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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My sister and I just don't get along!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5069 days ago

31 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ugh. So much stuff has been going on. And I don't think I can handle it anymore. All that therapy I was going to; stopped. And stuff just didn't get better. Even with the Therapy. So Jan 20th, I graduated. Very happy about that. And My Birthday just came on the 29th. This w... (462 words)

What is a minor?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

31 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - dear readers, i would like to know what you people out there consider a minor? i.e a lot of the questions that are asked on here are not answered but people because they say you are a minor. but what age is really conssidered a minor? i know 15 is minor, but is 16? 17? 18? w... (193 words)

If we were to break up I have nowhere to go. Advice needed please!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5067 days ago

31 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - im with my girlfreind nearly 7 yrs, we're living together and have a 2 yr old daughter i proposed to her on her 21st birthday yr and half ago but since then we'v been fighting a lot and the sex went from occasionally to none. im only 21 and have set goals: exercising, giving ... (141 words)

I think she wants me to pop the question but I'm terrified!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

31 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been dating my girlfriend for a little over a year. We have become very close over the course of the past year. Recently, she has let me know that she is ready to move onto the next phase of our relationship, i.e. she wants me to pop THE question. The problem is that ... (169 words)

What can I say to him via text to turn him on???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

31 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So me and my boyfriend just started sending dirty text messages and I don't know what to say to turn him on and I don't want to sound stupid. So Can you please help? ... (34 words)

Does he or does he not... like me???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

31 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i need some guy help! it's not so much a question, more just me asking for a general opinion on whether or not he might like me or if he's just nice? so i really like a guy at work. he's a bit older than me, but i'm sure it wouldn't be too much of a problem. - he a... (526 words)

How do I step over that barrier with this chap at work, as it is so pathetic, I simply have forgotten how to get a boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5073 days ago

31 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a 36 yr old female. I ended a 10 year marriage that was abusive 3 years ago. My husband used to rage at me for everything, he withheld sex, he was addicted to drugs, he was addicted to porn and would push me away if I ever tried to initiate sex. We have one child together. ... (525 words)

Relationship status???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5071 days ago

31 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - How do you know when you have been seeing someone on and off for 17 years, what the actual relationship status is? It started off as just sex, but now it seems to be growing into something more...or at least to me. He talks to his friends about me, but not sure of what exactly ... (115 words)

Does a life threatening illness affect your decision to enter into a relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

31 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have met a really lovely guy. We have only had two dates so far but they have both been amazing. However before our dates I found out he has a few girls on the scene that he calls just for sex. He knew I knew about it so the conversation came up. He told me he doesnt care ... (406 words)

In love with my principal...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

31 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in high school and I'm in love with my principal. Over the past summer i started messaging him on fbook and after about 2 months of no replys i decided to tell him how i really felt. So the messages went from "hey hows it goin?" to "I Love You!!!" and after about 3 weeks ... (117 words)

How do I know just where this is going without asking a lot of "feelings"

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31 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a man when I was 17 and he is 11 years my senior. We had sex. Then two years later, we ran into each other and nothing happened, although you could tell we wanted it too. He then got into a relationship and I met someone and married them. The someone I met was his best ... (186 words)

I need help! What can I do to make him feel better when making the first move with sex.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5073 days ago

31 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm with my bf 16 months, at the start we were both very shy, it took a lot longer for him to come out of his shyness. we'll we started having sex after 3 months, i'm very happy with our sex-life its just i always make the first move, our sex just keeps getting better and ... (118 words)

Does the army change people???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

31 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been in this relationship for over 2 years and my boyfriend is now in the army, we both talked about it and thought it would be a good thing to do. now that he is in the military, i feel neglected and he is not the same person he was before he went in, so my question is ... (82 words)

The constant worrying is driving me insane!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

31 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - dear readers my boyfriend and i started having sex about 6 months ago and he uses a condom every time, but the thing is im always very concerned that it will break! he doesnt seem to feel the worry i do and probably thinks im being rediculous. it really freaks me out th... (141 words)

Fiance cheated, take him back or not?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5059 days ago

31 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently broke off my engagement with my fiancé who I have been with for three years. I found out about a month ago by going through his computer (looking for a paper I had written, not to spy) that he was looking at other girls online; not porn but girls I knew. He was ... (348 words)

Help!!! Is my boyfriend addicted to porn?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

31 January 2011 (?) age 41-50 - My boyfriend of one year is addicted to porn. Well I think he is. I used to think it was ok but now I'm not so sure. WE used to watch porn together and have fun with it but lately it seems that he prefers to please himself to porn rather than being intimate with me. Now that ... (218 words)

WHY does he want anal???

