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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He got married! Is it wrong to still care about him?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

13 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Years ago I meet this man that I was afraid to approach, over the years I never forgot him and he has never forgot me. When I finally got the courage to tell him how I felt and I always wanted him I found out he was a newlywed. But since that day we have talk, texted, and fb ... (94 words)

Faded love...how do I deal with my ex??Confused and clueless!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5088 days ago

13 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I broke up with my girlfriend of 3 years, were both 19. we had a rocky relationship, we had fun and commitment, after she lied to me (not cheating), we did fight a lot. The last time i saw her (5 days after break up) she told me she doesn't love me anymore and doesn't know when ... (266 words)

Depressed boyfriend thinks that there are problems in the relationship that he cant put into words...Iv given him the space that he wants...but what can I do now??

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13 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half. In the past, he broke up with me for a month because he was depressed, but then he realized that he was lonely and wasn't afraid of a relationship with me and came back. Recently his depression has become worse due to ... (373 words)

I always said "I Love You" when I didn't mean it and now that I mean it, I just can't say it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5089 days ago

13 January 2011 (?) age 30-35 - We were friends on facebook but we never chat. I was oneday tagged in some basketball pictures and when he saw that he sent me a message for the first time. He plays basketball in college and for the country, and am into basketball too. He got my number and we call eachother ... (137 words)

Does it seem like my advisor is attracted to me or am I reading too much into this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

13 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Am i reading into this too much, or do you think my advisor is attracted to me ?. I am on a course that i have to go to every couple of weeks, as my advisor is helping me to look for a job. Every time I go there he says " bye sweetheart " when i'm leaving, and last time i went ... (193 words)

My 32 year old friend exclusively dates 18-22 year old girls...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

13 January 2011 (?) age 41-50 - Dear Aunties: I have a close friend who I've known since university. He just turned 32 and he dates women who are much younger then him. Exclusively. They tend to be in the 18-22. Often he jokes around and pokes fun at himself for "liking them young". He treat... (457 words)

Lack of commitment from him, he won't put a label on our relationship!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

13 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay heres the thing sort of an awkward situation. So back about two years ago i met this guy online for just intercourse. I was only 18 at the time and really confused about my sexuality. It was my first time with a guy. So after that I decided I wanted to try "being straight" ... (332 words)

My fiance is convinced I cheated on him even thought I didn't because I lied to him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

13 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm having an issue with my fiancee and was looking for a bit of help... We've been together for almost a year, but a lot of time has been spent apart while I take care of legal issues in the state from which I moved. Over the course of that time, I've had to interact with my... (157 words)

Is there any truth in his words and actions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

13 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Ughh, lets just start.... from my last few questions posted i have asked for some advice to what i should do about the guy i like. Just a recap, he has been my best best best friend for a few years now, we hang out, we talk alot (just like normal friends) then one day i n... (700 words)

Is she losing interest in me or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5091 days ago

13 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I have a question I love this girl to death, and she loves me to, altleast I think I think she has lost intrest in me or is having troubles. because she's acting completly different. she used to tell me that she loved me and gave full on sentences when talking through msn... (145 words)

Am I a bit weird for not particularly liking kids?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

13 January 2011 (?) age 36-40 - This isn't a relationship question but i would be interested to hear what people think. Ever since i was about 13 (i'm now 23) i realised i wasn't the maternal type. People would show off their kids and these women would go all ga ga over them and i just couldn't underst... (206 words)

Would it be wise of me to accept his offer?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

13 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - should i be worried about my boss/instructor? He wants me to do a week of early morning training in the spring (he knows i need to get my fitness up to join the navy). Because of where i live i would need accomodation and my boss said he'd sort it. Yesterday he told me that i ... (152 words)

Husband focuses all his attention on the baby now!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

13 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi my husband and i have been married for three years we love each other very much we have a 7 months baby girl we were soo happy to have this baby , After giving birth i feel like my husband has changed. He is so happy about the baby that makes me feel he doesnt care abou... (214 words)

How do I come out as the bigger person?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

