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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Boyfriend repeatedly had sex with another girl, when I found out I kissed another man!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

10 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello all, thank you for taking the time to help. My boyfriend of almost two years (who is also my first boyfriend ever, first kiss, everything but sex [I'm a virgin]) slept with another girl repeatedly in Sept 2009 when we broke up for a period of about a month. We broke up ... (341 words)

I need to turn up the heat in the bedroom.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

10 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Q. My boyfriend and i have been together for almost five years and although i enjoy the sex it always seems to be the same and everytime we try different positions they dont seem to work out right or i dont orgasm. So i was wondering if anyone had any advice on how to heat ... (105 words)

Hopelessly in like!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5094 days ago

10 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, sooo i like this boy. We're both freshman in high school. I've known him since 7th grade and we've been cool ever since. I started liking him this year when i saw him at fish camp looking just drop dead gorgous! It turns out that over the summer he lost like 20 pounds!! ... (255 words)

Engaged, but I have always loved someone else.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

10 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I am 26 and currently engaged to a very lovely woman, but before I met her I was in love with another woman. the reason why i wasn't with the other woman is because she had been through a few heartbreaking relationships and was afraid that she would get hurt again. Her and I ... (287 words)

What should I do about my sister copying me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

10 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - What should I do about my sister copying me constantly? My sister is 8 years older than me and has always been a bit two faced and nasty to me even though we are fairly close. Without going into too much detail she and her friends always used to say that my style of dressin... (258 words)

My boyfriend won't propose, he comes up with lame excuses!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

10 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years now and we've lived together for 4 of those years. He won't propose and comes up with lame excuses. The thought of starting all over with someone else stinks but I'm tired of his excuses. Should I stay or should I go?... (50 words)

Why is my mum like this?!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

10 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - help i really don't know what to do, i don't feel like i can let my mum be so controling all the time. Everyone in my house tip toes around her, she is self employed but never puts in effort to get work so we live off my dads wage. She has ruined every holiday i have ever bee... (263 words)

We had sex once, a while ago. Now I'm ready for round 2!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5094 days ago

10 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. So I feel like my problem is a little weird, hence the anonymity. Anyway, my boyfriend and I have been together for a long time. We had sex once a while ago. It was the first time for both of us and it wasn't really great. I think we both felt awkward afterward and never ... (138 words)

Did she break up with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

10 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - So i've had my girl friend for 3 weeks or so. everything has been going great but we just havnt been able to see each other much due to she was to busy. yesterday my gf sends me a text asking me if we could take a break, i said alrigth because she said we could continue after ... (181 words)

He spends all his time at his friend's house who happens to have a wife!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

10 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have recently moved in together to a city which is 30 minutes away from my friends and family. His best friend, however, lives less than five minutes from us which makes it easy for him to go hang out whenever he'd like. To top it all off, I currently have ... (313 words)

After I get off birth control, how long does it take to get pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

10 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been off the pill for around 2-3 month, i was just wondering how long it takes for an average 18-19 year old to get pregnant ? what are your experiences how long did it take you after the pill... (40 words)

Should I listen to my horoscope?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

10 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Should I listen to my horoscopes? I have been reading my horoscopes on Facebook for the past couple of weeks and they always seemed pretty true. I know they're always vague so they shouldn't be taken too seriously but I have noticed something strange lately. TheI guy... (289 words)

I want my ex-husband back but I'm pregnant with someone else's child!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

10 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Where do I begin? I am the ex wife of a man who a so desperately yearn for after almost 3 yrs of separation. Problem is that after casually dating someone else for almost 2 yrs I am now 6 mons pregnant with his child.Could I have done something 4-5 mons about this unplanned ... (753 words)

He admitted he couldn't commit to me the first time, and now he's telling me I'm the one?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5094 days ago

10 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a problem. I have been seeing this man for a year and a half now. We have a really great time together and have a lot in common. I was ready to settle down and be committed to him about 8 months into the relationship. I openly discussed my feelings with him. He told me ... (189 words)

Is a threesome a good idea if my boyfriend suggests it?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

10 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years now. He has expressed how he enjoys watching me masturbate with a dildo. He has recently discussed with me how he would enjoy watching me have sex with another man. I just dont want this to ruin our relationship. At the same ... (132 words)