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

31 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - dear readers, recently by BF has taken to asking me to have anal sex, but i really dont know what to do here? i dont really want to, but at the same time i am a bit curious. i want to know does it really hurt? does it feel better for him? is that why he want it. im not ... (109 words)

I can't help but think that he's not in it for the long run.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5073 days ago

31 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, I met someone, things started off shaky just cause when things get serious i start pushing people away just to see if they'l stick around and he didn't he just became distant. I felt bad because for a while he was doing and saying all the right things, so i met up with hi... (251 words)

My best friend stole the girl I love!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5071 days ago

31 January 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - So I really like this girl and my friend seems to like her too. I've thought this for awhile and I don't knownwhat to do. My friend claims to have a gf but I've never seen her so Idk if he's lying. The girl I like is really pretty smart and funny. When I was in 8th Period my ... (173 words)

Is there recovery from cybersex/emotional infidelity?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

31 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently found out about one of my boyfriend's cyber sex partners while we were vacationing together. I was using his computer to email my family when a woman named Rachael popped up on his skype to talk to him. I told she was asking for him and he went silent. Curiosity... (599 words)

He wants nothing to do with me or the child but I want him back...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5073 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) age 36-40 - after years of dating, my boyfriend broke up with me when i told him i was pregnant. i due next month. he said at the time he was to young(25) and wanted to enjoy life but he didn't want a serious realtionship. in october 2010 i talk to him over an our asking him to give us ... (214 words)

Help! I can't seem to get past his mistakes...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5073 days ago

31 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend have been together for a while and he tells me all the time that he doesnt want anyone but me but i find it hard to believe. never was there actually cheating but more so expressing to others the things he wanted to do with them or to them i find out we ... (110 words)

One night stand???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5073 days ago

31 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - If you already knew the person from high school, got along great, then saw him at a party 10 years later, is that still considered a one night stand? Can a relationship come from it?... (35 words)

I'm getting tired of him always being busy.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5072 days ago

31 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm getting tired of him always being busy. So I am 17 and me and my bf have been going out for a year tomorrow actually.... The thing is his number 1 passion is snowmobiles. So of course every chance he gets he is off snowmobiling. From fixing his to selling parts to ... (276 words)

I think I deserve better than what I'm getting!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5069 days ago

31 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - So my husband and I will be married for a year in March but we have been together for four years! We have a huge age difference! He is 40 while I am 23 mind you that he does not look a day over 30! My friends thought I was absolutely crazy but I was head over heels in love! So ... (294 words)

Closing the deal! How can I gain more confidence?

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31 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi guys Its more of a general question. I have seen that I am good at talking to women and teasing them and doing all the push and pull thing. However in some cases its later on that after I have made the initial rapport that I find it hard to close the deal and make the woma... (82 words)

Am I over thinking?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

31 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been seeing what some may call my "boyfriend" but not official for about 5 months. This gets complicated so hopefully I can make this clear enough to understand. I started working at a strip club, yes, dancing right after my 20th birthday. After only a few days of wo... (456 words)

Aargh Boyfriend... or best friend???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

31 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - During the summer, my best friend made up a serious lie about my boyfriends best friend, so i stopped talking to her. a few months on and i'd started talking to her again. my boyfriend, of 1 year, felt like i was betraying him so gave me the choice of him or her. i said i ... (185 words)

Tense kissing problem!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

31 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - There’s this guy I really like but when it comes to kissing him I just tense up. What should I do? I’m at a loss; I want to be intimate with him but cant. I’ve liked him for two years now; even though for part of that he was in a relationship I couldn’t stop thinking about him. ... (190 words)

What else can I do to make me look more like the 14 year old I'm supposed to be?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5067 days ago

31 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 14 but I look more like I'm 17 or 18. Most of my friends families don't approve of me because I look so much older even though they are usualy always older then me. In tired of me looking older affecting my life with my friends, so how do I change it? I'm skinny and ... (83 words)

Can you explain this lingo?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

31 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Simple question (I think). Basically I'm used to the lingo, e.g. third-base, and I know what it all means except for one thing which really confuses me - 'pull' I've been in loads of parties and events and seen people 'pulling.' One of my friends 'pulls' guys quite often. Som... (130 words)

Should I stay with my boyfriend... or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

31 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Am I wanting to stay with my him(bf)? Every time that I he gets close to me. It just doesn't feel right. I don't even let him kiss, hug etc. No more. Sometimes I will let him kiss me b4 he go to work. Cause usaly that what would a couple would do before leaving each other. But ... (106 words)

My husband has delusional thoughts of me

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

31 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband has delusional thoughts of me. He asks certain questions and twists them into something totally different. He has always done this. He has always thought i am cheating on him, that i have or will. I cant stand defending myself against things that I have never even ... (644 words)

How do you pursue? Confused...

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31 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been seeing this woman for about 2 months. We've went out, but I've been seeing her about once a week since then. At first we both were planning things, but I was taking it slow, and really didn't mention that I was interested in her. I'm not sure what she was thinking. ... (492 words)

I'm afraid of making my boyfriend bored when we have sex.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5073 days ago

31 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I recently become sexually active with my boyfriend. I'm in my early-twenties and it is my first time having sex with anyone. I feel kind of insecure about my body and too shy to let my boyfriend see it. Whenever we have sex (it has only been 3 times), we have to do it un... (135 words)

Is it true that overly friendly girls are the ones to watch out for?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5073 days ago

31 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - OK i know this is a generalization buy through my dating experience i have come to stay away from girls who are very warm and friendly when you first meet them, and instead get to know the ones who are more reserved when you first meet them. The reason is i find that girls ... (162 words)

I want to do something sweet for him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

31 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is in the Military. He is stationed in the US right now so I want to send him something sweet for Valentine's Day. I don't do sexy from a distance so nothing like that, just something sweet to let him know I am thinking of him. ... (48 words)

Is he just like every other man who gets what he wants and leaves?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5071 days ago

31 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi All. Theres this guy I talk to regularly on facebook and sometimes I see him out. Hes really flirty over facebook with girls, including me.. but hes all talk and never acts on it. I'd go out for random drives with him and i learnt hes pretty shy actually but then as soon as ... (254 words)

