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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm the third person in this relationship.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

15 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, I'm in an awkward position. I'm the third person in a relationship, there's a long story behind it which I will spare you. I've come to the point where I can no longer handle it. (5 months) I love her too much to function properly when he's with her. (like today... (197 words)

What do you think, should I like him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5089 days ago

15 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - theres this guy who i fancy who i think likes me too. but he's a Jehovas Witness. now, i don't know lot about what they are allowed to do, but i do know that they follow very strict rules. he's a Jehovas Witness mainly because of his parents. so what i want to know ... (148 words)

Why does his new girlfriend hate me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

15 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex boyfriend and I broke up 6 months ago and he got 2 new girlfriends when I still havent found one. But thats not the problem his newest one hates me I know because we all three (me,her and my ex) are in the same PE class. Him and I havent talked to him in months but she is ... (96 words)

I find I can't stay away from my married lover. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

15 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am seeing a married man. I know it is wrong. But, can't stay away. What do I do? ... (19 words)

If I tell him I miss him do you think it will scare him off?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

15 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - For several months now, I've been in this sort of involvement with someone. Nothing official, and I want to take things steady due to past experiences of rushing into things. I feel positive about this relationship and I am sure that he likes me. This is also my first involvem... (419 words)

My sister is on her 15th boyfriend since we went back to school in September... should I talk to her about it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

15 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My sister is on her 15th boyfriend since we went back to school in September. She's only 13! and she's getting quite a reputation. I often hear her getting called a slut, even though she says she hasn't had sex with any of them It took her only two hours to get this boyfrie... (238 words)

How to talk dirty on IM?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

15 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My guy and I can't be together at the moment (long distance relationship) and we IM a lot to keep in touch. Lately he wants to start talking a little dirty with me. I like this and want to go along with it, but the thing is, I am a virgin with no experience and I have no idea ... (121 words)

I've been seeing her but she thinks she still has feelings for the ex! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

15 January 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - I was recently seeing this girl for about 2 weeks i saw her about 3 times and we were really getting along well, she was always telling me how lovely i was and how i made her feel so happy, then she told me she still has feelings for her ex boyfriend and she's just really ... (128 words)

Should I hold on and give it some time or should I let go and move on with life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

15 January 2011 (M)

age - My wife wants a divorce after 8 years of marriage. We have drifted apart blaming each other for our failures in the marriage. She claims that our love has died. We have a daughter that is 7 years old. 3 years a go I had file for divorce do to the fact that she had chosen her ... (574 words)

I'm scared he won't go out with me if he knows my real age!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5087 days ago

15 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok....... I need some help... I am a gay guy and have started taklking to this guy online, who I am really interested in, but theirs a couple of issues. To get on these websites I've lied about my age, I'm 17 but I say I'm 18 to get on these websites, I know some people will... (120 words)

I can't seem to stay sexually attracted to the same girl

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

15 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I can't seem to stay sexually attracted to the same girl. I can love the person but after few weeks or months I just cant have sex with her... all of my past girlfriends where gorgeously looking But really after some time I get into a battle with myself to try to have sex with... (255 words)

Feelings for uncle, is there something wrong with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

15 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently I've developed this sort of crush on my divorced uncle and I don't know why. Honestly I have had a thing for him for a while but I always put it back to the back of my mind and forget about it. Plus I've had other boyfriends in the past. But my parents and I just ... (160 words)

Pull out method... reliable enough???

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

15 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend want to have sex, im not on the pill or anything and neither of us have got condoms. he said he could put it in then take it out when hes about to come, but i dont know if thats okay or not. what is the best thing to do?... (57 words)

My sister is moving to Australia, should I distance myself from her so it doesn't hurt when she leaves?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

15 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My sister is going to a local college. We are very very close and even her leaving to go to college 20 minutes away and stay on campus was terribly difficult for me and i cried myself to sleep for about 2 weeks while she was moving in, and after she left. Recently she announced ... (206 words)

Texting problems...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

15 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I jus started dating. For like the first week everything was going very well. We talked all the time and texted all the time. We always checked on each other, but then all of a sudden he quit texting back. That same day I called him and he didn't answer nor ... (173 words)