He won't date me until I turn 18 and is now dating someone else!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

10 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, so this is really complicated(then again what relationship doesn't have it's complications?). Six months before I met this guy(I'm a gay guy, by the way), I had a dream about some guy of a significant age difference. We loved each other so very much, but my age(I'm 17, ... (514 words)

My family didn't even say thank you for the presents I sent them!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

10 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am living out of my country 3 years ago, my family members are all in my own country and I don't have any relatives here, just my husband. This Christmas I decided buy and send some presents from here to my country to ALL my family members... And I am very upset because I ... (213 words)

He's moving for work and doesn't want me with him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

10 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help. I've been living with my bf for two years and things aren't good financially atm. He was made redundant a year ago and hasn't been able to find work. This has affected him badly and we've also been living literally hand to mouth. Tonight he comes out with he wants ... (162 words)

What is the point of looking at porn?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

10 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend once told me i was sad and pathetic for looking at porn on my mobile phone. I have now since found out he does the same, when i reminded him how sad and pathetic this was he told me he doesnt masturbate over it. What is the point of looking or do men just ... (62 words)

To all Men Help What is this guys problem?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

10 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Calling all guys late 20's to 30s im so confused and need some male advice or anyone that can relate to this feel free to help...thank you basically i have just returned from a trip to america with my friend i had a great time and defo needed the break - me and my fri... (1714 words)

Considering anal sex for the first time....Unsure of what to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

10 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been considered anal sex with my husband. I always said I would NEVER EVER do it! However, I have recently gone through a situation that I actually recently posted about, where I became very close with my brother in law (bil) and he introduced me to the idea of how ... (152 words)

Partner of 11 years won't live with me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

10 January 2011 (F)

age - I've had the same partner for more than eleven years now. He asked me to marry him (ring included) six months into our relationship and I happyily accepted. We lived together for a brief period but for the past 6 years we have lived apart. He says this is for financial ... (335 words)

I broke up with her and now I'm devestated

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

10 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok, so ive made a really big mistake. i broke up with my girlfriend of four years in early december... this is the fourth time ive broken up with her and every other time she has taken me back. i was very unhappy. I never knew what i was unhappy about. i had everything i ever ... (586 words)

I need to learn to look past a girl's appearance

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

10 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - HELP...how can i train my mind not to have feelings for a girl just for her looks?... (17 words)

Am I supposed to put my life on hold and wait for him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

10 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am divorced and have been for about 5 years and have met some real losers but about 2 years ago a wonderful guy came into my life, we met through some mutual family friends that have known both of us since we were children, we just clicked and have been great friends every ... (186 words)

I love this guy but he doesn't want to be in a relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5093 days ago

10 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi i was wondering if you could help me at all. Bascially, i was in a relationship with my ex partner we lived together for 5 years and then he finished things as he thought he was too tied down i was literally all over the place and it reallt crushed me he broke my heart a... (696 words)

Why am I not allowed to have male friends when husband has all the female friends he wants?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

10 January 2011 (F)

age - I am sorry this is so very long. I am so confused. Background.... I love my husband (he's 39 btw) of 6 years and for the last 7+ years we have been in the swinger lifestyle. (we were swingers before we were married) he is my third husband. I have never cheated on... (613 words)

Ideas for "secret admirer" notes needed please!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

10 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, my boyfriend is attending college hours from where I live and plays baseball. My spring break happens to fall on the week of his birthday so I am going to go up. I told him I couldnt come for his birthday but I will be there the next week. But instead I am surprising him. I ... (76 words)

Aren't I a bit old to be questioning my orientation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

10 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey there, Been reading here for a while and I feel you could really help me out here. Well, I'm 19 and I've been feeling well different to my 'usual' self now for about 6 months now. I know what your all thinking, 'your 19, you should know by now', but i really don't kno... (489 words)

Boyfriend of 2 years has become distant. I don't know why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5094 days ago

10 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been going out with my bf for the past 2years and in the past four weeks he has become distant with me doesnt kiss me or hold me he just isnt as affectionate with me as he once was am really starting to feel like he is loosing intrest in me or going of me i just dont ... (72 words)

He said he'd text me but he hasn't. Does that mean he didn't like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

