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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I think my in laws are stalking me online

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

22 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I think my inlaws are stalking me online. A few years ago I posted a story about how awful a certain in-law had behaved towards me and how upset I was and asked what I could do about it got a few replies but the in-law it was regarding found out and showed my wife who already ... (180 words)

How can I get him to be mine?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5081 days ago

22 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - So I have this guyfriend and we've known each other forever (his mom use to babysit me) around the time I was 19 we started hooking up having sex and hanging out and stuff I started to develope feelings for him and ended our "sexual friendship" I stop talking to him for four ... (132 words)

I went to his house and he went mental on me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

22 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am currently in a long term relationship but last year in summer i met up with a guy and seen him for a few weekends for fun. His ex-girlfriend came back on the scene before she moved back home and they sorted stuff out. I seen him again when she went back to USA. So we ... (132 words)

My boss wants to meet up with me on the weekend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

22 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My Boss has asked if he can join me on a night out!He asked what I was upto at the weekend, I told him I was going to watch a local band play at my local and he said "i'd like to join you sometime for a drink", he then said "sorry there's me inviting myself - you can say no". I ... (242 words)

What if I never meet anyone?

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22 January 2011 (?) age 26-29 - heyy well my other problem is i know im only young but im scared of never meeting someone as there are no bisexuals or lesbians in my year and im scared that the next 4 years or whatever of my life im gunna be alone and not be able to experiment and find out my sexual ... (98 words)

Boyfriend found out about the one night stands!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

22 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Please dont make me feel worse than I already do. I know it serves me right,karma,thats what you get and so on. So,to keep it brief,my bf of 4 years found out about a 1 night stand,not the first time,but the first he knows about,he may well start investigating and find out even ... (190 words)

He is my best friend and my worst nightmare!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Ive been dating a guy for almost three years and I still feel hot for him one week and cold for him the next. He makes me feel loved and needed and we can be the best of friends like it comes naturally. Then he will show his irritated and angry side and I start to have doubts ... (238 words)

I don't know what to do and I feel helpless.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

22 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok where do I start. Well first off me and my girlfriend have been together for five years. We loved each other very much and helped each other get through very tough times in our life. She has always dealt with bouts depression and I have helped her get through them. Anyway we ... (529 words)

Is it ok to press charges on my ex if he keeps calling and texting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5081 days ago

22 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I broke up with him a week ago and every two days so far, he text me saying that he wants to talk private and keeps asking what he did wrong--I said i was simply was miserable in the relationship and I'm all wrong for him. I don't get it; I thought he moved on like I did. I ... (213 words)

My husband refuses to meet our daughter's ex crim boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5081 days ago

22 January 2011 (F)

age - My daughter is 18 and a senior in high school. Last year she met a man 5 years older than her and now they are dating. He is also an ex-con (time for drugs)and a tatoo artist. I found out last year that she was writing to him in jail. He is now out and wants to meet me and my ... (121 words)

I'm nervous and don't know what move to make next!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

22 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so i recently met this guy at a bar. He immediately came up to me and asked me if i would like a drink. So we ended up chatting for the rest of the night, and he walked me home. We then spent the rest of the night talking. Finally, I started getting really tired, and so he ... (191 words)

What did I do? Why is he treating me this way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5081 days ago

22 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Sorry it so long. but i had to explain the details I am a 27 year old lady. I am having an ongoing situation. One of my friend, a married guy (about 43 years of age), and his wife who was good friends with me for few years. Thought of them as parents. They use to tal... (1513 words)

I might be being taken for a ride ...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I was broken up with!!! The girl I was involved with is 25 and is trying to finish her degree. She called me almost a month after we broke up and started to tell me of her financial problems; and was thinking of working at a strip club to pay for her classes. I offered to pay ... (146 words)

Everytime we make plans to hang out something comes up!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - She says that she wants to go out with me and that she likes me, and i like here back, but every time we try to go out something always happens and we never do go out...this is like the 4th time its happened...what should i do...i already talked to her and she said that she did ... (66 words)

I am pregnant, we broke up, now what?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

22 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i broke up like 3 days ago. and i was panning to move on so i asked him if that was okay since i am having his kid. he said that he didnt wont me to move on because i have his kid. he said he didnt wont me to give his kid a step dad... should me having... (85 words)

