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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Discovered spouse's secret!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5087 days ago

8 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Discovered Partner's Secret: Please help! Hello and thank you in advance for any insight that you may have for me: I have been with my spouse for seven years. I have always enjoyed a fantastic and exciting sex life with prior partners (never tried BDSM) although. Howeve... (371 words)

I can't orgasm just yet, is that normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

8 January 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - I am 14 and masturbate occasionally, although i am never cummed :/ all my friends keep on saying they can masturbate for ages and have cummed since year 7/8. Am i not normal ? Also when i am masturbating my foreskin goes up and down and the middle part of my penis comes out of ... (63 words)

Could she have feelings for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5095 days ago

8 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - First off i am a 23 year old female. There this girl i used to be friends with, for a long time. And i always liked her for more than a friend. I have never told her this. Well we use to talk a lot and after a couple people told her lies and started trouble between us. We ... (192 words)

Everyone calls me gay because I haven't gone through puberty yet!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

8 January 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - hi, everyone i need some help, my male friends and my family think i'm gay. the females dont though which i confusing.im 14 and starting to get more female attention.my voice hasnt broken and i get alot of stick that i dont deserve.i want to cry, but i cant cause the boys will ... (127 words)

My fiance is keeps changing his mind on wanting a baby!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

8 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I am 18 years old and been with my fiancé for nearly 2 years everything was great. I have always wanted kids as u come from a very big family. In april 2010 we had spoke about having a baby and he agreed to doing so. So the following weekend i went and got my coil out untill ... (319 words)

It's been 10 days after our date and my neighbor still hasn't called!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

8 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I asked my neighbor out for drinks because I was noticing him looking at me and saying hi. I asked him out because he seemed shy and I was becoming impatient plus Xmas and new years were approaching. I didn't know if he was excited about the date since when I saw him the night ... (210 words)

$300 a week isn't going to support me and my baby!

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8 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone I am due in may 2011 and my boyfriend has a full time job working as a porter at a car dealership and only brings in 300.00 a week he says when the baby comes he wants to change to full time and go to school full time. I'm worried he Isn't going to be there ... (87 words)

Did this affair end, and he just failed to mention it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5096 days ago

8 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - a year ago i started an affair with my partners brother there was always chemistry between us but nothing ever come of it then at a friends party one night he grabbed me and kissed me and asked me too meet him which i never me and my partner was on and off for 14 years and ... (193 words)

The one time I look through his found I find these pictures of slutty girls!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5095 days ago

8 January 2011 (?) age 30-35 - Hi I'm so confused and really need some help. My bf of a year just went out the shop and I stupidly looked through his phone. I've had plenty of opportunities before but never took them because in all Honestly, I trusted him. The same still goes, It was just an impulsiv... (283 words)

Any ideas on saving this LDR?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

8 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel like i'm loosing him. He lives 3 towns away, and we only see each other on weekends. And i wish i could see him more, but with school and all, its really hard. But We've been dating 7 months, and its just not the same. We can never think of anything to talk about. A... (120 words)

He said he is walking away having a relationship with me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5096 days ago

8 January 2011 (F)

age - I have dated this man for almost a year on and off. He is a Good, Hard-working man. He is a Ex-Marine. I have never dated someone that was so closed off not being able to express his feelings. Recently he told me in a message that he loved me and had wanted to marry me but ... (155 words)

An animal in bed?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

8 January 2011 (?) age 41-50 - When a guy says, "She's an animal in bed". What does that mean? I'm not into rough sex or anything, but the expression always puts me off a little. ... (32 words)

My guy friend is moving departments and I'm in pieces

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

8 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - please advise me. whats wrong with me. ive been in floods of tears all day because a guy i work with is moving to another department. we were close friends to start and towards the end we had some silly rows but today finally cleared the air. ive helped him every step of the ... (171 words)

How to forget about the older guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

