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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is this love or if not what is it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

11 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my current bf for 6yrs however within one of those yrs i had left em twice. I do love him dearly but im pretty sure im not no where close to being in love w/em like b4. I have confronted em on numberous occasions regarding issues that keep us apart. examples ... (267 words)

Why do these young, hot, cute girls flirt with my man in front of me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5070 days ago

11 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - What tears me apart is when a younger hot or cute girl is openly flirting with my guy when we're both out together. Obviously they see me but that doesn't stop them from doing it. Granted, I see them doing this but he's oblivious to this. Why do women (and I'm sure there are ... (195 words)

Should I be concerned about my boyfriend talking to his female friend who he hasn't spoken to in a year?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

11 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, I guess I'm asking this in the hope of gaining some clarity in my head. My boyfriend of 10 months was contacted by a female friend of his who he hasn't spoken to for about a year. He has been texting her and talking to her on Facebook for the last 2 days. Should I be ... (145 words)

Am I expecting too much for him to get in touch with me after a breakup?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5083 days ago

11 January 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Ok, I put a question out here 2 weeks ago when i split up with my fella. I haven't had any contact with or from him since. I look in at his facebook page almost daily to see if he has dropped his info, relationship status etc. Which I know is childish. In my last question i ... (368 words)

From phone to meeting in person: how can I make it natural, not awkward?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

11 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello all! I've been talking to a guy for nearly 3 years on the phone. I just wondered when we do meet in person how can I make it where the situation won't be so awkward?... (36 words)

I'm begging for a conversation with him, should I go visit him at college and settle this face to face?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5092 days ago

11 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for two years. I cheated on him in the beginning, but after healing he decided we should stay together and said he knew our love was stronger than ever which I felt too. We went to separate colleges because he was going to play basketball, ... (519 words)

My boyfriend wants to be a father figure for this other girl's child!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

11 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been with my boyfriend for five years and weve hit some rough spots every now and then. 2 years into our relationship he cheated on me with this girl he worked with. we ended up working through it and stayed together and since then he has gained my trust back he did a ... (411 words)

I have no idea what to make of his behaviour

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

11 January 2011 (?) age 36-40 - A guy friend of mine, who i used to have a casual thing with about a year ago, has been acting really "odd" i guess you could call it. He has a girlfriend now, who he's been with about a year or so. Anyway, when he got with her i was devastated, i mean heart broken, but i ... (323 words)

I never imagined my affair would leave his wife!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

11 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this man whilst he was away for 5 months on work and we were instantly drawn to each other without really speaking. When we did talk it turned out he was married with kids, although my moral stance as always been very strong on this sort of thing we let it happen anyway, ... (283 words)

My girlfriend told me I was the best kisser she's ever kissed, when she asked me I told her she wasn't the worst!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

11 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - The other day my girlfriend and I were together, and we were happy and flirty as usual. Then she brought up that I was the best kisser out of any of the boyfriends she has had. Then she asked how she was, and when I thought about it in my head, I was actually comparing her to ... (242 words)

I don't want to be engaged anymore.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

11 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Im 23 and have been with my partner for nearly six years. I care for him and deep down love him. We have a daughter together, shes nearly 3. We had a difficult time two years ago when he started having panick attacks. I supported him throughout but over a year of no physical... (187 words)

My crush is moving on up in the world!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

11 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear cupid. i dont no what to do. the guy who have the biggest crush is leaving school for collage about 2 months. im heartbroken because ive been crushing on him for about two years and now hes going and i cant move on everything i do reminds me of him. we are friendly... (100 words)

We were supposed to be celibate, but I found a used condom in the dirty laundry!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

11 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - What am I to think or do? This is Long but detailed so that I can get the best response. I thank you in advance for reading my post/question. :-) I have been seeing a man since May 2010. Since I have met his family and our children get along great he says he wants to ... (1591 words)

Love complications.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5092 days ago

11 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - [Mod Note: 2 questions combined from same poster.] Q.I felt really bad for this kid I met. He was so sweet, but he was just so awkward. He was constantly put down by his peers, too. So, as the good person I am, I asked him out. We've hung out once or twice, and he's turned ... (309 words)

I suspect a student is dating a lecturer, should I report it?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