Why am I always alone?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

22 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Where do I start off? I'm just always aloneeeeeeeeee! I'm pushing 20 and I'm a very pretty girl. But I want a boyfriend. I don't get it, I only had 1 boyfriend and ugh that was when I was 17. I don't care for him at all. But I want male attention, I mean yes I know I'm pretty, ... (338 words)

I don't understand why guys are so confusing!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

22 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - The other day i was walking in the hall and my crush was there and i think he touched my waist but im not sure if it was an accident or not. He was walking the other way and i think he saw me but he kept walking toward me and his friend was kinda pulling him away but when i ... (139 words)

My boyfriend doesn't treat me the same anymore.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend doesn't treat me the same anymore. What can I do? he used to text me all the time, but I'm lucky if i get one without asking a question what I need the answer to.. and most of the time one worded. He never makes the effort to come see me, it's gotten one sided... (320 words)

I feel stuck and unsure what to do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

22 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I was wondering if anyone one has gone through a similar situation and how you dealt with it. (And thanks for reading this) My boyfriend and I have been together a little over 3years, me 22 and him 24. We have been in a long distance relationship, three hours away, exce... (422 words)

Are my girlfriend's sexual issues common in women? Is there something I can do to make the experience more enjoyable for her?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

22 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I are sexually active. After having sex for a bit, she will ask me if I am about done. After she asks me this question, I just stop, or other times she will say it's hurting her. We use a lot of lube. Is this normal for women? Is she just interested in having ... (99 words)

I've been asked to participate in a threesome but have conflicting feelings about it

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Been asked to partisipate in a three some but have very pro/con views on it plus I like the guy and dont know who the other person is. Am worried that I'll chicken out, it wont be as good as expected and am very nervus about this. Should I do it...?... (54 words)

I'm pregnant, his ex just had his baby and I don't want him going back and forth between us!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - im in love with this guy i been with for about a year, a few months into our relationship, i found out his ex was pregnant from by him.He didnt bothered to tell me he said he was scared he lose me. once the ex call me and told me , i was very upset and he then later admitted to ... (291 words)

My ex and I are over, but we have a young son together. How do I get over these feelings for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

22 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I need major help. I was with my ex for two years before he broke up with me, and we have a nine month old son together. We had been going through a major custody battle, but we were able to come to a written agreement and work on this outside of court. Before that happend he ... (337 words)

He's giving me all these mixed signals!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My ex boyfriend broke up with me becos everyone was causing drama between us. and i am still madly in love with him. But he has a girlfriend now.. he's been talking to me a lot. and i'm trying to ignore him but he hates when i do that.. I really want him back.. He act... (118 words)

My boyfriend is in a band that has two attractive girls. How can I stop feeling insecure?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a boyfriend of 4 months. I am 15 going on 16. I absolutely love him to bits, he is everything to me and I never, ever, ever want to lose him! Everything has been going perfectly, he treats me like his only girl and we spend as much time as possible together. Recent... (212 words)

I just want my fiance back!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

22 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I have cheated on my fiance several times,he had an idea, but as nothing was admitted or had been confirmed was thinking he just may have got it wrong. Well thats how it seemed. Last week he walked in and showed me a text he`d been sent with the names of some and a couple with ... (374 words)

What else can I do to gain her forgiveness?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

22 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I recently upset a girl really badly, so I wrote her a letter of apology. She has been ignoring me for the past few days and never replied to me. I seriously do not want her to hate me for the rest of my life. What else can I do to get her to forgive me? Or should I give ... (77 words)

I find myself falling for a man who already has a girlfriend.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

22 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I am 45, recently divorced and redundant. Due to all these reasons I have been fairly depressed. I recently met a 37 year old guy at a party socially who befriended me and showed me a lot of sympathy. He also seems attracted to me. As a result I have started confiding in him ... (271 words)

Which guy should I like? Or should I find a guy outside my group of friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

22 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I recently moved to a new town and made some new friends. I mostly hang with the boys since I become easily jealous and I'm very conceited. It makes me feel better about myself being surrounded by a group of guys. Along the way, I made some pretty good friends. Three ... (386 words)

I am bothered by the thought of my ex moving on. What does this mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I dated for about a year and a half. I broke up with him because we were both in college and we were in different places in life. I was just starting college and he was graduating, and he resented me wanting to party because he had already done all that and ... (185 words)

My wife has webcam sex chats with men, and hides things from me. Should I be worried?