8 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hey im 16 and quie nature for my age i drink,go out into town (clubs) and hang aroun with older lads. There is like a well known group of lads were i live there like in their 20's and im good mates with only on eof them but another one i sort of kissse in town ages ago an... (236 words)

How can I make him think about me as girlfriend material?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

8 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, here's the thing: I'm seeing a guy to whom I'm really into, although I won't let him know that because I'm not very sure about the way he feels about me. I've to say that he's kind of "emotionally unavailable" I'm a bit "femme fatale" in terms of difficulty. Despite this, ... (319 words)

Is it unhealthy to have sex everyday?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

8 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it unhealthy to have sex almost everyday? And after we have sex it hurt and was sore it has did this a few times what's wrong?... (27 words)

Sex is ok.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

8 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 17 years old and lost my virginity to my boyfriend 9 months ago. We've been together for a little over a year now. It's never really felt that great when we've had sex. I've always thought I had a problem but I don't know if it's me or him or what it is. It takes a toll on ... (93 words)

Should I ask him out for coffee?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5096 days ago

8 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've not got much confidence so I go to this place called mind, other people go their with there problems aswell. I'm nearly 26 and when I first meet people they say I dont look my age, well that I look about 18/19. Well there is a 35 year old I like, and one of the staff at ... (192 words)

All of these issues are pointing to me leaving, should I go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

8 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a boyfriend who I have 2 kids with. We dont have anyother kids between us. My boyfriend is a "street" hustler and just recently quit dealing. However he didn't save any money and is broke. He doesn't help me pay any bills (which are very high). He does watch the kids ... (115 words)

She says she loves me and no one will ever compare but, I can't help but think what she has already had!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

8 January 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I am really really struggling with insecurity given the amount of guys my girlfirend has slept with and in particular the amount of them that she has admitted had large manhoods - 8-9inc by her reckoning...She was forced into sex work for a year or two going back a while and ... (393 words)

He's not respecting me, but he says I'm not respecting him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

8 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - my boyfriend has recently been saying things that i dont really agree with and they've been upsetting me quite a bit. Every friday i go to his house after school, but on fridays he has rugby training until 4, so like a usual girlfriend i go up to the supermarket and walk around ... (177 words)

Why does my husband go to this spa?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

8 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I have been married for 14 years and have gone through Relate, family therapy, to cut the story short a very difficult marriage. My husband has a bullying personality, he has difficulties with boundaries and has a hurtful and mild antisocial behaviour. Recently,I discover... (197 words)

Am I just email entertainment for this leo male?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

8 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Need help with mature leo guy! Been emailing this particular leo guy for nearly 6 weeks now, was introduced through a mutual friend, we live in different counties but hope to meet up in a few months. Fairly regular chatting, mild flirting, i ask him questions but not too nose... (191 words)

I question whether it's my place to intrude on someone else's relationship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

8 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My best friend is in a relationship with a guy who does not treat her very well. He is always making promises (dates, trips, engagement, etc.) and letting her down. He's taken vacations by himself (to Cancun during college spring break to "relax"), has hobbies/friends/events he ... (248 words)

All this has happened in a few weeks? Should I let it slide?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5096 days ago

8 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So, i was talking to this guy for a month. Meaning we both liked each other, but had yett to commit exclusively. And then right before he was going to ask me out a girl asked me on facebook if i was also seeing him and claimed that she had kissed him the day before she ... (480 words)

Should I go back to my boyfriend who cheated on me or move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

8 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 27 and my boyfriend (we've been together for 7 years) has cheated on me, he claims it was a one night stand and will never happen again, bearing in mind we have a 2 year old child, and I love him, but do you think that people who cheat will always cheat again? ... (54 words)

I think he may be asking me out, but maybe I should beat him to the punch?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

8 January 2011 (F) age 30-35 - i really like this person. i have told him and he seemed cool about it. In class i overheard him say to his friend how do you ask someone out. My friends have been trying to get me to ask him out but i just dont know how to. He smiles at me all the time and my friends say he ... (92 words)

I told him I was a virgin, then he stopped texting me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

