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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How can we maintain a relationship and see each other more?

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1 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - alright so since august i've liked this guy john and he likes me but i only see him when my mom's friend comes to a party and brings her son and john. unfortunately thats twice a year, once in the summer and again at my house for new years eve. this new years we pretty much ... (158 words)

He just got a new girlfriend--how do I get him back?

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1 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. my ex broke up with me 2 months ago after 2 years together i was devastated.So last night i was at a party in my friends boyfriends house and he was there.I saw him with a girl all night long and they were talking and laughing.At about 1:30 he came over to me and ... (111 words)

Why is my boyfriend ignoring me?

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1 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 15 and my boyfriend is 16 we've been together for nearly 7 months now. I love him and he claims to love me too. I live about 1 hour 30 mins away from him so it is hard but I see he every two weeks which is good cos we have school and all of that. He has had sex before a... (446 words)

I can't figure her out!

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1 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I ended a relationship 6 months ago and have been enjoying single life again while getting my life back on track. 2 months ago on a night out with mates, a girl said she recognized me and we chatted for a bit and that was that. She found me on Facebook within a week an... (194 words)

Should I tolerate this madness or just call it quits?

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1 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Help me. my girlfriend and I have been having so many problems. for one she had a lot of guy friends that flirted w/her on her facebook "that picture can bring a man to his knees" "I miss you, love you punkass" "those eyes I never get to see" etc etc . she said they're just ... (833 words)

Are we over?

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1 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Have been with my bf for 8 years, engaged for 2 of them. Last month he said that we were having problems and had been for some time. Wanted to work it out but really shows no interest in doing this. I loved him but now I am thinking it's time to go........ (53 words)

Is intimidation a bad thing?

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1 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So i have had a few boyfriends in my past. And every time we broke up it was kinda sudden and not really that far into the relationship. And well my mom was talking to the mom of my ex. She had said that her son was probable intimidated me. Which i don't understand how i am ... (160 words)

Nothing ever works for me!

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1 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Nothing ever works for me. I know I have issues, as I've known for quite some time. I always mess up every relationship, yes, it's always my fault. I'm 26 at this point and I don't see things improving anytime sooner. I fall for people easily and things always go good for ... (391 words)

Girlfriend still in touch with her ex!

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1 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been dating my girlfriend for almost 3 months now. I found out that she is still friend with her ex. We were going through pictures on her phone and she pointed out her ex in one of the group picture with her friends. She told me that they were friends with each other ... (170 words)

Was it just a drunken mistake?

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1 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My friend stayed at my house on new years eve! we had the house to ourselves! we are both girls by the way! and we had quite a lot to drink and then we went up to bed and we were lay there together in bed and all of a sudden my friend started to kiss me! and i turned away ... (261 words)

Does this mean we're through?

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1 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I was seeing a guy only for a couple weeks. Only had a couple dates. Well last night I texted him cause i wanted to hangout and he was just a jerk, and he has been from the dates. I started getting mad, then i showed up at his house for him to not be there. Then i got furious, ... (150 words)

Does his body language imply friendship or something more?

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1 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, I really like a guy and wanted to ask your opinion on body language. When I was upset he embraced me really tight and keep hugging me really close and was playing with my hair and stroking it. So what does he body language imply is it friendly or romantic ? ... (67 words)

How do I get over it/win her back?

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1 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm very much a broken man at the moment, Me and my ex-wife split up 8 weeks ago to the day! This has happened before except I was the one who broke that off last time. A little history... I met my wife back in 2002, we had our first child in 2003, everything was fantastic, n... (909 words)

How do I approach her? And what do I say?

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1 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I go to college (uk) and there is this girl there who i like. when I first met her she had a boyfriend but she wasn't happy and just before christmas she broke up with him. we speak a little in class and on facebook. my friend is having a birthday party at his house this month ... (124 words)

I kissed another guy while I was drunk!

