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writes:I am into a girl but she lied to me that she had no man in her life and I opted to end the relationship after I discovered it was a lie. She has been trying to get back by calling, coming to my Hse, she has changed her way of dressing and looks attractive..... I have ask her what she wants but she says she just wants fun with me. I wanna settle down and I have started a serious relationship with someone else. I have feeling for both but more for my ex-girlfriend. Help me before I hurt the one I am with and likes me too.
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reader, largentsgirl89  +, writes (14 January 2011):
 Sounds like your ex found out you are in a serious relationship and to prove something to herself she wants you to take her back.
There is a reason the relationship failed. She cheated on you. Once a cheater always a cheater, she isn't going to change. You are going to dump your current girlfriend who is the better choice for you as your ex gf stated herself she wants "fun" with you. Not a serious relationship. Not to settle down and have a family, she wants fun.
Don't go back to your ex, she made her own bed and now she needs to lie in it.
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reader, Blonde68  +, writes (14 January 2011):
 As hard as it is, you need to move on. She has stated she just wants fun - and in England when someone says that, they mean they want a occasional relationship... no strings attached - just a F... buddy! Please don't be drawn in by her looking attractive, dressing differently... its just her little game to get you back!Try and concentrate on your new relationship and with time you will realise you made the right choice.Good luck!
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reader, foolishsage +, writes (14 January 2011):
 Lies aren't a good foundation for anything. Please don't go back that way. And yes, it sucks when exes are suddenly looking better and want you back. And beyond that, she says she just wants fun with you, when you want more than that from her. Going that way has heartache written all over it for you, amigo. Don't do it.On a side note, are you and your current girlfriend happy together? If not - get to work on improving that relationship if you value it and have any inkling of wanting it to be something long lasting.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (14 January 2011):
 Your ex should stay in your past. The relationship failed once, and it will fail again if you decide to go with her.
By "no man in her life" I assume you mean she was cheating on you. If she did that once, she will do it again. Taking her back doesn't teach her that her actions have consequences.
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reader, EPocket  +, writes (14 January 2011):
 is it a kind of payback or something? my friend .. u cant get stuck with both . u got to chose . its hard but u have to .else u`ll lose both and it happened countless times . no one can keep both wat r u seeking herE ?someone to tell u who to chose . thats not right mate :) only u knows who and wat to do .. cause no one on earth would get u blaming him for ur choice no matter wat is it .look inside ur heart and u`ll find ur bath there :) good luck
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