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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I don't want to hurt anyone, what would be the best thing to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5082 days ago

20 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 and i have a bf, 18, "Joe." We have been together for six months now. We have always said we are getting married and will always be together because we love each other a lot. he treats me so well and really cares about me. My friend, 16, "Phil," has liked me for a w... (446 words)

Am I reading too much into these signs?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5083 days ago

20 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - There is this guy and he is a really good friend of mine in my art class. I have known him since the beginning of this school year and iv been wondering for awhile if he likes me even though he as a girl friend (btw his gf is 2 years older than him). ... reasons why: When... (505 words)

I have a rather large crush on him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5082 days ago

20 January 2011 (?) age 36-40 - Ugh. I can't believe how vile I am. To cut to the chase, there is a guy I like in the year above me at sixth form, he's in his last year and we've been friends for about five years now. Last year we were mixed doubles partners in badminton and over time we've become very good ... (579 words)

My boyfriend and I are trying to patch things up, but there's still the distracting knowledge of my ex's affections putting a strain on my relationships with both guys

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5083 days ago

20 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am currently with a guy that I really like. We've been dating for just about 4 months, and although we definitely have our problems, we are very close, and I've never been so close to and loved by any guy in my life. Unfortunately, over the past few weeks, we haven't seen ... (253 words)

How to do like yourself more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

20 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've always felt like a bit of an oddball. At school i used to be the one sat to the side, not talking much- not that i didn't want to, but the things i said either sounded really pointless or i would mentally kick myself for attempting to join the conversation when it was ... (270 words)

She's the girl of my dreams -- how to proceed?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

20 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - What happens now? I'm pretty sure I have met the girl of my dreams. It's taken me a while to find her, and I am extremely happy with how things have been going so far. Spending time with her is amazing, we cuddle and talk and we have made love too (twice). It's all just ... (182 words)

A friend who is letting me down

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

20 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - im sitting here typing, wondering what ive done wrong. i have a male friend who has recently moved to another team-same job due to a manager clash. we worked together for 18 months. during that time we were on the phone all the time. he rang me like 8 times a day-most... (200 words)

We hardly ever speak face to face

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5084 days ago

20 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - im having bad problems with my bf and i seriously dont know what to do about it a)he hardly ever speak face to face we only speak on MSN or i have to always say the first sentance. b)he gets disctracted by other girls. i seriously dunno what to do, i dont wonna dump him and ... (70 words)

Why did he give me an engagement ring but he can't marry me? We broke up because of this!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

20 January 2011 (F)

age - I've been seening a wonderful man for over 3 years. We were engaged briefly last year but he just couldn't commit. I was very confused last Christmas because I decided to accept that we were never going to marry and told him so, he seemed really hurt by my comment. Then he gave ... (391 words)

I'm like a ticking time bomb ready to explode!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

20 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm having a problem with getting VERY annoyed over dumb little problems and causing a fight, its as though I can't let things "slide" and like I am a ticking time bomb waiting to explode and its really taking a toll on my relationship, what's somethings I can do to stop this? ... (52 words)

We want to go further but no privacy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5083 days ago

20 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, i'm a girl and i'm 16 before i start.. here it goes: i've been seeing this guy for a few weeks now, dates, movie, he has met my mum and i've met his. I have known him for years but only just started properly getting close. I feel ready to go further with him and I think he... (165 words)

Is he overwhelmed and just needs time to himself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5084 days ago

20 January 2011 (F)

age - I have been dating a man for 4 1/2 years. Over the past year we have become disconnected due to his work schedule (over 50 hours a week), going to school to get his MBA, and National Guard. We also live approximately 1 hour from each other. He has 3 months left in school but ... (190 words)

She says she wants me to move on but her actions speak differently

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

20 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, So my girlfriend and I broke up in July. So a little over six months ago. We were together for over 2 years, and everything was great, till this new guy started hanging around. Somebody that talks with a lot of charm and flirts with every girl, or seems to whenever I met ... (608 words)