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1 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 3 years now and sometime lately i'v had a crush on one of my guy friends. on night we were at a party and right from the start i felt like kissing him ..after a few drinks my guy friend told me he wanted to tell me something and we went ... (206 words)

What is a soul mate?

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1 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Is there such as a soulamate?... (6 words)

I don't know if I can spend the rest of my life being sexually unsatisfied

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1 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my husband for over 18 months married for almost 4 months. He is a great guy but not perfect! Sex use to be amazing but after awhile it got to the point where he only cares about his needs and has even admitted to being lazy about it. I love getting him off, i do ... (138 words)

Is it a good idea to have break up sex?

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1 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend broke up with me three weeks ago, at the beginning of December. We had been dating for 14 months. I fully understood her decision to break up with me, as I had struggled to get over a previous ex, which caused my girlfriend to fall out of love with me. She states ... (221 words)

What does it mean if a man says a woman is a bit ripe?

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1 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - What does it mean if a man says you are a bit ripe?I overheard this man I just met, on the phone talking about me and he told the person my age and then said "she a bit ripe,still"I think he mustve meant shes a bit old,but I only just turned 23!and he is 33-does it mean a bit ... (60 words)

I don't get many girlfriends because I'm ginger!

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1 January 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - HI i am a ginger 15 teen year old. I dont get many girlfriends because im ginger!!!!! unfortunately.i geta lot of slaging at school but im used to it now! my last girlfriend only went out with me because i was class at sport. all my friends tell me im unreal at sports and im ... (66 words)

I have feelings for a girl who is in a relationship

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1 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Help... I have feelings for a girl who is in a relationship. She feels the same for me, she has said so. She would rather be with me than her partner it seems. I'd love to give it a go, but I don't want to get between her and her boyfriend. It would be really wrong to d... (81 words)

He has no passion in the bedroom!

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1 January 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I'm in a relationship with a man 15 years my senior. After settling down from the gay party life, I met and fell whole-heartedly for this man. But there's one problem. He has no passion in the bedroom. He has no problem with an erection and he looks at porn, but with me, he has ... (89 words)

I need help, advice, tips on dealing with my erectile dysfunction!

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1 January 2011 (M) age - Dis anybody ever had erectal dysfunction,due to psychological reasons? How did it get diagnosed? How did it get better? Did it ever get resolved? I had a long journey on this road, and getting very tired of it. I wish ,if someone would understand me. I;m 49 years old m... (163 words)

He cried. Does he trully love me? Or was it all a act?

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1 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend of six months, never once saw him cry, Told me how much he loves me and tears rolled down his face. He said I'm the only good thing in his life and he would take a bullet for me. I'm only 15 and he's 16. Is it possible he really loves me. I know I love him him. But ... (122 words)

Does the crying means he does love me?

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1 January 2011 (F)

How can a straight man attract and/or ask a bisexual woman out?

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1 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Whoa, 4 years now, and I've been playing the wrong cards. I thought for this time, I've been trying to attract my crush, and just ask her out on JUST one date, and I found out a rumor for the first time she might be bisexual. Now, if this statement is true, I have no experience ... (155 words)

How do I react when I run into him again! I've been into him for 2 years now!

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1 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So I started talking to this guy 2 years ago, on msn, through a friend. Then a month later we just stopped because he got into trouble with my bf.He had a gf but didn't count it as a closed relationship. Then, a year later when I was single, he was driving by with that same ... (435 words)

Can anyone explain what just happened?

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1 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello there, I gotta a sort of big problem. Yesterday I was at a party for celebrating the end of the year, and there was my ex boyfriend too. Once midnight arrived, my ex and I went out to see fireworks. Days before many people told me that my ex and I were expected to kiss ... (308 words)

Why are guys put off by acne?

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1 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I just want to know why guys are put off by acne so much. I know I will probably sound full of myself by saying this, but before I got acne, guys were always talking to me (Most of my bestfriends were guys). Then when I turned 14, I started developing acne, and guys just st... (97 words)

Do nice girls really finish last?

