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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He wouldn't tell me about her texts if he was planning to cheat right?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

9 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 months and we love each other a lot. About a month or 2 ago, a girl from his past (not ex, just hooked up) contacted him asking to hook up again. He told her he had a girlfriend but she continued to text him all the time asking ... (101 words)

Do I tell him I like him now or risk waiting and someone else snatching him up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

9 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - After getting hurt and messed around almost constantly for a year, I finally met someone a few months ago who makes me smile and I have a bit of a crush on him. I only really see him once a month at a club we go to, and one time he told me he is recently single, and the ... (185 words)

Guy seems all into me till I tell him I like him.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

9 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I told a guy friend i had feelings for him twice in a few months. The 1st time he said he was sick of relationships, he's been sleeping in my bed, and we have done things together and cuddled etc. The 1st time i told him he was distant for a few days then it went back to him ... (114 words)

Could he really forget something that he claimed was so important to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

9 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - my boyfriend went to a all guy party he got there and there was girls so he txt me wanting to come so i did and found out he left my ring wich is always on his necklace at home but had the necklace on i ask about it he says he forgot to put it on. is this possible or not.... (62 words)

I wanna be with him so bad...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

9 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - theres a boy i like, for four years i've liked him and he knows.. he's really close with my brother cause they're friends, and my mom knows him.. he's cool with everyone. well, he's three years older than me and my mom said its fine if i date him.. im young, and i'm not sure he ... (148 words)

I'm in love with... my step dad!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

9 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hi im 18 years old and im in love with my stepdad and want to be with him but hes married to my mum and i cant resist telling him every day that i love him and i dont know what to do. Help!... (45 words)

Should I just leave be or what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

9 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Just some advice, I was friends with this girl really really close friends for a year in college and then we sort of lost touch because she stayed back a year in college and i went ahead so she made new friends etc and we drifted apart. As far am i remember nothing major ... (215 words)

I like him but we go to different schools. Can this work out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5095 days ago

9 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am on my sister's account, didn't wanna set one up. I am 13 years and I think I am in love with this boy he's 14. We have been going out on and off since March of last year and honestly I liked him when I 1st saw him. This year we are going to different schools and told ... (155 words)

Help! Is he interested in me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5095 days ago

9 January 2011 (F)

age - the man i am interested in today i talk to him a little . we mostly do not have time to talk .but today was different . i ask him how christmas was an he said ok . then he told me he used to live in the same town i lived in . the only thing i did not get was he keep walking ... (210 words)

My mother wants me to choose... her or my baby's father???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

9 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hello everyone I need your advice. Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and im an adult. My mother keeps on telling me she is going to get me and him to break up every single day. I am pregnant by him and im tired of hearing her say that and now she is starting... (152 words)

Why do we go back to the ex's that hurt us most?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5095 days ago

9 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'd like to know why we go back to the ex's that hurt us the most? I was in a LDR with my ex for almost 2 years. Basically I found out that he was sleeping with, texting, meeting and emailing other girls whilst we were together. When I ended it he denied everything, but then... (210 words)

How to get over these feelings of jealousy towards my ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

9 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I broke up with my girlfriend of 18 months last tuesday. Overall i have taken it fairly well and not been very upset about the whole thing. However, im having some trouble with dealing with the fact she's already got another guy put love hearts all over her wall on facebook... (89 words)

Is he on a rebound relationship?

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9 January 2011 (F) age 36-40 - dear cupid i was just wondering if my ex is on a rebound relationship and is there a chance i can get him back. he went on a couple of dates with this girl and is now in a realtionship with her since the end of november. she is the total opp of me in everyway for exc... (125 words)

Help! How do I tell him I've changed my mind?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5095 days ago

9 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I like this guy and he likes me too! He said to me last night "do you wanna go out with me?" and I said "well we don't know each Other very well" But now I really want him to go out with me! I've been thinking of him all night! Like what our kiss would be like if we kisse... (84 words)

Stuck between two guys...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5094 days ago

9 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I was recently in a love with a guy but unfortunatly that guy loves me too but he stopped talking to me suddenly for few days, in between those days I was all broken up, hurt by my first friend, now the situation is such tht Im attached to his friends more than him. Today ... (114 words)

