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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Girlfriend thinks I am too nice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

24 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, theres a girl i know from the internet and I've got a problem now. Well, I know her for 3 months now and i felt in love with her. We have often contact through chat, skype and webcam. Anyway we're in a relationship now and now she asked me to get more strict because ... (94 words)

Am I destned to be alone because I don't want kids? Feel like giving up.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

24 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I am 37 have been single for several years now. I'm not stunning but am OK looking, intelligent and have an interesting job and own my flat. I have many female friends, all of whom say I would be a good catch. The problem is I don't want kids, never have done. I don't want ... (250 words)

Can you be friends with your ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

24 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My ex and I broke up two weeks ago after a year of going out. We're both 15, (i know, I shouldn't be worried about this, but still). We broke up b/c we didn't have much to talk about or say to one another anymore, not because we didn't still care about each other. In fact, we ... (92 words)

It's not so much the lack of sex as the feeling getting turned down again and again.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5074 days ago

24 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm not sure if I'm looking for advice or just some support. Maybe both. I'm a 26yr old male dating a 21 yr old girl. We have a good relationship, we hang out often, play games, watch movies. She is currently in college and this certainly stresses her out some, but in the... (249 words)

What do you guys think about these psychic readings of this breakup?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

24 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Long story short, my guy broke up with me. I don't understand why, we seemed perfectly fine until he pulled the plug. We broke up Friday and we had a conversation this morning. He seemed really confused and hesitant over everything he had to say (Which was really nothing..... (357 words)

Boyfriend is nice to me when I give him money

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

24 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid My bf would be nice to me for few days if i lend him money. Then again he starts avoiding me. Will again be attentive when he needs money. I tried talking to him and he says he'll chnage but never did. He works and gets good pay too. He is not into drugs, he is... (89 words)

My husband will not stop looking at women wearing low cut tops

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

24 January 2011 (F)

age - my husband will not stop looking at woman with low cut tops on. it is anyone not just attractive woman. when i question him he always denies it.i am getting so frustrated because i no he is doing this.please can you help as i think i am going made.... (51 words)

My girlfriend is a sex addict!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

24 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I never thought this would be an issue, but my girlfriends is sex addict. She wants to have sex at least two times a day or as much as possible. I mean our record is 8 times a night. So to my problem. I really enjoyed this in the first few moths of our relationship, but sinc... (260 words)

My husband thinks I am rude!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5080 days ago

24 January 2011 (F)

age - I have always been outspoken, quick witted ol' country girl. I recently married and my husband now thinks I am rude. I have looked up the definition of rude and I do not believe that is me. How can I address this issue with him and get him to see that I don't see that ... (124 words)

Is my baby disrespecting me or cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

24 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi I'm Alex I don't know if I'm being used or cheated on, or whats going on but something doesn't seem right and it's hurting me. Ok Ive known my girlfriend for almost 2 years now. We started out dating for a whole month and oddly enough that one month was magical when we ... (976 words)

Whats so bad about being vulnerable?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5080 days ago

24 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello all! Sorry to be long winded but... A friend from college and I recently struck up a casual, long distance friendship with sexual undertones. We had hooked up briefly in college (this is about 5 years ago) after a long distance courtship of love letters and late night ... (900 words)

I don't know how to meet girls!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

24 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - So i no this sounds a bit monotonous of other questions, and y'all probably thinking that I should know how to do this by now, but hell, i guess ill still ask. So im a real shy guy till others get to know me. I do not make friends easily because of this. The friends I do... (215 words)

He gets softer when giving me oral!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5069 days ago

24 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend loves me giving him oral sex, however i love him eating me out.. But he doesn't tend to enjoy it as he gets abit softer when he does it.. Am i doing anything wrong? What do i to make surs he enjoys giving me oral sex? Thakyou. x... (55 words)

My boyfriend loves his best friend more than me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5080 days ago

24 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i am in a relationship with this guy.. we have been together for 8 months and we love each other infinitely ... we see each other every day and everything is generally okay. So, my problem is that he loves his best friend more than me.. Is that normal? I mean, they see each ... (363 words)

What is with this guy and his disappearing act?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5080 days ago

24 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - So I was dating this guy a year back and he seemed lovely but I was just out of a relationship and wasn't quite ready for a new one. I started getting a little bit freaked out at how quickly and well things were going, and i thought we were going to be going out pretty soon, so ... (231 words)

Trying to talk dirty in a long distance relationship is proving difficult...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

24 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of 2 years has just joined the army and has been away for the past 2 months and will be for another 4. We are trying to keep our relationship alive and are fine just filling each other in about our days and what not, but occasionally we will get into a little bit ... (120 words)

