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writes:My mind keeps thinking back to this and I would like to know some people views on what happened.My boyfriend was drunk, I put a blindfold on him and went down to give him a blow job. Usually he is quiet but he was making a lot of noise, moving around a lot. He started to lift his butt up, I saw his anus hole and to be honest I felt sick. He grabbed my hand and obviously wanted me to put my finger in his butt. I did and I was so turned off by this! he then got lube and put it on my finger! what the hell! I had to stop and told him it was a turn off. He seemed okay with that and tried put blindfold on me but the moment was lost for me as I was freaked out.He told me after he never done it before and was embarrassed but when giving him blow jobs before he said I had touched near his butt area and he said it felt nice.I am so scared for some reason of having a boyfriend who turns out to be gay. You read the stories and I do not want be that woman. He is my first relationship so I do not know wherever I should be worried? He had a gay friend before and been to gay pubs. He has always been in relationships with women and we have sex frequently and I know he is attracted too me but still? should I b worried?
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reader, Amph  +, writes (17 January 2011):
Don't worry, a man cannot turn out to be gay because of your finger explored his anus :-) Gay means men likes men, do you know? Anus is a very sensible zone, more for men then woman because of prostate gland. Quite ironic if you think it stores and secrets sperm. So no wonder he likes your finger inside. And I repeat: your finger, the finger of the woman he loves. You can find it sucks, you can dislike and it can turn you off, all reasonable. But you have no reason to be scared he'll become a gay for that. Maybe he is, I don't know, but not for that reason, neither because he had a gay friend (thanks God sexual orientations aren't transferable, it would be a mess lol). When you massage his butt while you're blowing him, he's making the love with you. Period. And you're a girl, right? If you want know if he's gay, take him in a gay circle. If you find him kissing a man then he's gay.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (14 January 2011):
 No i wouldnt say you have anything to worry about in this department. There is a little bit of skin between the penis and the anus that when it is rubbed it can really stimulate a guy. So when you touched this before he obviously got stimulated and liked it and then when he got drunk he let himself go a little and tried this to see if it would stimulate him more. I would forget about this as am sure he was only curious to find out.
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reader, viccra78  +, writes (14 January 2011):
I don't think that you need to worry that your boyfriend is gay because of this.
I finger in the anus is actually pretty erotic and does feel good (to many). I wouldn't jump the gun to assume that this means he is going to "turn gay".
If it bothers you that much then just tell him you aren't comfortable doing this to him. There are probably things he isn't comfortable doing to you. You need to keep the lines of communication open with him.
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