13 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - ok please can i get advice on what to do. i recently found out ive been played by a guy i thought was a genuine sincere friend. I thought he cared about me as i did him but discovered recently that hes used me and hes also a liar. hes lied over practically everything. im s... (185 words)

Every time I like a guy he always likes my best friend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

13 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - This has been happening ever since grade 2 and I'm sick of it. Every time i like a guy he ends up liking another girl or my best friend. Only once has a guy liked me. and this time the guy i liked ended up being in LOVE with my bestbest friend he had even planned "dates" that ... (99 words)

How do I make him feel that he wants to see me?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

13 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, Basically me and my ex broke up a few months ago. Since then a little drama has happened causing tension between us. Over the Christmas holidays he text me a little and shared with me some problems he had been having. Last night when we was both out at a club he was te... (291 words)

Help! I am suffocating him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

13 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been dating my boyfriend for a year now, and recently he told me that I have been sort of "suffocating" him in away, he says that when he first got with me he thought that he was going to be the "Annoying" "giving too much attention" to me because I am his first ... (220 words)

How do I stop my ex spreading rumours about me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

13 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - sarah12's profile: my ex is spreading a false rumor that i had sex with him. We had only dated for 2 weeks and he wont shut up. i just cant let it go i have to do something, but i just dont know what.. what do i do???... (53 words)

I am not sure if I can deal with her sexual history, should I cancel my marriage plans?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

13 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I recently got engaged with a girl that i love, she is about 35 and i am 30, during our initial dates she did tell me that she had many ex-partners and also a lesbian sex with as many as 5 girls, everytime we make love i have to use my fingures to arouse her first and ... (236 words)

Why can't my boyfriend make me orgasm???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

13 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have had sex a few times now and i was wondering Why can't he make me orgasm? We've had a lot of foreplay but he doesn't come either. I'm usually on top and we're quite rough but neither of us come! Help!... (47 words)

Is my girlfriend still a virgin, if she has been poked?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

13 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 16 and so is my girlfriend. We have been together for just under 11 morths and are thinking about having sex. We are both virgins. But, she is worried that she isn't a virgin because one her ex boyfriends poked in a past relationship and she thinks I won't love her... (103 words)

I'm not ready to leave my boyfriend but I can't give up my husband either!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

13 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 26 years old! I am married having 1 child of 6 years old and my husband's age is 40 years! We were used to love each other before 6 years! But just because of some family problems we went far imotionaly from each other! Because of this gap between us I got attracted from ... (114 words)

I'm in love relationship with my mother 3rd cousin and if we get marry will she get a chance to have birth defect.?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

13 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok, here the things is, this women is my mom 3rd cousin (her father side) and her mother is my 3rd or 4th cousin (i don't really sure but something like that). So in blood relatives we can call each other "uncle" and "aunt". I should call her 'aunt' and she also should c... (272 words)

I want to break up this couple

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

13 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I have decided to fight for the girl I love even though she is in a relationship with someone else. I understand I am doing something extremely unethical and horrible but I just could not persuade myself to stand there like an idiot and watch them. This couple does not ... (208 words)

Should I Start My Family?? Or Wait??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5087 days ago

13 January 2011 (?) age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I am 18 (bday in May). My boyfriend of a year and a half is 24. Iam a dental assistant and he is a personal banker at Wells Fargo. Since my boyfriend is older he already wants a child of his own and start his family. I know I want kids and whenever I see my friends ... (119 words)

He cheated on me and didn't use a condom with the other girl

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

13 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - my fiance of 5yr cheated on me when i was 5month pregnant,i got to know my self after i gave birth,he confess after i ask him and apologise.but the worst part of it is he was sleeping with this girl in our apartment,and he did not use condom.he later sleep with me.i love him so ... (62 words)

He says he wasn't thinking of me when he did things, but I couldn't get him out of my head

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

13 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 20 year old girl who has been in a relationship with a guy for about 3 years! He is 21. We had troubles in our relationship and we broke up (at the time he was living with me for about a year). He moved out and he became very nasty to me! My heart was broken! We were ... (417 words)

