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writes:I'm married. So no "you know better" talk....I already know. Here goes. I have been working with a very attractive, and up till recently, single girl. We've known each other 3 years. For the first couple of years she seemed kind of attracted to me. She would give me half her breakfast, say things like my wife should do this or that, call me after hours if the weather was bad to make sure I'm ok. Look at me when I'm not looking , etc. Some of that still happens, but much less frequently since she just got engaged last month. So here's my questions: 1 is this behavior an indication she had or may still have a thing fir me? I mean I work with many women and none of them have ever checked on me after work...she did so as recently as 3 weeks ago 2 why when she talks to me or passes me in the hall m it seem we can't or wint look at eac other. Is that a sign she likes me and knows she shouldn't and/or a sign tmshe thinka I have feelings for her? If she thinks I have feelings for her, isn't it odd she would check on me after work sometimes?
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reader, Kilcardy +, writes (16 January 2011):
Yes, it is a q & a forum and that is exactly what is happening. You should be thankful people are being so frank with you inasmuch as what your are contemplating is potentially disastrous for you and your family. Sometimes we all get a little lost and confused and need a bit of a correction. The Aunties on this forum are not afraid to smack someone upside the head when they need it. It's tough medicine; but it's all meant to help you, not demean you. Please take the running commentary on your post in the spirit in which it is intended. Think about what is being said to you. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2011): If she is interested in you or not is irrelevant. She's engaged so nothing can happen anyway.
Oh, yes and one more thing, YOU'RE MARRIED. Just thought i'd remind you seeing as that little fact seems to have slipped your mind.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (15 January 2011):
 I don't really see anyone being demeaning here. You asked a question and received honest answers.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2011): If you love your wife... act accordingly. Tell this girl to stop calling you. Are you a cheater? The grass is not greener on the other side.
This girl is acting very inappropriately and needs to be put in her place by a REAL MAN.... hopefully that is you.
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reader, Sweetman1 +, writes (15 January 2011):
Sweetman1 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWow....what's the point of posting a question only to be demeaned? This is a q and a forum, isn't it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2011): Guy forget her ..you are married ! and if she's doing exactly what you're talking about for real..It means that she's not good...look at your wife because if you be looking this woman maybe someone will be paying attention to your wife too...take care what is yours....Man...wake up!!
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (15 January 2011):
No sorry just because she's a considerate co-worker doesn't mean she's hot for you. Plus, she doesn't do the those frequently anymore, if she actually was hot for you then she's not anymore.
I suggest you stop crushing on your co-worker when you already have a woman at home, your wife. If you knew better then you shouldn't be asking this question.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2011): This girl is either a husband stealer or a really caring, friendly, outgoing person that doesn't realize how her actions are being interpreted. Since it's been three years and she's now engaged to someone else, she's either realized she isn't going to get you and moved on, or didn't have feelings for you in the first place.
I hope you can work things out with your wife.
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reader, eddie85 +, writes (15 January 2011):
 This could mean anything.
Perhaps she likes to flirt with you. Maybe she's just sweet on you. At the same time, it doesn't sound like she's crossed that line and neither does it sound like you have. I think at one point she might've had a passing fancy for you, but since she's been engaged, it sounds she's re-focused on herself on her fiancee.
I don't think there is enough information in your post to make a determination of what her intentions are. Either way, enjoy her company but I'd be careful about "crossing" that line.
You are after all a married guy.
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reader, Kilcardy +, writes (15 January 2011):
You're in your 30's? Really? You sound like a 7th grader. What's the point of your post? You want to know if an engaged woman likes you? Get a grip and go home to your wife!
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