8 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So there is this guy and he is in the same organization as me at our university. We would never talk to each other mainly because we couldnt,we had to be serious and we were all busy doing things. After we went on break i noticed that he was liking pictures of me on facebook(we ... (581 words)

I want a guy to double date with - why is no guy interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5096 days ago

8 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a junior in high school, I'm smart, confident, and I'm good looking haha:) anyway, all throughout high school I haven't had a boyfriend. Guys have been interested in me, and we "talk" for a while but something happens and it just falls apart. I'm not the kind of girl tha... (127 words)

He can't dump her because she will have nothing, what about my feelings?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

8 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I met this guy few years ago and we were like the best friends ever and then we fell in love with each other but there's this problem he had something with this girl a time ago she was totally in love with him and he loved her too but things happend and she wasnt allowed ... (133 words)

I know how ill he is but that doesn't stop me from wanting him back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5096 days ago

8 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I split up with my partner 4 months ago i was the one that ended it but i want him back. I told him this just weeks after he left he was not bothered and was nasty and said some hurtfull things which i understand why. I did this we have been seeing one another for 6 weeks now ... (164 words)

Why would he masturbate when he has his wife?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

8 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I periodically find used condoms in my husbands things. Like in the bathroom under a towel, or this week in his bathrobe. I know he is masturbating in them, but what should I do?? When I was first married I called him screaming and crying thinking he cheated, then I called him ... (128 words)

No intimacy in marriage for nearly 5 months!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5058 days ago

8 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My DH and I have now been married for 6 1/2 yrs but together for 9. For the past 4 1/2 months there has been zero intimacy and I'm going crazy. He won't talk to me about it. He just keeps saying that he misses me in that way and loves me so much but then does nothing. I ... (226 words)

I want to become closer friends first before a relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

8 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - So i recenetly told the love of my life i like him and he said he likes me too. Were both in the closet (its a secret kinda relationship) almost all my wishes came true when he said he liked me but we dont talk that much. We don't really go out together. were sophmores in high ... (105 words)

My wife's worker is clearly hitting on her! Is she blind?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

8 January 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi My wife sent a text to a male work mate and his Family stating that his family could stay here if flood waters pushed them out the house they are in. That we have a spare bed for them . His reply was " Thank you for the offer about going to bed with you both but im not ... (200 words)

Should I let my step cousin know that I like her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

8 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a new step cousin in my family, overall I've known her for about a year and im head over heels in love with her... Is this wrong and should I let her know I feel this way? Please help me....... (42 words)

How can I come across as more confident?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5096 days ago

8 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - i am a very shy person and find it hard to talk some people. I have recentley felt that my confidence has gone up but the thing is that i go to college and i want to be more talkative and i don't know how to do that. i do speak to a lot of people via facebook and i am very ... (183 words)

My boyfriend hardly talks to me anymore, but if I dump him then we won't be friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

8 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been with my boyfriend a little over six months. Its gotten to the point where we barely talk anymore. I feel more like a good friend he talks to occasionally than his girlfriend and I honestly don't know what to do. I do not want to lose his friendship, but I don't think ... (109 words)

Can I trust that she's going to leave her husband like she says she is?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

8 January 2011 (M) age 36-40 - I am having an affair with a 33 years old married woman. She have two kids, she says her husband don't make love to her. She finance the whole affair with her husbands pocket money that he gives her, as I am just a poor student with a year left in university and can't really... (151 words)

We were supposed to grow old together, but now he got a girl pregnant!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

8 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - my ex and i have been broken up for almost 3 years...we have a 10 year old daughter together. we broke up because he was not ready to commit to our family. He often went out and choose his friends over us. He proposed to me and didnt follow through. EVen though he did all of ... (393 words)

Should I have taken the risk of giving him my number?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

8 January 2011 (F)

- Hi, I'm 22 and I went out with some friends on new years eve to our local pub. We all met up at one of our houses first and most of the group were in couples except me and one guy who I inatantly knew I wanted to get to know him better. While we were down the pub, he aske... (655 words)

27 years my senior and I want more than friends!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

8 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, I'm 24 and have fallen in love with a 51yr old man! Weird as it may sound, he doesn't act or look his age! He's a great guy and he is just about to go through divorce and child custody procedures!, I have known him nearly 20 yrs as my mother was a friend of his :S, my ... (268 words)

I love my cousin, what should we do?