He can't open up to me without the help of alcohol

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

24 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been on and off with a guy for a little over a year. We have never actually officially been "boyfriend, girlfriend" but we have had a relationship like we are. He doesn't see other girls I don't see other guys. We have sex whether were "talking" or not. But he confuses the ... (350 words)

How am I supposed to trust him again and be able to move past this without ending our relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5070 days ago

24 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i've been with my boyfriend since i was 16 years old and its been a few years now but when we first started dating, the night i lost my virginity to him i went through his cell phone afterward and found text messages to multiple girls in a sexual manor. we have moved past from ... (143 words)

Was she out of line?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

24 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - okay today my friend went completely mad and started shouting at this girl and calling her a slut. so basically the girl walks home with the guy my friend likes and another guy but the other guy wasn't there so it was only the two of them. on the way home they must of gone to ... (99 words)

How do I stop comparing him to how he was when we just had a sexual relationship to now being in a real gf/bf relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

24 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some advice. I have been seeing this guy for a few years but we were both married at the time. Now we are both currently divorced and want to try and make this a "real" relationship. I can't help but feel so insecure and jealous when he says and/or does things. I know he ... (101 words)

Should I be worried about the condom breaking?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

24 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend is on the pill. She was prescribed it for acne reasons around 6 months ago but kept at it now that we're active. I use a condom every time as well, but I feel like kind of whimp for doing so. A spermicide lubricated condom broke the other day and I almost freaked ... (181 words)

He's cheating on me. Should I tell the others?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

24 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm sure this question has been asked and answered a hundred times, but I have to ask. I've been dating a man for three years. I thought our relationship was exclusive. We had the talk. We agreed. Time and time again I had suspicions but every time he talked me out of it, to... (223 words)

A long distance relationship breakup?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5067 days ago

24 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hello everyone, please i need your help !! well i want to know if i Can You Fix a Long Distance Relationship Breakup?? and another question my boyfriend broke up with me .. and he said he still loves me .. but when i told him why not being in a relationship again he didnt r... (204 words)

Should I do something for him for Valentine's day, or will it just make me look desperate?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

24 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 18 years old i went out with this guy for a bit over the summer i liked him a hell of a lot but he ended what we had just before we both went back to the same college, i still really really like him but im not sure if he still likes me because we dont really talk much any ... (113 words)

My friend wants me to fall in love... but I don't!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5080 days ago

24 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I have some really good friends at college even though I only started last year. We always talk and study and pretty much spend the whole day together. A few weeks ago I said to them that I thought one of the guys we see around is really fit and that I was thinking of trying to ... (180 words)

What is the difference between a girlfriend, a FWB or just casual sex with a girl?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

24 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - ok for you man out there , what is the difference between a girlfriend, friends with benefits or just casual sex with a girl? How do you treat a girl in each of these? I'm asking this because Im a little bit confused about my current relationship. Most of the time h... (124 words)

Why are my friends trying to push me and one of my guy friends together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5080 days ago

24 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, Why are my friends trying to push me and one of my guy friends together? We are both university students and I have to admit there is chemistry there... he likes me but doesn't want to sabotage his degree and vice versa. The only thing is my friends are awa... (272 words)

I do want to be with him but there's no trust due to her getting pregnant and him leaving me again.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5070 days ago

24 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Please dont judge! I need advice! My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year and a half now. We broke up for about 2 months from April-June last year and he started talking to this girl, I always believed in if you love something let it go and it comes back to you ... (443 words)

Who is being unreasonable in this situation?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

24 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I currently own my own condo and moved in with my boyfriend several months ago. My boyfriend also owns his home. Because I currently have a tenant in my condo, I pay my boyfriend $700 per month plus 1/2 the groceries. My tenant's lease is up in a month and he hasn't requested ... (239 words)

I have never asked him because I don't have the guts, but do you think he loves me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5080 days ago

24 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - met this online guy around an year back and since den we have been chatting nonstep as in nonstop but the thing is now he is moving to another country for studies he says he will never forget me , he says me trying to stop him makes him cry he says if i would have said dis a ... (227 words)

My boyfriend has problems keeping an erection.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

24 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay i am going to jump into this because i am very concerned with this issue. I have been with my boyfriend J for about six months, we have an amazing relationship but an issue because we cant have sex because he has problems staying hard my boyfriend is in the army... (193 words)

What should I do? What is he trying to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

24 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been in a very bad situation n dont khow what to do... ...me and my bf were sitting and talking when he said "would you mind if i tell you somdthing?" and i was like, "say it" and then he told me he likes another beautiful girl and want to break up, i felt ... (117 words)