Selfish or what???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

9 January 2011 (F)

age - my husband's life revolves around his hobbies- currently golf. his idea of a good weekend is golf, sleep and tv. I should be happy just to cook his meals ,clean his mess and watch him sleep! He promises to be back in time if I ask to do something ,then arrives home too late to... (260 words)

Help I've fallen for an 45 year old man!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

9 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I go secondary school and there's this teacher I like. He doent really teach anything he's a sub, but the thing is I think I've fallen in love with him. This is a big problem on its own but the other thing is he's a bit old and when i say old i mean 45(in my defence he looks ... (88 words)

Lost friends and losing more for something I didn't do... Help me please?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5094 days ago

9 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear cupid Me and my best friend go to the same school. At the start of 2010 we became really good friends with this other girl in our school and she introduced us to this guys from another school and then these girls from another school. Lets call my bestFriend Zara* and ... (579 words)

How do I get all this crap to stop???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5094 days ago

9 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, i just need an opinion here ok in september of last year i started college or tec. i made a good group of friends but one particular friend of mine she has a guy best friend who; btw only knew me for a day and showed an interest in me (which doesnt happen to me at al... (385 words)

Age over reason?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

9 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My situation is a bit complicated(everyone's is... i have a boyfriend and we've been dating for about little over a year now. He's a good person and i like him very much but among other issues (albeit minor, perhaps) there's an 11 year age difference between us that makes me ... (399 words)

How can I start a convo off to get reaquainted with my friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

9 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - i want to get to know more people who i am friends with on facebook and get to see what my old class mates are doing these days and to chat to people at my college who i see every day but i don't want to sound pushy or desperate and i don't want to embarrass myself. how ... (77 words)

Stuck in an agonizing love triangle..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5095 days ago

9 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So basically.. I met this guy three years ago. And I fell in love with him a year later. And we did a lot.. until suddenly a few months ago I found out he has been with somebody else the whole time. Yet, I'm still with him. It's just that.. I was so serious about him. I mean, ... (192 words)

Went on a date yesterday but can't get my ex out of my head!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

9 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - i went on a date yesterday with a lad i like, he was being really sweet and comforting with me, like putting his arm around me, hugging me, stuff like that but i still feel something for my ex and its annoyng as i want to forget about him, i just cant.. please have you got any ... (60 words)

Dating a married man. What should we expect, I don't want to hurt anyone...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

9 January 2011 (F)

age - I'm a married woman having an affair with a married man from work. we've been doing this for 8 months. we've known each other 7 years. we see each other almost every day. we meet just to talk. we have seen each on weekends. it's getting harder to stay apart from each other. h... (74 words)

He thought I cheated on him but I didn't! Now he's broken up with me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

9 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my ex-boyfriend started going out on april 6, 2010. on august 23 i was walking with 4 of my girlfriends and 4 guy friends. we were all crossing the street and of course the light was red. while we were crossing the street one of my guy friends and i were holding hands, ... (349 words)

Bizarre dreams!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

9 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i was sleeping over at my bf's place and yep my bf and i had the same dream at the same time... i know i might sound crazy but it really happend. i dreamt instead of my bf beside me it was some old lady asking me questions about my bf.. first she asked me how old my bf i... (239 words)

Help! Why doesn't he cum??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

9 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I have been with my partner for almost 10 years we have 4 children. Our sex life has been great we have sex heaps like everyday and sometimes 3 or 4 times a day but I have never been able to give him a blow job where he cums!! And recently he hasn't been able to cum or h... (150 words)

What causes a miscarriage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

9 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Does anyone know what causes a miscarriage? ... (7 words)

Friends with benefits... I thought I meant more to him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

9 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So it's probably best that I start from the beginning. In college in Oct 2010 I started talking to this guy and over the next month we became really close. We used to text each other 24/7 and went out in the night. It gradually developed into a FWB's situation, which I was ... (569 words)

My mother said I was a disappointment to her... on my birthday too!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

9 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, my name's Clare and it's my 18th birthday today. I suffer with severe depression, diagnosed 4 years ago. A lot of stuff has happened in my life to cause me to be down (I won't go into it), but recently I've been happy. I started a music course at college, met a g... (228 words)

My venting caused him to want to break up with me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5094 days ago

9 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so my boyfriend does things that hurt my feelings a lot and sometimes i just need to vent. well he joined in an xbox live party today to hear me venting and now he is very mad at me saying i was "talking shit" and now he wants to break up with me i think. I love him so ... (130 words)