This question has 31 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

8 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Okkay this is my story. I'm sorry if its long but I just need adives on how to handle all this I were 11 years at the time when for the first time I got to know my cousin, in the first few hours I were super shy because she was beautiful for being 12. The days went and w... (1019 words)

Should I attend my my ex's sister's wedding?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

8 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend wants a break, but says she doesnt want to lose me for good, hope? Okay, me and my gf have been dating for 4 months (I am 19, she is 17, both virgins). Let me start by saying since the very beginning, i am usually the nice one in the relationship thats texts, c... (504 words)

Girlfriend did not tell she married for convenience!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

8 January 2011 (?) age 41-50 - Hallo, i have been seeing my girlfriend for 1 year now. We met on an Internet dating website. I am in my mid thirties and she is in her early twenties, so there's a bit of age difference between us. I must say i am a person who does not find it easy to trust the other when i am ... (721 words)

Is it possible I have a major sex problem?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5096 days ago

8 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi ever since i started having sex i have never felt the pleasure of climaxing or squiting for that matter, i have a 2 year old daughter today.Is it possible that i might be sitting with a major sex problem? Anonymous... (41 words)

Should I move in with my married lover or will it not be accepted?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

8 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello all. I hope you're enjoying the new year. Well, I'm in a quandary. Just over a year ago I began seeing a work colleague. There was an obvious attraction between us for about six months before we kissed. Naively, I thought that we could manage to keep it as a short fling... (1126 words)

Everyone thinks he's gay, but I'm not sure.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5096 days ago

8 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So there is this guy that goes to my school, he is the same age as me...I wouldnt say i am really close to him but i am friends with him as he is my cousins best mate - i stay at my cousins - so in the result of this he comes around to the house quite often...but the thing is ... (259 words)

Boyfriend Isn't Sure He Wants to Spend the Rest of his Life with Me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

8 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together two years, and are both 23. The subject of marriage has come up, and he has said that he plans on marrying me someday, and I agreed with him. We've had talks about growing old together, and once, I brought up marriage and he said, tha... (468 words)

Is it hard for a girl to end a unhealthy relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

8 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Especially when it's a long term relationship of 5 years. Went through many break ups with bf but patched back. Bf is very possessive and sometimes emotionally abusive. Once, bf slapped her. She went through so much of emotional hurt with bf. Keeps forgiving bf thinking that bf ... (112 words)

Was my grandmother trying to tell me something in my dream?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

8 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Well I know this isn't necessarily a relationship question but I didn't know where else to ask. My Grandmother passed away in May of 2010. I was very close with her and am still somewhat coping with her death. Recently me and my boyfriend have been having small problems, mostly ... (145 words)

Why is this man addressing my wife as "my dear"?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

8 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Is it ok if a guy whom I suspect of having an emotional affair with my wife text her addressing her 'my dear...'?? She told me he is interested in her but she is not. And she continue meeting him. Is it alright for her to meet him knowing his motive?? She is saying he is her ... (105 words)

If I didn't love him then why is letting go so hard?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5096 days ago

8 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm going through a very difficult time right now. I started dating this guy in May 2009 - we hit it off right away, fell in love quickly and before we knew it, we were each other's lives. I'd never been so happy before, I thought he was perfect and our relationship was... (795 words)

My friend and crush is ignoring me after months of flirting....?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

8 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - There is a friend of mine that i really like. He isn't what i usually go for but i ended up falling for him. We talk all the time about anything and everything but whenever he looks at me (he normally stares at my mouth? what does that mean?), and he knows that i caught him ... (373 words)