10 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I want the honest truth (even if it hurts) My friend had a friend who she wanted to hook up with someone, she had showed him a picture of me and he was interested. He added me on facebook and we began talking, and then texting. We had to wait about 3 weeks before we could ... (158 words)

Do woman know when a guy likes them in a romantic way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

10 January 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - My question today is pretty straightfoward: Many girls I have met tell me that, "Women know when a man likes them in a romantic way." I have asked, "Really? How do they know?" "We just know," is the simple reply. Is this true? If this is true, then why all the misc... (99 words)

She says there's nothing between us, but I still feel it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

10 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I met a girl roughly a year+ ago, shes best friends with my best friends girlfriend. We were always around each other at outings. I instantly fell for her, I followed by always trying to ask her out, to try to get to know her more but she would always say no. Finally just a ... (201 words)

Is my boyfriend just a dude being a dude?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

10 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend is on a forum that talks about just BS stuff, the weather - girls - porn - sex pretty much anything but he's always saying things to people in a sexual way, for example a guy on there posted something that his gf sent him and he put a picture of his gf - and my bf ... (162 words)

Struggling to find increase my libido and sex drive....I am only 26!!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

10 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I will be celebrating my 2 year anniversary in 2 months. I have had a major decrease in my libido....my sex drive comes and goes and it is extremely hard for me to get 'wet' easily. A few years ago I began doing laser hair removal in my bikini area and on my 3rd session, it ... (251 words)

So do LDRs ever work out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

10 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - do long distance relationships ever work out? ive been seeing a this girl for a little over 2 years and we are in love. the thing is that she got an opportunity to go work in europe for 2 years and she decided to take it. We both want her to stay but we both know that this is ... (137 words)

What do I do? He doesn't believe or trust me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

10 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my baby been together for a minute now I so n love wit him he thinks I'm having an affair wit someone else but he don't trust or believe anything I say I'm been honest to him I never would cheat on him cause I wouldn't want him to cheat on me my understanding if someone ... (105 words)

He's so cold to me for no reason!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5094 days ago

10 January 2011 (?) age 36-40 - Hello, I've been with my boyfriend for about three years and have been engaged for seven months. I just started living with him in August and I'm (obviously) starting to notice problems in our relationship. He's not very understanding when I tell him about my problems. La... (332 words)

I need to stop thinking about him and move on

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

10 January 2011 (F)

- this sounds so silly but i cant stop thinking about a guy I had a one nite stand with on new years eve. I met him out in my town however he didnt live here. He was drop-dead gorgeous and we went back to mine and it was amazing. I have just come out of a rocky relationship so i ... (150 words)

Why are men players?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

10 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Why are men Players??? Why do they have a daytime girl and a nite time girl?? ... (17 words)

She plays these mind-games and I'm not sure what to do now!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

10 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - hello. I have a very complicated situation on my hands, but i'll make the story short. Me and my girlfriend of a year just broke up for an unknown reason, seeing as she was the one who did it. This relationship had been in my control almost this entire time. I was a terrible ... (165 words)

What are the long-term emotional/psychological effects of a promiscuous lifestyle?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5060 days ago

10 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I know a girl who I am friends with, sort of. She is very loose sexually and frequently has sex with men for money. She had an affair with a married man a few months ago but I think she broke it off when it became clear this man was not leaving his wife. She recently told me ... (236 words)

I'm best friends with a man who's wife is an adulteress!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

10 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My best male friend’s wife has been cheating on him for years. I have not said anything because I don't want to get in the middle of it with them. I have remained friends with his wife up until she accused me of messing around with her husband just recently. I am truly hurt by ... (123 words)

Is this weird feeling in my stomach normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

10 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Every time we read this romantic book in class and the guy does something really sweet my tummy goes funny and it's kind of weird is this normal??? Anyone experienced this???... (31 words)

My cousin and I have secretly been together for several years!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

10 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My cousin and I have been secretly together for seven yrs off and on,I tried to stop several times,but I can't Im in love with him and, he knows it. When i try to leave him alone he becomes so angry and mean,it makes me cry! I dream about it when I am not with him. He wants me ... (80 words)

First time sex feels like..??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5087 days ago

10 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I haven't had sex yet and i'm a guy, what does sex feel like for the first time?... (18 words)

Men, what distance would you go to prove your love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

