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writes:i am trying to decided what this could mean . is he just a flirty man with women or is he a player . had a friend of my say this to me an i have got to think about this . that the man i am interested in he is friendly an confident like the attention of many women .have been in this situation before with a man that likes women . an i do not want another relationship like that again .so that why i got to thinking about this . i have seen him wink an hug at a few ladies an i took it he was just friendly an new them .thanks
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reader, Dataluke  +, writes (17 January 2011):
 I think he feels good about himself when he flirts, so he's defiantly boosting his ego. But I don't know if he is serious or not, this will have to be your decision. If you want to tell him and trust him then do it, if you want to leave it and let him go then that's good too.
What ever you decide, be sure its in YOUR best interests, in both the short and long term.
I hope he learns his lesson.
All the best Dataluke
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2011): OP, we can't tell you if he's serious or not. You're going to have to find that out for yourself. Just remember he has a reputation.
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reader, forever58 +, writes (17 January 2011):
forever58 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you for your advice . have one question for DATELUKE
you said he was a flirt an i know he has been trying to get my attention . he knows he has my attention i have show it to him an i think he got it . but i wonder if he i just doing this to build his ego up or is he serious ?
i do thank you for your help on this matter .
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reader, Dataluke +, writes (15 January 2011):
Yes, I definitely think he's a flirt. Flirting is all about making sure the person your flirting with knows you're there, which he is definitely doing. I still recomend talking to him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2011): If a man has a reputation then there's usually a good reason for that. Going by what you've said about his behaviour it sounds like he is a player type of guy.
Go with your gut on this, if you feel like something isn't right then don't even go there. At your age it's just not worth wasting time on guys like that.
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reader, Dataluke +, writes (14 January 2011):
I used to be like that, I used to flirt with women whiles I was with my girlfriend. I thought I was just being nice but she had to tell me I was hurting her so I made every effort to stop what I was doing. And that's what you need to do.
Tell him that what he does hurts you and that you'd like him to stop. tell him this doesn't mean he can't have female friends,he just can't flirt with them.
I don't know if he's playing you or not, but you should trust him for now, especially if he agrees to try and change for you.
I hope he learns his lesson.
All the best, Dataluke
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reader, forever58 +, writes (14 January 2011):
forever58 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhad to add . they said that he look like a cofident man but look like he like the attention of many women . just to make this clear
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