Why do I want group sex so bad?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

31 January 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife and i have been happily married for 16 years and have 2 good kids, we tried the group thing with some friends but my wife does not want to do it again. I, on the other hand i loved it and want to try it again. I can tell the different between sex and love. I tried n... (123 words)

He says my past disgusts him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5071 days ago

31 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 24 years old and I have had multiple partners some of whom know my current boyfriend. He said that my past disgusts him and he can't be with me because he can't get over the thought of people knowing what i am like in bed. Is it wrong for me to ask him to get over it? The ... (136 words)

Trust and loyalty towards family

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5073 days ago

31 January 2011 (F)

age - My daughter was married for 2 years. Overnight she turned into a quiet, withdrawn person. Talking to her, supporting her didnt draw her out of her shell. During the 2 years we (family/close friends) noticed that things between her and her husband were not kosher and that she ... (724 words)

Still struggling after the breakup...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5069 days ago

31 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi , I am going through a really tough time at the minute my boyfriend broke up with me the day before new years after nearly 4 years together and i am still absolutley devastated. things were bad for a few weeks beforehand, he felt we were drifting apart due to his hour... (226 words)

What is wrong with using someone if they use you too?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5073 days ago

31 January 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, my question is this, I was talking with a friend who reguarly has casual sex with people. I was saying how it is bad if there is no love or commitment, but he goes, why? If i am using her for my gratification and she is using me for hers, what is the problem? I am not ... (117 words)

I don't know what to do... Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5073 days ago

31 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend and i have been dating for over a year now, and we moved in together 3 months ago, and i feel like the relationship is not what it used to be he does not cuddle with me as much as he used to does not pay attention to me as much as he used to he would rather watch ... (242 words)

My cousin wants to use me for kissing practice!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

31 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - my cousin wanted to practice kissing with me to see if she was doing it right aparently but the parts of my body she touched during it and what she said after told me it wasnt just a bit of practice she said after i enjoyed that can we practice again. i want to kiss you more ... (114 words)

Any ideas on how I could start speaking to him again?

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31 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I went out with this guy for a short while in the summer but then we broke up and said that we'll still be friends and stuff but now we're not even on speaking terms which pains me greatly seeing as we got really close i would just like some advice on how to begin speaking to ... (78 words)

When is too soon to move in together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5071 days ago

31 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - When is too soon to move in together? I have been with my boyfriend for over a year now. We are both happy together and I feel he is 'the one' and says he feels the same. He's 34 and I'm 30, he still lives with his parents and I have my own place. He will come over one night ... (233 words)

Drinking is spoiling our nights out!

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31 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for just over a year now and we have a good relationship and get on great, apart from when we go on a night out and drink. We aren't violent or abusive to each other but we both wind each other up or start talking about certain issues with have ... (225 words)

He's completely avoiding me now and I don't know what to do...

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31 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Help Me!! I'm 23 year old and i fell in love with my classmate. He is 22 years old, and also in love with me. He was the one who first kissed me and gradually our relations got strong... v both have physical relation. Our cast is diff and even age differs so our parents will ... (174 words)

What should I get my Ex Fiancee for valentine's day?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5072 days ago

31 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Well i have a question to ask the community i just recently broke up with my ex fiancee i want to give some sort of background we together for 6 years we had our ups and down i was very immature and lied because she had trust issues with me i admit it was my fault i was very ... (307 words)

He makes me feel like I'm his mother or his household help!

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31 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm having a hard time with my husbandhe's 25. He's failed at so many things in his life. I've been with him for 2years but known him for 4years. Ever since after his A levels. He flunked and i was there for him. I tried applying for him at colleges have got him jobs with my ... (428 words)

I want him there as MORE than just a "virtual sex partner."

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31 January 2011 (?) age 30-35 - dear cupid, soo, there's this guy that i've been friends with for a little over four months now. back when we first met, i had a pretty big crush on him. when i told him that, he basically told me that liking him would be a waste of my time, as he is not really in a plac... (422 words)

Can a former party boy settle down?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3163 days ago

31 January 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi. I am a 44 year old man who fell in love with a 49 year old man. He has been in several long term relationships, but since the last one broke up 4 years ago, he has really fooled around a lot. I mean a lot. He's on all the hookup web sites (I've seen his profile), an... (264 words)

I'm giving my girlfriend her fantasy to be with a former lover/friend. Will I regret it?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

31 January 2011 (M)

age - I would appreciate any help and comments on my situation. I met a wonderful woman last year and we had an immediate connection. Stronger than any I've known before and she said the same thing. On our third date we were talking openly about fantasies and she told me of her... (438 words)

He's back in my life but doesn't want to make a commitment.

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31 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Me and this guy is ten years apart I am 37 and he is 27. At first we were in a relationship living together. But I messed up and one of his friends saw me at a rehearsal with my ex boyfriend. Afterwards we broke up and he started seeing other people. I realized that I couldn't ... (105 words)

Is it to where I don't want to be with him anymore?