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1 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - What do guys think of nice girls?? I was just in an emotionally abusive relationship and ppl told me that it was not worth it to be nice all the time? Do men find playing hard to get and bitches attractive?? I mean I believe in being honest and straightfoward nut ppl and books ... (126 words)

Should I tell my boyfriend what I said to his friend when we weren't together?

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1 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend have confessed everything that we should of done , weve probabley had the worst christmas and new year ever, but i want to move on from it. The only thing is, id said to one of his mates chris that I liked him. Me and my boyfriend were finished at the time ... (79 words)

My life is a mess... what tips do you have for me?

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1 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My life is fucked up... What to do? I am 23 year old guy. For the past 1 year, things havent been going the way i wanted..or rather i should say it never went. I am neither a sportsman nor a geek. I am lazy. First of all, Internet Pornography, i have been trying... (421 words)

It's like he wants to be close, and then he doesn't!

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1 January 2011 (?) age 41-50 - I am so lost. I have been dating this guy for about two months, and everything was going great at first up until about two weeks ago-right around Christmas, and now New Year's it's over before it even began. We were never exclusive yet, and last night I assumed that we were ... (787 words)

I don't see why she doesn't feel for me the way she used to!

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1 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - my girlfriend and I had a talk the other night and she said that she doesn't feel the same way she used to for me. I don't know what to do. I don't see why she doesn't feel for me the way she used to. I mean things used to be great between us, and now were going on a year and I ... (97 words)

If she really liked me why didnt she break up with him?

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1 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - here's how it goes i made friends with the girl im sitting next to in class. She has a boyfriend btw. She was really nice to me and i started liking her. We texted a lot everyday and we got to know each other. Eventually we were very close and we kinda became good friend... (279 words)

Boyfriend is not ashamed of being nude in front of others...

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1 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Last night, we had around 20 people over for a New Years party, and I was trying to fall asleep a little later in the night. I was nearly asleep when someone ran to the bathroom (which is right outside of my room) to inform his girlfriend that my boyfriend was flashing his ... (286 words)

Why would a man with a girlfriend passionately kiss another woman and NOT push to sleep with her?

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1 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I'd be particularly interested to hear a male view on this scenario please... Why would a man who has a girlfriend of two years passionately kiss another woman (on two different occasions) and talk to her for hours about how much he likes her but NOT sleep with her? Surely... (72 words)

I don't want to end up being just another girl for him!

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1 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have had the same bf for about eight months now and recently he told me before he met me he slept with a girl in my grade and ignored her and they haven't talked since. Now I am unsure if he used me for the last eight months to try to get to that point. Part of me says no he ... (102 words)

Should I let her know I'm his secret lover? He's my ex!

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1 January 2011 (F)

age - i'am my exes secret lover now.we lived together for 6 yrs. he moved out a yr. ago, but we were still a couple. he met someone 4 months ago and still sees me when he can. he been lying to her from the start and won't tell her the truth about us. i told myself i can wait this out ... (104 words)

How do I get the boyfriend back?

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1 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - i am 13 and i only had one boyfriend he was nice and all then a weak later he broke up with me but i still like him and it was over a year ago how do i get him back if i still want him and how do i no if he still likes me? im desperate please help ... (60 words)

Met a great girl at a party, I want to be with her!

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1 January 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - I went to a party with my friends and cousins, I met this girl and we talked throughout the whole night we were both sober when we met and we got really drunk, we hold hands and danced all night. Our close friends really want us together, I want to be with her... Any ... (60 words)

I'm nervous about telling him how I feel!

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1 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Im nervous about telling him how i feel. He tells me how he feels and he wants me to tell him how i do. Should i tell him? If so how do i start? im lost for words for it... (40 words)

He's angry because he found my diary from BEFORE we were together that has pictures of an ex!