My friend slept with another while I was away and now I feel I can't trust him any more...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

9 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - A guy friend of mine has been flirting with me for months, always telling me that I'm beautiful and special and how much he likes me. We aren't "together" but I thought it was understood that we liked each other and it was developing. But I just found out that while I was away ... (92 words)

His foreplay made me really wet... is this normal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

9 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - so last night me and my boyfriend went to the movies but we didnt watch the movie if you know what i mean, we made out the whole time. So anyway when we were leaving the theater it felt like i had gotten my period cause my panties felt wet.. but when i went to the bathroom it ... (135 words)

After reading the messages I don't trust him at all!!! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

9 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so i had one of my friends message my boyfriend on myspace to mess with him to see if he would cheat or anything cause i really wanted to know. so she sent him a message and said hey you seem pretty cool and i wanna get to know you better. my boyfriend then said ehh okay ... (275 words)

I feel he loves this 12 year old more than he does me!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

9 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - my bf of a little over a year, finally got rid of his gf of 13 years. she was a tweeker and cheated on him, got pregnant, made him think it was his, found out it wasnt, one week b4 baby turned 5 years old and now is adament on raising her kids. well he gives the now 12 year old ... (194 words)

How do I make a kiss happen?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

9 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you get around to the situation when you kiss a boy? im 15 and i never have, and i just dont know how to make it happen... help!?... (30 words)

What do girls look for when they seek friendship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

9 January 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - hey, i'm a guy and not all that comfortable around girls. What i'm really trying to do right now is to just get a bunch of girls as friends. I'm kinda a shy guy and I'm just wondering what I can do to become friends with alot of girls/ know what you girls are looking for in a ... (61 words)

Is this a good change or am I being led along?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5095 days ago

9 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I have been in a relationship for 6 months and it progressed really quickly, i dunno it was like 2 magnets being drawn together but we also fought an awful lot, it was a lot on petty small things but also bigger things like him being so involved in his work that he wouldnt ... (488 words)

Why hasn't he had a girlfriend yet?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

9 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a male friend who I've liked as more than a friend for years now, but he always seems so unavailable. I've talked about him with other girls he know as well, and everyone thinks he's such a great guy. However he remains single! We were all wondering if he might be gay, ... (495 words)

I'm engaged, but what if someone better comes along?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

9 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I have known mi fiancee since past 4 years and been together for 3 years in a long distance relationship and it was pretty stable. I just got engaged recently and have been having marriage fears of 1. "I'M SCARED TO MARRY SOMEONE WHO IS LESS THAN I(in looks)." 2. "I'M SCARED... (98 words)

His ex is constantly interfering with our relationship and wants him back!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4668 days ago

9 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a major problem with my boyfriends ex. She's always constantly interfering with our relationship for the past two years now. She wanted him back when she knew he was getting together with me, she always calling, texting and chatting with him oh and never misses an ... (139 words)

She lied to me again, should I give her a 5th chance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

9 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So basically I had a girlfriend for 1year and a few months and I really love her. I met her in 08 by accident and my friend knew her and I would ask about her all the time. Then I moved somewhere and I found out the girl went to the school I was going to be attending I was soo ... (392 words)

2 months pregnant with my first cousin's baby... help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

9 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in a relationship with my cousin for 10 months now. when we were little kids i didnt really see him that much, so i never considered him my cousin then a year ago i found him on myspace and we started talking. We would see each other i would go to his house and he ... (176 words)

I waited for her to be ready for a relationship, but in the meantime she had unprotected sex with another guy and might be pregnant !

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

9 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi I'm a 23 year old guy from the UK and I've just had the worst couple of days of my life. I haven't slept, I can't eat and all I can think about are the awful things that I found out the other day and that are still unfolding. As ever this is about a girl. I'll try n... (905 words)

My ex is fliritng with a guy on facebook, I don't want to loose her!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5070 days ago

9 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - hahaha...this is so interesting and hurting at the same time..if you av been following my stories then i dont av to repeat..i broke up with my girlfriend less than two weeks ago..i have kept the no contact rule for a while until i saw she had unblocked and blockd my facebook ... (197 words)

I don't want to be friends with her if I can't be her boyfriend!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

