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writes: Hey.So I have liked this guy for almost three years now. We're really good friends now and that makes me feel happy.College is about to end and I haven't for once hinted that I like him. I mean, even if I have, it wasn't that prominent because I have a BIG fear of rejection. Plus then things would get awkward if he doesn't like me back. But the latter I'm presuming. Maybe he would like me back (I'd Love THAT !) But he's the total unconventional guy and he is not very articulate with his personal feelings. I mean he doesn't confide in people.So I don't know, Its very confusing. I plan to tell him on the last day of college because I can't keep liking him and never know what could/couldn't have happened. But I'm very scared. I have an odd feeling that even if he likes/liked me a wee bit, he won't act upon it. Should I tell him ? Or should I just let it be? Its just eating me ! Thanks for reading :) Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHelloo, Thanks all ! I will tell him, end of college though. I don't have the courage to tell him now. If he doesn't like me, at least I'll get him off my mind !
Anyway, Thanks A Lot ! :) :)
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reader, mark89  +, writes (15 January 2011):
Dont wait til the end tell him before, if he rejects you so what there are a few million or more that would probably want you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2011): Think how you're going to feel a few years down the road if you don't tell him you like him. Do it!! If you don't, you will probably regret it for a long time. Even if he doesn't like you back, at least you will KNOW, once and for all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2011): Of course you should give it a go! You've nothing to loose on the last day of college and everything to gain. If he feels the same way, he will act on his feelings if you tell him, he'd be feeling the same way as you.
Good luck!
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reader, CJH  +, writes (15 January 2011):
 Yeah, just let it be. Dont bother telling him about your feelings after all, life is endless and time will wait for you - ARE YOU SERIOUS!!!!Of course I understand your fears, probably everybody reading this now understands your fears - they are perfectly natural.So far, youve missed out on what could have been three years of amazing happiness. Stop it now and make your move - life really is too short.You say you have suspicions he may feel the same way. Theres only one way to find out isnt there? You say youve become good friends? good friendships are built on honesty so be honest with him. The chances are that hes going to fall into your arms.....The thing is, its a moment of awkwardness and then its done! If he likes you fantastic! If he doesnt? OK fair enough, a true friendship will survive either outcome wont it?Stop worrying, stop secretly admiring and go and grab your dream - far too many people wait far too long these days.
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