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1 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - soo my bf was looking for something in the spare bedroom and came across my diary. Which of course had pics of my ex and the last time i wrote or even looked in the diary was before my new bf and i were even together! He said he didnt read it...just saw the pics...which now hes ... (72 words)

What should I do? She is my best friend and now I have these feelings I've never had for anyone for her!

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1 January 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Hello Hi guys ive come to ask a question about this girl she my best friend and we do everything together i mean im 13 and get bullied at home and school and she's the only comfort i have my face has tiny scar just bellow my check bone after my druken dad threatened me wi... (232 words)

He's just started ignoring me, I really like him, help!

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1 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - ok ,so i've known this guy for about 2 years and i became really close to him, i've liked him for a while but he doest like me and he ignores me and ive not spoke to him for ages. he has feelings for his ex and that why he said he didnt like me that way. he's a really nice guy ... (91 words)

Why am I like this with him?

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1 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Can anyone tell me what my problem is?? I am with who I think is a lovely guy but at the moment I am angry with him and I don't want to see him tonight...why? I have been with him 7 months this month,I am a very insecure person due to my two previous partners. He is a Facebook ... (280 words)

Why does he keep mentioning her? Does he really like me or not?

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1 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i have had feelings for this guy since we met 4 and half years ago. soon after fell in love with him. we didnt really keep in touch mouch and something alwyas connected us. about 2 years ago we started working together and now we are best friends. we argue like cat n dog...but ... (344 words)

I'm a 40 year old virgin!!

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1 January 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I think I may have blown it, so to speak. I am dealing with and trying to conquer social anxiety and other social challenges. Though through these challenges, I have remained a virgin and I am 40! I am worried that when I do start a relationship, the woman will freak... (118 words)

I like my best friend's boyfriend, what should I do?

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1 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, this might be quite lengthy but please try to bear with me, I'm really confused and desperately need some advice! :/ I'm male, 16, from the UK. And there's this guy. He's just perfect... he's funny, witty and so god damn sexy. He's roman gypsy heritage and it shows in ... (935 words)

Befuddled with my ex... why is she still texting me?

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1 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, this is my first post in this firm. I started lurking around a week ago, and I find this site to be very informative. Anyway here is my story. My ex-girlfriend and I have been on and off for over two years you. About two years ago, she moved to Ohio and we was doing th... (646 words)

For women, is there a difference between having an orgasm and cumming?

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1 January 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - My girlfriend says she has "orgasms", but she also says she "cums". English is not her native language, I'm not sure if she knows what the two terms mean. The way she describes it, what she calls an "orgasm" is just that, a strong feeling of intense pleasure that lasts a few... (245 words)

Is "introducing a girlfriend to family" on skype something big in the US?

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1 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in an open relationship with this guy (34yo) due to the long distance between us, we used to be close distance and committed but now we find it's better if we keep it open. We'll be close distance after 2 years. So he went back home in the US to visit his family for Chris... (183 words)

What did he mean by 'don't expect much' ?

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1 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have known this bloke for 18 years we used to go out when i was 18 but i wasnt very nice to him and split on bad terms, didnt speak for many years. Now we have been in contact and we have started seeing each other again. I live 1o hours away so I dont see him often. Anyway... (93 words)

His dad read our MSN conversations and stopped him from seeing me...and its pretty much over now.

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1 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - About a month ago, I broke up with my boyfriend of a year and two months. I still love him, and he says he still loves me. It's all very confusing. Basically, his Dad installed a tracking device on his laptop, and read through our MSN conversations, and found out that we'd had... (589 words)

Stories of first loves?

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1 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Do you ever think about your first love? It's almost been anyway since we last split and during the time we did split, there was still intense stuff going on such as the continuation of the blame game, ex sex and so much more. He really has moved on and so have I. But ... (148 words)

How to start a new phase of life after betrayal by my boyfriend.