How do I explain to my friend's wife that we are just friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5084 days ago

20 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - ok this may sound a bit weird but here goes. i have this guy friend who ive known for ages and he is married with 2 kids, he has currently been seperated from his wife 4 a year so far and even before that they had this on off relationship they would be living seperatly more oft... (472 words)

Is it me being silly, as he says?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5083 days ago

20 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everybody, Like loads of girls (as i found it out) i have doubt whether i have problems with my boyfriend or i am being silly (as he says quite a lot). We are going out for almost a year, he says he loves me and that i am special to him but sometimes i do not feel it. ... (521 words)

Confused about my feelings and his!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5084 days ago

20 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hi ok i met this guy online a while back wen i was away and we chatted alot had a lot in common and then when i came back we met and hang out loads and basically the relationship was great it still is, we both wanted a non comitted relationship and it was great for both of us ... (242 words)

I only seem to be able to talk to guys I'm not attracted to!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5084 days ago

20 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 going on 17 and ive allways suffered from a huge lack in self confidence. my low self asteem holds me back in almost everything which i would apprciate advice on; but the actual reason im on this forum is because ive never been in a serious relationship or had any sexu... (265 words)

Why does my boyfriend ignore me most of the time in school?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5084 days ago

20 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I have been going out for a little more that a month. I'm trying to figure out what this means, but i'm not really sure; whenever the bell rings at school for lunchtime, he immediately just runs off and goes to be with his other friends (usually by the ... (192 words)

I don't want him...doesn't he get it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

20 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex boyfriend who just continues to stalk me. He left me about two years ago to be with his baby's mother at the time (found out later on that the baby was was not his)he treated be really, really bad..he was verbally, mentally, emotionally and sometimes phys. abusive towards ... (586 words)

I stripped for him on webcam and now I'm worried about what he'll do with the video!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5083 days ago

20 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I met a person on an online dating site. I never join such sites but I don't know why I joined it, maybe just for deleting it the next day. I didn't even fill my profile at all. I was contacted by some guy who appeared good and decent. I replied him and than the conversation ... (387 words)

Is he thinking about her and does he like her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

20 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 1/2yrs. We have on n off fought about his brother's girlfriend and it just doesn't seem like I can really talk about it with him. He says he doesn't feel anything for her but in my view I think he does. It all started at a family ... (360 words)

My girlfriend is supporting her ex through his divorce but I'm not feeling too comfortable about it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5083 days ago

20 January 2011 (?) age 51-59 - I'm in a quandry. My GF of 18 months, whom I love dearly and we are planning on marriage, has recently friended her ex on FB. They were an on again, off again FWB thing for over 2 years. He was married. There was a close call early in our relationship where she almost ... (294 words)

Is it to wrong to have cybersex with other guys when I have a boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

20 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, I'm 18 now,I don'nt know if this is right... I often talk abotu sex with guys in internet chats and often have "cybersex" too even with webcam and I really like that I do it since I was 15(i dont know those guys actually they are far away in europe mostly) , the thing is ... (131 words)

How can I turn this back into a "chase"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

20 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - How can I turn this back into a "chase"? Lately my boyfriend has gotten a little bit too into the routine of things. He's a party animal, he loves to go out and socialize with other people, he's not a big fan of 1-on-1 time, however he doesn't get the chance to go out a lot.... (135 words)

He cheated on me and we got back together. Still not sure if I can trust him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

20 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend has cheated me in the past, we broke up and now we are back together after about 3 months. Im really really happy with him.. But there are times i just cannot trust himm.. and i get upset about it. :/ i dont know what to do??... (49 words)

I have many guy friends but I only really like one of them. How do I show him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5082 days ago

20 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I’m 17 and a junior in high school. Ok so there’s this guy I like for almost 3 years now. Yeah I’ve had little crushes here and there, but I’ve always put the guy I like first. We always almost end up dating, but it never works out and I always end up getting hurt. Well all my ... (499 words)