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31 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been living with my bf for 3in a half yrs. And I have for a long time that I have got that strong feeling of not wanting to be with him nomore. I have been wanting to break up but I get the feeling of not breaking up with him. Why I'm I feeling that way? I mean I know ... (237 words)

Nearly 20 and never had a boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

31 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I will be turning 20 years old soon. And I have never had a boyfriend. I am kind of shy in showing my feelings towards guys, and I don't really have any guy friends. Actually, I have none at all. The first and only time I have ever made out with a guy is when I was drunk, a... (278 words)

Both virgins, on birth control pills.... do I REALLY need a condom?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

31 January 2011 (?) age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend are both virgins but we are planning on having sex in a couple of weeks. She's started taking birth control pills so there is no chance of her getting pregnant. We havent had sex so STI's are also out of the equation so do i really need to wear a condom?... (55 words)

I have an annoying friend that I want out of my life!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

31 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My friend..lets call her A..is the most annoying person i have ever dealt with. She is judgemental, ego-centric, rude, inconsiderate, annoying, won't shut up, and...how do i say this...she does stuff "just because its popular". For ex. She tried out for the play, which she has ... (269 words)

I just want to tell her how feel the next time were alone together!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5071 days ago

31 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so there's this girl I've liked for a while now and a sortof got the feeling she liked me but I was to nervous to do any thing when I used to see her I was nice and happy but eventually my feelings became so strong that being around her was very hard this led to a couple of ... (158 words)

How can I break the hold her mum has on her?

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31 January 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - i really need help my girlfriend's mother wont let her go she treatens her and tells her she will disown her her father died when she was a baby and as far as i see her mum has been brain washing her from that time she tells her stuff like i have always been there and now you ... (239 words)

What are "the jealous rules"?

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31 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i always wondered what are the jealous rules when it comes to being in a relationship and having the opposite sex as friends?.. i mean is it ok to be with my bf and sometimes hang out with my guyfriends, is it okay to text them but only as friends nothing other than that. i ... (181 words)

I wanna experiment with my best friend, how do I tell him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5073 days ago

31 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok, Im straight always have and never thought of the same sex in any matter but im and open minded person about gay lesbians different cultures and all and i have alote of friends and family that are gay or bi bt i wouldnt never thought it would be me on the other foot. Well... (482 words)

Does it sound like they're going out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

31 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - i think one of my friends is going out with my best friends ex in secret. she walks home with him and on more than one instances ive seen them hugging and holding hands also this weekend i went to the cinema and he was kissing a girl and she had the same coat as my friend but i ... (116 words)

Recently reconnected after 20 yrs. Should I give up on this relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

31 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I am in need of some advice. I recently got back in touch with my first love through facebook and we spent hours talking and texting. I am in the very beginning stages of a divorce and and he is completely single. This is a long distance relationship. He recently took a 1... (263 words)

I hate condoms and she won't go on the pill!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 2540 days ago

31 January 2011 (?) age 36-40 - I am in a bit of a predicament with my new girlfriend. We're both 22 and have been going out for 2 months. Last week we talked about having sex with each other for the first time, it's not that one of us doesn't feel ready it's just an issue with contraception. I HATE using ... (178 words)

How can you tell if someone is gay?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

31 January 2011 (?) age 26-29 - Hey how can you tell if someone is gay/lesbian , coz i cum from a town where everyone is not open bout things and im just wondering me being lesbian how am i meant to know if sumone i like is gay . i couldnt go up and ask them coz you just cant go around asking every girl if ... (73 words)

Should I tell her I don't want to be her friend anymore?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5073 days ago

31 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I know this Question seems dumb, but it makes me really curious, and and sometimes makes me feel be traded . This is this new kid in my pod, and he came from Toronto. and and Every girl in my pod is in love with him. I think he is attractive but I am not like the res... (319 words)

I know its wrong for me to snoop on him, but its wrong for him to be talking to other girls this way! Should I confront him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

31 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for a little over a year now. It has always been an issue for me to trust people. I have been trying very hard to trust him, but he talks to a lot of girls because he is in the entertainment business. Once he left his phone in the bathroom and ... (332 words)

How do I ask her out on a date for Valentines Day?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

31 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - People it's been like 3 years and a half I like this girl, she knew that I liked her. Thing is I would like to have some tips, I mean after some awkward interactions with her I could use some tips on how to ask her on Valentine's day. Thank you xoxo.... (53 words)

How do I get my girlfriend back?

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31 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - hi im 34 and met this girl last summer...well she grew up in my hometown so i guess i always knew of her just didnt talk before and last summer she got one of my friends to ask me out so i gave it a try and we dated for 5 and a half months.everything was great to me i love her ... (288 words)

Should I be worried about my girlfriend after we had anal sex?

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31 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend had anal sex for the first time and the next day she was complaining that her butt-hole hurt and it bled when she tried going to the restroom. is this serious should I be worried?? Please help!!!! (Note this was our first time)... (47 words)

How do you cope with a break-up?

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31 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - hi all, i need advice on break up. i want to stay healthy and strong. my girlfriend has recently dumped me and i feel devastated. how to cope? thanks.... (29 words)

Heartbroken and don't know what to do......

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31 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi i was with this girl for 5 and a half monthes and i fell in love with her and wanted to spend the rest of my life with her and a week after new years eve she broke up with me.the last few weeks we were together i could tell that something was up with her but i never expected ... (131 words)

I cant accept his religion, but I cant be without him either!

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31 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - hey..im really confused and stressed out lately. i m in this relationship for 5 yrs. well i love him so much.. and he does too. but there is a religion difference between us..i mean its okay with me of being different, but he want me to convert to what he belives in, and i ... (284 words)

Why does my ex boyfriend keep texting me?