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1 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i loved one person very much. we wanted to get married but due to family reasons i got married to some one else. after my marriage . i divorced my husband to marry my boyfriend as he had promised me that once i divorce my husband , my boy friend will marry me.but after my ... (112 words)

I don't trust him! I'm so afraid my boyfriend will cheat on me!

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1 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a big problem with in me emotionally and mentally. I am so insecure,jealous, or so afraid my boyfriend will cheat me. whenever i am on relationship and if i know he is in love with me, i start to investigate, asking so many questions and never trust him. I am the one who ... (213 words)

Why does everyone let the cheater off so easily?

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1 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Ugg! I am tired of reading posts that blame the cheatee rather than the cheater. That's ridiculous! The cheater is in charge of their actions. I keep reading people cheat because they are lacking something in their relationship....that is an excuse. Cheaters have another ... (74 words)

After 5 years together she dumps me by email!

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1 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I ws with my partner for the last 5 years. 3 years ago things got tough as I was diagnosed with "depression" and was put on horrible, personality changing medication. 3 months ago I was dumped by email 2 days before she got back from her month trip to Germany and haven't see ... (190 words)

My girlfriend dumped me yesterday, how do I get her back?

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1 January 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, Yesterday my girlfriend dumped me. Up untill two weeks ago we were perfect, we're both 15. I was with her for seven months and still feel i could make us better, theres so much we still have to do together. When we were breaking up she was crying, she said she love... (111 words)

I'm stuck in the same place after a year with my ex!

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1 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - in 2008 i met a girl when she was on vacation in a club trough a mutual friend. we discovered that we were door to door neighbours. she had a relationship which she wasnt sure about, she left back to england while i was living in my homecountry. We then got really close ... (331 words)

Was I just a fling or did he really like me?

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1 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 16 year old girl from england, and I went on a trip to america in summer and met this guy, who's from germany. He's 18 and really sweet, fun and caring. I was with him all the time, and he was constantly hugging me, kissing me (on the cheek), sitting with me, and teasing ... (271 words)

He says I'm being unreasonable because I want to see him

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1 January 2011 (F)

age - It's New Years Day. My mother is in hospital after suffering a massive stroke three weeks ago. I have had little/no support from my partner since this happened to my mother. I phone him, I talk, repeating the details of my day, he listens and then the phone call ends.... (246 words)

How can I tell if he feels the same way about me?

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1 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in the eighth grade, and well my story may seem a little confusing.. So in the beginning of the school year I was totally fine, until about a month after school started, I got into a bad situation that happened outside of school, and that caused me to have to transfer to a ... (287 words)

I love him but he's always lying!

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1 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, So me and my boyfriend of 1yr 8 months broke up in november. The last 3 months of our relationship was a LDR because the army moved his family 4 hours away. He was my soulmate, he understood me, made me laugh and smile. I loved him so much. But he's lazy. After... (170 words)

She is all over me one second and then the next shes not. and her ex boyfriend always gets in the way. what should I do??

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1 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - im so confused. is she messing with my head or is it just me ?? so basicly i met this girl in my music class at college. we didnt really speak to each other at all at the beginning then we were put in a group together and tbh we still didnt really talk. then a week or so lat... (533 words)

I've been love sick for 14 months should I crash the wedding?

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1 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - How do I get myself out of the dumps of my gloating selfpity for passing the love of my life by? This is doomsday for me but the wedding day for her? Should I crash the wedding and vow my love to her to be my wife. It's been 14 mos that I was a chicken to tell her I love her. ... (80 words)

I was tipsy when kissed my teacher on new years eve

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1 January 2011 (?) age 30-35 - please i need your advice it was new years eve and i was tipsy i was walking around town when i saw this male friend, we went back to him and celebrated new year and we saw it in in style but we kissed and i don't know what to do was it just a drunken kiss? should we jus... (87 words)

Why after 4.5 years does my girlfriend tell me "its not working"?