I have a crush on a much younger woman... should I ask her out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

20 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a huge crush on a girl who is much younger than me (10+ years). We met at college where I am much older than most of the other students, but I have had no problem with making friends among them. I also can tell that at some point she liked me enough to go out on a date ... (132 words)

I'm 13 and haven't had many boyfriends. I really want one!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

20 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - i havent had very many boyfreind at my age i really want one! im 13 and at my age going out with people is usually because of your looks and i hate my hair! im ok with make up but i cant get my hair straight through the day i cant afford a really pair of hair straightners just ... (79 words)

I'm worried about my ex wife, who who has joint custody of my 13 year old son, moving to another state.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

20 January 2011 (?) age 51-59 - I'm worried about my ex wife, who has joint custody of my 13 y.o. son, moving to another state. She has started to date, and admitted one guy she is somewhat serious with was out of state. I hate the thought of my visits with my son changing. I need him in my life, as does ... (146 words)

He doesn't love me enough to get back with me but gets jealous of other guys

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

20 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - me and my boyfriend have been apart for four months now. he was my first love, and we were inseparable. after a couple of weeks of 'not being the same' he finished me. is it normal to still be in love with him ? also he keeps telling me he still loves me, and he tends to throw ... (99 words)

How can I bring my boyfriend to my parent's messy home?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

20 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hi! I am a senior in college, and I love my parents, but I cant stand to go home myself. The house is extremely dirty. They say the excuse of working 7 days a week, but I cant stand it. I dated my last boyfriend for 7 years, and he never cared. But now I am dating someone new, ... (141 words)

I feel like a horrible person! What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

20 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - so i know i ask questions about my love life alot, but its complicated. especially now. he used to be such a sweetheart, always caring and making me feel so special and loved and he always used to do stuff with me like go hiking, or swimming in a pond or just playing in the r... (679 words)

We're just friends, but why can't he just be honest, admit it and tell me the truth?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

20 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Just wondering? We know each other for 10 years. Boyfriend for 6 years and best friend 4 years. We're not couple anymore, however we spend the same among of time together, do the same things, he tells me love u and miss u everyday. Basically, everything is the same, ki... (404 words)

What does a woman feel when she rejects a guy?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5083 days ago

20 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - What does a woman feel when she rejects? Contempt for the guy who tries? A sense of guilt? Pity? Or maybe she has very little thought of why? Or maybe she feels superior? Does she ever think that she may hurt the man? Does she ever think about hurtful consequences of re... (85 words)

My husband is obsessed with porn, we have a second baby on the way, live with his mother, and I had a summer romance!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

20 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 24 and married to a 25 year old firefighter that is obsessed with sex and continuously is on sex sites, looking at porn, answering personal ads, and talking to and having sex with other girls on a virtual chat site. I am unhappy and have been for sometime now. We live with ... (181 words)

Should I be worried now that my boyfriend is hiding his porn use?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

20 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend started watching porn when I became pregnant. When I found out, he told me that he was stressed, so he watched porn. After the baby was born, he continued to watch it, saying that he was a grown man and would do what he wanted. He stopped for a little bit, but ... (135 words)

Since we slept together I haven't heard anything from him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5083 days ago

20 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so since we slept together last friday i hadn't heard anything from him. Saw him out last night and we spoke for a little bit/texted..with his housemates making obvious digs at me for doing 'wrong'. I contacted him today asking if we should meet up to talk and he said his... (337 words)

Do I move on and go out with this other amazing girl?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

20 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My ex and I broke up at the beginning of November, and despite how adamant I was about making things work, she said we were going along two different paths in life and that it would only hurt us more to try and stay together (she's at a different college and will go to Law ... (478 words)

Do I really need to pretend like I'm too busy to hang out with him in order to get him interested?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

20 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I like this guy and my friends all know I do. When I asked them about going to hang out with him they told me that I act too available and that I should not go. The last time we hung out was a week ago and we ended up hanging out with some of my friends though we were ... (176 words)