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31 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - hey guys, was wondering if you could help me make sense of ex-boyfriend's behaviour. We broke up 3 weeks ago after 2 years together due to us both being unhappy and arguing lots. For me the main source of our problems were his alcohol dependance and extreme mood swings. He ... (321 words)

He already has a child and doesn't seem to want another, but he is the love of my life...What should I do?

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31 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - i am 30 years old and have never been married and never had a child, my boyfriend whom i love more than anything, has been married and has a child with his ex wife. i know in my heart that i want to get married and have a child someday. on the very few occasions that i brought ... (80 words)

Despite all the bad things he has done, he is the only one I want. How do I get him back?

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31 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone it would be really appreciated for help on this because I'm completely confused. My boyfriend of 2 years and I have been off and on since October but on Christmas eve he broke up with me via text not giving me a reason then ignored me for 2 weeks well about a week ... (408 words)

I was unsure about trusting him, so he got fed up of waiting and left me! What should I do?

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31 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I REAALLY NEED HELP! I was dating this guy after i broke up with my boy friend...actually; he was the reason why I did break up...It was at a stage when my rel'ship with my ex was almost dead and i met him. At that point of time i was totally smitten by him..he was f... (426 words)

How do I persuade my boyfriend to perform oral sex on me?

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31 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - How do i convince or persuade my boyfriend to perform oral sex on me,i have talked about it a couple of times but he said that he is not comfortable with it.What else do i do cause i really enjoy oral,moreover he doesnt last long during sex and i want oral for complete ... (54 words)

Am I crazy for staying?

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31 January 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife and I share 2 gorgeous children and we are coming up to 12 faithful years together. Over the past fortnight she has revealed to me that she has fallen for a female work colleague. My wife has had a very sordid past with many men and women. I accepted this from the time ... (151 words)

I asked him out, he said no, and now it is rather awkward.....

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31 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - So I asked this guy out that I have liked for sometime. He declined but was very nice about it, and said that he would like to hang out more etc etc and not to take it personally. I told him I didn't do that sort of thing often so I was sorry if I may be a little awkward next ... (140 words)

How do I get him to see that I am his ideal girlfriend?

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31 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I am crazy about a boy that is three years younger than I. We have been flirting like crazy and about a month ago we kissed. Since then things have been a little different, we haven't mentioned the kiss since. And before he would talk to me really comfortably and we got ... (204 words)

Why doesn't my girlfriend make more time for me?

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31 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I really am not just another love stricken teenager but my problem will make it seem that way. Ok so my girlfriend of almost two years and I have been constantly arguing over the last 3 months. I really do love this girl and I try my hardest to do whatever it takes to make her ... (185 words)

How can I get my daughters boyfriend to pay his way?

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31 January 2011 (F) age 51-59 - Hi, I would really appreciate some advice regarding my daughter's boyfriend. His mum threw him out and he was living with me full time for a while but i couldn't sustain it because I was made redundant and didn't have much money plus I was unwell and he was on benefits and I ... (494 words)

She found someone richer than me, what should I do?

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31 January 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - I am a guy of 23 yrs. I was never loved by anyone- not even my parents. I never had any friend. My parents used to torchure me physically as well as mentally. One day I was thrown out of my house because I had failed in exam. I was very depressed and started living alone with a ... (202 words)

The spark has gone, should I leave him?

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31 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - HI. I hope someone can help somehow. I have been in a relationship for over 3 years and I split up with him 3 times. We r back together, we have similar interests, but there is something missing. The fire, the spark. The other problem is that I dont feel myself most of the ... (319 words)

Will he settle for second best?

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31 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I really hope some of you kind people can help me out. Five years ago, I started a relationship with a man who wasn't completely over his ex girlfriend of 8 years. In the beginning, he played me around - going dating behind my back, not turning up to my family events, e... (682 words)

Why is his love making quiet? is that normal?

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31 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it normal for a guy not to moan or make any sound at all when making love? It makes me think he is not enjoying it..or is it that guys moan when they cum only?i sound silly but i want to know!! thank you !!!!!!... (46 words)

Why does he make excuses to avoid sex with me?

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31 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - my husband of 8 years doesnt last longer than 5 minites when we have sex,i tried talking to him but nothing works.It's like before he starts 4play hes already thinking about him cuming.his 4play will only take 2-3 minutes. I told him this is not working for me but he doesnt ... (183 words)

Is there something going on between her and her ex

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31 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - hey righty I was browsing on my girlfriends phone when she got a text from her cousin so she asked me to say what it said then in the message menu I notice her ex bfs name so i clicked it ( i will explain more of this further down) it was a single reply message from him must ... (262 words)

How can I eraze her from my head?

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31 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I had a relationship of almost 2 years. My girlfriend has lied to me regularly, shouted at me, has been physically agressive by kicking me multiple time, cheated on me, stole from my house, stole from my computer, watched my emails and skype when I was not home But since I ... (182 words)

My ex is ruining my new life!

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31 January 2011 (?) age 41-50 - Hello everybody. Here goes. I split up with my ex about 6 months ago. It turned out she was having an affair. I basically lost everything. She now lives with him in our flat, etc. The thing is I'm not bothered about this and I'll tell you why. I've known this o... (581 words)

Do these two girls talk about me?