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1 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I have been with my girlfriend for just over 4.5 years. We have done everything together and even talked about engagment. Then 2 days ago just after Christmas we went to a family wedding. It went realy well she was happy having photos with me cuddeling ect. A... (178 words)

Our conversations dry up, how do we communicate better in this new relationship?

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1 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've just starting dating this guy, and we like each other its just we have trouble keeping interesting conversations alive. A lot of the time our conversations are quite dry and get driven straight into the ground followed by silence =/ We don't very often say sweet thin... (79 words)

Why didn't she tell me she was married??

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1 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't know what I should do about news I got last night about my partner. We've been together for just over 1 year. SHE'S MARRIED TO A MAN AND LIVING WITH HIM! This explains a lot of odd incidents. Where and how do I handle this mind fck Newyears blues? What made her keep it ... (60 words)

I'm confused and distraught at my uncertain situation. What should I do?

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1 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - hi; i now have no where else to go but get a strict answer from dearcupid. i was searching for a simple resolution to my love problem. i read several questions but none of that defines my problem. ok first of, i'll write all of the story. i came to a new country to start ... (1637 words)

Choices? Pursue my new friend or try to interest my best friend who I love?

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1 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I have this gorgeous girl bestfriend. We always hang out together. Her parents know me very well then same goes for my parents. we've been bestfriends since first grade. well now were already 17 years old. I started to feel strange towards my girl bestfriend last year. To be... (316 words)

I'm hurting because I don't know where my relationship with my GF is going.

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1 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - i've been with my gf for a whole three years and i've had the time of my life. but she gets defensive if i even say his name . she talks to other guys and hugs them and when i ask to see her phone, she changes the subject. i've had a lot of bad relationships and it ... (105 words)

We've been engaged for 8 years! Why does she keep putting the wedding off?

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1 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been engaged to my girlfriend for around 8 years and dating for some more. She always says: next year, this is the year, in few months and finally once again next year. Also gives excuses to delay it, you name them. If I ask her about her feelings and assuring her that I ... (167 words)

What happened? Should I see the Dr?

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1 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hey all.. i really need help. i was with my boyfriend yesterday, we were making out and having dry sex. but still i touched his penis and i think he did precum. i was fully clothed though (underwear and jeans). after we're done i went to the toilet and i found some pinkish col... (131 words)

Why do I cry after having sex with my ex?

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1 January 2011 (?) age 36-40 - i recently had anal with an old ex boyfriend we are best friends now but after he got done i just started cry I haad a whole load of emotion come out but why did i cry i felt so low ....but when we were dating and did it was fine so my question is why did i cry ... (63 words)

He Says We Are Done, So Why Does He StilL Call Me Like We Are Still Dating, Each and Every Day?

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1 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello. I know, I know, this sounds totally riduculous, but here goes. I have to have closure for the New Year, and perhaps you can help me. I had been dating a man for approximately 18 months before we split up during the Summer of 2010. We split up because simply, he was ... (434 words)

I'm married, also have BF who's going to leave his GF and I'm possibly pregnant plus I'm in a panic. Help!

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1 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship with a man who is 14 years older than me for 10 years. I got with him when I was 17. We had a lot of problems through the relationship, however, we kept going. I couldn't get pregnant, and it took 3 years of trying and 1 year of fertility ... (611 words)

She tells me she still loves me, but as a friend

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1 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I dated a girl, who I absolutely fell in love with from the first time I met her. However, things did not work out for us. It was my fault, I said things I shouldn't have. I have continued to have feelings for her. She continues to want to be friends and ask me out to ... (148 words)

I like being single, but I miss kissing and stuff. Should I just go for it?

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1 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I like being single, don't get me wrong It's nice! But what I miss the most is well, everything! i miss holding hands and kissing and stuff. i like this guy who's about three years older than I am. I like him a lot! But i can't date him until high school. Should I wait until ... (71 words)

He calls me his bestest friend, but does that mean he likes me?

