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Should I leave him alone or hang around?

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Question - (14 January 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 16 January 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I also have been seeing this guy we talked on and off for about 2 years now! maybe even more than that we got intimate at one point but NEVER went all the way he used to live in LA and i lived in NY we stayed in touch with one another but once he moved back to NY we fell off now hes in a relationship and has been for a few months now i know he loves his gf. I seen him last weekend and the feeling i had for him just came racing back he told me he had a feeling for me so both of our feelings are mutual but the thing is he has a girl! He also asked for me to stay the night at his place but i didnt and i def surprised myself when i turned him down BUT my question is should i leave him alone completely until my feelings go away? or just stay around in hopes that we will reunite?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2011):

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Thank you so much for your advice i'll take it all into consideration!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2011):

If you want to be with him and he wants to be with you, he will have to break up with his girlfriend. ask him to choose, because you don't want to be his bit on the side, and he shouldn't be seeing two girls at once. If he leaves his girl friend for you, that is fine. if he doesnt, leave him alone and move on. good luck!x

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A female reader, 1989BABY United States +, writes (14 January 2011):

1989BABY agony auntPlease leave him alone its not fair to his girlfriend, for you to come in and just do her wrong. Feelings come and go and you should move on as he did, don't get caught up with this guy honestly, because if he is doing this with her he is going to do it to you too. Think about her place and how she would feel.

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