This question has 30 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

22 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife does webcam sex chats and hides a lot of stuff from me. Should I be worried? ... (20 words)

My girlfriend's past is causing me stress. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

22 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - So here is the situation, my girlfriend and I have been dating for 4 months. I've known for some time that she had slept with my brother before meeting me and that it wasn't anything serious because she has told me many times. She told me they were just good friends and ... (233 words)

Should I reconcile with my ex now, or wait until she and my best friend break up. I am somewhat turned on knowing he is with her.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I had a heated argument a few days ago. Yesterday, I was having a drink with my best friend, we have been friends since high school. He asked me how Linda was and I told him we had split and that she was fair game. I knew that he thought she was sexy and only ... (270 words)

How can I convince him that working on things is a good idea?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - hello everyone, i have a bit of an issue with my husband. things are kind of rocky right now, we have been seperated for a few months, and i really want to work on our realtionship, but my husband is still unsure of what he wants. how can i convince him that working on things ... (88 words)

Is it unreasonable for me to expect my boyfriend to be over it by now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

22 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and he is very lovely and we are happy together. in the first stages of our relationship i "cheated" on him with this guy we'll call Harry. By "cheated" i mean we used to email eachother all the time, nothing naughty at all, just nice ... (217 words)

Should I stay and hope she changes her mind?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been with a girl for 5 months now and I'm crazy about her. The problem is that she is graduating and is leaning towards not being in a long distance relationship for a year until I graduate while I am certain that I would like to give it a shot. I don't want to be in a ... (105 words)

Should I tell my parents that I masturbate???

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3300 days ago

22 January 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - I am 13, and I masturbate. No one knows about it and I don't know what to do about it. How do I tell my parents??? Should I tell my parents??? ... (31 words)

I found out the other day my friend took the number of a guy I have liked for months from my phone and started texting him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I found out the other day my friend took the number of a guy i have liked for months from my phone and started texting him Anyway ive liked him for a few months but have never said anything as i do actually think hes to good for me, we have tho slept together a numbe... (366 words)

Creative advice needed!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I am in need of some help from those who are creative. I have an on going "battle" with my gf for doing little things for each other that are out of the ordinary. so I am looking for self made crafts or creative ways to tell her how im thinking. any fun help would be greatly ... (60 words)

I'm sad that the father of my child didn't care for either of us

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - my ex and i were in a relationship for almost 3 years and when i got pregnant (on birth control, a true accident) he left me. during my pregnancy he started dating another woman. to me this is very disrespectful as at the time i needed his support or at least his friendship and ... (372 words)

Frozen and stuck in my life

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 January 2011 (F)

age - Dear Cupid, I feel frozen and stuck in my life. I am unable to motivate myself to do the simplest things and I am getting really frustrated. I have been this way since ending an affair with my first love. I was happily married when he contacted me. I told him to "go... (296 words)

Should I say that I'm in love with him? Even though he's a player?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey everyone! It's been a long time since i didn't post any questions in here.. fortunately ;) haha... Well, i have a new "problem". ( This is going 2 be a long text! lol ) I fell in love with a guy who's a player.. i guess.. we met each other on my best friend's birthday. And ... (324 words)

I feel guilty about masturbating

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

22 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 17 year old bisexual female. I started masturbating to porn about a year and a half ago and feel so much guilt about it. I'm very ashamed myself, I don't think any of my friends do this. Am I a monster? ... (43 words)

I'm feeling uneasy about her close friendship with this guy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

22 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been dating my girlfriend for a year and a half now, and just recently have been realizing the magnitude of her relationship with her male friend. He is living in North Carolina and we are in Arizona. They have been friends longer than we have been dating, but it is ... (610 words)

Should I give a 'yes'?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm caught in a real dilemma..when i first entered college it was as if I suddenly became alone..It was at this time that a person came up to support me so much that he came all the way from just a classmate to the best friend I ever had..1 week ago,he proposed..in spite of my ... (117 words)