How do I speak to her on facebook chat without her thinking I'm a stalker?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

13 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - hello everyone i really like this girl at college who is doing the same course as me. we speak sometimes and a bit over facebook by commenting on each others statuses but i would like to get to know her more and i want to know how to speak to her on facebook chat without ... (290 words)

If my friend doesn't want to meet me, why doesn't she just say so?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

13 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - hi i have a problem i was ment to meet up with a old friend i knew as a teenager she was going to ask her mum to baby sit on thursday (today) but she told me this on tuesday now she has asked her mum and she said she can't because of work in the morning which i understand but ... (232 words)

I was drunk and had a one night stand, how do I get him to forgive me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

13 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've known this guy for a long time, we used to date when we were in junior high, but after that I lost contact with him, 12 years later I contact him and we start seeing each other, but it wasn't nothing serious, it was more like a "friends with benefits" kind of thing. So ... (182 words)

Do I just completely remove myself from her life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

13 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey there...so this is a follow up to this question: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/parents-slip-us-up-when-they-smelled-weed.html I suggest reading that to get the full story. I felt it was alright to make a new Question as it is something new. I ... (1043 words)

Do you agree with this quote - 'Never leave the one you love for the one you like?'

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

13 January 2011 (?) age 30-35 - I do agree with that quote, but I'm having a bit of an issue. The one I love has told me [one moment] that he wants to marry me and maybe have a baby in our future. I was so excited to know that we had the same goals. We even discussed what ring he would get me and all sorts of... (321 words)

We've been dating for 2 weeks and now I feel we're growing apart!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

13 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - OK so me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 weeks now and i feel we are moving apart and also when i asks him how doo i look he says fine ? i always compliment him but he never does to me he gives me hugs and kissed me on the check for a dare but wanted a dollar for it. Am ... (166 words)

Our sex life has collapsed! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

13 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, im 21 and my boyfriend of 3 years is 42 and i need help. We've been having trouble with intamace for over a year. We go months without touch. We were so wild and crazy 3years ago, we'd go on websites and play we had a threesum and other things i never thought i would ever ... (205 words)

Sweating problem!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

13 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I am a 15 year old female. I seem to have a sweating problem. I've tried every brand and type of deodorant you could possibly think of. The problem with the sweating is not the odor, the problem is the wetness. The deodorants I've tried treat the smell, but not the wetness. I ... (128 words)

What 'unknown' condition could it be that stops a girl from having sex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

13 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I was recently speaking to my girlfriend about sex, and she kind of let slip that she 'until recently' couldn't actually have sex because of a medical condition. She said only that is was apparently not that rare, and now it is fine (presumably through an operation or ... (123 words)

I don't even think he likes me! How do I lose my feelings for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5091 days ago

13 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - hello im a 14 year old girl who likes this boy... one problem... i dont know if he is interested in me or not... in august last year on msn he said love you and then a few monthes before he came back to my martial arts class... when i spoke to him at martial arts class he was ... (211 words)

I can't deal with the change and knowing all the good times are coming to an end. I've found who I truly am and now it's going to end.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

13 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Wondered if you can help me. Im feeling pretty awful atm, well i have for some time, and in all honesty all i want is to be happy. In my head i know the reasons for this but to put it into words is abit of a challenge. one of the reasons for me feelings constantly depre... (509 words)

I have fallen out with my best friend because of her boyfriend! I need help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5091 days ago

13 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - hey guys, yet another one of those cheesy best friend boyfriend situations, basically i have fallen out with my best friend of 3 years, she started to date a boy i really hate, and a few months ago i had a fight with him. suddenly after that she told the school about it and s... (189 words)

Does he fancy me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

13 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey, I hope that you can help me out with this :) I'm just wondering if this guy fancies me or not :L I don't usually talk to him, and we only really started talking just before Christmas :P but in that time he has added me on fb and msn and I was at my dance last night... (178 words)

(Why) do women prefer bad boys?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

13 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I've got a new question for you, inspired by another post... One for the ladies, and one for the men :) When I range my friends on a scale from bad-boy til decent, and compare it with their success with dating (not necessary including happy marriage), I see a strong relation ... (207 words)