11 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a student at university and I think one of my friends is having an affiar with a lecturer. I have asked her and she says she is not but I don't believe her. They are always together around campus and I am sure I have seen them flirting. Like he looks at her when other ... (232 words)

New to dating, what should I do about my cheating boyfriend?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

11 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I woke up the other morning to my boyfriend of 7 months alarm on his phone which is normal. I reached over to turn it off. I don't know how commom it is but sometimes when things are kindda fishy I get really bothered. And it just so happened that I felt that way when I woke ... (235 words)

She is driving me insane! And NOT in a good way! :S

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

11 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright, Where to begin... I've just been dating this girl for about 2 1/2 months now, but after the first month everything changed... You see I'm currently unemployed and unable to drive due to the drought of money so i cant afford my car insurance. She is the one that ... (538 words)

Sex in this gay relationship has gone south!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

11 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - So I'm 2 months into this realtionship and things where good at first but now the sex part seems to be going south ( on his part) it starte with him not being able to stay hard during intercorse and now he can't seem to stay hard for anything now. We start out good and then he ... (105 words)

How do I stop being clingy and needy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

11 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - How should you treat a boyfriend/girlfriend?! Do you treat them like a very close friend? A best friend? Something completely different?! I'm having some problems beeing too clingy and dependent on my boyfriend and I would like to stop but I'm not sure how, or even how to... (62 words)

I tested my boyfriend and he failed!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

11 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - so i had my friend send my bf a message on myspace to see if he would cheat on me she sent him a message asking him if he had a girlfriend and he said no. I found a different reason to break up with him and after i broke up with him i asked him why he told her he didnt have a g... (431 words)

My wife thinks I messed up, but I don't think it's a big deal.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

11 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I need some advice. My wife thinks I messed up, and I think that what I did was no big deal. I was out with a bunch of work people after work. I occasionally take my team out for after work drinks/appetizers when we make a project goal. The women started talking about ma... (288 words)

I need to know if he wants a child with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

11 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my guy for going on 2 years. He has a 7 year old son. When we first met I told him I wasn't sure if I ever wanted to be married or have children. But within 3 months I knew that I wanted to be a mom one day. Knowing that he does not want to have anymore ... (213 words)

My boyfriend says really mean things to me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

11 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - today I got out of the shower and I tried to get dressed and my boyfriend wanted me to come next to him and I Wanted to get ready because I had a d.rs oppitment at 1:00 p.m and he was playing around with his belt and hit me in on my butt I told him to stop 3 times He kept on. S... (365 words)

I have feelings for a police officer investigating my case, could he feel the same?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

11 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I currently have a partner who i have been with for 8 year's, he has never been the perfect partner as he's been in trouble load's, Cheated On Me ect but i have alway's forgiven him. Recently I had to report a crime . . . . My mobile Phone was stolen and there was an police ... (263 words)

Haven't spoken to her in 2 days, is she ignoring me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

11 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - So, I met this girl at a friends party and we've been talking regularly for about 3 weeks. The other day she told me that she -- "feels like she's known me forever and that we're already bff's but in a diff kind of way in a male and female way like when a girl and guy tal... (285 words)

My girlfriend broke up with me but she doesn't want to lose me... what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

11 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - before i left my country to work abroad, the girl of my dreams became my girlfriend. it was tough having a long distance relationship. but somehow on the first few months we managed to cope with the situation. she's been telling me she loves me a lot, that he misses me a lot, ... (264 words)

Struggling to have sex... help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

11 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey all :) Recently me and my boyfriend are struggling to have sex. when we first started having sex we both had a lot more free time and were having sex almost everyday. Since September we both have more commitments and have been having sex about 3-5 times per week - whi... (276 words)

My friends say I have to ignore his texts or calls to make him realise what he has lost!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

11 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, i'll try keep this as short as possible. Me and my boyfriend broke up about 5 days ago. We were together happily for eight months solid but 15months on and off. Two months ago, he called up to my house and seen that my ex-boyfriend was here collecting stuff. i know that it ... (373 words)

Is my wife hiding a 'dirty' side of herself from me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

11 January 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi. I'm 44, my wife is 38. We've been married for 8 years. When we were first dating, she would ask me to masturbate and to climax on her buttocks. This went on for awhile, and then went away. Now, after having two children and going through a long period where "sex" meant her ... (184 words)