Is she not certain or was her friend pulling my leg?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

22 January 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi there, To get straight to the point, there is a girl i met on a site(not dating one) with which we go in the same school. I started hitting on her, but she told me she wants someone else so i respected her descision and quitted trying to get us together. Although, a frie... (134 words)

Tell me if she is interested in sex with me, and then how do do that?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

22 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 18 year old. I'm very intrested in sex. But i yet didn't do that. I have an aunty with a child.she is a village girl with less education. She is so sexy. White looking and have amazing boobs. I want to do sex with her. I want to know if she is intrested in me. She sometimes ... (185 words)

Will she fall for me if I do things to make her jealous?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Please girls, help me! Can making a girl you love jealous make her fall in love with you? Like hanging out with a lot of girls and even those she knows? Will it make her fall for you?... (41 words)

Do I leave my relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

22 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I'd be really grateful for some advice on this one, as i'm going round in circles. 10 years ago,when I was a young and foolish teenager (just!) I met a lovely guy,(let's call him Dave) we dated for about 6 months, then I was moving away, so ended the relationship as ... (715 words)

Why is my ex so insistent on becoming my friend on facebook?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - i broke up with my ex 3 months ago. he started becoming a distant asshole. we hadnt spoke since the breakup until 1 day the week b4 last he sent me a friend request on facebook. He wanted me to see that he got married around Christmas time-that explains why he became distant-i ... (138 words)

I feel like I'm about to lose my mind trying to help my beloved father!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

22 January 2011 (F)

age - I am writing to agony aunts to try to keep from jumping out the window! My aged father has a colonoscopy exam coming up in four days, and we are trying to follow the special diet that he has to eat beforehand, but he interprets every instruction differently than do I. I'm ... (194 words)

Is it my fault there's a distance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 January 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - im 15 and my gfs 14 were in the same year and we were going town with some friends yesterday and she was wearing a belly top shorts and converse i didnt want her to wear it but i didnt say nout wen we got to town mmy bestmate was just staring at her so i kissed her and he ... (245 words)

Should I propose?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

22 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I need some advice about my relationship and whether or not we're ready to be engaged. I have a great relationship with my boyfriend of two years now. We are compatible in almost every way, same interests, passions, life goals and incomes! Currently we've been livi... (289 words)

I want my best friends boyfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

22 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So my best friend's boyfriend is away at uni. They have been together for 2 months now. Me and her boyf are quite good friends.. we text and chat online most days. He has always been quite flirty with me, but i never really thought anything of it. When he came home for ch... (237 words)

She tells me I am ridiculous for feeling this way and that she is walking on egg shells around me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

22 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Im 29 years old and have been married for 2 years but have been with my wife for 6 years. We have two children, 4 and 2. Ive tried to talk to her about the lack of attention between us and she just makes all types of excuses why she doesnt. We are hard up on money right now ... (232 words)

I think my house might be haunted and it's making me nervous.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

22 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - This is a serious question. i know this is for relationships, but please help. I really believe in spirits and have done all my life. Every house I have lived in I felt like there has been something there but it's never been proven. I've been living in this house with my pa... (387 words)

How do we find a way to work together given all the visa restrictions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I met my current boyfriend this past summer while working on a cruise ship. We are both from different countries (i'm from Canada and he's from Brazil). We hit it off instantly and are crazy about each other. I had to leave to go back to Canada in September to finish off my ... (256 words)

Together for two years but lately no affection?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

22 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years. We live together and everything. I love him dearly, but in the past three months I have noticed it is very rare for him to ever hug or kiss me. We rarely have sex either and when we do it's noting like it used to be, ... (73 words)

Married for five months and still no sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear, I get marrieged 5 months ago, but i can have sex with my wife, cause she felt hurt when i want to penetrate her. actually, i just put my gun front of her hole and she push out me immediate. i have to try with my best. oral sex or do anything to make her feel better. but... (70 words)

I'm scared my ex boyfriend is going to hurt me again

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

22 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi all, Please can you advise on this, as I am very confused. I went out with a guy for a while and fell totally in love with him. However, he took advantage of that, and we fell out over lots of things and the relationship became very stressful and he broke it off, and we did ... (497 words)

