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*ernergirl
writes:Okay.... I need dating advice. I've been working from my home, and set up appointments. To meet up with my clients I am also finishing my Masters Degree, on the contrary to being shy I take a 180m I have modeled before but I haven't been a man for over 2 years. I need a gameplan. I live in Denver Colorado (so if its me ) I tend to lodge!!!!anyone have any suggeeetions. Please ask....just frustrated ...in more ways then one.
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reader, rcn +, writes (15 January 2011):
 That doesn't sound like you're asking to much. You seem to know what you want. Just go out and get it for you. It's not always easy, but you won't find it until you begin your search.
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reader, bernergirl +, writes (14 January 2011):
bernergirl is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks for the answer, I tend to go to medium to stalky men and the only requirements is they are funny, mice and enjoyably. A guy that can attempt to hold his own with conve dandyman work and attempts to love my family, because they will do anything for you. Oh and please have a job of some kind supporting himself.Other than that I'm pretty open. Some of those could slide. ....oh and is okay with spoiing my dog. Does that sound like a lot?
On the flip side love sports and everything about it, scuba diving is my passion. Not a lot of people fall into those categories.
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reader, rcn +, writes (14 January 2011):
Living near Denver, and knowing a little about the big city, I've found it can often be more difficult in finding someone, than in a small tight knit community. What are you looking for? You said you haven't been with a man in two years. That leaves you open for a whole range of different styles of relationships. Are you looking for purely physical, or casual or are you looking for someone that you might evolve into a long term relationship with.
What I recommend is that you begin by knowing what it is you are seeking with someone. Then join programs or clubs that fit with what your hobbies are. You can meet guys doing what you enjoy doing. And if at one you don't meet someone you like, you still have the benefit of doing what you have enjoyed. Now, with guys, if you asked, "wanna have sex", there's not to many who'd say no or claim their schedule wouldn't fit to do that with you, but those are shallow and short lived. With being shy, if you find someone, you don't want to have to keep repeating what you did to get him, by having something without any substance.
Denver, being as large as it is presents an obstacle, but it doesn't mean it hinders you from finding someone. This is why I say to join a program with your hobby. You need somewhere that you can expect him to be to establish a common bond between the two of you. Once that's done, extending time past your standard place of meeting becomes easier to get set up and ask for.
I hope this helps. Take care.
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