Why am I so eager to find someone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

13 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 19, have Asperger's Syndrome, I'm a uni student. I have plenty of friends, have a great family, but one thin I don't have is that special someone. I've had two relationships, one which last 2 years where my ex refused to touch me in anyway because she was having a... (172 words)

I am insecure about certain parts of my body

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

13 January 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I have an insecurity problem about certain parts of my body - my wife says she doesn't care about them and they make no difference to our relationship. I have asked her to show me some extra love if possible when I am a little down or reminded of them and she says yes but to ... (113 words)

Is it normal that my fiance's mother still talks to his ex girlfriends?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5087 days ago

13 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'd like to know a simple thing. Is it normal for my mother in law to still insist on talking to my fiance's exes? Because I find it bizaare. For me, once an ex is an ex, they are that exactly an EX part of my life, none existant. I cut them out of my life, I don't talk to ... (171 words)

Is it commitment that I'm afraid of?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

13 January 2011 (?) age 30-35 - ive had 4 girlfriends over the past 5 years, but its the last 2 that are important. in my last relationship it started to get serious and i was fine with that. me and my ex are good friends and talk all the time. she was also entering a serious relationship. we would blabber ... (180 words)

Upcoming Marriage Anxiety / Commitment Issue

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

13 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Once upon a time (1997 - 2001-ish), I was married and had two children. This marriage was one "forced" upon me by my parents due to accidental pregancy (I was 18 years old at the time and didn't feel like I had any other options and they were saying I needed to be a man and ... (1661 words)

Since my wife's breast implants she has changed

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

13 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been married for 4 years, she is 25 and i'm 29. My wife had always wanted to have breast implants, even though she was a nice B cup and had a great body which was toned and firm from going the gym. Anyway, she went ahead with the op in February last year, going up t... (245 words)

Regaining trust after its been lost?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

13 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - How can I regain total trust for my boyfriend, after hes broken it?... (13 words)

Am I giving up too easily?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

13 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Am I giving up too easily? I've been married for 11 years. The last 5 years have been tough on us as a family (we share 7 children ages 6-19). The pattern of arguments are brutal. I remain silent and he blasts me with person insults that are demeaning, patronizing, and ... (439 words)

Should I see what kind of games he's playing? Or just break up with him right away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

13 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Well I,m 34 yrs and I,ve been seeing this guy 4 three weeks Then later I found out that he was cheating on me.I broke u With him bt after a month we broke up I called him Jst 2 checkup on him and fact I was missing him, He then started showing signs of wanting me back... (192 words)

My boyfriend is immature and I always cave in and contact him after a fight

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

13 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for a little less than 2 years so here is the quickest timeline I can possibly do..... beginning: everything was cute, we would go on dates, things were good. about a month in, he starts becoming super insecure about my male co-workers and f... (1086 words)

How can I work with her without wanting to ask her out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5091 days ago

13 January 2011 (M)

age - I’m 49 and single a 26 year old work mate asked me out. After a few dates we had sex. I fell in love and she didn’t. Now she just wants to be friends, “hang out” = no sex. I need more to continue the relationship we started. I know there are social ramifications in the age ... (148 words)

Is it reasonable to ask my wife not to be in touch with this guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

13 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm posting this question for the second time for more feedbacks specially from women. We were married for more than 8 years. Neither of us have complained about our friendship with opposite sex. But recentlly there is a guy she befriend. I don't know exactlly why but... (313 words)

Am I setting myself up to be hurt again by her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

13 January 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - There is a woman at my job that I have really fallen for. We started talking as friends last year and sometime in July of last year I looked at her one day and something changed. All she did was look at me and smile. I suddenly wanted to be more than friends. I was very scared ... (455 words)

What does adventurous really mean? Having sex in weird places?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

13 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i had been dating this lad for the past 6 months we split up in march 2010. we havent spoke since but we have recontly just got talking and we both had change, we alwasy used to argue abouot stupid things. in the time we never spoke he starting seeing one of our freinds. i ... (260 words)