10 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - This question is for males. My question is simple : what will you do if you fall in love with a rich girl, while you are not from rich family? That girl loves you too.. But of course her family will not allow you to be her girlfriend. Will you give up? ... (53 words)

He seems to value his money more than he values me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

10 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok there is this guy that I've been dating for 6 months he is very nice and we have our problems but we always fix them and we connect on a big level.. Ok there is this just one problem he is obsessed with money he is divorced and has 2 kids so at the beginning of the month 60... (199 words)

Am I being too clingy or is there a problem?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

10 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Here we go... I am having a communication problem with my boyfriend of a year and a few months, and I don't know if it is me being clingy and needing to talk or its something else. Our normal week consists of him driving a hour and a half to my house on a Friday or Satur... (285 words)

Am I simply wasting my time with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

10 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hi ok ive been having this online relationship with a guy 4 a while now hes nice and sweet and we talk about alot of things. Ok now here is the strange part he is 24 and still a virgin he has never had a relationship before he says that he is waiting to find the right one and ... (114 words)

Could this be a yeast infection or is it an STI/STD Title

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

10 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - ok so.... saturday 8th january i had unprotected sex with a guy while i was drunk. It's the first time i've gone back to a guys house after meeting them that night. and ive only slept with 4 people. The thing is i now have an itching / slightly uncomfortable feeling just ins... (150 words)

If a woman isn't moaning, does that mean she isn't enjoying the sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

10 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - hello, i just wanna know what does it mean when the girls dont moan while making love ? i know this girl and we are f*** buddies. but when we have sex she doesnt moan or like scream or something, i mean if she was really enjoyin it or feeling it then basically she wouldnt ... (125 words)

A bump inside my breast! Is this normal?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

10 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, Im a 16 yr old normal teen. I've recently started feeling my breast and noticed there was like a bump inside my breast. Whenever i put my finger on that certain area, i can feel the bump. Im super worried because i have no idea what it is. If any women out there has ... (74 words)

When does flirting go too far?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

10 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have recently become concerned about my own behaviour. I have always been a flirt and for the most part my friends partners never seemed to mind - or at least to the point where they've never minded enough to address the issue with me. But it bothers me, and honestly i'm ... (357 words)

My new bf flirts with all my friends - WHY?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

10 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My new bf keeps flirting with MY friends. My Facebook page is pretty popular and heaps of guys flirt with me on a daily basis. I find it really hard to police and am still trying to clean up my profile of these people. Mafia Wars killed my profile affectively. Anyway my new man ... (300 words)

Can a relationship recover after cheating by a partner?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

10 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm very curious about this because I have been cheated on. I would reallly like to move past it, and still be in a relationship with this man. He has done everything he can to earn my trust back and I do completely trust him again. I don't think he would ever cheat on me ... (122 words)

Torn between two guys and I don't know what to do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

10 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok although my situation is long and complicated I guess it boils down to the fact I like two amazing guys. The first has been my bf for 3 years. We have had some great times and I love him dearly but the relationship has become stale (and please note I have tried for a year to ... (419 words)

My mother needs to stop making me look like a pathetic role model in my kids eyes.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

10 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm not looking for pity but I feel like cow dunk.My mother's always putting her nose in my business but yesterday I couldn't take her insults anymore when she tried to make me out as a poor example of a mother to 4 kids. It started over dinner when my sons started arguing over ... (370 words)

Not sure if I feel affronted or if I should hope he'll change his mind over his imposed 'conditions' on any relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

10 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - i met a guy a few weeks ago, after 2 dates he told me that he really did like me but would not be able to marry me due to family reasons, but i could have him as a boyfriend and live with him as long as i wanted. he also added that he had an ex girlfriend that would do anything ... (184 words)

Crush on a married teacher. He's teaching me yet I still feel nervous when I see him. Help?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

10 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello everyone. I am currently 15 years old and I will turn 16 this middle of January. I have a real problem right now so I think of asking about my love problem. It all started in August of 2010 when my best friend and me were sending something to the Teachers' Lounge... (437 words)

What are motives for just wanting to be friends after a serious relationship ends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

10 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I wrote about this before, and now It’s been a week since my boyfriend ended things. He says he just wants to be friends with me, that he doesn’t feel those girlfriend/boyfriend feelings for me. He told me he’s not in love with me and that I would be better off without him. ... (362 words)