Why is he still here, is it to make my life more difficult?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

20 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - [Mod note: 2 questions combined by poster.] Q2. my boyfriend and i always fight, an i'm sick and tired of it. i hates when he restricts me ... ime not allowed to do anything. but he gets to do anything he wants. and whenn i say its unfair, he just argues by saying im a girl, an... (170 words)

Do I yank on my chain too much?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

20 January 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - I have been masturbating since i was about 12 and i am now 15 almost 16 year old male. Both men and women turn me on but mainly men. I masturbate 10-12 times a day and inwas wondering if that is to often? Just a thought. ... (56 words)

In love with my boyfriend, but I still feel drawn to my ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

20 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have this problem and it’s more of an emotional problem. My boyfriend and I have been happily dating for almost a year. During that time, my ex has been talking to me a lot and begging for me back because he hasn’t given up on me. He doesn’t do it everyday but at least a ... (346 words)

Online sex dating sites, should I be worried my boyfriend is on it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

20 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I want to know if I should be worried that my BF of 1.5yrs is on an online sex dating site? He has a "standard" account so he can't send emails to women, only send "winks" or add them to his "hotlist". Why do guys feel it necessary to be on online dating sites if they are in a ... (458 words)

He treats me like a princess, how do I treat him in return?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

20 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - well i met some one a year ago just been talkin as friends the past 3 months we have been meeting up at jungle gym with our little girls same age. Then he tells me that 5 years ago he used to see me walkin about our town and wish he had the courage to talk to me, so me went on ... (245 words)

Why must it hurt when you fall out of love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

20 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Why must it hurt when you fall out of love? That person says he loves you, you have their heart always and forever, or they make you feel like you are the most precious thing on this earth. Then after you and him have been together for months and then he breaks your heart in ... (122 words)

I'm married but don't want to lose this friend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

20 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am married. But I am in touch with a person whom I have known for sometime now. I consider him as a good friend of mine. I met him sometime back and developed an immediate liking for him. My marriage lacked nothing as I married someone I really love and respect. He is my ... (381 words)

Younger woman said she loved me, but now that she's single, she is avoiding me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

20 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok, I met a girl about 6 months ago at her work, and when i walked out the door to leave her manager came outside to tell me that this girl said that I was going to be her husband one day. Well after about a week or so me and this girl exchanged phone numbers. She had a ... (563 words)

Our relationship just isnt right. The little spark that should be there just isn't

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

20 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi all, I'm in need of some help because my feelings are so messed up I dont know which way to turn. I have been in a relationship for just over 2 years with a lovely girl who treats me really well and is head over heels in love with me. The relationship started in abit ... (271 words)

Are first kisses important?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

20 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Are first kisses important? I had mine when I was 7, and it was just a peck with a boy in my class. I now look back on it and it's a pretty cute first kiss even though there was no chemistry involved. A few months ago I got in a relationship with a friend who'd... (221 words)

Is he the guy or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

20 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I love this guy that i'm wondering about.i'm wondering if he is guy or not. we have been seeing each other for about 4 yrs. I meet him at a gas station it was close to christmas time. He bought me underwear, bras,short skirts, I thought of it very werriod to me esechial when we ... (365 words)

I left out details to spare my girlfriend. Was that ok?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

20 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend of 1 year and I have moved into together and gotten pretty serious. I've always been the guy to be honest and not have things catch up with me in the later stages of a relationship. My girlfriend and I met on a Friday night, immediately had an attraction, and ... (611 words)

Sleeping with my friend's boyfriend!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

20 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid I'm young girl whose feels like I'm not a true friend to my friend. First of all i don't want to be judged cause I'm only human. I've been cheating with my friend's boyfriend and no i don't have a boyfriend. The thing is this guy wants us to start dating but i ca... (80 words)

Am I be controlling by not wanting my boyfriend to meet up with his ex?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

20 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I went out with my boyfriend the other night for something to eat and a couple of drinks, we ended up having a heart to heart and he said to me 'If (his ex) ever asked me to hang out with her one day would you mind?', I was a bit tipsy at this point and I know my face ... (262 words)