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31 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Girl A texts me....she's just a friend doing small talk. It ends up a talk about work and I tell her I'm leaving and won't return once I've finished uni. She tells me that's a shame and I'll be missed , then adds ''you've only begun to get to know girl B too lol'. Girl B is her ... (183 words)

My husband likes his bum licked, is this normal?

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31 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi guys this is rather a funny question but it has been puzzling me for a while now. My husband likes me to lick his bottom whilst he masturbates lol!. I know it sounds funny and i have no problems doing this but is it normal? He has a bit of an obsession with my bum too. Do ... (77 words)

I feel like this girl is replacing me more and more each day....

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31 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been going out with this boy for 6 months, I met through my friend and its been on and off as he moved over to Australia in November, but yet we are continuing to try stay together for him coming back this November. We argue quite a lot now as recently he’s started ... (670 words)

The grass wasn't greener on the other side.....

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31 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I want to work things out with my flame but I don't know how to cope with possible rejection. How should I go about. Keep in mind I crapped on her. Bailed out on her for another woman which flopped because my heart wasn't into her. It's been 2 years. Tks lots... (52 words)

My friend took my boyfriend away from me, what do I do?

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31 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I like my friend D. I told him that a month ago after I got roped into doing that. And I was happy because he reacted positively. Now, I am angry and sad. My friend J, who knew I liked him, took him from me by asking him to have sex and be in a relationship. Of course I feel b... (70 words)

What is the secret to being happy?

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31 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone, I have a question I'd appreciate your honest answer to. How many of you are truly happy in your lives? If so, what are your lives like and what's most important to you? What do you think the secret is to being HAPPY? How many of you feel like your life ... (308 words)

He's 22 but asked if I had a boyfriend, what is he looking for from me?

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31 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so this guy just added me on facebook but hes like 22, and im 16 so its kind of an age gap, and we've talked and stuff , he seems nice but then he asked me if i had a bf.. i mean does it mean hes looking for anything? im not sure whether i should delete him or just keep him ... (69 words)

Which one is better? To love or be loved?

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31 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf is an egoist person. He always asks me to stay online 24 hours for him. And always said that i must reply his chats. If i late reply 1 or 2 mins, he will get angry. He never allows me to attend someone's call when i chat with him. While he always attends many calls wh... (215 words)

My fiance has online profile looking for discreet casual sex!

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31 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with my Fiancee for 3 years. We are both in our 40's. A few months ago he was in a car accident and was house bound for three months. During that time, he got very upset with me for not giving him more time and attention while he needed it most. I work full time ... (455 words)

My boyfriend is still married, living with his wife and having a baby with her!

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31 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend of 5 months is married but seperated and has a baby due anyday now. He lives in another city with his mom and dad and wife. He come to see me when ever he can. So many times I've tried to end it because of the situation but we just can't leave each other alone I've ... (126 words)

Will he ever be ready to commit or am I putting too much pressure on him?

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31 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship with a guy for 2 and a half years, and I have recently been sent interstate for work. There is no definite time for us to live in the same city again, unless we go de-facto or marry (we are both in the military) We have had a few problems, ... (164 words)

Do I still stand a chance? Could I possibly win him over somehow?

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31 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there . I need help I'm so confused with this . I want to know if I still have a chance with this guy . We have so much history . 3 years ago I was introduced to this guy by my (girl)friend. I thought he was cute and told her . She tried hooking us up . I later found out ... (445 words)

He wants to give us another try but I don't feel anything for him anymore! Should I work at getting the feelings back?

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31 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok this is a long shot so here it is. My exbf broke it off with me and I took it hard. I cool now and guess what? He's pressuring me to give it another try. Ok so here's the deal. I'm tolerating him and I'm bored. I've lost every feeling of love feelings for him from the ... (182 words)

Dreaming of my girlfriend's sister!

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31 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - i've started having dreams about my girlfriends sister, and wanting her, what do i do, i cant get away from the sister because she lives with my girlfriend, help. ... (29 words)

He's my friend but I really like him and he thinks I'm not a virgin...

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31 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So i'm at University and I have this great bunch of friends. Within this group is a guy who I really like, I can't go a day without thinking about him. I have a feeling that he likes me as well, he treats me nicer than the other girls in our group and I do catch him looking at ... (208 words)

I lied about taking a pregnancy test, how do I get his trust back?

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31 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently lied to my fiancé about taking a pregnancy test, which I did but I didn't pee on it ..because days before he ask me to take one..he was telling me we are not ready for kids..so I decided to not take it cause I was scared to be and make him feel pressured...I lied ... (84 words)

The wandering eye......

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31 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My guy and I had a little spat in regards to the wandering eye and loyalty to me and the relationship. He says that my constant banter of telling him how upsetting it is to me to see him looking at other women and physically acting like he's not with me when he's actually ... (274 words)

Is he interested in getting to know me? or not?

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31 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My aunt introduced me to this guy that she works with, she thinks we'd be a perfect match. When i say introduced..i guess i dont really mean introduced. she told him to add me on facebook. we chatted for a while the first few days and exchanged phone numbers..he told me that he ... (177 words)

I want to get to know this guy better, but I cant leave my boyfriend because of his threats each time I try! Help!

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31 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help, I don't know what to do. This is a long story and very confusing too. I'm in a relationship for 6 years, on and off. When i said on and off, I meant, i was looking a better different bf. However, my current bf and I fight all the time. Always bc of very little ... (323 words)

Who cheats more - men or women?

