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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Can this relationship be saved or are the problems just too much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

7 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 22, I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years and we have a twoa-year-old son. My boyfriend is a wonderful daddy..I seriously think he's the best dad in the world! Everything is 50/50 with us and we work as a team. He also adores me and I know he wants to be with me forever. ... (424 words)

I've just given up caring that boyfriend doesn't treat me right

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

7 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf hasnt always treated me right. And as a result I became very insecure for 2 whole years. But suddenly I woke up and I felt I didn't care. Not about him, I still love him. But I feel like I've just given up caring. I don't know what's changed in me and what this all means?... (58 words)

He doesn't want to hang out or hold my hand!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

7 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Well. I have been dating this boy for almost 2 months. I really like him, and I *Know* he feels the same, but it bugs me that we never hang out. Although he did invite me to a party saturday. Should I go? I see him once durring the day (at schoo) and thats for a short time and ... (110 words)

I'm so terrified of getting pregnant it's ruining my sex life

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

7 January 2011 (?) age 36-40 - Ever since i've become sexually active, (about 2 years) i have had a huge "phobia" i guess you could call it, of getting pregnant. I'm on birth control and take it like i'm supposed to but once i have the 7 day break to have my period, i get extremely anxious until it comes. ... (235 words)

Why is my boyfriend pulling away?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4067 days ago

7 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Lately my boyfriend has acted... Strangely. Usually, we text everyday and talk all the time at school. He used to walk with me home, but he's ditched me the las few days... I may be over reacting, but I'm not quite sure... He no longer hangs out with me at lunch or in the ... (102 words)

He wants to improve our relationship but spends no time with our daughter

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5106 days ago

7 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My daughter's father is working on improving our relationship, but he will not spend time with or keep our daughter while I'm at school or work. Help?... (27 words)

Is it wrong to talk and text to my 1st love? I am married

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

7 January 2011 (?) age 51-59 - I am talking to my first love right now. He hours away. We talk for hours and text quite frequently...is this considered cheating in anyones eyes. I am married to a man who barely speaks to me and rarely touches me. This is filling a huge void in my life and I was wondering ... (110 words)

What does he mean? And were we flirting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

7 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - A lad I know from school texted me saying 'what would you say if I liked you' I don't know whether to take this as: 'he likes me' or what? But i replied saying 'that i think you're quite cute and i don't know what i'd say' but I was talking to him online and I asked 'what did ... (246 words)

Is my friend just more mature or odd?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

7 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My friends and I noticed that she's changed - She used to be really hyper around those she was close to, and she was really shy. Now we have noticed that she is really confident, to what she was before but, she still is a little bit quiet. She's a really nice girl. Doesn't come ... (151 words)

He thinks I'm not over him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

7 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Okayy so I'm having ex problems. Me and my ex split up about three months ago, after being in a relationship for a year and three months. He got a new girlfriend TWO WEEKS after we split up, which of course, led me to believe, he had been talking to her for a little while. ... (212 words)

I said the wrong thing now he's ignoring me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

7 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Said the wrong the thing and now he is ignoring me? I met this man 8 weeks ago. we were seeing one another 3 nights a week going good having fun enjoying one anothers company. Then suddenly I accused him of seeing someone and he assured me he wasn't and he let that go. Then a f... (334 words)

Could I be bisexual? I think about this girl a lot

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

7 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a 23 year old female. I think i'm bisexual? There this girl i used to be friends with, for a long time. And i always liked her for more than a friend. I have never told her this. Well we use to talk a lot and after a couple people told her lies and started trouble between ... (195 words)

He asked me to text him, not email him. Would his GF think it was cheating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

7 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - in january 2010 i broke up with my ex and it ended on bad terms (he cheated on me with his ex). since then we have both seen other people and got on with our lives since then and have had no contact until recently. he randomly sent me an email to tell me that he'd seen me ... (227 words)

How do I know he enjoyed having sex with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

7 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've had sex with my boyfriend like 2 times already, he was my first but he has done it with alot of other girls...he is not the type that really expresses if he is enjoyin it or not, so how can i know he enjoyed me ?... (47 words)

I've given her so many clues. What is happening to me? And why can't she realise I love her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

7 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Why do i love one of my closest friend of the same gender so much? This girl i have fallen in live with incredibly, everything about her is amazing, she got the most gorgeous eyes, shes perfect! I dont know what to do anymore, i hate looking at her knowing that she doesn't ... (177 words)