Dating etiquette...???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

15 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Can someone advise me about dating etiquette and so on? I have been on three "dates" with a man that I really like but I am not sure if this is just the normal way that things go as I have not dated for a long time. We are colleagues, and each time it has been he that has ... (624 words)

Virgin at 22... thoughts?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

15 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi Guys, so im just wondering what people think. I'm almost(!!) 22 and im still a virgin. I mean i have done fooling around with guys and i have had lots of boyfriends but i have never had sex with any of them. Im not sure what the issue is, im not scared or whatever and im ... (134 words)

I like him MORE than a friend... how do I tell him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

15 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Well I think I like this guy who is my friend and he knows I like him and I want to talk to him about it but I dont know what to say or how he will react? And I dont know if he likes me like that or not so I dont know what to do. Please help"... (59 words)

Is it my fault? Am I too fat and ugly for him???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5089 days ago

15 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - my problem is i met my partner on the internet last year we hit it off stright away, soon we couldnt live without each other so i moved in with him but since i did that our sex lives has gone out the window. he would rather show other women him wanking himself and carrys on ... (80 words)

What is the best way to find a healthy sexual relationship with an attractive female?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

15 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I have not had sex in well over 4 years now. I'm only 25 years old and really feel terrible about this and angry that my love life has turned out to be so non-existent. I haven't even dated somebody more than a few weeks during any of that time either. Since getting ... (337 words)

Does he love me... or the baby momma number 1???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

15 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - okay now i am 18 and i am seein this guy that go to my school but the problem is he has a baby and he still talks to the baby momma every day but he is telling me he aint dating the baby momma but every time i turn around she is there. i know he still loves her but is there any ... (93 words)

Why does he ignore me now when things were going so right?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5089 days ago

15 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my crush go to college and are on the same course. we were in the same classes at school so we've known each other for years. thing is i think i'm in love with him, i mean i have had crushes before but i've never felt this strongly about a guy before. me and him used to ... (493 words)

Why does she want to know everything when she is in a relationship with someone else?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

15 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - The girl that I love is in a relationship with someone else. She knows that I am really upset and some of the things I have done for her. Today, she suddenly asked me she wants to know everything. I did not expect she would ask me these kinds of things since I thought she do... (178 words)

Help! Am I doing the right thing by not saying anything?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

15 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - here we go, my gf left me just before christmas, she decided to go out with her flat mate, he had always liked her a year before she met me and she had had several bf during that time, he was her only friend and he started seeing another girl at his and my ex place of work. My ... (156 words)

He's gay... but I love him anyway!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

15 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - ok, so i really really love this boy, but he's openly gay. at a party once he took me upstairs and we just kissed and got drunk together, but another time he told me he wanted to have sex with me, i was drunk so i agreed, he was amazing, and he told me he loved me. but he said ... (116 words)

Should I call him back... or should I wait for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5088 days ago

15 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Yesterday him and i were supposed to hang out..i have been kind of busy and have not been able to see him i told him the day before yesterday that we would hang yesterday and to not make any other plans but me cuz i wanted alone time with him. he does not like my mother at all ... (191 words)

I feel like I'm gambling my happiness here...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

15 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a boyfriend who kissed another girl and stayed over at her house behind my back. they had just kissed and he told me the next day.He said he had liked her for over a year before falling in love with me. He doesnt want to be with her but think he still has feelings, but ... (158 words)

How long should I give her to have "her break?"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

15 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - So i have been dating this girl for almost a year we have talked about marriage having kids, then she finds out some bad medical news then tell me she needs a break, some time alone. she still calls me 3 times a day, still have sex talk for hours on the phone. So how long ... (85 words)

I want her to come back with every fiber of my being, do you think she will?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

15 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - So in 09, I moved for her after a long distance relationship that lasted 11 months. We were pretty sure we were going to be together a while and were tired of paying airfare to go back and forth to see one another. Three months after I got here, she broke up with me. She n... (301 words)

Why my married friend wants to communicate with me on the side?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