My LDR has something going on but won't tell me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, hope some of you can help settle my mind on a certain situation. I'm involved with a guy who lives long distance, of whom is coming to spend the weekend with me within the next 2-3 weeks. We're really close and share almost everything with each other, but there's ... (402 words)

Secretly married, her parents don't approve and are forcing her to marry someone else

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

22 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - please help me, i am in big trouble... :(:( i am in love with a girl, she is 19yr old. we are in a relationship for a last 1 year. we had also marry with each other without telling anyone. now the twist is that the girl is my cousin. she is my grandmother's sister daughter.... (498 words)

I like two guys, but I need help choosing the right one. Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

22 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm so confused. I met a guy on an online dating site. We exchanged numbers and have been texting... he lives about 2 hours drive from me and we haven't met up yet. Recently, I met another boy who I do like. However, the other day, the boy I met from the dating site has asked ... (131 words)

My friend does not approve of this boy I am interested in. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I have been dating this boy for about a month now and he wants to move to the next level and start seeing each other. I do really like this boy and he said he has the same feelings, but my friend doesn't like him and is telling me not to get with him. When I mention that ... (182 words)

How can I gather the strength to break up with my terrible boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. Well I just want to know how to stop loving my first love. Obviously, I know I should have broken up with him a long time ago and all, but I just want to stop loving him. I've heard he has cheated on me so many times. Ugh. I don't know what I'm waiting for, but for some ... (116 words)

Am I in love? And how do I go about telling her I have feelings for her without causing any awkwardness?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I really like this girl... and have liked her since I met her 5 months ago. We're not going out, but I want to. I have had crushes before on celebrities and people I know, but this doesn't feel like a crush. Since November (3 months ago), I have found myself contantly staring ... (217 words)

I'm feeling more confident, and less shy, but need ideas for starting a conversaton with others.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I started studying art at my local college a few months ago. I am a very shy person and find it very hard to talk to people. Recently, I have been very confident and wanted to talk to people in my class, but I havent been able to think of something to talk to them about. What... (93 words)

Now that I live with my boyfriend, he no longer pays any attention to me! What can I do to change this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I have been with my boyfriend for 6 months. We used to be in a long-distance relationship and while I was gone, we used to talk about how happy we were and how excited we were for me to move and get our own place. Well... Now, we're living together but we don't sp... (120 words)

My younger boyfriend is ruining my self esteem. Was I right to break up with him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

22 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi there. I was recently in a relationship with a guy briefly. This is someone I've known for a couple of years. I'm 5 years older than him and he knew this from the onset. The problem that i have is - during our first 'get together' when we were chatting... he asked me how ... (160 words)

My friend set me up with a male friend of hers, but now she's acting jealous! Should I go through with meeting him?

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22 January 2011 (?) age 41-50 - My friend wanted to set me up with one of her guy friends. I talked to him over e-mail and he wants to meet up. He lives in another state but said he would drive up to see me. I'm nervous because what if he sees me and isn't interested? I'm just worried that he'll think I'm ... (153 words)

Am I just being used here or is he really in love with me?

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22 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - ok heres my question. ive had a bf for almost a year last week we were hanging out together went clubbing and i asked him how come he decided to come over to me the day we met? he told me that it was because he just had to have me and then he said that he was sort of using me... (190 words)

I really want to blow his mind when I see him again!

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22 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My guy is out of town working and we wont be able to see each other for three weeks till he gets his second pay check.....and I wanna really blow his mind when I see him again...should I get lingerie...or something else...HELP?... (42 words)

Are there any tips to help me last longer when I decide to have sex?

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22 January 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey, any tips? I ejaculate way too quickly. When a girl gives me a hand-job, I blow my load within two minutes. Any tips to help me last longer when I do get to the point of having sex?... (43 words)

I always thought I was just friends with this guy...then why the kiss??

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22 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i need help to understand this situation im in tnx. i grew up with this guy and we were extremly friendly he was a sort of father/brother figure to me. he is nigerian and he wasnt allowed to live or work in the country, so he married his gf back at home and because she was allo... (349 words)

Any thoughts as to why I had this dream or what it could possibly mean??