What is she thinking? What am I to her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

11 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - There is this girl I like, and I feel that she likes me too, based on all the hints/stuff she said. However, since we haven't meet up for more than half a year, due to both of our busy schedule. But recently, I'm trying to find time to accompany her home. However, she sa... (395 words)

I've lost my sex drive!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

11 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - been with my bf for few months,seem 2 have lost my sex drive latley and have he cant seem 2 make me orgasm through sex or forplay. never had problems in the past! also can being too drunk affect an orgasm??... (41 words)

He is verbally abusive, how do I get him to change his behaviour?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4914 days ago

11 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Whenever my bf gets angry i.e. like when i try to call him when he is at work or when he is busy, he verbally abuses me. He calls me names, if i have known that he is busy i would have never called him in the first place. We discussed a lot about he abusing me, he says... (136 words)

We have tried counselling, but I am still unsatisfied and now considering an affair. What should I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

11 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I am married and unsatisfied. I'm not sure if i love my husband and I am contemplating having an affair. We have tried counseling...what should I do?... (27 words)

Obsessed with wife's prior sexual history

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4727 days ago

11 January 2011 (M)

age - I have been married for 25 years. We have a wonderful 11 year old son. My wife is a wonderful person. Everyone loves her except my family. My problem(s) stem mostly from my lack of self esteem. I have suffered from clinical depression and anxiety for ten years now. I ini... (1536 words)

He thinks I will never be interested in him and he just wants to be friends, but this is not the case at all! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

11 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I love a guy very much...but actually he is not interested in relationships love and all..he is happy single...he just talks to me as he think im very unique and i will never be interested in him...on the contrary, im really very mad at him..and everytime we talk he say me you ... (84 words)

How do I get my husband to change in the bedroom? We've tried before but he goes back to his old ways!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5093 days ago

11 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my husband have been together for a yr and for months and only been married for a month and weve been having sex the same way the whole time weve been together, and he doesnt like to do anything and when we do have sex. it doesnt feel good anymore and i dont know how to ... (82 words)

Do I choose the career I've always dreamed of over my fiance, or sacrifice everything for my relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

11 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm Indian. I'm doing my MBA from a prestigious Indian bschool. As a part of exchange program I'd come to Italy for 4 months. I met an Italian guy within 1 week of coming to Milan (who's also 13.5 years older than me...I'm 23, he's 36) and he says he immediately fell in love ... (400 words)

Married but don't love him anymore, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

11 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - im eighteen years old and married i love this guy but i dont wanna be with him anymore. when he does something wrong i tell him its really over but he always has someway to make me stay and i do even thought im really unhappy, im torn between the two what should i do?... (55 words)

My fiance watches porn on my teenage daughter's computer!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

11 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Is it unreasonable to confront my Fiance on his recent porn watching on my computer that my young teenage daughter uses as well? I am another one who is not thrilled about him watching the porn, but he can do what he wants (I'd rather not know about it), just NOT where my ... (104 words)

Have I missed the opportunity to resolve this argument?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

11 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is on a business trip to Germany for 3 months while I am in the UK. We both took annual leave the week before he left and were supposed to go on holiday but didn’t manage to book anything. So we decided to spend time together where he lives. On the second day ... (438 words)

Is he messing me around? Or am I expecting too much, too soon?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

11 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - i 'met' a guy just before christmas (he sent me a message on fb, he thought he had gone to school with me as we have a few mutual friends) he read my page and saw that i was having a hard time....my mum has recently died so christmas was a nightmare!....on christmas eve he ... (388 words)

Why is he still lying even though we are now separated?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5093 days ago

11 January 2011 (?) age 51-59 - My husband and I have been separated 4 months, he cheated 4 years ago and I have a had a bad time with it, just when I was getting better from all the disagreements with this affair, he tells me he is unhappy that I will never forgive him....so he leaves, and disappears for 3 ... (223 words)

Drunken mistake or fate?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5093 days ago

11 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I'm stuck. I got with my ex Tyrone about two and a half years ago. We didn't go to th same school but we made sure we saw eachothrr at least twice a week. We weren't exactly. Comfortable around eachothrr but we really cared for eachothrr. We were eahoher first loves. We ... (890 words)

What does it mean if the doubts have stayed this long?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