I have been patient but think it might be time to run.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

24 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok...so here’s my story. My girlfriend and I were dating for 2 years when we started to have some problems with our relationship. By the end there was so much pushing and pulling we decided to breakup so we could concentrate on our careers. It seemed that the stress of the ... (534 words)

Married and have feelings for another man

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 3275 days ago

24 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a married woman. I have been married to the same man for almost 20 years. He loves me with all his heart. He is loyal, a good father to our kids, and he does everything for me. He puts up with me even when I am not nice to him. Any woman would be lucky to have a husband ... (380 words)

Should I tell him I think he looks better clean-shaven or at least with his beard trimmed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

24 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - This might be a terribly shallow/silly question.. but Im starting to get involved with this guy.. who has a beard. I love beards, dont get me wrong, but I think he is so much more attractive when he had a tiny beard versus the mountain man beard it is becoming. Im off at colle... (135 words)

How do I know if she's having an orgasm or just faking it?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

24 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm sure this question has been posted time and time again, but I want an answer for my particular case. I'm 17, and just starting having sex with a girlfriend of mine (also 17) a few months ago. I really care about her and want nothing more than to legitimately sat... (271 words)

I'd like our relationship to be on the best possible terms before she leaves for overseas

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

24 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok so a little over a month ago my girlfriend found out i sent some pictures to some girls. we broke up and now we talk and text a little but not to the extreme. there has been days where we dont talk at all and days where we talk all the time. also she has told me she never ... (236 words)

Help maintaining a relationship while I'm at University

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5080 days ago

24 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Im going to University in September and am looking for ways to still maintain the relationship with my boyfriend who is 20, I am 20 in December. My University will be about 2 hours away, and despite him saying he is willing to visit every weekend im not sure that will be fin... (154 words)

I'm a closet gay. I'd like to come out but I'm afraid to

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

24 January 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey, I'm 15 and am a closet gay. Lately I've been having this urge to tell someone about it. I live in a country where there are not all that many gay guys. In fact even my brother is not really okay with gay people. I cant tell anyone in my school, teachers included, as they ... (114 words)

Why was his reply "good" when I said I was falling for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

24 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - During the heat of the moment with a guy I have been seeing for almost 4 months I told him I am falling for him and he said "good" I think I should of kept my mouth shut. He tells me he is crazy about me and i had been away for 3 weeks and he told me he could not believe how ... (144 words)

I'd rather make out than have sex, but husband goes straight for the sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

24 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband and I have been together for almost 5 years now. In that time we have had two kids. For those of you who know what its like to have kids, know we have had almost NO time for ourselves. Some where along the lines my husband has stopped kissing me. He will give me a ... (234 words)

Was I wrong to get upset, or was it wrong for him to discuss my friend's period at dinner?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

24 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - HI everyone! So my boyfriend and I have been together for a year yesterday he came to ick me up from my job and he said hi to my bestfriend wh also woks with me. Anyway we went get food and during dinner he said " does your best friend have her period cause she her face broke ... (170 words)

Lost in love!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5080 days ago

24 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok. So Iim an 18 year old guy. At the age of six I moved to the US from Chile. I lived there 12 years and now I'm back in Chile with my family. I have a cousin that is an amazing person. She is 19 years old. She is kind to me, loving, and she makes me happy. I have strong ... (155 words)

Does she like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

24 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Well... There is this girl, and At the beginning of the year on the first day of College she and another student are talking us through what it is like to be at the college. The whole time when I am not looking at her, she is staring at me, and when I do look at her, she... (433 words)

Advice on how to help me get over my stutter

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

24 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, i've got quite a bad stutter, and more often than not whenever i approach people they can't get past it and although are kind to me while i'm there, once i leave i hear them tease me and take the mickey. this obviously takes a toll on my confidence which annoyingly makes... (220 words)

I'm leaving my abusive partner, but should I give my children the chance to say goodbye?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4937 days ago

24 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - hello, about a month ago i posted a question about wanting to leave my abusive fiancee and needing help. i have decided to leave, and have a plan in place to get out of here as soon as i have the money saved .. probably mid april or so. i have found an apartment and am ... (337 words)

Is he just tolerating me for the sake of an easy life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

24 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - hello all, i have a quick question and would really appreciate some thoughts on it. im in a long term relationship 11 yrs and my gut instinct tells me that he is just tolerating me for the sake of an easy life , its not anything in particular but i always manage to do something ... (190 words)

I do not believe I will ever fall in love again. It scares me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

24 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I was wondering If i could get some people's opininons on here about my current situation. I just got out of an emotionally abusive relationship of five years a couple of months ago, and i cant seem to get back up. I have no feelings for him anymore but I have these bouts of ... (281 words)