He said he wanted to start off where we left off... now he's pulling away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

13 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - One year ago I was involved with a man for three months (I had know him a year before dating). We were doing great together and both of us were very happy. Then suddenly within a 2-week period his brother got terribly ill, his friend was killed in an vehicle accident, and he ... (401 words)

I was sure my love would change him! He's never been able to trust me after I chatted to a guy on FB!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

13 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hi all.... i am trapped and feeling helpless every where.. OK the story starts ..i met a guy when i was in my school..he was a newcomer and i was trapped in love at first site ..wow he is super stunning just like a prince i was in love with him madly and badly..the da... (474 words)

Will he ever get rid of his ex-wife?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

13 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - hi i am a 45 year old female in a relationship with a man i have loved almost all my life we never got together untill last year both have 2 previous marragies behind us i just got divorced early last year , his came final recently it seams like a dream come true but his ex w... (150 words)

Everything about him annoys me even the nice things he does!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

13 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, any advice really appreciated I have been with my boyfriend for over 3 years. Over the last month or so I have been getting the feeling that I don't want to be with him anymore. We live together. Everything is just annoying me even nice things he is doing. I have... (409 words)

Do I send him a break up message?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

13 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I broke up wit my bf coz he cheated after we hv been seeing each other 4 3weeks.so we broked up 4 a month then we started calling each other But now the problem that I hve is that we jst started again after a break up but now he is not taking my calls nt responding to ... (152 words)

Drug, Sex and Rock and Roll

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

13 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband is suffering from major depression. He’s a drug addict (marijuana and any drugs that can relaxing him) and also he is an alcoholic. He hasn’t been working almost 2yrs now. His parent and I have been supporting him financially. Because when I took that vows I meant ... (387 words)

She wants to know why I am sexually attracted to her?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

13 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend asked me why I am sexually and physicall attracted to her. I was at a lost for words. What do I say?... (24 words)

Why does my husband want me now after all these years?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5091 days ago

13 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my husband for 12 years and been married 7 years we got together and our sex life was not good at all i found magazines with just naked women in i confronted him he told me that it was his brothers i just laughed i am a open women and i dont mind looking and ... (335 words)

Was I right to set my depressed friend up with a girl who liked me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

13 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - so i'll tell you the story first, then the question. well i went out with this girl and she had some fun, but i was not ready for it (i didn't bring enough money). after that we went to my best friend's place and watched a movie. when she left, my friend liked her as well. he ... (111 words)

Boyfriend puts his annoying dad before me. Is this a sign I should move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5091 days ago

13 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Just over a week ago, I posted about moving overseas to be with my boyfriend, only to feel like leaving again: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/ive-left-everything-behind-for-him.html Since that time, my boyfriend's Dad, who is staying with him, has invaded our privacy, tak... (377 words)

Is there any hope to spark up a true love that was, even when my ex is with someone new?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5091 days ago

13 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My ex-girlfriend and I were together for four years. I'm a sophomore in college and she's a freshman now, and we never had any problems, ever. We were the kind of couple anyone could ever want to be, never lied to one another so full of love. However, this past summer I just ... (287 words)

My Best Friend Doesn't Trust Me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5091 days ago

13 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I've known this friend from school for 2 years now, and we share everything, at least I do. The only things she won't talk to me about is her family problems. She's told me that she hates bottling her problems but isn't sure if she should tell as her worry is that I'd judg... (104 words)

My long distance bf cheated on me and he confessed, what should I do?? really need help

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

13 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - We"ve been together 1 and half years with the long distance. I met him and we've been together in england for 4 months and it was prefect. after that i had to go back to my country. everything was ok. we talked on the phone everyday and he came to see me in thailand on Apri... (673 words)

Why my wife feel pain when fingered inside?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

13 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife loves when I finger her clitoris. But when I try to finger inside she feel pain even when it was a gentle touch. Is this a common problem? Is there a way to avoid the pain? Thanks in advance.... (42 words)

One minute I think he might be flirting a little bit and the next not at all and it just continues on in a little bit of a cycle... any thoughts?