I want to be spanked but my husband just cant do it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

8 January 2011 (F)

age - I like to be spanked but my husband just can't bring himself to do this,what can I do to change this and increase our sexlives. ... (26 words)

Do people who like each other text or talk all the time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

8 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Right so the boy i like, i think he likes me back. he flirts with me huggs be hold me tight puts his arms around me and stuff. He is in the year above so i only see him after school. When we were walking home together (we were holding hands ^.^) and he asked to see my phone, s... (277 words)

I'm falling in love with my flat mate

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5096 days ago

8 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - A couple of months ago a new flat mate moved in and we hit it off straight away. We spend a lot of time together (in each others rooms, going out for drinks, etc). The other flat mates have thought we were together but we are not. I would like to have a relationship with her as ... (132 words)

What's the best way to support my girlfriend after she was raped and hospitalized?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

8 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - hello everyone, i seriously need your help. my girlfriend is in hospital for over a week now, some guy tried to rape her and she got physically and mentally hurt. It's really hard typing this but i don't know what to do, i wanna support her, i wanna be with her. What can i do ... (76 words)

Is it normal to feel this nervous around someone I like?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

8 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - well my problem is i'm too shy, especially when it comes to guys (that i like) because there's a guy that i like for almost more than a year, we're both in college and he likes me too. i mean he made it very clear that he wanted to talk to me and he was following me all the ... (258 words)

Did I overreact by dumping him or was it the right thing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5096 days ago

8 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone.. I am a 19 yrs. Old girl and i have a bf 21 yrs. Old. It's been 2 years with him in a relationship. He used to be very loving and caring earlier now everything has changed. I had a fight with him just nw and i broke up with him. I dont know if i did right or wrong... (361 words)

I have fallen out of love with my wife

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

8 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi. I really need some help.I've been married for 3 years now but have been with my wife for almost 9 years.we Were high school sweethearts not so much anymore. we have a 6 year old daughter That we had when I was 19 and a 4 month old.we fight alot now and say very hurtful ... (248 words)

I thought I was moving on until I saw the pictures of him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

8 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Update and a new question(s): If you've read my last 2 pleas for help and advice, then you already know I'm recently out of a 3 year relationship. Since he told me about his cheating in November, I've gone through an emotional roller coaster that had me constantly wishi... (1167 words)

Is there any chance for me with women?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

8 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I’m 24 year old and still a virgin and therefore I don't any experience of sexual relations with women. However I do masturbate occasionally. My worry is that, I cannot last long for more than 2 minutes while I masturbate. So, would it be same with a woman too. I'm worried ... (99 words)

How do we guard against an ex scorned?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

8 January 2011 (F)

age - Hi ya aunties and uncles----I'm at a cross roads. Over 20 years ago, I married my childhood sweetheart, and together we have children, one of whom is now in Heaven. For years I have been miserable in the marriage but stayed for the sake of our children and the mutual prof... (383 words)

I'm having trouble finding a female that wants me and not cheat on me what do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

8 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - im having trouble finding a girl that wants to be with me for me and not want to cheat on me all the time every girl but one has cheated on me . . . i need hints and tips on relationships from females and males! please help me... (49 words)

Did I hurt her ? Will she get nasty ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

8 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - i met a girl at college and she seemed to be giving me signals of interest. Anyway, her friend gave me her number and when we began texting she began the flirting and texting until almost 2am on college night (something i wouldn’t expect friends to do on a college night). her ... (922 words)

I understand that he has a girlfriend but hes the kind of guy I want!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

8 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My problem is I have been friends with a guy for quite some time and I never thought of him as anything but platonic. Then something changed I was struggling with a personal crisis and he was there every day near me at work and he cheered me up. He didn’t even know that he was ... (227 words)