Am I being realistic, idealistic or naive about building a career versus life/work balance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5094 days ago

10 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Recently I graduated with a journalism degree where I excelled to the top of my class! I never wanted to be a newspaper reporter and have no real interest in breaking hard news, but I wanted to gain a qualification that would lead to a more interesting job than mind-numbing ... (676 words)

Do others get caught having sex?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

10 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been caught several times by my parents and my boyfriends parents "messing around"/ foreplay and once having sex, I am so traumatized! Does this happen to a lot of people? ... (32 words)

I call him, but he never calls me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

10 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I love a guy vey much bt we are just frnds...on every sunday i call him(he never called me) and we talk for couple of hours....frum last two weeks i didnt call him just to check whether he calls me or not and he didnt call me....I m dying to talk to him....i m confused....wat ... (62 words)

I stopped, but should I start masturbating again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

10 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid my life is a wreck,i have just recently quit porn and masturbation,these two things ruined my life last year,i lost attraction and interest in girls.now that ive quit,ive developed strange feelings for women which are making me feel very horny and its really pissin ... (66 words)

Is my cousin interested in me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

10 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so my question is a bit apart. But please go through it. To start with, I've got a cousin of mine whom have been giving signs that he is interested into me lately but am not really sure if this is the case. I have also seek help from this site to know whether he reall... (354 words)

I cant tell if she wants me to ask her out again or if she just wants to be friends!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

10 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I need some opinions or advice: asked her out several times. First time she had a boyfriend, 2nd time after they broke up, third time she said she wasn't ready for a new relationship. We are long distance now, but when I catch her online she always responds to my questions so I ... (151 words)

He wants me to move to be with him but I don't trust him! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

10 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So my best friend introduced me to this guy she used to work with. I started talking to him although he lived about 2,000 miles away from me. I was a little hesitant because he was so far but I thought, what the heck who knows where this can go.. So sure enough him and I ... (695 words)

What is it with flaky women on internet dating sites?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

10 January 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I broke up with my partner of 10 years in 2009 and last spring I felt ready to date again. As I dont really meet many people through my work or hobbies (well, I meet people, just not single women), I decided to give internet dating a go. I know a lot of people have horr... (402 words)

Mutual attraction with brother in law that never seems to go away.....

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

10 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been married for just 2 years and I am absolutely in love with my husband. He is the most important person in the world to me. He still turns me on, makes me laugh, spoils me, and looks at me like I am the only thing in the world. He has been extremely preoccupied with ... (657 words)

I slept with a guy friend I've known for a while and my friend has the hotts for him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

10 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I saw one of my good friends last night who is pretty depressed and we went to see these friends i haven't seen nearly 2 years because they were travelling. Anyways, me and one of guys have always had this sexual tension between us and 2 years ago he was seeing my friend (the ... (325 words)

I can't seem to get a girlfriend! Help!

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10 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a nice guy who weighs 220 pounds of mostly muscle - 6 ft and I workout 4-5x a week for an hour each time. I am in college (age 22), and have a job, both of which I am successful at. I got out of my previous relationship about 3 months shy of a year ago. It was not a ... (241 words)

My partner left me and is pregnant with my baby!

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10 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - About 2 years ago I started dating a good friend of my brothers she was only just 18 at the time where I was coming up to 23. But we both got on very well and liked spending time with each other. But then I realized she had a hard time at school and with her childhood which ... (711 words)

I feel so awful for what I did to her, and I know I deserve to feel this way, but how do I start the healing process?

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10 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, I've recently been through, and put others through, quite an ordeal. My boyfriend, who I have been seeing for 4 months now, is wonderful. He's everything I've ever wanted, and I love him more than anything. The thing is, we started out wrong. He was dat... (504 words)

I don't feel as bad as I should after this huge loss, has anyone been through anything like this before? Any advice for me?

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10 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Today my girlfriend and our 3 month old baby girl died in a car accident. Everyone is feeling so sorry for me. I'm sad but I don't want people feeling bad for me. My mom is saying that i'm in Denial. I don't really think I am. Anyway, so i'm wondering if anyone has gone thr... (70 words)

Should I tell her how I feel or not?

