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writes:There is this guy that i really like but i am not sure if he likes me.He recently sent me a text saying I am the one but he has never expressed any interest on me before that and before he sent the text we used to talk a lot(almost endless hours everyday).Now after the text we hardly talk.The other thing is i always have to be the one to initiate the conversations we had and i don't want to seem desperate or eager.how do i know if he likes me or if he doesn't?.I don't want to always initiate conversations because sometimes i think that it might be bothersome to him.the thing is i have had incidents before where i wasted my time on guys only to find out they don't like me(or they are not interested in me).so,i don't want to go through the same road again because at the end its painful.how do i figure out if he likes me without making a fool of myself?
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reader, Dataluke  +, writes (14 January 2011):
 Well from the sounds of that text you already have your answer.I'm not like this but some guys if they like girls, will get so nervous that they can't talk to them, your guy could be exactly like this.Just talk to him as you would normally, get him comfortable with the idea that you guys can actually talk.At some point as him to the movies or something and see what he says, he will defiantly come if he likes you.I hope I helped.All the best, Dataluke
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2011): HeyWhy don't you try casually flirting with him ? If he responds, you know your answer. If he sent you a text saying, you're the one---then I guess that does mean something...And if you guys suddenly reduced talking after that message, then its just natural at times...I mean things do get a bit awkward. Anyway...maybe you should casually flirt. That'll really give you a clear idea.ORYou could bring up that message while talking to him. Not seriously though...I mean on a light note...if you know what I mean. Joke around and casually bring it up. His reaction will help you decide his feelings for you. The thing is You need answers so you have to do the talking etc. I know its irritating to initiate conversation, and moreover it feels like you're the one running after the guy. But since you're the one who needs answers, Do it just this one time :)
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reader, 1989BABY  +, writes (14 January 2011):
 Just ask him, I mean no harm in doing that, just waiting around afraid to ask is being stubborn. If he tells you No then thats good then you know not to waste time but if he says yes then thats great and run with it!
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