11 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been in a relationship for 3 years and its defiantly not a bad one – I love my bf dearly. However I have been having doubts for over a year and there are problems in the relationship. I have shared my thoughts with him and made effort to try and fix things. Yet he seems ... (382 words)

How do you find out your partner's ring size without giving the game away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

11 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi all. First of all, I'm not thinking of popping the question, at least yet, just in case you get that impression from my question lol. I'm just curous as to how you find out your partners ring size when it comes to buying an engagement ring without giving the game away? Been... (84 words)

I questioned whether we would be OK this year and handle his mother? But he was upset by my question

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

11 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of 18 months is Egyptian Muslim and I am Muslim in Britain. His father died several years ago and his mother is very controlling. He has 2 sisters and a brother. His brother is spiteful at times but my boyfriend is very close to him and they live together. His ... (479 words)

I feel like my heart is encased in ice since she rejected me. I want to go forward

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

11 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I am here to ask how to stop hurting over my ex. We were together for over 5 years. She was nice to me most of the time and said that I was a wonderful person but she did not love me anymore. She said I didn't do anything wrong, but I feel like such a failure. I tried ... (268 words)

I said it was just a joke? My boyfriend was upset about my remarks on culture

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5093 days ago

11 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in a mixed race and mixed culture relationship. During a discussion with him about my friends’ mixed race and culture relationship I told him that I reassured her by saying that different cultures just come down to differences in music, dancing and food! My boyfriend ... (63 words)

My boyfriend of 3 months is away a lot in Army. is it a good idea to have a baby now?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

11 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 19 (20 at the end of 2011) I'm currently with my boyfriend who is 22 we have been together for 3 months and are living together (ano sounds crazy) he is in the army and is away a lot but recently we have decided to have a baby after a disappointment in december. Do you ... (63 words)

Help! Cold feet about over moving in with boy friend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

11 January 2011 (F) age 36-40 - Hi everyone My boyfriend and I are going to be moving in together for the first time at the end of this month. I was very excited at first, we've always talked and fantasized about it and it was actually me who got the ball rolling, but now for some reason I feel scared and... (206 words)

Nightmares every night!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

11 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have nightmares basically every night. Most involve someone/something I love dying, or running away from something or my LT bf cheating on me. Is there something wrong with me? It's getting ridiculous. ... (33 words)

Is it normal to be my age and not have any interest in getting married?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

11 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a single and very intelligent 29 year old woman and I am happy with my marital status. I like being independent and free I also like my quiet time. I am the adventurous type of woman though, I like to travel, I would like to go parachuting, rock-climbing and learn how to ... (375 words)

My friend doesn't simply cancel, he goes silent!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

11 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a male friend who I have a purely platonic friendship with. I've known him about 18 months and in that time we have had quite a few arguments. Its always regarding us arranging to meet and him then blowing me out. I appreciate people are busy but my problem is he doesn't ... (165 words)

What do his actions mean, if anything?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

11 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - this guy i like mesaged me on msn and asked if i still liked him i sayed ja and he wa like cool. what dose his actions mean if they mean anything... (32 words)

Two long-term girlfriends, both in love, one pregnant - looks vs. personality

This question has 48 answers - newest was posted 5066 days ago

11 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I am in a bit of pickle situation and it's pretty deep and I don't know what to do now. I thought I could handle it and that the answer would present itself by way of circumstance, but this hasn't happened and now I'm in desperate need of help. I have two girlfriends. The... (1481 words)

I can't seem to accept that she likes me and I get depressed when I don't hear from her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

11 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I've met this girl who I think likes me. Infact, her actions suggest she certianly does. We've had 3 dates so far, and have talked a lot on msn inbetween. At the end of the third date she invited me for coffee and we held hands walking to her place. I asked to see her again ... (221 words)

After 2 years of dating, he's not ready for a relationship. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

11 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I really don't know what to do I've been with a guy for 2 years now and he still tells me that we not ready for a relationship even though we act like we going out. Should I stay and wait till he comes around or walk away?... (48 words)

Do I stay the course?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

11 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 17 and have been with my girlfriend for about 14 months. She's my first girlfriend and even though I know it probably won't last on acount of that, I love her. But I feel down about our intamacy. As of now she's willing to rub me a bit down there, over top of clothing,... (242 words)

