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writes:Hi all,Ok here we go,I went out with my ex for only 4 month's which is nothing compaired to previous relationships in the past, ther is 8 years difference between us, one of the reasons I got with her is because she wanted a relationship and seemed mature.Just before christmas she broke up with me and has since started going out with her flatmate. Her flat mate has allways liked her since a year before I came along and she had told me this, I was cool as she made it clear that she did not want to go out with him and she said that before to him.she has also been in several relationships all around 4/5 months. The flat mate was the only true friend she had for some reason, he is also young however is really lazy and over weight and drinks alot and never had a gf and my ex is experienced. He met a girl in his work where my ex also is and started to see her and my ex seemed to get into her head she was going to loose him as a friend even though I said a true friend would not loose contact etc.I have been really good and not phoned/text or been round etc since we split up, I saw them out at a club the other day and carried on being me enjoying life and friends even though I was hurting inside.My mates all believe that she will soon get bored of him and leave him.1) After reading that do you think my ex has insecurity problems etc?2) Even though I am moving on with life as best as pos, and dont expect her back, what should I do if she does turn up or get in contact? 3) I am confused about the whole situation and doing the best I can to forget and move on and be happy etc as I have been through worse and I have gone agains all my feelings on this, I would just like peoples advise on the above and if I am doing the rite thing or not?Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2011): Keep up with the no contact. She broke up with you and that's her mistake. If you don't think that she's coming back, then just keep moving on. If she contacts you and wants to meet you, just tell her that you are really busy and don't have time. If she says something about getting back together, tell her no. You've worked hard to get over her and you don't want to start that process all over again. Besides, she left you for another guy once, why won't she do it again? Get over her and find yourself a new girl who knows what she wants.
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