9 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - In short, I know a girl who I became friends with over the past year. But to be honest, being friends with her is not like being friends with one of my guy friends. We talk, or rather she does most of the talking. I find myself in a role of helping her out a lot. And she talks ... (256 words)

Is it ok to hold a grudge for that long?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

9 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright, this girl i knew a 3 years ago is trying to get in contact with me. She use to be my bestfriend till one day i found out she had sex with my boyfriend at the time when the 3 of us were hanging out at another friends house. Even though i know that was a long time ago ... (141 words)

Am I weird for wanting to marry the only man I've ever dated?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

9 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm a woman, 23 years old, and I have only dated one man seriously in my life. He's my boyfriend at the moment, and we've been together since I was 17 (yeah, first real bf at 17, I was a late bloomer!) He loves me and wants to marry me, and the idea of that is so excit... (296 words)

My man(he doesn't believe in labels) is not sure he loves me, but his actions says otherwise!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5095 days ago

9 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - this is kind of complicated i will try to make it simple and get to the point. i have known this man for a few months. things got really intense really fast (in a good way.) i knew the moment i saw him that this is who im supposed to be with. the thing is i love him. i have ... (345 words)

How can I make friends with benefits more?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

9 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have this on and off again sexual relationship with a guy who recently became my friend on Facebook. His actions are really confusing. Sometimes he shows he wants to see me again and then doesn't follow through. When we are around each other everything is cool, physically and ... (200 words)

What is this respect thing about?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

9 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating a guy for a while now. We sat down to have a talk because things are not going so hot. I have always been supportive and warm towards him. During the conversation he said that I would have to earn his respect and he did not trust me or any other women for the ... (117 words)

Do these signs seem like he is in love with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

9 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Does it mean a man loves you if he tells you the following things: You give me butterflies, you take my breath away, you make my heart beat faster, you are beautiful, hot, sexy and make my life better and that he thinks about me constantly. He also does very special things s... (167 words)

Shall I shoot him a friendly text after what happened last night?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

9 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - This is a bit embarrasing, but I went out last weekend and got talking to a guy I have seen a few times on nights out, we ended up dancing together and chatting all night and he came back to my flat, with my friends. We had sex, and again in the morning and he seemed really s... (203 words)

I can't break up with my controlling boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

9 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm having a problem. I've been with my boyfriend for about a year and a half. I love him a lot and I'm sure he loves me too. But i don't like him anymore. I don't like the person he's become. He is immature, confrontational,rude, unthoughtful and worst of all: He's terrib... (393 words)

I want to be able to talk to my boyfriend about negative things without feeling so vulnerable and afraid!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

9 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I went through some problems last year.. where he would get mad for just about everything.. even though what he would get mad about usually did not make any sense whatsoever. For example, one time he started acting like a little kid and said if I kissed him I ... (456 words)

Why don't I want marriage like society says I should?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

9 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok, I'm at the age now where I am "supposed" to be married and should want it as well. But I'm not and I don't. All my friends are married and I do feel left out at times, like the world is passing me by. Yet I do not covet their marriages much, only the approval and benefits ... (602 words)

Is he bored of our relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

9 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 8 months, but recently I feel like he can't really be bothered to see me any more. I always feel second best, and it's always me starting the conversation or making plans. Whenever he (rarely) attempts to make plans, he always ... (280 words)

I can't trust my boyfriend after I saw him hugging these girls!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

9 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - In college, i saw my boyfriend and he hugged this girl saw me and walked off, then while me and my bestfriend went to get some lunch and he was pressing himself up againist these two girls, and he spends alot of time with these two girls, i know he used to fancy one of them. ... (111 words)

Sexual identity crisis!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

9 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey everyone. I'm a very honest person to myself to start with but I need some help figuring out my sexual orientation. Thing is I love women their bodies everything about them. Sex with a woman is great and what I crave always. Thing is I like to wear sexy lacy panties. Thongs ... (141 words)

I'm seeing less and less of my husband's sweet nature all I see is his combative side

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

9 January 2011 (F)

- When I first met my husband I was drawn to his funky humor, and he had a sweet vulnerability to him. But I learned very quickly that he was a complicated beast. His natural state of mind is the sweet, funny vulnerable guy I fell in love with. But his alter ego is a very ... (312 words)

My husband doesn't treat me well or help out, is it because of our age difference?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

9 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello every body, here is my story,I am 23 years old and my husband is 37 years old,we have been married for 2 years now and his mother was living with us since we got married. he was my 1st love and relationship so I do not really have any experience with men. 1st proble... (397 words)

My soon to be ex wife isn't giving me rights to the house I'm paying for!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

9 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and I are separated, almost divorced, and waiting for our house to sell. She lives there, I live in a condo. Money is VERY tight. I pay half her bills and half the mortgage. I visit my son there at least every other weekend and some weeknights. When I'm at th... (230 words)

Why do people start doing what their partners do?