I slept with a prostitute and now feel regret

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

8 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - OMG.I slept with a prstitute and I was so sexed up and curious I asked if I could have a look at her pussy.part the lips and look in between. she consented and I was so overwelmed, impulsively I kissed her there. just a peck. I didn't lick or put my tongue inside. now I feel so ... (62 words)

I've moved to a new school and have nothing is going right!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5096 days ago

8 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Please listen. I really need advice i have nobody. :( Hello :) i dont have many people to talk to, so sadly i have to resort to the internet. :( I hope you can help me and give me advice on what to do. :) Heres my story. i recently moved here and i dont know "everybody" i ha... (366 words)

Is Karma punishing me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

8 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I want to know if anyone has ever broke someone's heart the wrong way then later on it happened to you? My girlfriend broke up with me this morning and I'm sick as a dog. Did you get feel like you couldn't make it fron one minute to the next?... (50 words)

Why won't my boyfriend spend holiday's with me

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8 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm an older woman dating a much younger man. I am in my 40's and he's in his 20's. Actually he is 27. We met online about five months ago. We met face to face about 2 months ago. I like him a lot and he tells me that he likes me too. Most of the time he shows me that he cares ... (196 words)

I feel happy for her but I want to break up her and her boyfriend

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8 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Soo I fell in love with someone last year around new years. She was single for a long time but I never made a move, i felt stupid. Now she has a boyfriend and they have been together for about 3 months. I have met the guy like 4 times now and he seems really nice and caring of ... (180 words)

I want to have sex so I won't be the only virgin

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8 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - So I'm 16 and a half and junior in high school. I'm a virgin and this fact hasnt really bothered me really. Now im finding out that alot of my friends are having sex or doing other sexual things with either their girl friends or random chicks. I seem to be the only one left out ... (187 words)

I just want to know what's up with us. Should I make the first move?

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8 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I met a boy named M a little more than a year ago, at the same time as his brother P. They aren't at my school; we were introduced by their aunt, a close friend of my mother's. In fact she brought them directly to my house one night without me knowing about it and we got along ... (925 words)

I will do whatever it takes to earn D's trust and hand in marriage.

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8 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey before I get started please don't attack me because I know I was the asshole. Ok so I'll call say her names D. D worked with me for 16 months.she didn't work in my dept but we friendly.She was single but I was going out with two girls that didn't know about D or each ... (274 words)

If I cut one of my testicles would I know it?

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8 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - alright, so me and my girlfriend are really looking forward to getting married, because we both believe in abstinance before marriage, and no, sex is not the reason why we're getting married, but she and I are extremely comfortable with each other already, and I asked her to ... (127 words)

How can I become a born again virgin

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8 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - How do I become a born again virgin I've been with a lot of guys and I'm now really starting to regret it I really want to change but I don't know how to make it official ? Can someone help me please?... (43 words)

I'm worried my size won't make her happy!

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8 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - okay, so me and my girlfriend have been going out for a while, and I really love her, and we both want to get married, and her being a virgin is really important to me, she says she's a virgin (I am also a virgin) and a lot of me beleives her because she's the most innocent and ... (171 words)

My girlfriend is falling for her gay cousin?

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8 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend is falling in love with her gay male cousin! She always keeps things from me and never really talks to me anymore. I love her more then anything but it just seems like she don't love me. I'm constantly doing things for her without her even asking. I just want to ... (61 words)

Were these people just messing with me?

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8 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Were these people messing with me or do you think one of them was interested in me ?. I was in a pub and i walked past this group of people when one of the men shouted to me. I turned around and i recognised him from when i saw him in a bar a couple of weeks ago. I had danced ... (387 words)

Why can't I get past a 3rd date?

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8 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been trying to date for a good 6 years now and no one has ever showed an interest in staying with me past a third date or so. I am 28 years old and have been rated an "8" on a looks scale from 1-10. I make close to 6 figures in a good field. I cannot remember the num... (250 words)

I don't know what to make of the gift I got from a friend?