I really liked him until I saw his teeth!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

24 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - there was this guy i went to school with that i had the biggest crush on. through facebook we have been back in touch and so far he seems to be the most humble guy and i like him. i had of course not seen him in years so he came by this past weekend and he is just as adorable ... (289 words)

I don't get this girl.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

24 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I don't get this girl, we talked one day she tells me how she does not want a relationship with anybody and is not willing to lose me. She does not want to be tied down to a guy, and well she told me she would only date a guy she didn't really know. She is moving either this ... (213 words)

How do I talk to her about her 'downstairs' hygiene without offending her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

24 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I need some help. Me and my girlfriend have been in a relationship for seven months now and its going brilliantly. We see each other regularly, go out often and our sex life is very good. But there's an issue. I have noticed on occasion that her 'downstairs' hygiene is... (100 words)

I know I need time alone but I wont get back with the ex, and I really miss the new man! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5080 days ago

24 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a dilemma which I hope you can advise on. I am married but separated. After many years I made the leap out of an emotionally cold and controlling relationship. It was very hard but I moved in with a work-mate and was getting on with my life. I gave internet dating a... (403 words)

He only comes to me when he has a problem and I have to pick up the pieces.....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

24 January 2011 (?) age 30-35 - Hi, would love to get an outside opinion on this. it's kinda long (sorry), so here goes... I'm 19 and have an extremely close guy friend of mine who's 20. We were sexually involved but it ended and we still remained best friends. We are very honest, we know the others darke... (300 words)

He has lost his libido but I cant help thinking it must be to do with me.........

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

24 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been going out with my bf for 2 years and recently he's just stopped being interested in sex. I got a bit upset not because we weren't having any but because it made me feel like he'd lost attraction for me. He explained he just goes through periods where he loses his ... (88 words)

Why cant one of the twins find a man yet the other has guys falling at her feet? They are basically the same person!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

24 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so last night we had a big discussion on this topic and we would like to get other opinions ... You can be honest we need answers !! Ok here we go .. We have a two good friend there twins .. Twin A is a nice girl very funny loves sports . She has a pretty face always does ... (199 words)

I like him but I don't know if he is really that into me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

24 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I've been dating this guy for a couple of weeks now and I'm so confused. I was reading several questions from other members but i don't know if mine fits those that i read but anyway here goes... This guy that I'm dating, i see him everyday, he comes to my house we hang... (181 words)

How do I know what is normal in a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

24 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - How do I know what is normal in a relationship? Okay, here's my question(s) but first let me say I know I'm probably being over the top and am just looking for some insight while I wait for an appointment to see a counselor to discuss this. My boyfriend and I have been togeth... (369 words)

Infatuation or love? I can't decide and I can't get him out of my mind

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5080 days ago

24 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Well a year on and i am still infatuated, if that's the word, with the same guy. i don't think i'm ever going to move on. i love him more than words can describe. I know deep down he loves me too, or why would he put up with me? As i know i can be a cow and jealous at times, e... (120 words)

I don't think my wife is in love with me any more. What are my options?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

24 January 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife is not in love with me.She says she is but she always putting me down.I'm a pretty laid back person and now i'm tired of it... (28 words)

Where can I learn more about contraception and find information on what to expect if my LDR friend And I take it to the next level?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

24 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm really hoping I can get some good advice. Well story is I am in a LDR and my boyfriend is planning on coming to visit me soon. We have nothing particular planned, however, depending on how things go there is the possibility we will sleep together. If we do it would be my ... (222 words)

I feel I'm married to the wrong person!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

24 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I am 36 and been married for more than 2 years. I feel I married the wrong person. From marriage day she just started being rude to me. As if she thinks she has finally trapped me and therefore can do whatever she likes. She wants to live lavishly and keep up with the joneses ... (198 words)

If a guy was truly mind blowing in bed, would you try get him into bed with you just for one night?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

24 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - If you heard about a guy who was spectacular in bed, like he was TRULY amazing and could give you multiple intense orgasms, was great at cuddling and foreplay, would this make you flirt with him and try get him into bed with you? I mean, why not? It could just be a one ti... (193 words)

He is choosing his mates over a special weekend I planned for us ages ago!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5066 days ago

24 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I have been with my boyfriend since august 2009 and met him on holiday. I originally lived in Southampton, and he lives in Kent. In June 2009 I decided that I will move up to Kent to make the relationship work, so had left my friends and family to move in with my boyf... (642 words)

Why does my ex still call me so frequently?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5080 days ago