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10 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - basically I'm in love with a good friend's sister..usually I'm good emotionally and see things cleary but I'm just so confused right now and dunno what to do. Basically I work with this guy and we are pretty good mates.. Both in work and outside work. A few months ago his ... (368 words)

I am being forced to go to boarding school by my parents!

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10 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My parents is forcing me to an all boys school which is the top school in the UK. I do not want to go to it because I will be a full boarder in that school, which means I will be in the campus 24/7. I seriously can't tolerate that. What can I do?... (61 words)

How do I get over her? I have tried everything but I have still not fully healed.....

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10 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright so the story is my girlfriend was going to break up with me and my best friend told me about this. I sat down with her and talked to her and say weather it was true or not and she said in a low voice yes it is and I asked why and she told me because she didn't feel ... (793 words)

In love with both my girlfriend and my girl on the side, who do I choose?

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10 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been dating my gf for a while now(plus 5 years) and I really love her, but over the past year I have been seeing another girl. This other girl has the best sex I ever had, better than my gf. I have falling for the other girl basically due to the great sex we have, she ... (145 words)

Is she covering up an awful danger?

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10 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - she may very well be a perfect match for me, but for this one possibility--namely, that she is actually like Sharon stone from Basic Instinct. So how do I determine whether the sweet, wholesome goodness she is so pro at presenting is not covering up an awful danger? I mean, ... (121 words)

Will I sound crazy if I mention this concern?

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10 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - This is kind of complicated so I apologize in advance. This guy and I were initially work friends who hooked-up. He had broken up with his gf a couple months prior and I ended things with my bf during that summer. I assumed that we would have our fun and then go our sep... (501 words)

He says I am his second 'conscious', what does this mean?

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10 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - When a guy says your his second conscious what does that mean?....i have been friends with a guy who i like and he like me but we havent spoke about a relationship are we just friends or he just wants to take things slow? We indeed had sex but i dont know what to think of him i ... (64 words)

Will my ex boyfriend come back to me?

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10 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Im a girl and im really hurt. My ex and i broke up a month ago. We were gonna get back together , He told me "He loves me and only wants to be with me"... Behind each other back after the break up hewas talking to his ex and i went out for dinner with a guy. We both got real... (266 words)

Is it possible to be just friends after a long term serious relationship?

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10 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - After a pretty nasty break up with my boyfriend, we decided to talk. I want to stay together, but he wants to be just friends for right now. Is it possible to be just friends after a long term serious relationship? How do you just be friends? Im scared of us feeling too distant ... (80 words)

If I'm such a great catch why do women not seem to be interested in me?

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10 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 25, single and sick of being so lonely. I've never had a girlfriend or even so much as dated anyone. I'm a decent guy, am told I'm good looking, have a college degree, have a stable job and a good group of friends. If I'm such a great catch why do women not seem to be ... (343 words)

Will my babies be born with problems?

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10 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I was married to my first cousin 5 month ago….now I want be a mother. But I have herd that the baby born for relatives are born with physical or mental problem. Please help me.... (35 words)

He asked me to marry him and then took it back, now he is engaged to somebody else!

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10 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - HELP!!!! ok here is the thing ive been friends with this guy for 8 years we know absolutly everything there is to know about eachother i know things that not even his supposed wife to be knows. he only trusts me with most things we are best friends we did the dating thing off ... (322 words)

I want him to know that I know he was lying!

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10 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - So I am talking to this guy whom I occasionally work with and I hang out with, we have slept together a few times, we hang out more than anything. So he works alot and the other day it was my birthday and we were suspossed to hang out for my birthday but he said he didn't think ... (326 words)

He wants to video tape us having sex and I'm not comfortable with it

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10 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I've dating my boyfriend for 5 months I love him more then anything. I'm in college and he works. He's 34 years old and I'm 19 years old. I know there is a big gap but I love him and I feel like he does loves me back. so we had issues in the past but now its all good... ... (145 words)

I feel like I'm being punished for the mistakes of his two ex wives!

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10 January 2011 (F)

age - I've been dating this gentleman for the last 5 years. I've come to realize that we will never have a future together. He has 5 children and three live with him. He's been coming over to my place every weekend(shares my home and food) and never brings anything over. He is a good ... (386 words)

How do we get through the awkward silences?