15 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a married friend who we use to keep in touch in teh Skype b/c he's military deployed in Afghanistan. His year there was over so he told me we still kept in touch in the Skype, so i told him I didn't want any trouble if his wife would get mad or he should talk to her ... (250 words)

She broke up with me once cause I wouldn't ask her to have sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

15 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey. Well..I got no one else to talk about this. Me and my girlfriend have been together for quite a long time. And we got our ups and downs. Heres the problem to me.. we did broke up once just because I didn't asked her to have sex with me. She was so mad at me about it. But ... (166 words)

Attracted to blondes!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

15 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - alright for some reason I am really attracted to blondes. So I am at this high school dance last night and when I walk in right away I see this girl who has a smoking hot body. at first I was almost intimidated but thinking of the last girl I liked and how I messed that up so ... (577 words)

Ladies, Would you date a 40 year old virgin?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

15 January 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - My friends tell me to lie about being a virgin because they say, if I start to become intimate with a woman and she learns that I am still a virgin, she will be scared away. My friends say by this time, women want experience so my best avenue is to fake it to make it. Ladi... (96 words)

Boyfriend has a drink problem and I would love your thoughts

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

15 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, My boyfriend has a drinking problem and although he admits it and says he loves me and that I'm more important than the booze, he isn't doing anything about it and sometimes he can drink for 10 solid days where I can't contact him as his phone is off and then he stop... (230 words)

My boyfriend always talks about sex with me on the messenger

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

15 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Every time my boyfriend and I talk on the messenger, he always talking about sex with me but I'm not in the mood to talk about sex with my boyfriend because I'm not so horny as my boyfriend, And when he and I are together we always get very horny. How can I deal with sex when... (66 words)

A... or B...??? Who to choose?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5087 days ago

15 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok, so I have a long distance boyfriend, lets call him A. I also have a best friend who is a guy from my city - B. So I fell for B soon after meeting him, but he gave me mixed signals, so I moved on and met A. I started going out with A, even though I still had feelings for... (216 words)

She's unsure... help, what do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5087 days ago

15 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Well im not sure how to put this but here goes, there is this girl at my 6th form and i have gotten to know and love her over the past 8 months she knows how i feel and feels the same way but she just cant get her head round being in a relationship. We both love each other ... (349 words)

Electra complex. When Daddy/daughter relationships go too far?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

15 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 23 years old and the guy that I am currently dating is thirty nine years old(he is divorced)he has a 9-yr old daughter that is a sweetheart, he gets to see her every other weekend and Im totally supportive of him being there for her, we have been going together for nine ... (362 words)

She is my happiness and I am hers...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

15 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I fell in love with my first cousin about 7 months ago. we never really let each other know that we had a crush on one another (we never talked so we were like strangers) so things just kinda lead one thing to another. She moved in with us due to family problems, and fo... (809 words)

Single mom with her son's best friend?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

15 January 2011 (F)

age - Single mom with her sons friend? I'm a single 47 year old woman and I have an 18 year old son. I've been divorced for 5 years and haven't had sex since. My son has a very cute best friend who is also 18. They've been best friends for years. Every time he came over he would te... (245 words)

I am outnumbered in my own home with my mother-in-law living with us!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

15 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear fellow readers. My predicament is as such, My wife and I own our own house, we have just had a son ( currently 9 months old) and my wife's mother lives with us. I do not wish for this to be happening much longer as it affecting our relationship, on my part anyway, the... (152 words)

My wife wants to come back to her married life, do I allow this to happen?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

15 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - i am 33 yrs young man living in copenhagen and married 10 yrs ago and have got one 3yrs daughter and my wife has cheated on me for 2 times since last year and she told me she had 8 times sex with her lover ,,,,,,,,,,,but still she is in love with me........ now we are liv... (91 words)

Don't want to hurt my brother but I want to get my sister in law into bed

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

15 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - i need help for years i`ve had a sexual attraction to my sister in law and hurting my brother is the last thing i want to do but this sexual attraction is really strong i really want to get her in bed what should i do?... (46 words)

Should we keep it as step bro and sis or do we explore what could be?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4966 days ago