Differences in age and culture!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5106 days ago

7 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Well. It´s not like a serious serious problem. But sometimes it helps to write things down to completely neutral people and what´s more, GET ANSWERS. So thank you, guys! So... there is this guy (of course) who I really like. He is funny, intelligent, kind, down-to-earth, n... (302 words)

I'm allowed to date now, and I think he might be a candidate for my first.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

7 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm in the 9th grade, and my mom never wanted me to have a boyfried in middle school. So i've been at my high school for a semester now, and I'm starting to like this guy, so i've talked to him on facebook, and I think he knows that i like him, but idk if he likes me back. He ... (175 words)

Is it possible? That he really likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5106 days ago

7 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I have a few questions about a boy I sort of like. Here's my story: A few days ago at school it was a passing period so everyone was at their lockers getting their stuff. The boy I like (his locker is next to mine) was talking to his friends. His friends were trying to gues... (340 words)

Why are some men into rubbing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

7 January 2011 (?) age 41-50 - I was recently with a new partner. He seems to really enjoy rubbing up against me. This is not "dry sex" through our clothes. We will both be naked and he will rub against my waist or my hip until he climaxes. At times he seems to prefer hand jobs to blow jobs. I have ne... (248 words)

He wants me as his second wife but where can we get hitched legally?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5106 days ago

7 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Where can I marry my man? He is mormon and already has one wife,but asked me to be his second wife. He and I both want to know where we can get married. Which countries will allow him two have two wives? Will India or Turkey allow us to get married? He is mormon and I am going ... (104 words)

I don't want to come across as a total weirdo!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5106 days ago

7 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - well this is cofusing butt ive had a crush (not just a stupid one) a hugee crush on my best-boy-mate who ive known since year 3. Also used to go out with my best-girl-mate he says hes over her but how csn i be sure? How do i tell my best friend i like him without him thinking... (87 words)

All we have is this internet friendship, I wish we could have more!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5106 days ago

7 January 2011 (F) age 30-35 - there is this guy i talk alot to him and we talk about any thing even sex. i think im in love with him and i have started to be addicted about talking to him, we live far far away from each other we are even from a different cultures, i thought he talks online like that only ... (199 words)

My ex talked crap about me on facebook and I can't let it go!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

7 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - So I just really need to vent. I already did some to my boyfriend but I still can't get it out of my head. I'll give some of the back story. Okay I dated a guy a year and a half ago, we dated for a little over a year. It was an awful relationship. He was loud and backed me into ... (1651 words)

Signs a guy is into you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

7 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - How can you know that a guy is into you? I don't mean in love, just that he's interested (and not only because of the sex). I would really appreciate male answers. Thanks!... (36 words)

How do I stop liking my teacher?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

7 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So, i know loads of teenagers get crushes on their teachers and youv probably gotten a question like this millions of times before, but i really need some advice! So, im 14 right now, and Iv had a few teacher crushes before, but they werent this strong and usually ended qu... (326 words)

I'm desperate to save my marriage is there still time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

7 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have wrote in before about my husband we have been married a 1 year 8 months i'm 30 he's 49.. We meet in March 09 married May 09 I truely love him with all my but the marriage has had problems,he was married for 15 year with 2 children he cheated then she cheated just anger ... (1663 words)

I like my best friend's uncle

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

7 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I like my best friends uncle, he's 23, and we often talk, I know this isnt a crush, I've had crushes and I've never felt for anyone quite as strongly as I do for him. My friends made it clear to me that if anything ever happens that she will refuse to talk to me anymore and ... (78 words)

Waiting for the love of my life, how ever long that may take.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

7 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I were together for 2 years. We broke up this summer because he said he was too young to settle down this early in his life. All summer we had no contact, but we go to the same college and run on the same cross country/track team. When we got back we first ... (457 words)

Her poshness intimidates me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

7 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Well, I'm a 19 year old guy, haven't had a girlfriend for about 4 years, never been smooth with the ladies and get pretty nervous when it comes to speaking to girls that I don't know. A few weeks back we had a xmas party for work at an event that had numerous businesses in at... (403 words)