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10 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend can talk for hours but then sometimes can't talk at all. Can u please give me advice on how to stay away from acward scilences. Please don't give me corny answers like the news and the weather and all that green shit. We in the 9th grade. Pleeeassse help... (53 words)

I don't see a future with him but I love him!

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10 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i've been dating with him about 4 years and now we're gonna hit the 5. i have a problem with him. seriously, i think he is getting bored with me. we're having a long distance relationship and not seeing him for 3 months. i donno whether i should continue this relationship with ... (113 words)

I don't know whether to wait for him or just to get out?

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10 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Please be kind to me. This man I met is married, but he and his wife are getting a divorce. It's over between them (has nothing to do with me), but he still lives there now. He sleeps on the couch every night and is saving money to get his own place. We started as friends,... (172 words)

How do I get over a man I could never be with but love?

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10 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - so i've never been one for committing adultery, but it just happened. he says that ever since he met me he was interested, trying to always talk and flirt with me, but was shot down when he found out i was seeing someone. I was shocked more when i found out he was married ... (410 words)

I want my friend to forget his ex!

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10 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - ok i made a post about my close male friend claiming he likes me and which I also like however he is still missing his ex girlfriend. When we met as friends, he poured out his heart to me about his past relationship. It was for 7 years but has been over for a year. He claims he ... (118 words)

I'm 6 months pregnant and my mother wants to kick me out!

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10 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I really need your help. My mother I thought I could trust Out of everyone everything I tell her she goes and tells my step father. She thinks me and my babys dad were having sex in my room when it was a movie and my mother crys about everything my mother is 300 pounds and n... (295 words)

My boyfriend's family doesn't accept me!

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10 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I never wrote to one of these before, so do bear with me! I have been with my boyfriend for now a year. I live in Northern Ireland, where religion slightly matters. My boyfriend is a Protestant and I'm a Catholic. Boyfriend told me that his parents like me, but apparean... (554 words)

Can I fall back in love with him after he cheated on me?

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10 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay, so my boyfriend cheated on me 7 months ago. I was extremely hurt by it but i took him back because i still loved him. We've been doing really well and i completely trust him again. The problem is that I just realized that when i heard he cheated on me i fell out of love ... (219 words)

Complicated Situation with the Man I Love

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10 January 2011 (F)

age - I have known this guy for quite sometime and he told me that he was filing for divorce but I heard rumors that he lied about it. We have gotten reaquainted online; by calling each other. The last time we spoke was 3 days ago and he told me that he loves me; I told him the same ... (193 words)

I want to be thoughtful but, I'm broke!

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10 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I want to do something nice for my Sug but i dont have any funds. I know she knows i love her but i want to do something sweet for her to show i think about her non-stop..what should i do?... (41 words)

Does love exist without sex?

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10 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Do you think love can exist without sex??..How can people be together 2-3 days out of a 7day wk without having sex when the see one another? This seems strange to me, but at the same time i think it's because im not use to it.... (46 words)

I don't enjoy masturbating!

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10 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a 16 year old girl and I do not enjoy masturbating. I have masturbated before, I've tried different techniques, I've watched porn, and I cannot enjoy it. All it does is frustrate me. Is there anything I can do or any suggestions on how to enjoy masturbating?... (49 words)

I love my boyfriend's hairiness but he hates it!

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10 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend about a year and a half. There is something that bothers me but I am getting used to it. He has a hairy back and he doesn't like it but I do. And because he is a bit over weight he never takes is shirt off during sex. He mentioned to me one time... (153 words)

I don't know how to handle my sadness! I want someone in my life!

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10 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi guys. I'm a 16 year old gay male and I'm been going through a tough time in my life since the last 3 years. There are a lot of things in my life that are bringing me down. One of the things that ways a lot on me is the fact that I'm lonely. I'm just tired of being a lone, ... (236 words)

I'm guessing she wants marriage?

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10 January 2011 (M) age 36-40 - Hello readers. I am Adrian and I need some serious advices about my relationship. So, this is my second relationship and her first one; I must say it took me a hard time to chase her and our relationship started very slowly compared to my first horrible relationship. Ho... (323 words)

My ex is trying to ruin what I have with my boyfriend!