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9 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I was wondering why people who get into relationships usually start doing what their partner does? Like say they were into motor cycles, the girl would go out of her way to buy one so she could share something in common with her partner. Or if she was dating a guy who's group ... (350 words)

Anyone have experience with a serial cheater?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

9 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Can anyone say they have experience of a serial cheat,who became bitter and twisted, after giving them a last chance? Somehow managing to convince themself they were dumped for no reason,telling people its you who must have someone else. The times you caught them,they lied or ... (118 words)

Why is the man who dumped me acting a fool?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

9 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok guys and girls I think I know the answer but I need input in case I'm way off base. I was dating a man for just a little over a year then he decided to call it quits. His excuse was I wasn't wife material. Ok Ok I admit I didn't take his criticism like an adult and like ... (191 words)

He says he has no contact with his ex but my heart tells me different

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

9 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My partner of 6yrs has never told me the truth from the start, when we first got together he said he was single and no children 6mths into the relationship I found out he had been married and had a 5yr old daughter he was brining up on his own after the divorce I also found out ... (333 words)

Are we ever going to meet? He stopped texting me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

9 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I was due to meet this guy ive been speking to for 4 months yesterday(sat) which never went ahead We speak and txt everyday and everything was still going ahead Anyway i spoke to him for around 15 mins friday nite and he said we will do somthing else instead of going f... (246 words)

In our LDR I feel I take more than I give. How can I satisfy him more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

9 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 17, he is 19. We are in a Long distance relationship, and are sleeping together. Problem is, I tend to take more than I give, meaning I am usually satisfied with the sex, whilst he gets nothing. I can't seem to stimulate him, and I feel selfish since we only get to see ... (63 words)

Do I really like her for who she really is?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

9 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - right, ive been with a girl for nearly 6 months now. we're both 17, she's 4 months older than me, and we go to the same school though she is in the year above. The way we started going out is a bit strange really, she just started talking to me online a lot, and I had always ... (822 words)

Despite our different domestic situations, what is he revealing on his thoughts about me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

9 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - We are adults. We are not friends. But we share a nice friendly relationship since a year. We are friends on a social networking site too. And I have noticed that of late he visits it daily even when he doesn't do anything there. I really like and respect him a great deal... (160 words)

Is it normal to want to have sex at 14?

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9 January 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - i am 14 year old boy. Sometimes i feel like i want to have sex even though i am 14 :/ is this just my hormones or something else. I don't feel comfortable talking about this to my mom or dad can anyone help ?... (45 words)

Is this age difference acceptable?

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9 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - The girl im in love with is 14, and im 18... Are these feelings i have too much of an age difference?? And im not sure if it is ok to act on said feelings.. Any advice would be awesome.......... (40 words)

Am I addicted to him or is it me who is wrong?

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9 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Sorry, but this is a long rant because I am exasperated by my relationship. To put it into context, I was brought up in an abusive family situation which involved, along with many other negatives, my mother being extremely emotionally neglectful of me and my sister all of our ... (1540 words)

I love him but my best friend has him, and I helped get them together!

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9 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I fell in love with this boy. But then, my best friend, told he she loved him first. So, I worked hard to get them together. Now, finally, they are, and they're both in love. And I'm unhappy. I would have told this boy my feelings, but I'm like a daughter to him. I even call ... (88 words)

My girl has me, but she has also gone with a boy. Why couldn't she put our relationship first? How do I cope?

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9 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - A normal girl in love with another. Something I would have thought impossible for me, until over a year ago. I have been in love with her for a long time, I don't know why or how, but I am. On new years of last year she went the extra mile and kissed me, it was then I found ou... (631 words)

Our mother in law was offended and her reaction has hurt our sister in law. How can we help?