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31 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I just wanted to see other opinions.....Who cheats more.....men or women?... (11 words)

How do you make a girl feel great in bed?

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31 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - dear readers, i love my girldfriend very much and i am very intersested in pleasing her in bed. but i am unsure in the way to best make her feel good? i know how to do some things but would like to know if you guys out there have any good ideas on how to make a girl feel... (78 words)

Should I chase her and get her back?..... I need an outside perspective!

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31 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I need some outside help in would greatly appreciated it. There is this girl that i dated 3 years back, but I have always kept in contact with her over the years. And now she is gone. i don't know if i should go chase something im not defiantly sure about. Mine and He... (371 words)

Should I confront this crazy coworker and tell her to stop stalking my husband?

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31 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I discovered that one of my husbands much younger employees was sending him "I love you type" text messages. When I confronted him, he told me I misunderstood the context. He says the girl admitted to him that she was contemplating suicide and he was just being a supportive ... (149 words)

I cant stand my dad's girlfriend! How do I handle this situation?

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31 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - i would like to say thank you in advance and im sorry that this is so long. my parents split up when i was in fourth grade and my dad got together with this woman and i can not stand her. like at first she put on an act and everything so me being a little kid beleived she was ... (707 words)

How do you lose fat from your inner thigh?

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31 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am needing to lose fat off my inner thigh. Dose anyone have a suggestion over it. Cause it could really help me out. I mean I have try everything. ... (30 words)

First sexual encounter : Is there anything you wish you knew / did your first time?

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31 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 19 and I am still a virgin - I'm not too particularly worried because I will probably lose it this summer as this boy and I are getting more serious. The thing is, he is almost 22 and not a virgin. We havent gone very far and now we are in LDR. I feel incredibly lacking ... (132 words)

Should I sms him again or wait for him to contact me?

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31 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - ok, so was dating this guy non-exclusively for 2 months before i went away for a couple of weeks.. he is the first guy ive been out with for that long, but i'm unsure whether i enjoy his company as a friend, or whether i could fall for him... Im also unsure whether I want a r... (157 words)

I get mad each time he goes to visit his son at his ex's house!

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31 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm living with my boyfriend for more than two years now, we have a 6 mos old son and he has another 3 year old son from his ex also. everytime he visits him i always get mad. i know i should not to but i just cant stop thinking that his going to see his ex again thats why i ... (134 words)

I rejected him twice, now we're friends with benefits...and while I want a commitment, there's nothing from him!

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31 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone:) Thanks in advance for reading this. I am dating this guy sort of, it has been 6 months about. He really pursued me hard, and I had let him know that I was not looking for a bf. I had been through a lot and didn't feel I was in the right place to have a ... (864 words)

I feel really betrayed that he'd get over me while we were in a relationship, talk to this girl who was his "friend" behind my back and then breakup with me after I tried really hard to change.

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31 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - OK before i start i want to thank everyone for taking the time to answer my question. Ok my boyfriend for 10 months recently dumped me about a month ago. He said i was too controlling and i didnt trust him. Before this huge breakup i dumped him 5 other times for various ... (565 words)

Penis size insecurity...Why is size such a big deal??

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31 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - ok well id like to know why guys worry so much about the size of their penis? why is it such a big concern for them? why is it a competition? i dont hear girls comparing the size of their vagina. what is it about it that makes them feel such varity of feelings over its size? ... (109 words)

I've got a whole lot of perversions and moral failings that I'd like to disclose to the girl I'd probably get involved with. How do I do it?

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31 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello World, I've got a question that I think I already know the answer to, but would like some reassurance with all the same (or other answers if any). It's about a woman I've been getting close to (in a strictly non-GF/BF way), and would like get further involved with (i... (538 words)

What are the signs of a student-teacher affair?

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31 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I want to know what is the sign of an teacher-student affair. If a student get poor result, and she wrote a sorry letter at the back of her exercise worksheet to that teacher saying that she should work harder later, then that teacher didn't gave her exercise back. Do you thin... (206 words)

I've pushed him away by my jealousy and by trying to control him way too much...How can I make him interested in me again?

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31 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i need help, my co worker and i have had a thing for each other for the past year. I have realized that i really do love him and i dont know what he thinks i felt that he felt the same as well but for the last 3 months he has been distant. He has been distant cuz i pushed ... (191 words)

How do I cope with panic attacks when giving presentations?

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31 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - well this isn't a relationship question but i do need advice, and not many people really take it seriously basically im 15 and in highschool, and my problem is that i sruggle with giving oral presentations, really struggle, a couple of weeks before im planned to give one i al... (209 words)

Boyfriend has a terrible reputation, is in and out of jail and I cheated with a married man....where does that leave us??

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31 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Ok here goes.... my boyfriend of almost 3 years, spent 1 year of it in jail.I messed up I cheated on him with a married man..I broke it off before he came home, told him what i did and how sorry i was. He has forgave me he says ,I dont think so. It was not my fault he went to ... (243 words)

Stuck with my current GF because its the easiest option, but my physical attraction for her is weaning and I'v cheated on her....

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31 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi there, Im going to sound like the bad guy in this but hear me out, I would appreciate all opinions, good or bad. Thanks! So, Ive been with my girlfriend for 6 months now, and she is very much into me, almost infatuated and although I do like her and we get along fine, ... (219 words)

I heard fried chicken gives a guy an erection?