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8 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy and I aren't friends and we aren't dating.. It's like that phase inbetween the two. For Christmas, I wasn't planning on getting him a present, but he told me he got something, so I got something for him. My gift for him was a Chinese red envelope (I'm Chinese) filled ... (171 words)

Tainted goods?

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8 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - If a girl had sex for 1 or 2 minutes with another man and stopped and this was the only sexual encunter that she has ever had and knew what she did was wrong. Then was loyal to her husband after that for the rest of her lfe would that make her tainted goods?... (56 words)

Relationship or just for fun

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8 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a professionalI in my late 20’s, dating another professional of the same age. We have been dating elusively now for ten months. We met each other randomly during a dance lesson. He is busy due to his occupation and works 60 to 80 hours a week easily. I am very patient and ... (446 words)

I want my wife back but the thought of her with him has made me think twice about it now

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8 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I broke up with my wife 14 months ago after a 2 year marriage,we are both professionals shes 28 and im 33,the break up was mutual and really shouldnt have happened,since then iv had 4 sexual partners none of which were serious relationships,my wife and i still love each other ... (246 words)

Should I tell my husband I was involved with a woman while we were separated?

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8 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been separated from my husband of 3 years for 4 months now. There has been a history of emotional and verbal abuse throughout the 6 years we have been together. During our last separation (about 2 years ago, for 7 months), I met a girl who became my roomate because we ... (354 words)

Is this just a rebound relationship?

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8 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - It's been almost 3 months now since my fiance decided to abandon me and my baby who is now 8 months old. The first 3 weeks were strenuous I even went for 3 sessions of counselling to ease the pain. My fiance cheated on me and got to be insensitive about the whole thing. W... (329 words)

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8 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm hoping someone can help me. Here's my story. I'm seeing a man who lives over an hour from me and is going through a divorce. He has not moved out yet, however. He is still living with his wife/to be ex and kids while saving money to set-up house. They are not seperating or ... (295 words)

How do I go about this relationship?

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8 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - ok so i have this girl i been dating for a while. she has been through somethings...in the area of abusive boyfriend...bad relationships and moms ex boyfriend almost raping her.its been many years since then and this was before i met her.i understood she has trust issues ... (540 words)

My husband only cares about money. I still love him but I Don't know what to do

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8 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - i still love my husbnd to the core but all he cares about is money. he does not care for me nor respect me. he insults me and demeans me i do all the chores for him but am totally not appreciated. we have a baby, he plays with baby, ignores me is so frigid. All this attachme... (291 words)

Should I tell my former teacher, who is married, how I feel?

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8 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, I have a little bit of a problem. I'm 20 years old, been out of high school for almost three years now but I still have very strong, deep feelings for my high school teacher. I first had him as my teacher during my junior year, and since then I've been unable to get ... (162 words)

Five months together and now he's looking at a dating site? What's he up to?

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8 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for 5 months. We love each other very much, at least I think we do...we met on a dating website and when me and him started dating I obviously deleted my page. He didn't delete his but never went on ( you can see the users last login ) About a month ... (138 words)

I still love her, but she's sending mixed signals. How do I win her back?

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8 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - It's almost two weeks since we broke up. I was very angry at her, we were going through a rough patch. She claims I broke up with her, while she had made it clear that she wanted to be single. As part of my move on strategy, I removed her as my facebook friend. She reiterated ... (283 words)

A love triangle to untangle. What should I do?

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8 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - i went to a new school, to get a new start and Cass was my very first friend. A couple days after we met she started talking about this guy, and how he liked him, but he was 18 (we are 15)! i said if you like him back go for it! A few days later i met him, and started to really ... (176 words)

Separated for 12 years but not divorced -- am I being too picky?

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8 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been talking(texting) to this guy i met online for about a month. He told me he was divorced and had 2 girls and I didn't mind at all.........I love kids and I too am divorced so.... Today I met him for the first time and during conversation I found out that he is ... (181 words)

No reply to a love note?

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8 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - What do you do when you send someone a message saying you are inlove with them. And they don't even reply? And its not some random person. It's the father of your child?... (34 words)

Trying to work things out with my husband but his daughters think of me as a drill Sergent!!