I told him "thank you" but I don't think that's enough!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

20 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - There is something that happened to me 2 days ago. I was in an accident of car crash. I'm ok cuz I was just release a break when a bicycle suddenly came and blocked my path. Do you believe it that it cross another car that was in the opposite direction of mine and hit me at the ... (298 words)

Unwanted hair on my stomach!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

20 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - For about 5 years or possibly more i startec to develop dark hair on my belly! Im extremley embarressed about this as i feel its not normal for a girl to get this?! I have tried to shave it and even wax strips but it just comes back! I cant show my partner as i feel so insecure ... (131 words)

Was he just trying to make conversation or did it mean something?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

20 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I was at college waiting to see student services and this guy came up and sat next to me. After a minute he asked what number I was, so I told him and went back just waiting, to be called out. Later on he and his friends were talking and I heard his friend say, ''just talk to ... (204 words)

I'm a teen who's in love with a married men, but I need to get over him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3149 days ago

20 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - This is probably going to be a long question, so i'll just get straight to the point.. i can't stop thinking about this married man. I'm 16 and he's in the his mid 30's, he lives near me so my parents are quite close with him and his wife. Although, my mum and my dad have both ... (561 words)

He's a sweet guy, he'd never cheat on my. But I don't feel any spark. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

20 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I really liked this guy for a while last year, and when I found out he liked me too; we started to see eachother. We've now been together for almost 2 months. However ever since we started being an item I haven't liked him; he's completely in love with me, but I just don't feel... (136 words)

I'm insecure and I don't feel beautiful to him. Should I persist trying to make it work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

20 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend who I have been on and off for 4 years with, recently got back together with me. He wanted back in. However, I'm finding it hard to be with him because of my own insecurities. He hates make up but I have some acne scars that I'm really insecure about. He thinks I'm ... (132 words)

She will not even let me hold her hand. Why is she so resistant to hand holding?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

20 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - i have recently started dating my friend.i want to kiss her. I was just talking to her on the phone with her and jokingly i just said that i'll tickle her. She said that she won't even let me touch her. Whenever i'm with her she hasn't even held my hand, not even once. When i... (78 words)

I can't get a new guy because I'm too fat. I lost my ex over it. Best dieting tips please?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5083 days ago

20 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I want to diet but if I don't satisfy my hunger, I get migranes! Also, if I'm nervous or bored my stomach growls so loud, it's embarrasing!. I want to diet because my ex refuses to say I'm hot, or sexy because I'm so fat. And I can't get any man, it's so sad.... (60 words)

She's always on my mind and driving me crazy

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

20 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I got together with this girl early last year. I wasn’t to fussed about having a relationship at the time because I was happy how I was but she was a nice girl so I met up with her a few times and we ended up having a relationship. I could tell this girl was really into me and ... (457 words)

I am hooked on this mystery with a very private man!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5068 days ago

20 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have not been so out of wits in relationships...this man totally confuses me to the extent that i have no idea if he is using me, or lying to me, or he is so into me that he worries and withdraws.... we met on line and were attracted to each other. he is a very private and... (1056 words)

Does he love me and should I wait for him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5083 days ago

20 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I met a guy (R) when I was 13 but didn’t like him so we didn’t date. 4 years later we randomly meet again and start talking. From the beginning I considered him a best friend and after a couple weeks of talking he asked me to be his gf. We were together for a month but then he ... (1458 words)

We were good friends, and now she is ignoring me! What is going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

20 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - i like a girl who is my classmate i actually have crush on her and she also knows it and at one time we were good friends and now it hapenns is she is ignoring me?... (36 words)

18 and not had a relationship......