Where did he go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

7 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I like this guy and we got introduced through a mutual friend at college, he asked for my number off said friend and began texting me. He was so sweet and made such an effort to text almost everyday. He said to me he doesnt talk to anyone else the way he talk to me, so i went ... (244 words)

Her smile lights me up inside but I know she won't be mine!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

7 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, like the many questions on here, im in love with one of my best friends. Who is also a girl.. I just dont know what to do anymore. I can't stop thinking about her, and i cant sleep at night. When i see her it makes my day, just seeing her smile lights me up inside. ... (140 words)

Did I hurt her and will she get nasty with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5106 days ago

7 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - i met a girl at college and she seemed to be giving me signals of interest. Anyway, her friend gave me her number and when we began texting she began the flirting and texting until almost 2am on college night (something i wouldn’t expect friends to do on a college night). her ... (904 words)

Since when did this marriage become polygamous?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

7 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - This is such an awful situation I'm in, I really don't know where to begin. My husband and I have been married for almost 6 years and we have 3 children. We recently bought a new house. In October of 2009, I found out that he had been seeing someone that he works with. I told ... (573 words)

Do I let her do what she wants (sleep with whomever) and give her time to see what she wants?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

7 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been seeing a girl for around 4 months, spending literally every day with her since I met her. I got involved knowing that she had a boyfriend thinking it would all be ok. We text each other whenever we are apart and it started out just messing around and hanging out. We ... (288 words)

I broke up with my soulmate!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

7 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - 2 months ago I broke up with my childhood sweetheart, we'd been together over 4 years and I just can't cope without him. It feels so wrong to let him go, like he's my soulmate and I'll never find anyone else. Is this normal, should I ignore the desperate urge to keep trying a... (99 words)

Am I on to something here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

7 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this guy i really like at my school, we have known each other for 5-6 months and i usually dont like someone after that short amount of time, so i was suprised. Before i spoke to him he would stare at me, and one of my friends pointed out that he would walk past ... (365 words)

Just because we had a foursome with my boyfriend's best friend, doesn't give him the right to kiss me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5106 days ago

7 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone so my boyfriend and i have been pretty much a foursome with this other couple since we started dating. my boyfirend has been best friends with this guy since we started dating and i work with him, so through him ive become really good friends with his girlfrie... (302 words)

The spark was never there and we've been together for a year!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

7 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone I need serious advice I'm young and I've been in a relationship for over a year and I like the life he can give me and the care that he has for me and his personality is good but the spark is not there at all plzzz help I will appreciate it. ... (56 words)

We've been dragging out this game of cat and mouse for 6 months!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

7 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I like this guy and I think he likes me back everyone says he does and my friend Hall overheard him talking to his friend he gets shy and nervous around me but he seems to be happy around me what should I do this has been going around for 6 months... HELP!!!!!... (53 words)

How can you spice up a LDR?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5106 days ago

7 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - How can you mix things up or spice things up when your in along distance relationship? My bf was complaning cuz he doesnt like routine. We always say good moring every day ask how you slept, talk about random things through out the day and talk a little dirty. I dont know how ... (61 words)

Is this boy just a flirt?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5106 days ago

7 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - right so there is this boy who is a year older than me at school. Me, him and some friends in his year walk home together. Right so here is the thing. For a while now when we meet he and he gives me a really long tight hug (and only me :P), and when we walk he holds my hand. So... (241 words)

I want this relationship to work so badly but because of the distance we cant see each other! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

7 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a problem. I alaways find girls i like and that like me. This time i found one i auctally see myself obsessing about her. I have extreame feelings for her more than any person i have ever met. These feelings i didnt even know quite what was untill i told a friend a... (203 words)

Ruined my chances?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

7 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - A few days ago I saw the girl I like in the hall. She said hi and smiled (because she liked me too), but I think I ruined my chances. We had gone out once before (but without any sort of action..close to our second date even..) And this is very unlike me, but I actually kinda ... (134 words)

Is it ok to date this guy when he use to date a girl I have known since I was a baby?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

7 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating this guy for a few months.I havent really told everyone or put it on fb. Im not doing that until I move to college where he lives in august. He use to date this girl I know. Thats how I met him...Me and this girl arent really close but we have know each other ... (82 words)

Am I in the wrong here? Should I ignore this 'incident' even though she was acting weird?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5106 days ago