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13 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've had a crush (thats the best term I suppose) on a guy that I've worked with for several months now and while workplace rules prevent anything the situation is about to change (so that we could date if we wanted) and I'm not sure what to make of the situation... Every now ... (303 words)

I feel bad for cheating on my partner but feel this is something that I have to do!

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13 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my partner for just over two years now, but its always been a very rocky relationship. He has an issue with other women, well he did until the last 6 months. He has cheated on me 7 times and had other little things with a few other women. Anyway I have always ... (196 words)

Feeling trapped about moving in together...

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13 January 2011 (F) age 36-40 - Hi everyone My boyfriend and I are going to be moving in together for the first time at the end of this month. I was very excited at first, we've always talked and fantasized about it and it was actually me who got the ball rolling, but now for some reason I feel scared and ... (153 words)

I feel like girlfriend's sister is forcing us to get married!

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13 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I'am 20 years old my girlfriend is 8 weeks pregnant,she is vietnamese and im mexican/dominican we both have very different families, so we told her sister about the pregnancy and shes very excited,but now I feel like the sister is forcing us to get married shes already talking ... (86 words)

How long should I deal with being girlfriend's dirty little secret?

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13 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so my girlfriend and i met and became best friends in high school. Then we starting dating when she came out to her parents her mother really hated me becase "i turned her daughter gay" and because of a money issue but she delt with me the relationship lasted for one month ... (133 words)

Is this a mental condition? Or from the hardships of a relationship?

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13 January 2011 (?) age 30-35 - A bit of a mental/relationship question:: My boyfriend and i have been going out for almost two years and before i was with him i suffered from bouts of depression. this fall, because of college, we were forced to live 4 hours apart. I now suffer from scary dreams and high ... (171 words)

How do I know if my wife is telling the truth?

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13 January 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I love my wife deeply, recently my wife diana of 11 years told that she has sex with 4 perosns before marriage..several times. I am amazed, when She told that twice she had Threesome, also....She tells that all story are true.. I have asked many times to Diana, and says that ... (132 words)

she says she can only put her mind in the relationship not her heart

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13 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - She tells me she loves me, but she says she can only put her mind in the relationship not her heart, I am always mad at her for stuff she does, like 3 of her exs call and text an she says they are just friends, but all hours of the night, I know it aint physical, there 8oo ... (147 words)

No more sex!

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13 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I accidentally stumbled across this forum because I'm also stuck in a rut: I'm bisexual, and I've been in a lesbian relationship for about 2 years with my girlfriend. She's been my best-friend for over 8 years, and we always knew that we had feelings for each other, so we sta... (219 words)

In a very emotional "Love Triangle." It is driving me crazy at times...MEN PLEASE HELP!

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13 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - The man I have been dating, he is 30 years old has been going back and fourth between this other woman. Currently he is with her but is confused about if he wants to be with me instead. He says he cares about me a lot and likes me. He feels like we can learn from each other ... (360 words)

My best friend told me he is gay. How do I deal with the weird feelings I have now?

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13 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - so, this isn't really a relationship question, it's more of a best friend situation. I've known my best friend for a year and a half now and we've been really close since we met. Today he came out and told me he is gay. I am most certainly not anti-gay at all but it did make me ... (205 words)

Can I get some dating tips on how to have a chance with this girl?

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13 January 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Ok so i'm a freshman in high school, and there's this girl. It turns out that i have a huge crush on her thats been going on for the past three months. I've never had a girlfriend before so i can't even talk to her without freaking out. The strange thing about her is just that ... (84 words)

S it healthy for a man to masturbate even if his girlfriend will give it to him whenever he wants?

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13 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it healthy for a man to masturbate even if his live in girlfriend will give it to him whenever he wants? Do I have a right to be upset if he rejects having sex with me time to time yet masturbates instead..keep in mind, two days in a row wihtout sex is an eternity to me..I ... (71 words)

I'm older than my boyfriend, am I doing anything bad?