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10 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex and I broke up about 3 months ago, we were together for a year, the relationship was tough, we were on and off and finally we both got sick of it called it quits. I've moved on now, I know im not completely over it but i'm fine. He on the other hand keeps sending me ... (188 words)

My LDR boyfriend is acting distant when we're already far apart!

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10 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 15 years old almost 16 and I had a boyfriend who just turned 17 and we live in different states and we dating for a while then we broke up near my birthday and got back to together on my birthday then awhile later we broke up again because he wanted to break up with me so ... (164 words)

My boyfriend is having a weird moment and now needs space!

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10 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of 6mo says he wants to slow down, however continues giving mixed signals. He tells me he just wants to slow down and think about things. He broke-up with his girlfriend after 3yrs and started dating me in July. He still says he has feelings for her (But also says ... (284 words)

I wonder if actions speak louder than words?

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10 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Lemme start off by saying I'm not trying to sound selfish or spoiled or anything alone those lines. I've been with my boyfriend for 5 months and I love him very much. He says he loves me but sometimes I wonder if actions so speak louder than words. He tells me he loves me and ... (85 words)

Separated from my wife, now she wants to come back but wants to have an open marriage?

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10 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - i have a really attractive wife who im seperated from,shes 27 im 33 we have recently become close again and have had sex twice,she wants me to move back in with her but wants the relationship to be open as she wants to see other men and has even said she knows a guy who would ... (111 words)

I like my girlfriend's "natural scent". Is that weird?

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10 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I've noticed that I really like how my girlfriend smells. And I'm not talking perfume or deodorant, I mean her natural body scent. Like for instance when she's all sweaty after one of her soccer games I think she just smells amazingly sexy and feminine. I also love how she ... (130 words)

Broke the rules, I'm in love with a married man!

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10 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I met several or more months back, a charming fun freak in the sheets just hang out guy. He is married has been for 14 years and has a son. He has been denied sex from his partner for sometime now and one thing was how great we got along when we hung out and how incredible the ... (168 words)

In love with my tutor!

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10 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am seriously attracted to a male friend of mine but cannot work out whether my feelings are reciprocated, or whether he sees me simply as a friend. I am 25, he is 27. I met him about a year ago at university (he is a tutor, I am a student, I hasten to add that he does not ... (859 words)

Sex with 2 men in one night, now I'm pregnant!

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10 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I had two sexual partners on the same night. I was at a party and one was my boyfriend but the other happened because I was drunk, now I'm pregnant. What do I do?... (34 words)

Looking for new tricks to turn my bf on.

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10 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey again! Lately things me and my boyfriend have been doing are getting a bit old and i need some new things that would turn him on, anyone have any ideas? Also, do you know anything that will make him cum, as their arent many things that make him. thanks.... (54 words)

Should my girlfriend and I transfer colleges?

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10 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I are both 19 and have been dating for 2 years. We both just completed our first semester of college. The problem is, we made a decision to go to separate colleges back when our relationship was still young. But we know now that we love each other. We are both ... (210 words)

Is it wrong to date my step brother?

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10 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Is it wrong to date my step brother? Im 14 an my step bro is 13 an he is really cute an i really like him. I mean he flirts with me all the time. I dont know what to do?!... (41 words)

If I can't change who I am attracted to should I just accept loneliness?

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10 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have never expressed these feelings before to anyone; I am not looking for a pity party. I'm just looking for feedback. This is making me more depressed than I already am. I've been told countless times to date within my league. I've been told to give average men a ch... (478 words)

Controlling mother becoming too much for me.

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10 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been having problems with my mother since I was a child, she's extremely controlling and it's becoming worse in the last few years. My mam has brought me up as a single parent for all my life and we've always lived with my elderly grandmother. My mother looks aft... (595 words)

Is this infatuation of something more? I don't want to scare him off.

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10 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - There's this wonderful man that I met the night before he was leaving back to his country. We clicked, we talked for hours (until morning!), then we slept together. I thought it would be a one-night-stand. I don't usually go for one-night-stands but it just felt right. After ... (942 words)

Why doesn't he want our relationship status on facebook?

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10 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Why is it that when your dating someone and you want to share it on facebook they dont want to. Its been a long time now since we've been together but he still acts like he doesnt know it. I havent done anything to him at all so what does this mean? Everbody posts in a ... (59 words)