me. He calls me, emails me and text me all the time. I would leave for him in a minute if kids weren't involved. We have never been physical ... (169 words)

If I don't have nice skin, can I only look for similar women?

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5 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Do most women with really nice complexions and good looks pretty much only go for men with equivalent (male) complexions*? *I missed out looks because I know that generally speaking, facial features aren't so important, but other things are. When it comes to a man's looks... (104 words)

No sleep,missing my gf

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5 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Well me and my girlfriend have been together for about 4 and a half months and all the way through our relationship it's been stable we've only had 1 argument the entire time of being together but because she lives quite a while away and we're still both in school we only ... (138 words)

Out of the dating scene for years. Scared & Confused

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5 January 2011 (F)

age - I have dated quite a bit over the past few years. Online dating and it's usually 1 or 2 dates and then it doesn't go any where. Or, I find something wrong with them, or they are not my type. I haven't been in a relationship in over 15 years...just dating. About 7 months... (248 words)

In a relationship of 3 years and now I like another girl. What can I do?

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5 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi. I am in a relationship for over 3 years now. I stay at my girlfriend's house, with her mom, aunt and grandma. I could just have stayed at my own house, but I have chosen to stay with her, because she felt uncomfortable at my house. For the past year it looked like our rela... (261 words)

I want to know what it's like when someone has a crush on you!

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5 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I just want to know what is so wrong with me and why guys don't like me. People say I am pretty and nice and sweet and I think I am too. Is it because I have glasses and braces? Even though I am still pretty. I know I am only in high school it is not fair why all the other ... (178 words)

They're both so different, which should I pick?

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5 January 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - i am a 14 year old boy and have a problem with two girls at school, who are both the same age as me. i like them both, but i don't know which one to go after. Or if either one of them like me. Girl 1 is really nice and we kind of play fight(argue) but never actually fight, ... (279 words)

Why is he making an issue out of nothing?

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5 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 7 years. Today he accused me of hugging my male co-workers on the job. All I said was hi to the guy and my boyfriend defined hi to mean hug. Then he lied and said he didn't know who the co-worker was when we all work at the same place. ... (67 words)

Should I forgive her?

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5 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so I'm in love with my girl best friend. Its very complicated so I will start from the beginning. Well I have known this girl from like 3rd grade. So were really good friends till highschool. Since then she had crush on me for like a year but I wasn't interested and i was ... (800 words)

I need advice on flirting!

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5 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Um, soo I'm 13 and a total romantic. I love love! But being 13 and single? Doesn't feel that great.. -So I'm terrible at flirting with guys, like I start freaking out and "go all out" like raising my voice and stuff and wayy too embarrassed to even make eye contact with the... (221 words)

I've left everything behind for him!

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5 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I've just emigrated to be with my boyfriend who has now established himself for 2 years abroad - we have been apart for a year as I needed to support my Mum back at home who has been really ill - it was obviously not a planned decision. The last time I was with my boyfriend I ... (464 words)

Is four hours too much?

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5 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Last week I and my girl friend make love for four hours is it too much or is it alright.... (20 words)

Where did I go wrong, was it my fault?

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5 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - This is a long story but to get the full effect and so i may get honest opinions u need to know the entire story thanks for your help everybody so here it goes I met this girl on a camping trip and it had been awhile since my last relationship but I thought i learned a ... (1656 words)

Can watching straight-porn keep me from going gay?

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5 January 2011 (M) age 30-35 - hi i am a straight 17 year old and i havent lost my virginity, i masturbate over straight sex and porn but i have doubts about my sexuality, if i continue to masturbate over this porn can it prevent me from becoming gay in the future?... (46 words)

Now she spits!

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5 January 2011 (M)

age - I'm 47 year old male and been married to same woman for 21 years. We have 3 kids together. She was a virgin when we got married. Before we got married, she would get give me head and swallow. After 5 to 10 years that progressed to giving me a BJ and then spitting. Now, it h... (169 words)

How can I make him see that I'm sick and tired of being treated this way, and I've had enough?

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5 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello thanks in advance Well to start this off, I've been with my bf for 2.5 years. He's a contolling person, which I didn't really notice until we moved in together. He has to have his way most of the time. He's taken me out maybe 5 times throughout our relationship. I h... (388 words)

We've never spoken and I'm not sure what move to make.

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5 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Right there is this guy at school that is the year above me and I have never spoken to him before but I always see him on the bus . I think he is really good looking and seems to have a good personality from what I've seen. My mate text this lad Josh that I like and said to him ... (181 words)

I want to express my sexuality!

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5 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello! I'm 22 and I'm a quite attractive girl. I have a boyfriend for about 3 years now and we love each other and our sex life is pretty good. Despite all that I sometimes feel the need to masturbate watching porn, thing which I don't find very alarming. The alarming thing is ... (145 words)

Could he possibly like me?

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5 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok, so my school Glee club has a performance a couple of weeks ago and I never really noticed one of the guys until that night. So as a half way point, we stopped and ate. Never thinking that I would sit beside him but we did and had small talk, which was really cool. Then on ... (140 words)

Problems with my penis (foreskin).

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5 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - im nearing the age of 18, and i think i have a problem with my penis. my penis is attached to the foreskin but only along the frenulum(not sure if thats the name, along the urethral opening) which i believe restricts the movement of my foreskin, as when i pull it back i notice ... (188 words)

Should I tell him that I have feelings for him?

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5 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so me and my best friend of 3 years messed around and i feel like my feelings for him have sky rocketed but he still acts the same like if nothing changed for him! He'll be like hey bestie and its just weird for me now, I don't regret messing around with him cause i love ... (74 words)

Boyfriend of 5 years going travelling, again!

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5 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, Basically I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years (we are 22 years old)and generally things have been great. A year and a half ago he went away for 3 months during the summer and before he went we first decided to go on a break, but I wanted to still be exclusiv... (414 words)

Help needed ASAP!

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5 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Please help Tomorrow in school I'm sitting next to a boy who I have a crush on and I've fallen out with him because he ignores and he deleted me on blackberry messenger !!!! What should i say ? Should i ask him why he ignored me ? Please please help me !!... (55 words)

I fancy my co-worker but not sure if he feels the same.

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5 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My last boyfriend dropped dead suddenly one day 9 years ago, i have never got over this. I know i need to move on but dont know how to, i think that men fancy me but only to find out that they dont want to know, even if they are single, i dont class my self as attractive and ... (322 words)

How do I reconcile things?

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5 January 2011 (M)

- I got into a fight with my girlfriend of 2 years a couple of days ago. Right after our anniversary. After our argument I got into my car and left. (one of the things we argued about). I came back and she didn't want to talk to me anymore and said that I should go home. I ... (106 words)