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9 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My brother-in-law(BIL) has been married for a year and a half. For both of them, it's their second marriage. Both of them were very close and used to spend hours talking with each other. After marriage since they were working in different places, they were staying ... (327 words)

What are the signs that a relationship is likely to end? Even it all looks OK now?

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9 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, From your experience, when you were in a long-term relationship with an ex-boyfriend (or ex-gf), did you ever have a feeling (or signs) that you guys will eventually break up? (it's my first relationship and it happens to be long-term and serious, so I ca... (223 words)

Having doubts about a partner? Is it normal at the start of a relationship?

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9 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it true we all have doubts about each other at the beginning of the relationship? Could that break or build further the relationship? I've had this awkward conversation (can't call it a fight, because it wasn't) with my boyfriend - (we've been together for 16 mont... (235 words)

I don't know if I should agree to what he's asked nor if he truly loves me

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9 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i love my boyfriend , and he loves me too. we have been in a relationship for 1year.but my nature is very suspious . how will i come to know that he truly loves me? he is asking me for oral sex, what do u think , i should say yes or no?... (54 words)

He told me from the start he didn't want a relationship, but now I have feelings for him. Should I break-up to just be friends?

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9 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - there is this guy i have been good friends with for ages. He just moved back to his home town, where i am. We started hooking up. He has told me from the start that he didn't want a relationship and I didn't want one either. Now I have developed feelings for him we have been ... (242 words)

Are guys losing respect for girls today than in the past?

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9 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I know the guy I am with does not act like this what so ever, but is it just me, or am I getting the feeling that now a days, men expect girls to bend over and give themselves to them? Are guys really loosing respect for females now a days? ... (51 words)

Could this be all because I am still a virgin?

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9 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am still a virgin, but my guy and I do do stuff. I am curious on why I act "wild and crazy" during our "fun time" but when my guy jokes with me about it any other time, I am extremely embarassed, and don't want to talk about it? Could it be because I am still a virgin?... (59 words)

I feel I have no choice but to leave him and move on

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9 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I have been thinking for a while now and feel it is time to move on with my life and break up with my boyfriend. i love him a lot but they way we are with each other is very unhealthy. He says he hates me and i tell him he needs to stop but he won't. I know he doesn'... (376 words)

Cheerleader with terrible body-image issues

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9 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - hey,, im very self conscious. I am a cheerleader and the flyer (the girl who is thrown up in the air) and so im small and i weigh just about 105 and i tell everyone that i weigh 95 because i feel if they know i weigh over 100 i will be called fat and i go on diets and don't... (294 words)

Is space needed right now? Men and Women please.

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9 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been seeing a guy on and off for a very long time. We both decided to give it our all this time and try to work toward a relationship. He lives near me but works in another state about six months out of the year. I usuall fly to see him every couple of weeks. I just ... (176 words)

22 year old virgin: weak or responsible?

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9 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a 22 year old man who is still a virgin. Despite the fact that I am a black belt, eagle scout, and college graduate I still feel like I am a failure because I haven't had sex at my age. I know several women my age that would like me but I am affriade to take the risk of ... (87 words)

Crazy love story can't let go

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9 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Been through a crazy love story and seem not to be able to give up. Even friends and family hope it works out. I'm 25 and met this girl through her sister a couple yrs back she had a long distance relationship of 5 yrs and she is 2 yrs older than me. We became fast friends and ... (352 words)

We had a great first date so why is he acting so distant?

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9 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've liked a guy for a few months now, and I've been sure that he's liked me for atleast the past month or two. He had hinted at going to see a movie together, and over winter break, he actually asked me out! He picked me up and we had an awesome time, full of laughter and ... (193 words)

Winter formal

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9 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Background: ok so i am 16 yr old, a girl, and have a crush on a guy that sits next to me in class. my mom bought me the most beautiful dress ever and says that i have to go to the next dance with a guy. However, i just had a messy breakup with my exboyfriend and want to go ... (197 words)

He is cheating and I am scared he will leave.