24 January 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - hi there. i was in a 5 year relationship that ended several years ago. we were best friends and she was my first love. i still consider her my best friend and she still calls me at least once a week to talk to me. i just found out from a friend that she is with someone else ... (423 words)

Is regular masturbation healthy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

24 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Is regular masturbation for a guy of age 19-20 is good?healthy?and will in future this will affect my sex life? i heard something like premature ejaculation occurs...same time i also heard this will improve my sex performance as i know my body more..what is correct ? plz guide... (50 words)

Should I wait for the guy who also likes me or should I just go on with the guy who's been courting me for years?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

24 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! I have a crush on this certain guy. I liked him since the day we met and it's really getting too complicated because he is my rival in our class standing. Although I can compete rationally without getting my feelings mixed up, when it comes to being together with him, I can ... (309 words)

I don't love him but he is crazy about me! What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

24 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - It's been for our relationship 2 months . but the problem is he loves me before 4 years but i was a careless "you know i don't care about him" but now this year i liked him, i thought i will be happy with him but i'm not. he loves me in a crazy way, he keeps telling me that he ... (149 words)

Should my wife be very close and open to male friends more than women?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

24 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife is very friendly and open to male friends than women friends. She says she is more confortable with men than women. She almost talk about anything(culture, love eperiance, sexual things, men vs women behaviour etc) with her male friends may be except her marriage. I ... (157 words)

Only younger boys are interested in me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5080 days ago

24 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, im almost 24 years old female, i have in in only 2 long term relationships in my life, one lasted about 10 years,i was 10 years old when we met and we broke up when i was 20, then when i was 21 i got involved with another guy but he wasnt right for me, yet i tr... (518 words)

Do all women do this? Is there something wrong with me?

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24 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear cupid women only: i dont know how to put this but please hear me out. every time when i bath i have to put my finger inside my vagina to 'wipe/remove' white discharge. i went to see my GP. he said nothing is wrong. i have to do like this everytime because it wil s... (76 words)

Girlfriend is in rehab and I'm not able to cope with it

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24 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - hello guys, im going through hard SH*t at the moment and i dont know how or even if i can handle this, i have a girlfriend and shes an angel, she so charming and i just dont see me without her, i love her way tooo much but :S she turned out to be drug addicted, she was doin ... (237 words)

Am I just too old for my girlfriend?

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24 January 2011 (M)

age - Dear Cupid, I am 56 and my girlfriend is 40. Do you think that is okay or am I just too old. I look very young for my age. Most people think that I'm in my late 40s or maybe 50. What do you think?... (52 words)

Should I be worried about burning during sex?

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24 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - It kind of hurt while i was having sex with my boyfriend and after a while it even started to feel like i had been torn. After we stopped when I went to use the restroom it burned a little bit. Should this be something to worry or go to the doc about? Or is this something that ... (63 words)

What are the possible consequences from unprotected sex?

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24 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - i had unprotected sex on monday and didn't shower, the next day i got oral pleasure from a different girl the next day still not clean. what are the possible consequences?... (31 words)

We lie and cheat but can't let each other go

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24 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid I have been dating this guy for 2 years and our relationship isn't exactly healthy. We lie to each other and we cheat on each other but the problem is we cant let each other go. I break up with him and then we make up, he breaks up with me and we make up again. ... (175 words)

I know nothing about sex and can't ask my mom

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24 January 2011 (?) age 26-29 - I feel kinda embarrassed because I know almost nothing about sex. I can't ask my mom because she will freak. My friends are out of the question because they expect me to know this stuff. I have a few questions ready: how exactly do you masturbate? What are sex toys like ... (78 words)

Trying to rebuild our relationship, should I tell him about the one night stands

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24 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I broke up about 4 months ago. We had been dating for almost 5 years. At first, we didn't really talk much after the break up, and when we did it was usually just small talk. But recently we began talking again. About our relationship and what went wrong and ... (317 words)

Am I being selfish if I take this job?

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24 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I hate not being the bread winner in the relationship. I used to be in the military, and now I am broke while going back to school. I have a loving girlfriend of a year who encourages my studies and wants me to succeed. But now I have a job offer to another state due to my ... (279 words)

How do I confront her about her 'ex'?

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24 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I'll try to keep this short. Got involved with a woman at work about 18months ago. She was with someone else so nothing really happened until that came to an end (though I suppose you could say we had an emotional affair). After she left him we got together and had a three ... (456 words)

My ex boyfriend is causing trouble

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24 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Should I break up with my bf because he cussed me out because my xbf sent me a message on aim when I haven't talked to my xbf since 7 months ago when he texted me out of the blue.that pissed off my bf that time. What should I do.should I tell him to call my xbf and tell him ... (88 words)

He has health problems because of a girl!