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13 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 17 will be 18 in March. My boyfriend is 15 and will be 16 in February! I feel like he and i are on the same level and no relationship ive ever been in has been as good as this one is! Sometimes, I feel bad because I'm older. I just need a little reassurance that I'm not ... (63 words)

Boyfriend is great but I can't have an orgasm!

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13 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay,me and my boyfriend have been dating for nearly three years now.hes a great guy.the problem is me.everytime we had sex,i couldnt stay hot til the end,and i rarely orgasm when im with him. We tried everything.foreplay,positions,etc.i had a great sensation,but it... (64 words)

Do I follow through with my fantasy?

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13 January 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been married to my wife for over 15 years now and can't stop thinking of watching her with well endowed men, especially black men. Do I follow through with this fantasy?... (33 words)

My boyfriend says he can't cum

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13 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok im like sooo confused, ive been wit my boyfriend a while now and we recently became sexually active.. we do everything together but no matter wat i do he never comes.. ive asked him about it and he says its not me, its that he just cant come, he said no matter wat girl he ... (136 words)

How long will a woman chase a man by phone only?

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13 January 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - How long will a woman chase a man if the chasing can only be done by phone? How can I shorten the chase and how can I drag it out if needed? Please at least let me know if you are male or female.... (44 words)

I don't want to think about sex 24/7!

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13 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Oka i have a very huge sexual appetite...i mean i like it just about every hour on the hour but i cant get it like that. I dont care where we are or whos around..my girls the same way though so she keeps me pretty satisfied. Heres the problem though i start to fantanize and ... (137 words)

Am I asking too much to be texted at least once a day by a guy who's supposed to be my boyfriend?

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13 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My problem is with my boyfriend (at least I think he's my boyfriend). We met on an online dating site and hit it off very well. We texted every day and he even called me just to say hi. We went on a few dates and he asked to be exclusive, I said yes and took down my dating ... (209 words)

I get aroused only by guys. I have come to doubt my sexual orientation.

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13 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi all, Well, I'll try to keep this as brief as possible. I am a 20, almost 21, year old college student. Lately, I've been plagued with doubts about my own sexual orientation. You see, I have no problem with appreciating a woman, but I myself have noticed that I am at... (389 words)

Missing the ex as just in a friend?

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13 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Do you ever miss your ex not in a romantic way but just their friendship and company? Or is that impossible?... (24 words)

I love my BFF's ex!

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13 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Three years ago my friend Ashley dated a boy named Luke. I found him to be quite annoying and often argued bitterly with him. They only dated a month, but she was devastated when he broke up with her and still doesn't like to be around him. A few months ago, Luke had a fling ... (202 words)

Was I in denial about my true feelings for him that were just being masked my my silly infatuations with other guys at the time?

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13 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok,so a little less than two years ago, me and this guy dated. But, I broke it off, because it just "wasn't working out". Honestly though, it really wasn't working on my end. My feelings for him just weren't as strong as I had believed them to be. However, we were then fairly ... (582 words)

I don't know how to judge a good relationship anymore. What do I do?

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13 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. I am a single mom and so choosing someone to be with is a very important decision. I am not sure if I am making the right one. I am with a man now who is older than me, but not unreasonably so. He is experienced and knows how to live basically. He can do most anythi... (381 words)

How could I be so smart in every other department in life but be so brain-dead over this dead-beat boyfriend??

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13 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years. I'm not sure if I'm in love with him, but I must be... He's been unemployed for 2 years and gained 70 pounds in 2 years. (The year he was actually good-looking, talented, and employed, he was constantly looking to cheat on me. I would ... (450 words)

I cut him out off my life because he wasn't worth it, but do you guys think he would ever think why I am not chasing him anymore?

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13 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I just recently cut off ties I was very in to b/c it was time I moved on. He was great to be around but played with my emotions. The whole thing lost it's thrill for me. I realized I was chasing someone who made himself available to me only to take advantage. I'm ready to move ... (257 words)

I've spent my whole life protecting myself from potential danger...and now I have someone that wants to love me but I won't let them.