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1 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a tad confused at the moment. About a few days ago I told my friend I liked him after he said: I had a revelation. I love you out of most people I just realized it. Thing that confuses me is that he's now confused if he likes me. Mainly because I dated his bff two years ag... (110 words)

Mother in law's gifts always make me feel extremely bad

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1 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My mother-in-law keeps buying me gift vouchers for a certain shop which is known as an plus size shop and also as the old woman(granny)shop. She has been doing this now for 5 yrs, birthdays and xmas. I am overweight size 16-18 but i have had some problems health wise for ... (240 words)

Is it normal to feel guilty after masturbating?

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1 January 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Im a 14 year old male and masturbate around once or twice a day and when im dobe i feel guilty is that normal? any way to over come it... (30 words)

My boyfriend cheated on me with another women. Now I think I have a STD. What should I do?

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1 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - my b/f recently cheated on me with another woman. Yet we have had unprotected sex two times since he cheated. The last time was the day before my period came. Now my period is finished and my vagina feels different. He didn't tell me until like when until we argued about him ... (142 words)

Boyfriend told me he's been cheating but won't give me the details!

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1 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - my b/f told me he have been cheating but does not want to give me details. all he is telling me is to take it easy and relax for now. because i have been stress about our relationship and lately it reach a peak where it affected my physical health, till i have to end by the ... (501 words)

How can I fix those missing feelings and get them back?

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1 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So my problem is, I cheated on my boyfriend and now have no want to be around him or be intimate with him. My feelings for him, well I don't know if they've changed, but I know I still love him. I've been trying to to dump him because it hurts too much to stay with him when I ... (149 words)

Online relationship is difficult because she's very protective of herself

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1 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright, I have a very strange situation here. I'm in a long distance relationship (Haven't met in person yet, but yes, she definitely is who she says she is) with a girl 3 years younger than me. I'm 18, she's 15. She's very mature for her age, we've been together for 3 m... (325 words)

25 years married, 15 years having an affair, how do I leave my marriage?

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1 January 2011 (F)

age - I have been married for twenty five years. I knew when I walked down isle that i shouldn't be. I have been having an affair for the past 15 years. I have not intimate relationship with my husband and haven't since my youngest child was 8 now 17. I asked for counseling and ... (163 words)

Dumped on New Year's Eve!

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1 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid i just got dumped by my boyfriend on new years eve!!we would havee been together two years on the 8th.he broke up witth meh because he says i make no effort to see him..he lives in the next city over frm me and i just recently lost my car and have been going through ... (201 words)

I'm scared if we have sex I'll get pregnant and he'll leave me!

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1 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so this is goin to be so confusing. But i live in newfoundland. and the guy im i guess you could say dating is living in ontario. He comes here every summer for a couple of weeks. Our feelings are very strong for each other, we tell each other everything. Recently we have ... (141 words)

I'd like a girlfriend but not sure how to get one

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1 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a 19 year old male and am single (always have been) . I would quite like a girlfriend now but I'm not sure how to get one. I have no problem talking to girls and I'm not shy. People say I have a good sense of humour. I haven't had the experience of dating in High School... (202 words)

What would you guys do in a no win situation like mine?

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1 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. Just after some advice. Do you think hiding things is ever ok? My boyfriend is a very jealous, posessive and sometimes paranoid person. From past experiences with him I now go put of my way to avoid confrontation and accusations from him. Something as simple as a guy Iv ... (231 words)

Boyfriend blowing me off for his best friend and I feel hurt by it!

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1 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm highly obsessed with my boyfriend. We've been dating for ten months. Yeah, it sounds funny and a lot of you are probably shaking you heads, but I am. He is too though. We text 24/7, see each other as much as possible, and talk on the phone from 9 pm to 6 am sometimes. We ... (410 words)