Wonders about husband cheating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

11 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I need someone to tell me if I did the right thing although I feel in my heart I did! I recently left my husband of 6 yrs and moved to another state, rented a house and got a job! He works construction so his work takes him everywhere and he loves the bars! After catching... (425 words)

Should we still have sex anyway?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

11 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been married to my husband for almost 3 yrs, it fell apart because I treated him like a nobody and wasnt very greatful for the things he did for me and our son. And now that I saw my mistakes he chose not to be with me anymore and I accept it. He knows that I still ... (166 words)

How can I get him to stop calling me that nickname?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

11 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend has recently started using the same nickname I used to call my ex when we were going out. My ex and I ended on extremely bad terms so it's really weird to hear that nickname used towards ME and be reminded of him. Is there any way I can somehow get my boyfriend to ... (71 words)

Complicated Relationship Ended With A Complicated Break Up

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5094 days ago

11 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend had so many problem and arguments in the past. I'm 19 and She's about to be 20, we went out for 3 years. All the fighting caused our love to be replaced by resentment, and don't believe we didn't try because we did a lot. It was our first, serious ... (351 words)

Sex Postions for a plus sized couple.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

11 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, my wife and I are both plus sized, overweight people, and lately our sex life is being affected because of our weight, we have usually when having sex, had her on top of me facing me, and lately that position has been harder for us to do, and when we have sex we end up just ... (106 words)

I want to date my co-worker.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

11 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I want to ask out one of my male coworkers, but I'm not sure if it is a good idea. We talk and joke around a lot and he seems genuinely interested in me, but I don't want to make it awkward if he doesn't like me. How should I go forth in this situation? ... (55 words)

Does she cheat on me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5058 days ago

11 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I had a difficult relationship for one year. she was always being very rude to me. And she was always with a guy that was her colleague. Then, she broke up with me and went to work in a new school where her colleague was going to work also. A few weeks ago she came to visi... (583 words)

How do I leave him without feeling guilty?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

11 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello Cupid, Well I have been with my guy since 1998 and now we are 32 with a 10 year old daughter. The issue I have is I have grown apart from him, I stay with him because I feel I have too but in reality nothing is really holding me... I'm not IN love with him, yet I can s... (202 words)

Is it wrong to not tell anyone I'm pregnant, and that I'm secretly getting an abortion?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

11 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some good advice, I'm 18 and I'm in college it's my first year. I found out that I'm one month pregnant and I don't know what to do. I feel as if my life is over. I'm thinking about getting an abortion without anyone knowing. Is that wrong, to not tell anyone that I'm ... (67 words)

She broke my heart but how is that if we only friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

11 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I had a female bestfriend for about 4 years which no one beleived that a guy could be bestfreinds with another girl. I wanted to prove them wrong but it didnt exactly turn out that way. When we were in school she had a crush on me and i kinda played it off. Long story short we ... (252 words)

I want to get over him already!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

11 January 2011 (F) age 36-40 - Hello all, So I met this guy N around two years ago. I liked him instantly, I fell hard. Took about nine months to realize that though he seemed to like me, it wasn't as much as I liked him. Took about three months to get over him, with the help of his friend A who saw... (252 words)

Men, which male enhancement pills do you recommend?

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11 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Stupid question but my boyfriend has been bugging me to ask. He wants some type of male enhancement pills for his birthday. There are all different kinds of pills out there and I've done some research online. What I want to know is if any men out there have personally tried any ... (63 words)

Should I ask my boyfriend to the Sadie Hawkins dance?

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11 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay I have a few questions. The Sadie Hawkins Dance is soon. I have a boyfriend of 1 month, I should probably ask him correct? If I don't ask him, what do you think that would mean? If I do ask him would I have to dance with him the entire time? Wouldn't it get awkward... (90 words)

What do guys look at and expect when giving oral sex?

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11 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello ,ok i have been going out with a guy for about a month now,we haven't had sex because we realy like each other and wanted to know each other well before doing it,it's realy hard because we are both so phisicaly atracted and from what i have noticed he likes going down on ... (121 words)

What do I do about my woman hugging, boob poking, chain smoking boyfriend?