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24 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm with my bf for almost 9months..he is the most caring and loving guy i've ever met!he had a gf before me and that girl cheated on him and he suffered a lot..but now he has health problems! suffers from anxiety ,wakes up every night a couple of times,his heart has an ... (105 words)

Should I wait for him to catch up to me and the way I feel?

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24 January 2011 (M)

age - Dear Cupid: I've met a man recently. We're both in our early 50's. We have much in common, we have much of the same likes and dislikes, however we still remain individual. I have fallen head over heals with him. I have all but told him this and I have a feeling his feels the ... (159 words)

I don't know how we can be together and work this out!

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24 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi guys, I need some advice on my relationship. My partner and I have been together for 2.5 years. At the beginning of our relationship, we were long distance for about 8 months - before this we were best friends. I decided to move to the other side of the world j... (931 words)

He cheated on me but I still love him

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24 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Thank you for your reply, as you said I must move on , I did exaclty that, and unfortunately I met this guy a Xhosa Guy Yo!!! I was deeply in love with him , deeply he treated me like a queen, bought me everything i need, saying he wants to meet my family, but one ... (142 words)

All of my boyfriend passwords are his ex's name!

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24 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - One day my boyfriend was looking through/deleting old emails while I was sitting next to him and he opened an email with his facebook password in it. I saw that his password was his first love's name. I asked him about it and he said it was nothing. He said made his facebook ... (242 words)

Where did my loving feelings go :(! !!!!!!???

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24 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - so i haven't been in a relationship for around 2 years or so and recently i just met a girl who has all i want we have been talking so much till early in the morning but there one problem i just don't have the of feeling of love. I did felt a little burst of love when we met... (133 words)

How do I act around this guy that I've liked for a long time?

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24 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I’m a senior in high school. I have a class for the first time with a guy I’ve liked for a really long time. We’ve been out of touch for a little while now, but we use to text each other all the time. What should I do? Should I sit next to him or just around him? Or far away? ... (79 words)

My girlfriend gets angry a lot, will it change and what should I do?

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24 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello all, This background is going to be a little long, but I feel like I need to give enough detail before I ask my question at the end. My Girlfriend and I have been going out for over a year in a half, it will be two years in may 2011. Our relationship started off gre... (674 words)

My boyfriend lies about the casino

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24 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, me and my man have been together for 7 years. We been through a lot but its only so much I can take. 3 weeks ago he told me he was going to the casino I sed fine, I did ask questions about other chicks n then I left it alone, while at the casino he calls me and were ... (144 words)

My X wants to rekindle a friendship with me after he hurt me hard super duper bad.

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24 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Are there any reasons why a person should never accept an ex's invitation for friendship? Why would my X want to be friends with me when he was the one who treated me so bad and left me on the side of the road? I still love him but what he did made me now also hate him? Is it ... (73 words)

I get soft even when being in her

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24 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, I've been having a problem lately. I'm 18 years old, and I've been dating my girlfriend for about 2 months. We've had sex since a few times its not that I'm nervous because I'm not new to this, but I've been not able to get fully hard, and when I do get hard I get soft... (131 words)

I don't want to treat my girlfriend in the manner that I do

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24 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Here it goes. Tonight I pretty much figured out something I would consider it a small, but on-going problem that I need to correct for the simple fact that I dont want to treat my girlfriend in the manner I do. Background info: I am 24 years old, we have been dating a little ... (284 words)

How do ladies feel about their man going to a strip club?

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24 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Ladies, how do you feel if your boyfriend goes to a strip club? My boyfriend has been to a few over the last year for bachelor parties. I feel like him seeing other girls half naked makes me less appealing. It makes me super insecure about myself and I don't like him going. H... (93 words)

I think girlfriend likes to make me jealous

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24 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - ok need to straighten thoughts in my head,my girlfriend of 3 years is and allways has been quite open but more so in last 6 or so months mainly in the fact that she seems to like telling me about guys that fancy her and want her etc,nothing has changed in our relationship we ... (153 words)

He talked about marriage but now says he doesn't love me?

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24 January 2011 (F) age 41-50 - I've been seeing this guy for a very long time and we are always on and off. He always tells me he loves me and he always drops little hints about marriage. I have never brought up marriage to him even though I wanted to marry him. We got into a fight and he out of nowhere ... (79 words)

Why has this straight guy never been seen with a girl?