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13 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been through alot in my life. I was born with a leg deformity, which i've fully corrected through several surgeries. Because of it, especially in my childhood I was teased, bullied and also starred at alot because of the problem I had. I was also fairly overweight back ... (300 words)

Has anyone else turned their relationship into a song or a poem?

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13 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - A poem I have recently written How many times have you forgotten me? Your love not worthy of my time Was it a crime to forget your day of birth No love hear just thinking, maybe Missing your birthday was just a simple mistake Am I not good enough to be with you?... (414 words)

Do teenaged guys like inexperienced girls?

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13 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, Everyone. I am a fourteen year old girl, almost fifteen, who is a freshman at my high school. I am not very popular, but people know me in a good way. Because of that, I was nominated for Homecoming Lady of Freshmen Class this year. I am not the prettiest, or the hottest, ... (185 words)

Is it unreasonable to not really feel loved just because he doesn't kiss me?

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13 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - how do I know if my boyfriend of 8 months really loves me :(.....he tells me all the time but a lot of the time I just don't feel loved....and I don't want to tell him that because if I was doing all I could to show my love for someone and then they didn't think I loved them ... (326 words)

I'm sick of playing 2nd fiddle to my boyfriend's ex!

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13 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for 1 year and my boyfriend and me fight lot because i accuse him still have feeling for his ex girlfriend and ex girlfriend have move her life and they break up and he don't like she going his best friend andHe took me to our favorite spot and A ... (561 words)

What do I do? Boyfriend dating other girls even my friends!

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13 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i'm 24 years old. i have a boyfriend,J, who love me so much ! we've been dating for 4 years. my 2 years with him is so great. i knew him when we studied together in university. so we spent so much time together. but after 2 years, he's changed. i don't know why. he started to ... (250 words)

How do I tell my parents I'm bi?

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13 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - so im a 14 year old girl. and i think i am bi. and i really want to tell my parents but im scared...... what do i do?????????... (28 words)

I think he's watching porn all the time and I can't deal with it!

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13 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - i have been with my boyfriend for over a year now. it is mostly an internet relationship because of the distance. though we plan on moving in together and getting married. i have alot of feelings floating up inside my head and i dont know how to talk to my boyfriend about it... (585 words)

I feel like I'm acting like a silly teenager with this guy!

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13 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - There is a guy I know who I am really keen on. He knows this and has done for a while but at the time said he wasn't interested. The problem I have is that I see him regularly so I can't avoid him or forget about him etc, and I know he's unattached so it doesn't really f... (175 words)

This is his last chance!

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13 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i need your help... i got with this lad that i had liked for agers and i even split up with my partner at the time to be with him and then when i got with this lad he broke up with me for another girl. then about two months later he started to text me again asking to get back ... (245 words)

He says there more guys like him and told me to move on

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13 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and some guy that rides in my bus in the morning started talking for a long time and i've been trying a lot for him to get with me.A few months passed and we began texting and talking on the phone for a while just getting to know eachother and it seem to work out very well.I ... (234 words)

She lied to me and went back to her exgirlfriend out of state

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13 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel like my heart is about to stop beating.My girlfriend broke up with me four months ago. She told me she needed a little space to take care of some problems but she would be back by March. I just found out it was all a lie. She moved to another state two months ago to be ... (134 words)

He cheated, she had baby...do we have rights?

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13 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My fience of almost 8 yrs cheated w/ my now ex best friend. She had his daughter just over a week ago. I have decided to forgive him and make our realtionship work but it has deffinitly been the biggest challenge of my life. The worst part is she has decided she loves him and ... (161 words)

My boyfriend flirts and talks dirty with other girls!!

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13 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Heyyy! Ok well me and my boyfriend have been together for over 8 months now , but he tend's to flirt with other girls! A few months back i found pictures of another girl on his phone and texts from a load more! It really hurt me and knocked my confidence but we got through i... (143 words)

I messed up because I was drunk and my boyfriend got the wrong idea and broke up with me

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13 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - this is too detailed.. but i think it's better so that the whole situation will be understood clearly.. We had been going out for 2 years and 10 months.. We saw each other almost everyday when he comes home from school and when my work for the day is done. He's turning 26 ... (1080 words)