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31 January 2011 (F) age 26-29 - Okay, my BF and I get really close when we hug, but he never gets a bonner, ever! I've always heard that even fried chicken gives a guy a bonner, why not me?... (33 words)

Is alcohol really a deal breaker in a relationship or am I making too big a deal out of it?

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31 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Iv been with my boyfriend for 2 years now...we were friends for much longer. While everything is fine with us, and there is no "relationship" problem, the only thing that bothers me about him is alcohol. Its not that he's an alcoholic or anything, he's a social drinker a... (316 words)

She first told me nothing could happen, then led me on, left off abruptly and started dating someone else after telling me she wasn't allowed to...should I be angry or what??!!

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31 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I met this girl, who i really liked and we had a really good friendship. She already had a boyfriend, so I couldn't ask her out or anything. They eventually broke up, and we started hanging out more. Eventually I told her how I felt, and she had felt the same way the whole ti... (454 words)

I find it hard to focus on my husband because of all mess and find myself thinking of this other man all the time....

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31 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I am a women in my late thirties with two young children, I have been married for twelve years, during this time my husband has ended our relationship twice, once as a trial separation, then for good. This was a very difficult time for me, but eventually I got stronger and ... (152 words)

What do I do when I see him again at school? How do I come across as perfectly fine in front of him?

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31 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I started talking to this guy about two months ago, that i saw in school and i thought was really cute. He added me on facebook one day, and then i IMed him on there, and we started talking and he asked for my number. We ended up texting everyday after this, and talked for ... (334 words)

How scientifically legitimate is Jelqing?

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31 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - How scientifically legitimate is Jelqing? I know theres a little bit about it on Wikipedia. but it seems to give a very ambiguous picture that doesn't allow for a decision to be made. (it says no studies have proven it, yet I can't find a study even about the subject) Th... (182 words)

Is cybersex with others considered cheating?

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31 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I met a guy many years ago online and we started to have cybersex. It became very intense and eventually we fell in love. We spent many hours talking on phone, IM, email etc. We plan on getting married but due to some unforseen circumstance have not yet done that. Recently i ... (70 words)

Why hasn't he tried to fix this when everything was flowing so great?

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31 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I met a man on New Years Day and we had been spending a whole lot of time with each other ever since. We sat and talked the first date for hours not even realizing 4 hrs had passed. Evey couple days we would get together and it seemed that we had clicked on every level ... (385 words)

While my boyfriend performs oral on me, he masturbates?

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31 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - OK so the other day my boyfriend was going down on me and I noticed that he was masturbating while he was doing it!! This made me feel like crap because it's like, is going down on me SO boring and unsexy that you need to touch yourself to make it more exciting? I f... (81 words)

Do I give my ex an honest opinion?

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31 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I need advice, my ex and I remained friends after our break up. I was really in love with her, my life sucked when she broke up with me. I had family issues, school problems etc. I got through it (mostly), and well I don't like to talk about it directly. Well my ex has been g... (178 words)

Advice on dealing with my teenage daughter?

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31 January 2011 (M)

age - my 16yo daughter took up with some pentacostal revivalists who kept on pressuring her to increase the commitment. after a few months she broke away and became friendly with a lesbian girl and developed a relationship. the girl and her friends showed my daughter how to be ... (131 words)

My boyfriend got mad that we weren't friends on Facebook?

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31 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend have now(today) been together for 10 months. (BTW hes in a different state right now and has been for 2 months now but we're working it out till he comes back)Today out of all days he decides to get another one of his attitudes. See he be getting ... (468 words)

I don't like the idea of being cheap to someone I love!

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31 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a friend who has been saying he loves me although i love him i refused to give him a reply unless i was sure i loved him. When i told him later that i loved him, he told me that he already has a girlfriend, that i was too late. He started treating me like trash. My ... (97 words)

Why do men think they can get away with cheating?

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31 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I am 43 and have been in a relationship with this guy for 3 years. He is divorced with 2 children and I have 2 children. His teenage son introduced him to this woman a year ago and evidently they were attacted to one another. I discovered the relationship on facebook. He ... (359 words)

Do I chat her up while bumping and grinding?

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31 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey guys... I really need some help when it comes to chatting to girls. When I'm out at a nightclub, I absolutely love to dance, I know I'm a good dancer (don't want to sound arrogant), but I usually have a girl who will dance up near me, or keep looking in my direction. Fo... (341 words)

How can I be happy with me?

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31 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - So here's my story. It's been 4.5 months since breakup and i realize that I still miss her. I don't love her as much as i did when she ended things with me but i still miss her tremendously. She's in my thoughts everyday. My ex girlfriend's healing has been a different story, ... (538 words)

How do I get her to like me?

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31 January 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - there is this girl i like and shes way out of my league, and i know one person she likes but i dont want to be like him. at the same time im afraid to ask her or her friend what i should do to get her to like me. i know the basics exercise etc but i dont know what to do, and ... (90 words)

Are some relationships mendable?

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31 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend just broke up recently because we did not agree on somethings in each others lifestyle (things that can be compromised but we were too stubborn). From the sounds of it, she is taking it as hard as I am (she initiated it). We were doing very well in our ... (378 words)

I feel like I have to give him an ultimatum now!

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31 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok heres my situation. I met this guy online about 2 months ago. We met after talking for a month. And hit it off. Since then weve seen each other one time. Because everytime we set something up to met he backs out at the last minute saying hes tired etc... He tells me all the ... (164 words)