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22 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so I had a really weird dream so anyone who can give me any thoughts on what it could mean would be great. Ok so a little backround on the person in my dream. I had a fwb for about 3 years on and off that just recently ended. Well he told me a while back his dad his grandpa ... (326 words)

It doesn't feel and hardly even qualifies as a relationship...

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22 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hey.so me n my bf have been together for 4 months now.but i actually don't feel like im in a relationship.i feel alone. i cant actually open up n share things with him n neither does he. i wanna over things but i don't wanna lose him.i mean i wouldn't like him dating other ... (101 words)

Separated parents--all my dad's responsibilities have become my responsibilities?

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22 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My mom and my dad have been separated for about 2years now. So basically, all of my dad's responsibilities are now my responsibilities since he does not live with us anymore (us= my mom, little brother, and myself). Ever since he left, my mom became so needy. It's hard to ... (186 words)

The sweetness of first love....

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22 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Stories of first loves? Did it last? How old were you? What went wrong? Do you still think of them? Are you still together? Stories, please. I'm interested :)... (32 words)

Love stories about getting with the ex?

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22 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ever gotten back with an ex? How long did you guys separate? Did things work out in the end? I recently got back together with mine after a long break up period of 10 months. I'm curious to know who shares a similar experience and ultimately, if they made the right choice or ... (57 words)

Should I forgive and forget if she still insists on seeing this group at her college?

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22 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I have been dating for about 7 months, and love eachother very much. We go to different colleges, and she has a lot of guy friends that she hangs out with on the weekends. She always tells me that they respect our relationship and would never come on to her.... (153 words)

My LDR boyfriend is cheating on me

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22 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My long distance bf is cheating on me. We met about 4 months ago through mutual friends and about 1 month into the relationship he paid for me to go visit! I had a good time I really enjoyed his company.. So I get back home which Is about 1200 miles away from him and everything ... (693 words)

How can I make my boyfriend feel better about my past?

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22 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a 17 year old girl, and my boyfriend is 19. We've only been dating for about 2 months, and I just recently got out of an abusive relationship of a year. He knows this, of course. He can't seem to get over the fact that we messed around, even though he knows that my ... (220 words)

When do I stop caring about my ex boyfriend?

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22 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - It's a little bit of a story. Thanks for bearing with me. So...it's been a little over 6 months, or half a year, since my ex boyfriend dumped me. A little info on what we were: he was my first boyfriend and first everything. First kiss, first handhold, and I lost my virginit... (502 words)

I was just trying to be nice... why did she mistake that for a romantic interest in her?

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22 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Why do girls think if you do nice things for them, that you like them or want to date them? Honestly this question never been so true for me right now. I dated a girl for a year and we broke up 18 months ago, she knew I loved her deeply. I was hurt when she started dating a... (431 words)

All of a sudden he doesn't trust me and thinks I'm lying

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22 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid me and my boyfriend clicked right away and we moved in together the same night as our first date we've been together Every day since that day for the past 2months now all of a sudden there's a matter of him thinking I'm lieng and the trust seems to be going away what ... (58 words)

Why was I just cut out of her facebook account for no reason at all?

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22 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I know some people think friend request stuff on facebook is silly but I had one incident which has surprised me and hurt me. A few years back I worked with a lady who I socilised with, looked after her daughters on occasions, was caring when her husband passed. Then I moved aw... (239 words)

Big crush, like very much, or love, or lust? How do I tell which feelings are love?

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22 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey, so I need some advice. How do you know love when you, well, know it? I know it's silly since I'm only 13. Yeah, I've gone through a few crushes, like, 'oh that new kid is hot', yada yada. In 3 grade, I even 'dated' a guy.. For one recess. But this guy is differen... (338 words)

She just up and left him out of the blue!1

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22 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi all, Would like peoples views on the following. My friend is in a situation wher his girlfriend has left him out the blue for a friend of her's, myself and other friends of his think that she has just done it without giving it any thought as everything was fine 1... (193 words)

I don't understand my married man friend

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22 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I been seeing this marry man for about almost 5 yrs now we never had sex we just share our feeling with each other I just don't understand why every time we are together he always say u will always be mines like I was talking to his co worker at his job he just got very upset ... (113 words)

I can't get over my ex fling/best friend even though I'm in a committed relationship!