15 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - ive recently become reacquainted w my "stepbrother" we havent seen each other in over 20 yrs. my mom married his dad and his dad adopted me and my sister. he has since past away. i didn't know my step brother growing up we only lived together about a year b4 he moved out. we ... (198 words)

I love my boyfriend and am pregnant with his baby, but I miss sex with this other man!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

15 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hi to all, i am in a relationship and am currently 4 months pregnant for my boyfriend, i cheated on my boyfriend with this guy before getting pregnant and i broke it off, he than came back and wanted us to continue but i told him i couldn't because i was pregnant and he said he ... (264 words)

Is there room for compromise?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

15 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Just wondering if anyone can shed some light on this situation. I was with my boyfriend for 2 years, and we mutually decided it was time to part ways, due to lifestyle differences. I am still in school and work part time, and he is done school and working full time, but really ... (92 words)

I want to let him know I like him, but with his mother being recently deceased it's bad timing!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

15 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in love with this man. I know I am, but I don't think at this present moment it is the best time to tell him. Just recently his mother died. I don't think I should be telling him that I do because there is a bit of an age gap and at the moment he isn't thinking straight... (486 words)

Is this my fault or his?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5089 days ago

15 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So I I've Been talking to this guy on and off for over a year now.. We fight all the time about nothing. We never really hung out before so we decided to a few days ago. To me things went great. We joked around and had a great time and we kissed for the first time. Then the ... (214 words)

Been hurt too many times... help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5089 days ago

15 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - ok How should I start it..... ok my ex - me and him are ok friends and he dumped me to go out with his ex again who dumped him first, now it is over cuz he did not call her. Last night he was telling me when me and him was going out his ex was flirting with him and crap and she ... (220 words)

My boyfriend said he will block his ex, I'm struggling to believe him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

15 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello, I really need some help. Ive been wif my bf for about 8 months now and we were doing great. We really do love each other more than anything and I have no doubts but the other day his x gf told him she wants him back n bla bla bla. I just broke down knowing he has another ... (231 words)

Female advice needed, what is love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

15 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I want to know what love is. I have female friends and I basically want to marry the girl at the first couple time we talk. But then, I realize... I was not falling in love with any of them. I was just being a male that want to have sex. I realize this because I hold m... (234 words)

He's married but says he has feelings for me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2858 days ago

15 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - i have this guy who has been interested in me for years I like him but he is married with kids, he is having problems and said he would give up eveything for me but I dont feel right as other people will get hurt, I would have a relationship with the guy I like but I dont want ... (232 words)

Pregnant by my foreign b/f

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

15 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - SO im with my bf a year now n realized im pregnant oh but shit hes from brazil and we live in ireland and hes only on a student visa we had no plan 4 this and yes were happy just thing is were scared out of our wits were going to be separated we dont want to get married yet ... (119 words)

Does this silence mean it's over?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

15 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a boyfriend who I haven't heard from for almost 2 weeks now. We're in different countries right now. I've tried calling him and left voicemails I don't know how many times but he hasn't returned any of my calls. I sent him a letter which was delivered today (based on the ... (93 words)

Need advice on rebuilding trust in gf who cheated on me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5087 days ago

15 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - So my gf and I have been together for 4 and a half years and we love each other very much. I had a lot of trust in her about being with her guy friends. Then one day, while she was in the bathroom, I found some pictures of her with one of her "friend", lying half naked on the ... (463 words)

What's my best move?/ I think I'm in love and he makes me laugh.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

15 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - This is probably a dim-witted question to ask but I am a girl on her last year of high school and I think that I am in love. With a boy, who I used to know and hang around. He used to make me laugh the most, even on my worst days. He left when I was 8 and I missed him many year... (248 words)

I feel I don't deserve this award! Why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

15 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - hey guys just need advice to put this in perspective. ive been told on tuesday i have to go to my work head office for an outstanding performance recognition award. apparently this is big as i was selected out of nearly 800 people. i work my ass off so why dont i feel i des... (84 words)

Why do I want to have sex 24/7?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