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5071 days ago

20 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Here's the thing I'm an 18 year old male and not to blow my own trumpet or anything, but just to set the scene. I am fairly good looking, I've been told by other people. I'm intelligent. I am also popular I have lots of good friends. I haven't had a girlfriend since... (167 words)

Was I wrong as I was not behaving professionally?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

20 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently had a stomach infection. When I went to see my doctor, who knows my family very well, advised me to be hospitalized. He used to check my whole abdomen daily in the hospital and I never felt shied from him. He was also very friendly with me (was treating me like a ... (214 words)

Is my friend out of order or am I too sensitive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5084 days ago

20 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I’ve been having some issues with my boyfriend of nearly four years and so has my friend.. I tell her most things but recently she doesn’t tell me much at all. She goes on like her relationship is so perfect now. He cheated on her, she forgave him. He said he didn’t want t... (450 words)

I lost my girlfriend and my baby boy because of World of Warcraft!

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20 January 2011 (M) age 41-50 - hi could someone help me, my life is a mess because of WOW - i lost my gf and my baby boy.. i never use to be like this i changed a lot .. all this started 3 years ago my life was fine i used to go out do everything work a lot like 13 hours a day etc .. when me and my gf moved ... (270 words)

Is it wrong to think of my girlfriend when masturbating?

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20 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - should i masterbate thinking about my girlfriend? i have just started dating her but i had a crush on her for years? i kind of feel bad thinking of her in such a way ?help please........ (38 words)

How to win him over?

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20 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone,im a 21 year old gay guy and i am madly in love with a guy who goes to work with me.Well i am no hottie,well i have kinda pretty eyes and long legs but i am not very hot.But this guy who im talking about is like the sexiest man in this world.He's 26 with the best ... (192 words)

Is he just using me or is he actually struggling with his decision to break up with me?

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20 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello All, I am in need of some serious advice. My boyfriend recently broke up with me and I was totally blindsided. He said things were moving too fast and that he didn't think he could love me the way he should. He was emotional and even got teary eyed and said how sorry he... (523 words)

Does the guy I lost my virginity to still have feelings for me?

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20 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i am 16 years old and i just lost my virginity may of last year to a long time friend. we had been friends since the 7th grade. we had sex 1 other time but that was it. now we barely speak because he hurt me because of his lies and deceitfulness. also right after i lost my ... (137 words)

What is masturbating?

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20 January 2011 (?) age 26-29 - Ok well I want to know about masturbating. Is it just when you pretend to have sex with pillows and such or is that something totally different? I am a late bloomer (haven't even started my period yet) and I am not sure about all this stuff. I want to know about it because a ... (86 words)

I want to pull back, but he'll just think I'm busy!

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20 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, so I asked this question before but didn't get any responses. I'm thinking maybe the one I asked before was too complex - like 3 problems in one - and I should just handle one at a time. My problem is this: I feel my boyfriend (of a year and a half) takes me for gra... (353 words)

How do I know when I have actually had an orgasm?

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20 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - okay, so I have had sex with two people. with my ex and my current partner. they have both been very pleasurable, and felt really good, but I'm not exactly sure if I've ever actaully "came" before...I mean im wet during sex...but I never really feel an "amazing sensation" like ... (102 words)

I just want to be happy together and not feel alone and sad all the time

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20 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years and just had a baby 7 weeks ago. We have had some times apart since our relationship started andI spent most of the pregnancy alone. He moved out days before I found out I was pregnant and decided he was willing to work on ... (341 words)

Indirectly pushed my friend to admit her cheating....bad move?

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20 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I essentially put a good friend about to get engaged in a corner to tell her boyfriend she had been cheating. Well at first I tried not to do this, but instead let her boyfriend know I was concerned about her life-decisions because I had some other legit concerns that di... (509 words)

How do I get over him if he is everywhere I go?

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20 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I dated this guy that was a lot older than me and he left/cheated on me for another girl. It was horrible and took me a long time and a lot of emotions to finally get over him. He did apologize multiple times to me and told me that it was our age difference that was the main ... (238 words)

Advice on dating a Turkish man?