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11 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - ok My bf hugs other girls and pokes there boobs to so I am like wtf I am right here.Also he smokes to and I just found out last night he is not a virgin. He keeps secerts from me and he does not call me at all. I just dont know what to do , I like him I really do I am trying to ... (86 words)

Is this a stupid game he's playing?

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11 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this guy I've known for about 5 years. We meet in this internet thing and I finally decided to go meet up with him on July. We meet and everything went good. We seen each other couple more times and we did end up sleeping together. I started developing feelings for him ... (275 words)

Why do I want her back more than anything in life?

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11 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I broke up with my girlfriend of almost 4 years, 3 days ago. I thought I was making the logical choice. I am 28, she is 25, and I was her first boyfriend considering she is muslim and was raised to expect an arranged marriage. When we met, I was interested in her, but the fact ... (525 words)

Did my cherry pop?

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11 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so here is my problem over thanksgiving break me and my boyfriend were making out and getting really into it so he fingered me but when he did i was on my period but he didnt care so my question is how do i kno if my "cherry popped"?... (50 words)

My best friend has no shot with this guy, but I do!

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11 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - my best friend (Sara) likes this boy(evan) who goes to a different school than us. evan is best friends with kyle, who is dating another friend of ours, jackie. so since october (its january now),sara has been trying to get with evan, but she's basically in the friend zone. i ... (164 words)

My LDR is terminally ill, now she's breaking it off with me!

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11 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been in a LDR for many months now, but we have never met. We have spoke about the future and we planned to meet recently, but because of some issues in her life it has so far been delayed. She is in hospital right now terminally ill, though I can't prove it and it'... (218 words)

My best friend left me for the gay community, now I have no friends!

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11 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - This isn't exactly a relationship question, it's more of a friendship question. Ok here's the deal. I have this great friend in college since freshman year. He's always been by my side, totally inseparable, a lot of people even called us twins( I know creepy) So fast ... (438 words)

How do I deal with my boyfriend's overactive child?

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11 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I love my boyfriend, I always have, since we were in highschool I just never got the chance to be with him, until now (10 years later). He has a 5 year old son (with his exgirlfriend) who is completely overactive. They broke up just after he was born and he hasn't dated anyone ... (376 words)

I dumped him but should I still wish him a Happy Birthday?

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11 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I dated this new guy for a short time and I'm never use to men sister hopping. I tell all men that I don't like men that don't act like gentlemen, this guy expressed "certain" interest in my sister, saying what's wrong with her bf, it got on my nerves because of the years of ... (83 words)

Why is it okay for bigger women to bash slim women, but not the other way around?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

11 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - This is something I notice a lot, and I find it very insulting. I've always been slim, naturaly slim. I have never dieted or watched my weight and I'm a healthy size 8. It seems that if a slim girl is ever to speak bad of a fat girl, they are given hell, and get labelled ... (256 words)

Did she blow me off or was she being genuine?

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11 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - So I went on three dates with this girl. She seemed to be genuinely interested in me. On our last date she wrapped her arm around mine and she let me put my arm around her. She seemed a bit shy. Anyways she was supposed to come over to my place for the first time this weeken... (158 words)

Why is he acting like sorting stuff out in order to be mates is a ridiculous idea? Especially after he contacted me on new years?

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11 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I really need to know from you guys, why this guy is being so weird. Help? My ex and I have been broken up fro 5 months. It was a very passionate and loving long distance relationship which ended due to the fact that we argued all the time and broke up and got back togethe... (462 words)

My husband doesn't know if he wants to be married anymore!

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11 January 2011 (F)

age - My husband of 10 years took a job 1 1/2 years ago 2000 miles away. I encouraged him to do it because I thought that 1) it was great for his career, 2) he was given per diem for flights to fly home or have me fly there, and 3) our marriage was strong enough to last despite the ... (281 words)

Every time we get close, I brush him off!

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11 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hii cupids. Im having a bit of man trouble, although hes done nothing but be great.. I met him a long time ago, about 4 years ago, we were both really young and shy, although we switched names and msn addresses we didnt really get much further. We've spoke abit since, just chit ... (336 words)

Do I move on or hope he realizes we are meant to be?

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11 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I am 30 years old. i have liked this guy i worked with for two years. this guy and i like the same things and at some point last year we had some flirty text going. however he has a gf with treat him very badly. he is not happy with her. but he is scared of change. he has ... (134 words)