15 January 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - i am 46 years old not a baby by any means. but all i think about is sex nothing else matters to me but having sex. i was molested as a child several times. when i was married i cheated on my ex and now i just had sex with a married woman who is very unhappy in her marriage. i ... (97 words)

Why do I feel that everything that goes wrong is my fault?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

15 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Why do I feel guilty ? I just feel like everything that goes wrong in this world is because of me. I feel guilty and uneasy, what can I do to get rid of these feelings? They're ruining my mood, my social interactions, my life...... (45 words)

I haven't gotten my period yet! Is something wrong?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

15 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok.I am now 13 turning 14 in march. i got boobs when i was about eleven and hair way before that, but i havnt got my period. im really worried about this because i know that EVERY girl in my class has got theirs. and when i say that, im not exaggerating. all the girls has got ... (281 words)

Return to each other even though no attraction on one side?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

15 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi I asked a similar question just recently but somehow I lost my real point in the earlier question. I wonder if two people break apart and they try to return to eachother. But one side says to the other one that person don't become turned on by the other. Is there real... (82 words)

I gave my friend the brush off. Did I do the right thing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

15 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - im just needing advice. im proud of myself for doing something i thought id never but im needing reassurance because my confidence is very low. i have a friend who ive bent over backwards to help. my friends think hes a user and a loser. initially he was very sweet and made... (193 words)

What am I missing? Why can't I move past this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

15 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I posted a question a while back about a guy i broke up with because of the way he talked to me and never really had time for me and how i am brokenhearted and afraid to move on with my life because i feel that I gave him my heart and opened up to him completely. he started ... (501 words)

Should I go after my ex or wait till she comes to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

15 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My ex broke up with me couple days after xmas i tried talking to her but i been keep in contact with her aunt and her uncle i really do love her and want to be with her my question is should i text her or wait til she texts me or should i keep talking to her parents about how i ... (125 words)

Feeingsl of lust for my girlfriend's sister..

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

15 January 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - i'm a 15 yr old guy....i hav a gf...and we love each other a lot!!! she has a sister who is older than me by abt a year and a half and is much more attractive than my gf...this sister loves me as a brother and i love her as a sister as well.....but sometimes i get aroused and ... (143 words)

I'm really not that bad...why don't girls ever notice me???

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

15 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a pretty average guy, at least I think. I weigh about 84kg or 185lbs, and I'm about 6ft 1inch or 185cm tall. I've never been made fun of for being ugly or anything. I'm 21 and stay in pretty good shape by working out most days of the week. I'm pretty shy, my friends ... (368 words)

Is my BF finally learning that he cant take me for granted anymore?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

15 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi all, just a quick question - in short my bf ( now more or less ex) took me for granted for a long time, and I allowed him too, but finally I got the strength , and backed right off, and stopped calling him, and showing him I cared as much.It took all my strength, but I ... (154 words)

He's the one and I can't let him go!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

15 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - please help me..ive dated my boyfriend for over two years, we are young, but had plans to marry and have children, to the point where there names were picked out. however..we fight constatly endlessly and its gotten to the point where ive ended the relionship with him. but i ... (168 words)

How do you get to a woman's heart?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

15 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I've not been real big in the dating world here recently so I need some advice. How to you get to a womans heart?... (24 words)

Is it possible to just carry on and pretend that there is nothing going on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

15 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 35 and friends with a 53 yr old guy who's married. We're really good friends, we completely trust and confide in each other, on the same wavelength etc. but we're strictly friends. Or were. Now I feel there's a slight tension between us. I will admit to a slight attraction ... (252 words)

After hacking into my husband's facebook account, my gut tells me not to trust him anymore

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15 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband and I have been married for a little over a year and he is a deployed contractor. Everything was going fine from what I can tell, but then I read one of his emails from his phone that he left behind asking if he "hooked up w/ the chick" he was speaking to a few weeks ... (640 words)

My boyfriend can be very flirty and has a sick sense of humor.