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20 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am looking for advice on dating a Turkish man. We met on match.com a couple weeks ago, and have gone on 2 dates (both times we spent hours together talking) he is kind, charming, funny, polite and overall seems like a wonderful man. All I know about his so far is that he ... (250 words)

AmI just over -reacting or is something wrong here?

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20 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am interested in this guy....he was a very close friend of mine. A few months ago ; when both of us were a bit tipsy , we kissed. Then a week later, we met again and we just couldn't keep our hands off each other. We stay in different cities so we stayed in touch through sk... (344 words)

Should I date my friend from high school?

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20 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My good friend from high school and I had a "moment" the other day and I am wondering if it is wise to date my friend from high school? We have both graduated college, by the way. ... (44 words)

How are anal sex and oral sex different from normal sex?

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20 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Can anyone tell me about oral sex and anal sex? How are they different from normal sex and what do you do?... (24 words)

Do guys call a girl hot just to sleep with them?

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20 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Would a guy call a girl "hot" to her face just to sleep with her or get something out of it, or does he really think she's hot? Or do you think he's just trying to give her a false ego boost for whatever reason?... (48 words)

Boyfriend went away, now he's back but he's no longer interested in me

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20 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so I met my former boyfriend in our senior year of HS last December 2009. We dated for 3 months. That's all it took for us to fall in love. Everything just felt right and I feel so in tuned with him and so connected. Well, before we dated he said that he was going to be ... (295 words)

Should I take a leap of faith or face reality?

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20 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am currently struggling with a huge decision in both my career and love life. I currently live in Panama with the love of my life. We are young (19, 20) but we are both extremely happy with each other, have been together 3 years and we live together (hence, we know each other ... (325 words)

My brother-in-law is a nuisance and has my husband doesn't stand up for me either...

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20 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been researching in-law troubles for a very long time and have not found any help to my problem. I have never posted a comment or entered a forum but here it goes. I'm desperate. I have been married for 8 years and with my husband for 18 yrs. I have always gotten along ... (966 words)

Should I hang around and support him or is it time for me to move on?

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20 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - So I have gotten myself into a real mess and I do realise it. I have been dating a guy that lives in a different country, for several months. He has made several references to getting married, as well as asked directly. The problem is he has changed since the beginning of the ... (198 words)

He's with me, says he loves me, but he isn't happy

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20 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so im 4 months pregnant. and my boyfriend and i had a little break up like 1 and a half ago and we worked things out. but he said he only did it because my mom asked him too but she didnt she told him that if he wanted to work things out with me he could that was his cho... (236 words)

My boyfriend has complex relationships with all three of his ex girlfriends, and I don't know what to make of this situation

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20 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend stays very close with at least three of his ex-girlfriends. We met over a year ago and got close through email, etc while he was out of the country. During that time, he had a girlfriend that he told me was basically on the outs with but never actually got the ... (668 words)

Men: Would you date a taller woman?

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20 January 2011 (?) age 41-50 - I am tall for a woman, just about 6'-0." While I physically prefer taller men, I can't really afford to be picky and so have dated shorter men. Sometimes though, they seem embarassed about the height difference, too embarassed to take me seriously. From many of the posts fro... (359 words)

What should I do with a man who states that all he needs in life is his children?

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20 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I met a divorced man about 10 months ago. We have been talking and seeing each other on and off over the last 8 months. We have become intimate and enjoy each others company when we are able to meet. Recently, he mentioned that he didn't want me to think that our ... (227 words)

How do I seem more experienced when giving head?

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20 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - When giving my boyfriend a bj I'm a complete newbie. When people say to alternate between fast and slow how fast should fast be (towards end)? and any tips or tricks that will make me seem more experienced?... (38 words)

Is it possible to love two people at once?

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20 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it possible to love two people at once? Are you a bad person if you see things in people that you are attracted to, that connect you to them? My story, I guess I've always loved this guy that I met when I was 16. It seems like time has never been on our side though. ... (258 words)

Should I ask this co-worker out?