7 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Me and my had a fight over my concern of her having an emotion affair. We really had good talk and things come to normal for a couple of weeks. But on the christmas eve night she went to church. I called her at 12:00pm and she said they just finished the program and is leaving. ... (350 words)

I lost my virginity to a married man and now his wife is coming back from travelling to work in the same company!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

7 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - he is married with kids but the wife is traveled.am not too sure of my feelings for him,i lost my virginity to this man.my problem is i work for the man and his wife will return soon and will also work in the same company... (45 words)

Broken up with my first love, is there still a chance or how can I move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

7 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 18 about to turn 19 and me and my ex went out for about 3 years. We met in high school and the beginning of our relationship begun bad, she left a guy for me, then for a month we went out and then we broke up. after a while the same the same process occur, but then we went ... (467 words)

Past experience is spoiling my new relationship, am I right to worry?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

7 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Can someone tell me how to get over my insecurities about being played. I have just entered a relationship with a guy I've been nuts about for a long time. He says he has about me too. The relationship has been going to happen for a while, and has been building up with g... (314 words)

Why can't I fully get over my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

7 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Why can't I fully get over my ex? I personally feel deep inside that she is the one, or at least who she was to me was the one. Like for me the way my ex is now, drinking, partying and even doing other stuff has really turned me off from her. But if I take who she was and at ... (213 words)

Separated. Now what?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

7 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband of three years and I have just entered into a trial separation(no kids). He moved out. Things have escalated over the past 6 months to a spot neither of us want to be in our marriage. The whole time I have wanted to work on things and make things better and he wante... (823 words)

He knows that he has my heart but I am not sure I have his.....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5106 days ago

7 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - so this is kinda long sorry. sometimes i write letters to my boyfriend that i just keep as a way to get my feelings out. even though sometimes i don't intend for them to really be read by him. well i wrote a letter and put my son to bed and fell asleep. the letter was left on ... (242 words)

Can waiting until marriage for sex allow us to build better relationships?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

7 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I had a recent experience with a girl who is a "player". She is very beautiful and always attracts men. She toys with them, encourages them with flirtatious words, all the time saying they are not her type, even as they get their hopes up. I, myself, was entranced by her for a ... (267 words)

Were these people messing with me or do you think one of them was interested in me ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5106 days ago

7 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Were these people messing with me or do you think one of them was interested in me ?. I was in a pub and i walked past this group of people when one of the men shouted to me. I turned around and i recognised him from when i saw him in a bar a couple of weeks ago. I had danced ... (387 words)

I don't want kids but my husband does......

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

7 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - my husband and i have been married for 5 years and we've been together for a total of 10 years.We've made it this far and relationship has been great in every way except that since the last 1 year he has been telling me that he is interested in having children and he wants them ... (287 words)

My husband gave his emotional affair a Christmas gift!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

7 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I went thru my husbands phone and saw a strange number and I read his text. He told a women that he has day dreams about her. Not night dreams but he intentionally thinks of her during the day. He asked her questions about heat she wears to bed, underwear, perfume type, ...the ... (404 words)

Should I press him to talk more? Should I confront him about the other girl`s pictures? Is it worth it?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4797 days ago

7 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello. I have a problem, but I`m not sure if I can explain it. I`ll try. I`ve been dating my boyfriend for 6 months now. From the beginning, I had a feeling he`s somehow closed to me. I didn`t know anything about his life, family, friends, except for what I`ve seen, since we a... (382 words)

My friend got attached to a player. Was my tough love too tough?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

7 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I gave my friend some advice now I think I done the wrong thing. My friend is very shy, has low confident and I always feel slightly sorry for her. She has never had a boyfriend and one day she started telling me about this guy at work who was flirting with her... (386 words)

The pain of mistrust

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5097 days ago

7 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I really love my girlfriend and i don't play games or double date, in fact i hate it. There is hardly a thing about me that my girlfriend does not know. Every day of our life, i always tell her how special she is to me and how much i TRULY LOVE her. But no matter how i try, she ... (106 words)

What should I do with a boyfriend who is so loving and supportive that I can't reciprocate?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

7 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in a ridiculous predicament - my boyfriend is a wonderful guy to me, he will do anything to please me. Of course he has his negatives (as does everyone) but he is just so caring, supportive and loving to me... yet I just can't reciprocate. I don't show him enough ... (206 words)

Every time I start to get over her past, something new pops up!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