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15 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a situation where I feel stuck and would like a second opinion. Please do let me know what you think, or if you have any good advice on how I could approach this. My boyfriend can be very flirty and has a sick sense of humor. What I am very unhappy about is that he... (338 words)

For girls: Initial reaction when you interact with a guy with facial tics (a result of tourettes)

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15 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm a 22 year old guy, I have a normal social circle of friends, and am usually very active. I have never had that much confidence when it came to people of the opposite sex, however I get along with all my friends girlfriends, so I do believe it's just that I'm bad at making ... (214 words)

How do I live out the rest of my life alone by my own doing?

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15 January 2011 (M)

age - I have made a lot of mistakes in my life but this one's the worse. How do I live out the rest of my life alone by my own doing? She was the love of my life. If only she would give me one more chance I wouldn't tell her I would show her. I would strip down to nothing and put on ... (269 words)

"I love you" in the first couple of weeks of dating?

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15 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it normal for a guy to say "I love you" in the first few weeks of dating? I always thought it took months or years until it got to that point.... (32 words)

Can I learn to trust 100%?

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15 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My fiance and I have been engaged for almost 2 years, been together for almost 3. We've always had a healthy habit of fighting, but I have communication issues I've been working on. We haven't gotten married because of financial reasons and then a medical problem I have got ... (392 words)

G/f staying at her cousins house and won't answer her phone. Is she cheating?

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15 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend have been together two years we stay together and argue a lot she says she needs space that she's in love with me and loves me but doesn't knw if she wants to b with me da past three days she says she's at her cousin house but each of those nights she won't ... (82 words)

Why can't I remember things from my past?

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15 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My mom is a drug addict. Well, technically she's been clean for a while (though relapsed last week). Anyways, for about 6 years she was in and out of my life; she would come back and say that she was clean and a couple days later she would be gone. The thing I'm having trouble ... (120 words)

I'm always worried about "the next step"

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15 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been going through a lot. I have been fighting with myself. My mind never stops thinking. I am always worried about the next step. What is going to happen next.How will I get there. Can I get there. Am i smart enough. im too stupid. Why am i not making things happen for ... (618 words)

I've tried talking it through, but she just wants sex once a month.. What can I do?

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15 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I been with my girlfriend for 4 years now, she is 26 and I am 30. All that time she has never liked sex but does it just for me, once a month, always the week before her period. The thing is, I want it to last a few hours at least as we hardly do it. But once she has cum, tha... (181 words)

Why did he say "patience is a virtue"

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15 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I ilk this guy and we hav made out before but after that he said things were complicated and he couldn't have any type of relationship right now. That was about a week and a half ago. I haven't texted him for a while and now I texted him yesterday and asked what he was doing he ... (258 words)

Lump on my right armpit?

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15 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, i have a lump on my right armpit, it's been three days now, and it's painful when i press it, what could be the cause? ... (27 words)

Aren't you supposed to know when you've found "the one"?

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15 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Which One Do I Choose??!! Me and my curent boyfriend have been dating off and on for 7 years, we've broken up and gotten back together 13 times now and every time its the same reason; we weren't ready or old enough for the very sereous relationship that we always end up in. S... (580 words)

How to make it not obvious you like a guy?

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15 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this guy in one of my classes that I like. But the thing is, I don't think he likes me. I mean, he teases me and hits me and stares at me sometimes but I think nothing of it. It's so obvious I like him though. Even my friend whose oblivious to this tells me I'm too ... (73 words)

If you love someone would you ask them to move to another country?

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15 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - i normally stay off the net but a few weeks ago i had a question and it landed me on this site i asked my question got some good advice and felt better so i thought ok maybe i can help someone the way i've been helped so i started answering questions i came acrossed a question ... (247 words)

Dating a year and he still hasn't kissed me?

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15 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - i have been dating this boy for a year now and he still hasn't kissed me and i dont know how to ask..he says he cares about me and he loves me but i dont even know if he wants to kiss me...i need help please!... (46 words)

Is it right if your boyfriend ask you to go against your parents?

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15 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Aunts, Is it right if your boyfriend ask you to go against your parents? I've been in a relationship for a year now with a guy whom I met online. We started it off with friendship, we haven't met in person. I like him very much, he's a nice guy and he's so open up. He ... (437 words)

Should I stay at home and deal with my family's blackmailing or move out?