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20 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Should I ask this girl out? I work with her and have recently realised I have feelings for her when I actually look forward to go to work just because she is there. Problem is while we flirt and stuff we aren't very much alike she hangs out with a lot of people and I am a ... (180 words)

Seeing each other for 4 months, and I found out he was dating someone else this whole time!

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20 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I had been seeing this guy for 4 months now. At the onset he asked that we don't see other people anymore. I am faithful by nature so it was not something hard for me. Well New Year's Day, I found out that he's been talking and dating someone else. Only consolation was, it ... (128 words)

I want to stop being the" Nice guy"!

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20 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - i feel that I am a nice, friendly, and approachable person. People have told me that on a number of occasions (both guys and girls). Yet, I feel like I am a fairly confident person stuck in a shy persons body. I fit in with a lot of people, but lack of confidence someh... (191 words)

Lost: My boyfriend's erection!

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20 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boy friend were currently going to have sex we were at his house and alot of things happened that one thong led to another... Well he put on a condom and went to put it in and he wasnt hard or anything. He just said he was sorry but he wasnt hard enough to do it and ... (86 words)

He says he loves me, but he never wants sex!

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20 January 2011 (F) age - My husband lost sexual desire 5 years ago. He says he loves me. But he never wants sex. When we have sex, he loses his erection in seconds. Specially ,after he is kissing and stimulating me. I;m completely confused. We had been at doctors several times, and he is ok. I feel ... (120 words)

How on earth do you find someone you just CLICK with?

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20 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know why I am SO anxious to have a boyfriend. It's driving me crazy. Okay, so, I'm 21 years old. I'm in the nursing program studying to become an RN. I'm very busy all the time now. I have only ever had ONE relationship when I was 19 years old and it only lasted for ... (247 words)

Not sure if I should settle or not! Help please!

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20 January 2011 (M)

age - Hello All!! I have been divorced for a long time (after writing this, it is becoming more clear why), since the mid 90's and have had two other serious relationships along with a few years of trying to work it out with the ex-wife and then few just devoting my time to ... (464 words)

Call it off or carry on?

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20 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - A few weeks ago I bumped into my friends mom in a local pub. I've fancied her for ages and she came back to mine where we ended up having sex. She's a lot older than me, 45 and I'm 22. Anyway we've met each other several times since and have just began to...fall..for each ... (104 words)

Birth control/sex question!

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20 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I are planning on having sex after 3 years together. We will use Ortho Options Gynol II contraceptive gel and Trojan Warming sensations condoms. My first question is what would the effectiveness of these together be? and secondly are thinner condoms more likely ... (82 words)

We've been together now for over 3 months but still haven't had sex!!!

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20 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for over 3 and a half months, but haven't had sex! We are very close and have a strong connection, however, he is reluctant to fully have sex with me. We have fooled around orally and we both obviously turn each other on, plus, neither on... (236 words)

Will she view this as me trying to make a move on her... or as me being a good guy and a friend?

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20 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I was just wondering if this is okay for me to do: Me and my ex broke up a year ago, and well things were okay and all. But she left me due to different reason, and well we have remained friends during this time. Now a year later and after dating a new guy for a bit, the s... (265 words)

I am wondering why being rejected affects me so much.

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20 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am wondering why being rejected affects me so much. I have lots of good things going on in my life, yet when I feel like a guy is rejecting me, it takes me such a long time to get over it. For example, had a first date a few days ago (from online dating) and I liked him but ... (116 words)

What about liking Bad Girls?

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20 January 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - We hear why bad boys are liked; because they live on the edge, are exciting, can't be tamed easily and are unpredictable. For all those reasons are why I like Bad Girls but you never hear about guys chasing women like that much. So do you like the bad girl type? If s... (67 words)

I told her everything and now she doesn't want to be friends any more...

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20 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - The girl that I love who went out with another guy had asked me to tell her everything (she knows that I love her). She doesn't know what is everything and what I mean by everything is... a lot of bad things about her boyfriend. I have been trying to avoid to tell her this fo... (149 words)