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22 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically, I had this guy friend for over a year who was engaged to a girl he didn't love (he stayed with her because they had a baby together). I went through two other relationships while I was friends with him, the second of which began online and stayed long distance (700+ ... (388 words)

He moves on from girl to girl but he has never moved onto me!

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22 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so he came to my school this year, and since then we have been bestfriends. In the beggining (first days i knew him) i really liked him and he liked me, but he never told me and i never told him and so i still liked him but then he liked my best friend for a while, and beca... (342 words)

My best friend is in love with my boyfriend!

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22 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - my best friend is in love with my BF and i dont know what to do i really love him and every time we go out one of my BFFs start to like him i dont know what to do, my heart is breaking and i dont want to lose anyone ... (52 words)

Husband needs the aid of porn to have sex with me

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22 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Why when my husband and I have sex we always have to have porn on. When it is not on and we are kissing sometimes he gets on hard, but most of the time he is soft until we have porn on every night. We were apart for almost 2yrs and he said this is what he did all the time to ... (305 words)

Homesick in Canada! How do I cope?

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22 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok well basically im 15 nearly 16. 5 months ago i moved from england to canada. i have moved so much in my life and i finally lived somewhere where i had the most amazing friends, family and school and it all fell apart when i moved here. so my question is how do i cope with ... (238 words)

My scrooge husband does not care about my financial problems. Is this normal in a marriage?

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22 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband doesn't care that I have financial problems. I was adjusting for green card last year. During that time my working permit expired and lost my full time job. But he still wants me to pay my share of the rent. He doesn't care my account is draining and I am almost ... (330 words)

Facebook use by my husband is destroying our marriage. What can I do to fix this problem?

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22 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I found out a week ago that my husband of 16 years has been comunicating with Facebook Poker young women, that look, well..."slutty", he doesn't know them, in fact, some are not even American. Some of the things that I saw that he wrote to these women are not what I think a ... (167 words)

Last year I slept with a co-worker. Now she will not let me forget it. How do I handle the problems she's causing me?

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22 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - In November, I slept with a co-worker. I'm married and I know I screwed up. Right after it happened, I felt guilty and told her that it would never happen again.Well, my wife works with us, and the co-worker has been dropping hints left and right. She's been acting very str... (143 words)

If he will not use this separation to work on our marriage then why should I hold out hope that we'll ever get back together?

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22 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband and I have been separated a couple weeks now. We decided we needed to separate when it didn't seem like things were getting better at home. He is not sure what he wants and I have been willing and ready to work through our problems. He is not happy but I understand ... (653 words)

Calling for very romantic ideas to do and buy for valentine's day please?

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22 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, I know valentimes day is for another few weeks yet but i'm in major stress.! This is my first valentimes day where i am with someone and in a serious relationship I have been with my boyfriend a year now and i want to make this valentimes day so special so that we will ... (104 words)

Am I just nothing to him now? Does he just forget me, completely, after years of marriage?

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22 January 2011 (?) age 51-59 - Does a man just forget his wife after he finds a new woman, even when he knows he was at fault for cheating does he just forget his wife, after 18 years, I was good to him... Can he just forget me just like that... i fought for him back begged him, but he took it as if I was be... (95 words)

If guys know they love a girl, then do they still want to party and see girls, instead of settling down now?

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22 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I met a guy, dated for a month, broke up and didn't speak for a month and a half. Then started talking again and became best friends. It's been six months since we've become best friends, we're each others only best friends, and we recently admitted that we like each othe... (198 words)

How do I stop being so accomodating to guys? I want a long term meaningful relationship

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22 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have always made bad choices in guys, form high school until now...I've had long term relationships but never meaningful one I was always quick to make them happy doing everything I thought they wanted me to do (pushover). Most of the time I had sex on the first date even tho... (71 words)

Do I end it with my gf and also hurt my two children? or end it with the girl I feel is my soul mate?

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22 January 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Hello wise people, I did something I thought I would never do. I had an affair. Now before anyone goes tut, that was me, before it happened. I met this amazing girl at my girlfriend's work. We clicked from day one and it was at first, just the start of a great friendship... (806 words)