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15 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So, its been a while since my sister revealed my intimate relationship with my 1st cousin to my mom. Ever since I have been forbidden to see him or have any type of contact with him. Although I know I can get in to much trouble and get him i trouble, we both decided to keep ... (214 words)

My siblings are causing me misery, over my relationship. Do I stay home and put up with it, or move out?

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15 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'ts been a while since my sister revealed my intimate relationship with my 1st cousin, to my mom. Ever since I have been forbidden to see him, or have any type of contact with him. Although I know I can get in to much trouble and get him in trouble, we both decided to keep ... (213 words)

She ditched me and now I'm not interested in prolonging the agony by meeting one last time, what do you think of my plan?

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15 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - S and I had been dating for a while (3 years) and everything was great - no fights ever (seriously) and deeply in love (first love). Six months ago she went away to university and but we stayed strong until Christmas,...when things went downhill. She no longer put any effo... (336 words)

Am I thinking too far ahead in the future?

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15 January 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm a 15 yr old guy who has a perfectly normal and great life....i have a girlfriend who is 14 and i have liked her since the age of 11...2 years back she told me that she likes me as well.... at present, we love each other so much that we are willing to spend our lives ... (139 words)

How can I believe that I don't have a chance with him?

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15 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a freshman in college and I can't get over the teacher I fell in love with my senior year at high school. It's been over a year and I expected to be over him by now but I still have fantasies about him and CAN NOT believe that I wont ever have a chance with him. He is 52, ... (121 words)

He asked me out but didn't pay for the date?

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15 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - A guy that I know is interested in me (we've kissed) asked me to hang out (alone for the first time, also this is the beginning of our "friendship"), but he never paid for me even though he treated it as a date (kissed me again)...is that normal? I have to admit I am pretty ... (65 words)

Friends leaving me out...

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15 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, I have this circle of friends who recently have been leaving me out. They always organize outings and parties and I never get invited; Except once when its a class outing. I think that one of them in this circle does not like me and is influencing t... (207 words)

What to do about a secretive, cheating husband?

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15 January 2011 (F)

age - dear cupid for the past 2 years my husband has cheated on me with a 21 year old girl also other women call my home looking for my husband the 21 year old girl showed up at my house to see my husband i asked him if he knew her he said what if i do also he hides his cell phone ... (83 words)

I'm single and don't fit the loser profile

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15 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm a little confused and would love a little help understanding something. I've posted a few questions on this site and have reviewed quite a few other questions and answers posted by others on this subject and I'm pretty confused as to how people come to the conclusions ... (438 words)

Husband cheated, I asked him to leave, but his parents live with us

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15 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - im constantly finding text messages from girls and my husband sending them to girls last night he got home at 3 am and he had a message telling her it was nice meeting you beutiful i cant wait to see you again sat. i dont have a girlfriend or anything. this has always happened ... (187 words)

Not sure if I still have feelings for my first love

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15 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex recently got back together. He was the one that asked for me back, and I gave in eventually despite not being ultimately and definitely sure. He was my first love and during our intense relationship, we were always so happy until of the course, the fights come ... (209 words)

Three times he's left me for other girls

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15 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I had the best relationship of my life for over a year when we got engaged. We lost our spark and he broke up with me and started going out with someone else. He made love to me and broke up with her and we got back together. It happened another time. And now he has a third ... (99 words)

She's carrying my child, says she loves me, but dumped me?

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15 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Ive got a big problem my ex is seven months pregnat and she dumped me but i swear to you i love this girl more then anyhting what do i do and and she says she loves me im confused i want her back ... (44 words)

Help with premature ejaculation

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15 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Y do I cum so fast I try to go slow but she likes it rough... (16 words)

The baby's father is pushing me away

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15 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been with my boyfriend for 6 years. we have a 2 year old son together, and he moved back to his home town last year. he told me he would come back if i get an apartment, and now the apartment is almost ready and im in the process of signing the lease. now he has just ... (203 words)

My b/f got his "friend" pregnant -- how do I draw the line on how much visitation?