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24 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So there is this guy that I have been interested in for a while now. We don't really know each other, but I have seen him around a lot. So, two months ago I sent him a message introducing myself, and letting him know I find him attractive. Thinking he would reply, he NEVER did, ... (202 words)

Hair Removal for pubic hair:

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24 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Well i am a male and i hate shaving with a razor my Groin area and pubic hair. I just used Nair and well my pubic area is really burning and i don't like it. so, What kind would be safe around that area that wouldn't hurt my testicles or penis? And what kind of hair removal ... (65 words)

He wants to hang out but I'm too chicken to talk to him

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24 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Theres this guy i really like! And he tells me he likes me alot too! But he says he isn't feeling it's the right time?? But he wants me to wait for him??? And also he wants me to hang out with him and i'm too chicken to go up to him and talk!! Help!... (56 words)

I told him I'm not a virgin but I am

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24 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Well im 14 and im going out with this boy and he is everything a girl can ask for and its like .... the worst part is wen i first met him i told him i wasnt a vigin ( which i really am) and now i think he dosent know what im waiting for its like i want to have sex, but im ... (117 words)

Why so short? Why so long?

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24 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - hello! i want to know why a man is take only 2 minutes for have a orgasm ? and some of them one hour?... (24 words)

Did I take advantage of her because I kissed her?

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24 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I need to get this off my chest, I just wish I didn't do what I did. I will be honest and admit I got caught up in the moment. I dated a girl over 2 years ago for about 2 years, well she dated a guy for a year and got dumped by him. Well that was 2 months ago, she is still not ... (269 words)

I feel guilty but I don't want an abortion!

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24 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for little over a year. He is 35 and I am 30. He has 2 kids and I have 2 kids. I just recently found out that I am pregnant. He wants me to have an abortion but I do not want to. I have had an abortion before and I have never gotten over it.I ... (117 words)

Our relationship has changed since he wants me to come be with him, not the other way around

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24 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Aunts, So here's my story.. I met my boyfriend online about a year ago. Ever since I met him, I felt the spark in him though we never met in person because we live at the different side of the world. I knew him from the picture he sent me. Never tried webcammed though. ... (415 words)

We're cousins! Is it wrong that we want to be together?

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24 January 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - me and my girlfriend have been going steady for 4 months now and we have been keeping it a secret from our parents because we're cousins. what i want to know if what we are doing is wrong before we push it to having sex.... (45 words)

I want to live my own life but cannot because of my ill mother

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24 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - My guilt is causing me to be unable to move forward in my life. Currently I live with my mother who is divorced and has been for quite some time (since I was in the 3rd grade). A few years back she became sick and is currently doing better but who knows when it will return. ... (170 words)

My girlfriend has been involved in an open relationship, and I am disgusted and love her at the same time, please help!

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24 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi guys, here is my story: I have been dating this girl ever since october. Call us crazy but we are in love with each other, she has told me that she has been cheated on alot in the past and has major trust issues, but she was completely honest to me all the time and now I h... (324 words)

I feel helpless and paralized by fear that all good things in my life will come to an end very soon...

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24 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I know this is weird, but it's my weird thing. Whenever I feel happy in a relationship; things are going well at my job, I'm healthy; everything feels wonderful I always get bombarded with horrible negative thoughts; like I'm going to die young, or get cancer or something ... (238 words)

Is there something going on between my mother and my cousin?

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24 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - It may sound wierd at first but ... just hear me out. So Last year I went abroad with my mum to meet family and since we hadn't seen them in 3 years or so. We stayed over my cousins on my dad's side. My dad's mum's brother's house...so basically my dad's cousins house. So were ... (1620 words)

I want my professor!

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24 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - If the title i suggested is shown, you know what this question is about--I want my professor. Before anyone tells me how terrible this is, don't do it, you'll ruin his career--here's some info: He's a 27 year old Grad student working on his Ph.D, and I'm 22 (i know it says ... (245 words)

Confused! Love my best friend!

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24 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay so theres a guy that i realllly like, we have known each other since October of 2010 but didn't really get close until December, but he is dating a friend of mine who i used to like, but he does him wrong and doesn't treat him right. Me and my best friend have talked or ... (196 words)

Should I give up my plans and independence to get this visa or return home and try and pick up the pieces without him?

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24 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I really need some good advice. I am in the situation where if I want to be with my boyfriend, live with him then I cannot work for at least a year while we gather evidence for our relationship so I can get a visa on that basis - because we have been apart for a year we ... (512 words)

I was a sneak and called her nasty names because I thought I was being played by her....do you think she would ever want to get in touch with me again?