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9 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My SO and I have been together for 5 years now. We have had many trials including infidelity even including a child. HE had an affair 4 years ago which resulted in his son. He left me for some time when the little guy was born but then came back because he said he knew he had ... (497 words)

We`re seperated and I seem to be the one trying to work things out

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9 January 2011 (M)

age - I've been in a long term marriage and am now separated (6 months). The children are almost grown (youngest still has a year of H.S. to go) Over the years, my wife and I grew in different directions and didn't really communicate well. We even started taking separate vacations ... (492 words)

He left me and now his family tells me that he still loves me

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9 January 2011 (F)

age - My ex left me 8 mths. ago after 7yrs together basically, for someone else. His reason although, vague was because he wasn't happy. We had our ups and downs like anyone else but, for the most part we got along well. I really had no clue this was coming and was devestated to ... (347 words)

I don't get why my ex wants to give this jerk a chance!

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9 January 2011 (?) age 30-35 - Hello everyone I'm in a bit of a tricky situation over a month me and my girlfriend of 1 year and 6 months broke up now after the break up we still have feelings for each other which I know is common especially in long term relationships but here's where it starts to get tricky ... (274 words)

Terrified to come out of the closet!

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9 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - im gay i've known since just a bit after starting puberty. I probably would say it was in high school i knew i was gay, well im just a bit scared to come out because im the only one in my family which is gay and i see that as alot of pressure i just dont want people to look at ... (230 words)

I'm caught in her sex web!

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9 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - there is this girl who has been my best friend for many years, and during the course of our friendhip I have confided in her many things I have never told to anyone; such as fears, weaknesses, and my fetishes. I love her very much but as my friend but she sometime ago told me ... (185 words)

What is with his disappearing acts?

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9 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I met this guy about 8 months ago. When we met we hit it off great. We had three consecutive dates in a row, spending most of the time talking about our life experiences, music, traveling, etc. Our physical chemistry was fantastic - things happened so fast but it was great. He ... (404 words)

Should I have responded or not?

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9 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I broke up with an ex (dated for 3 months) because I caught her in a lie and because I found out she was using me. Anyways, I was very hurt and she knows she was wrong but never apologized. A friend of mine told me to just forget her and move on. And although it was tough, I ... (171 words)

My boyfriend is the worst flirt!

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9 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - so, my boyfriend is the WORST flirt. He flirts with girls online, so its not like i can exactly ignore it, which ive tried my hardest to do. He calls them, plays xbox with them, and just overall acts likes hes interested in them. and when i get mad at them because they wont ... (193 words)

I can get an erection during porn but, I can't get one will kissing my girlfriend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

9 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, So I have no problem getting and keeping an erection when I'm by myself watching porn. I have no problem getting an erection when I'm intimately kissing my girlfriend. I do have a problem getting an erection when it comes time to actually get the job done. It really ... (89 words)

Can women being the aggressive one in a relationship be sexy?

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9 January 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - When I mean 'aggressive', I mean likes to take control and does the initiating in the relationship. For myself as a guy, I have never been fond of being the one to pursue and have been attracted to more dominant women, who like to take charge and take over that so-called t... (81 words)

My boyfriend wants two girls to give him a blow job!

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9 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend really wants to have 2 girls give him a blowjob. I'm not too keen on the idea of one of those girls being me. Should I let him do this with 2 other females so he can get over it and I won't be around to see it?... (50 words)

He's everything I could want but he doesn't fancy me!

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9 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 16 and i am single. I have never had a boy friend and i am in love with my best friend... He is everything I could ever want in a boy but he does not fancy me. i have tried to get over him many times but it has not worked. I feel as if I am the only teen my age that has ... (117 words)

After 20 year my wife just tolerates me.

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9 January 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Isn't it crazy how women who want to love and be loved seem to hook-up with guys who don't want to love of be loved? And men who want to love and be loved seem to hook-up with women who don't want to love of be loved? Been married 20 years and feel my affection is unrequited. ... (282 words)

Is it possible to start over as friends after all this?

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9 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, I met a girl on eharmony and we dated for 3 months. We did start off fast, after about 6 weeks got our kids together on play dates, did see each other often but no complaints. I helped her fix things around the house, brought her flowers, tried to show her I do... (777 words)

Do I work it out with my jerk boyfriend, or tell my military ex how I feel?

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9 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - im a young girl who loves her boyfriends but he is a jerk and two years later he tries to be nice all by himself i didn't ask him to.. my ex came back into my life a couple of moths ago it was 3 yrs ago we were together but i think i have feelings for him but i cant do that to ... (170 words)