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15 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi All - My boyfriend and I have been together for about 4 1/2 years. When we began dating he was not completely honest with me and was still seeing other people during the first few months of our relationship (it was not completely exclusive) which is why we talked it over and ... (533 words)

Urgent advice needed on how to conduct myself tonight

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15 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Need your advice urgently. So here's the background story. Went out with a a few friends to a club. When we were there one of this group (lets call her Lynn) knew a guy there. Anyways this guy started to hang around us and him and I hit it off. We started messaging each other ... (286 words)

Still single. Is there any hope for me?

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15 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Is there any hope for me? I'm 25 and I've basically been single my whole life. I'm well educated, decent looking (or so I'm told), friendly, a runner, and over all a well rounded person. There have been two guys who were interested in having sex with me but they didn't really ... (129 words)

Can I have some positive advice from people who've had experience with getting back together with someone after a break-up...

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15 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm not going to go into details about my past relationship with this guy.... right now, we are just friends, we 'broke up' this past summer... we ended on good terms... but he felt that we needed to be separate from each other to 'move on' from some sticky stuff that happe... (141 words)

The man I've given everything to doesn't want to be with me, I'm financially in trouble and effectively homeless.

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15 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi please give me some advice. Iv been living with my boyfriend who has always been the jealous and paranoid type for about 3 years. We've worked through alot of issues together and through out it all Iv stood by him and been the best girlfriend possible. Iv even had people ... (328 words)

In love with my manager, how do I get over him?

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15 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - A little background for you all: I've always been an obsessive person, when I fall for someone, I fall HARD. I'm 18 years old, and I've never had a boyfriend; I had very strong feelings for my best guy friend throughout my teens. In college when I was 16/17, I liked another guy ... (1292 words)

Why are men so daft?

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15 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Why are men so daft. A very old ex, from school, has just got in touch with me on facebook chat, asking me did i remember him and his friend, did i remember going out with him lol. He only split with his girlfriend a few days back, so i have an idea what he is trying to do, but ... (132 words)

Do women respect guys who don't push for sex, or do they think they're wimps?

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15 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - In brief I know a girl who I have been out with a few times, sort of on a friendly basis.I have never ever pushed for any kind of physical involvement,and whenever we go out I just take her home and wave good night. But I know she has begun relationships of sorts with other me... (182 words)

Is it unhealthy of me to keep on looking at her profile and clinging onto memories from that night?

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15 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So I'm a closeted lesbian and recently had my first hookup with a female. It was definitely a one night thing for her (she's "straight", or as straight as you can be when you hook up with a female? She told me she was straight anyways) and she probably didn't want to pursue ... (233 words)

My best friend's crush catches her gaze and mine!

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15 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So my best friend likes this guy at school, and when ever they catch each other's eye, she said that they hold each others gaze for what seems like a pretty long time. But whenever I catch the guy I like's eye, if he's already looking at me he looks away really fast, and if I'm ... (78 words)

Any tips on getting my man to orgasm faster? My neck is starting to cramp.

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15 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - How to give my guy a better blow job? I have recently started giving my man blow jobs. It is the first time I have done this and I'm having trouble getting him to cum. I am not really sure what i'm doing entirely and I know people say pay attention to his reactions, but i... (101 words)

I befriended the girl my husband cheated on me with....and I think he cheated again

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15 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i think my husband cheated on me,we have been together for almost 5 years and we have a beautiful 8 month old baby... but our relationship hasnt been as good as it used to. we have had problems bafore because he messed around with a girl(shes 18)she was 16 at that time. i gave ... (330 words)

I cheated on my fiance with another girl and failed to use protection!

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15 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - i cheated on my fiancee of 6yr when she was pregnant. The worst i did was to bring the girl into our home and i slept with her without protetion. My fiancee got to know this through my skype on net. She confronted me with it, and i confess to her and apologies. Please advice m... (104 words)

"Female pre-mature ejaculation"....what do I do??

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15 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have what people call "female pre-mature ejaculation". When I was a teen, I think I masturbated maybe three times during those six years, so I've never really had a full-on release by myself. I just didn't like the feeling of my fingers being inside me. Anyway, now it... (129 words)