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24 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I was friends with a girl and her husband for over three years. Seven months after they broke up we started fooling around but she had a boyfriend. She said she loved me but had to be with the other guy for now. I felt like i was getting played so i told the boyfriend and ... (112 words)

I found out my girl had slept with her ex and I don't know how to deal with it

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24 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I went out with my ex girlfriend for 2 and a half years. We were very close, maybe at times too close. I am the first to admit I can be a little clingy. She started acting differently towards the end of our relationship, and then finally broke it off one day in August. This was ... (511 words)

Every time I leave I end up coming back!

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24 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I want to leave a bad relationship w a man I love dearly we have a 4 month old daughter how can I go thru with this? Everytime I leave I end up coming back... (35 words)

Would this gesture of mine seem romantic or creepy?

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24 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, I would like to know if this would be cute or creepy. I this girl and I have been talking and we are really into each other I mean really. Anyways I am seeing her this Saturday and I am going to ask her to be my girlfriend. I want to make this a little romantic so I was ... (116 words)

Fiance wants nothing to do with me intimately

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24 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - So my fiance and I have sex rarely and she wants to cut off sex till we get married in 9 months. How ever she never wants to give me head or a hand job. When she gives me a hand job or blow job she just stops after about 3mins and expects me to finish. I have tried to talk ... (139 words)

What is the thing you most need in a relationship?

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24 January 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Billy Joel has a song, "The Stranger": "Once I used to believe I was such a great romancer Then I came home to a woman That I could not recognize Though I pressed her for a reason, She refused to even answer It was then I felt the stranger Kick me right between the eyes... (425 words)

Why is my boyfriend so distant when it comes to sex?

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24 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for a little over a year now and we are no longer intimate. When we first got together, we had sex at least twice a day, but we haven't had sex in about 6 weeks. I have even tried lingerie and 'dressing up' for him, but he seems uninterested. I'm ... (100 words)

My boyfriend wants to take a break and its making me feel rejected and horrible...

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24 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a month now. We moved in together very early and are currently living together. We've had some big fights but everything has been calm for a couple months. Then yesterday he started acting different (more quiet) so I asked ... (110 words)

He said""he was too scared to commit because he loved me.." so he dumped me for another girl...and now wants to get back!!

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24 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Last year I started talking to this guy who lived down the street from me, and eventually he asked me to the upcoming semi-formal dance. However, 5 days later he decided to get a girlfriend from a different school. After that day, I had a hatred for him, but then I got a ... (117 words)

Concerned about my boyfriend watching one particular porn star daily!

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24 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello all, please let me know if I should be concecrned here. I recently found out that my boyfriend looks at porn daily. I also found out that he subscribes to one girl's porn/webcam site so all the porn he has is just of her. I have been feeling very low about this becau... (843 words)

She broke up with me because her heart and head don't agree

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24 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello I have been seeing this girl for 4 and half years. Those 4 and a half years were great and we never fought. However my ex fiance called off the engagement a week ago, she says that her head is telling her to be with me however her heart is telling her otherwise. She ... (156 words)

Text messages lead me to believe she wants her ex boyfriend/casual partner more then me!

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24 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My fiance and I have been together for over a year. At first, like all relationships, things started off great, we'd text all the time, the sex was regular, we were both affectionate to each other. However, over the last few months, things have changed. Lately, it see... (609 words)

I do manly things, does that mean I'm a lesbian?

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24 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am eighteen years old and ever since i was sixteen, i have been struggling with the fact that i might be bi sexual. I did not know when i was sixteen but as i am approaching nineteen, i am starting to forget that i wanted to keep it under raps. The other day in the theater i ... (170 words)

I love her and don't know what to do about it

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24 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Help! Im in love with this girl of the same gender, shes one of my best friends. I dont know what to do i keep thinking about her! Id do anythink for her literally ive given her clues i told her i might bw gay she goes dont worry it will disappear she doesnt know it her i ... (112 words)

On short notice he says he's coming to town and I turned him down. Now he's upset!

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24 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I haven't seen this guy in a couple of years, we didn't "talk" (meaning email) for months and all of a sudden he says he's coming to town and was wondering if he can see me. I got annoyed at the short notice and said no, now he hasn't spoken to me. Should i just forget ... (94 words)

Am I being unreasonable giving this co-worker the cold shoulder?

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24 January 2011 (?) age 41-50 - I had a male friend from my work who confided in me recently that he had been reprimanded for sexual harassment. In his version of events, they joked around for quite while exlusively in spanish with an attractive girl at our office who also wanted to practice her spa... (539 words)

Do men settle for just an emotional relationship?

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24 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I need some help here. Why would a man seek an emotional connection with a women besides his wife? I met someone a few years ago. I had an immediate attraction but stayed away as I knew he was married with kids. We work for the same company but are about 1000 miles away. Ever ... (272 words)