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8 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My Husband and I have been seperated for three months. We both have children, and unfortuately his kids have never really gotten along with me. the girls have always lived with their mom, who has always been very lient with them. They have been allowed to come and go as they ... (272 words)

Going to finally meet the guy Iv been talking to online. Any pointers on what to expect??

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8 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I got chatting to a guy I met on a social networking website in September last year, I was instantly taken in by his sense of humour and friendly nature. We continued contact and have since, got to know each other really well. I'm very cautious when it comes to men and I don't ... (333 words)

What do you think the text he sent could mean?

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8 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So i kindof liked this guy, and he liked me in about a month, he got 2 2nd base with me then told me things were complicated and he couldnt have any type of relashionship right now. Which kindof hurt, so i told him i wouldnt bother him anymore, and i would just leave him alone. ... (257 words)

I'm getting absolutely sick of my girlfriend and I feel guilty for it

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8 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey guys. I'm in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend; we see each other about once a month or once every two months and talk online and on the phone every.single.night. This was FINE at first, when everything was still fresh, you know? But now I just find her so, ... (463 words)

How long is long enough to expect commitment when you are sleeping with a guy??

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8 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I began dating this guy about 2.5 months ago. I had just gotten out of a short term relationship, and before that had a baby and was in a long term before that. He had just gotten out of a divorce a year ago, and the night we first "hooked up" we both agreed neither of us wa... (763 words)

My BF and I are in our 40s', but is it ok for us to spend the night together, at the risk of setting a bad example to our kids?

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8 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - my boyfriend and I met 8 months ago and we are in our 40's. the problem is he has 2 daughters 20,22 and I have one son 7 years old. We don't live near eachother so we don't get much time alone. When we are together we can't be alone in our rooms because we don't want anyone to ... (145 words)

My BF's friend sent me dirty texts which I showed him, and his reaction was zilch!! How do I get him to be more protective of me?

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8 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone. I'm 15 and I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half who's just turned 16 I've come to grips to the fact that he's not the jealous type. This kind of bothers me because I definitely am. When I get upset over little things like text to girls with kisses o... (385 words)

He has been my boyfriend for two months, and is now trying to get me pregnant!

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8 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so me and my boyfriend have been going out for 2 months now and he started talkinq bout having a baby with me. The thing is im 16 and he is 18. I told him i'm not ready to have a baby that's not in my life plan to be pregnant at 16. even though he tells me everything will ... (164 words)

Can a relationship work without common interests to talk about?

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8 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I have had a relationship with a girl on the internet for over four months now. We have communicated by email, instant chat and over the phone over this period and are looking to move forward to meeting. I'm getting attached to her as we have spoke literally everyday for hou... (311 words)

The princess and two toads

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8 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - i have a big problem here goes i have been seein someone for a year and a half it has been a hard road cheating lying leaving hitting argueing every day but i am so in love with him and don't understand it i feel like i would die if i couldn't have him by my side the ... (188 words)

Unemployed, depressed, difficult husband...I don't know how much longer I can stand it

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8 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband hasn't been working for 18 months. He was studying for some certificate but it was all finished two months ago. Now he just stays home all day. I think he is depress now and doesn't have the gut to find a job. I don't know what is he afraid of. I know he has some ... (371 words)

I'm having anxiety problems about moving in with my soon to be husband

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8 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Is it just me or is this normal....I've been having anxiety problems about moving in with my soon to be husband. I'm not moving in yet, but on the day we get married after the honeymoon, I'll be moving in with him and living with him "from here on to eternity" - you get the ... (248 words)

With a baby on the way, my relationship with my BF is headed downhill

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8 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a boyfriend for one year and We knew eachother for 6 years. We have a baby girl on the way we were doing fine until he moved in with me and e started fighting it was a never ending battle. I dont know what I should do he calls me names such as a slut a whore. I... (108 words)