7 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship for aprox 10 months and I'm having trouble getting over my girlfriends past. When we first started dating one time after sex we were lying in bed and she started in on the "what's the craziest sexual thing you have done" bit. I was unnerved that ... (643 words)

Since we got engaged he is getting more and more mean, and refuses to seek help for his anger problems. Help!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

7 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I've been dating my guy for two and a half years. We got engaged around our two year anniversary and have set a wedding date. Since the moment we have gotten engaged he has been progressively more mean. We have had fights before, he would scream at me and hit walls. B... (414 words)

I don't like women in any way but I watch lesbian porn. What does this mean?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5071 days ago

7 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - im 110% straight. but i watch lesbian porn. i dont like women in that way just the porn. what does this mean??... (23 words)

Is it a good idea to 'replace' my ex so I can get over him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

7 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm really struggling with what to do if anyone could help? I've recently broken up with my boyfriend of 4 years, i grew up with him so its really hard on me and i miss him like mad. its torture living without him :( the type of person i am is i replace people, so my wa... (185 words)

It's been 1 year since breaking up but I still can't get over her

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

7 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I have had this same dilemna for the past year and i didn't know who to turn to for advice, so i thought i'd try this out. I'd really appreciate any help, it'd mean a lot to me. My 2009 was the best year of my life; it was the last year of school before going to university, i... (485 words)

Will the pain of this break up ever go away? Will I ever be able to smile and laugh again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

7 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf and I broke up 2 months ago and I'm completely lost. We broke up because he had stuff to do ( he's in a band and said he didn't have time to treat me like i should be treated) and I wanted to travel. He never wanted to really do the things I wanted to do, just what he did ... (252 words)

My friends are trying to convince me the age gap is a problem

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

7 January 2011 (?) age 36-40 - I'm 20 and my current boyfriend is 33, we've been together for 10 months or so. We met via work (we play pro badminton) and I used to play mixed doubles for a little while before we got together, which is where we initially got to know each other. (we now have differen... (443 words)

Do guys like their hair being played with?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

7 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Do guys like to have there hair played with? Not just when kissing... (13 words)

A holiday romance I would like to continue

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

7 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I met a girl once, with whom I had an instant connection (at least physically). Our eyes met frequently during this themed dance night on a vacation boat. We ended up talking and it was clear from the outset there was a strong attraction between us. Over the coming days we s... (303 words)

Its the old triangle thing all over again.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5100 days ago

7 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Any opinions or help will be appreciated :) My best friend liked a mutual friend of ours (lets call him 'J') and they kind of had something going for like a week but it fizzled out when she started going out with someone else (lets call this one 'S'). I've liked 'J' for so... (195 words)

He touches himself and then denies it!

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7 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend knows about my 1st relationship and how screwed up it made me especially being so young and finding my bf/baby daddy watching porn and jacking off instead of getting it from me.there were other sexual traumas but this alone affected me most and this my new bf knew ... (381 words)

My husband has lots of female friends and ex lovers whom he is in touch with...and it makes me very uncomfortable

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7 January 2011 (F)

age - My husband is a very popular man and has lots of female friends and ex lovers. I knew all about these women before I married him but since then have begun to hate his contact with these people especially his ex flames. He says that I am insecure and that he is not going to stop ... (295 words)

How do I get over my first love who dumped me for someone closer to her?

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7 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My ex dumped me on the 29/12/10 at 10:00pm we was together for 385 days and 1200 seconds. We met over the internet on a chat site, we got to know each other over 7 months then I asked her out. Two months later I gave her a love letter, it was quite childish... Six moths and 3 ... (398 words)

How do I start my life again?

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7 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - how do i start my life again after the love of my life has left me and our baby son. my heart is broken, im confused about why he has done this. i need help to move on and stop feeling so devastated. please help me... (46 words)

Should I write a testimonial for a former flame to help him find love on a dating site?

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7 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Does it show some class to write a good testimonial (voucher) for someone you still have feelings for, on a dating site? We ended up being just friends (platonic) since the distance was to hard to maintain any type of intimate relationship. I care for this person alot, and... (78 words)

Is he cheating?

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7 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I've been dating my boyfriend for a year and a bit now, but i've found that our sex life has taken a downfall. we only have sex once every 2 to 3 weeks and his penis is always dirty. His excuse is that he masterbates in the shower and didn't clean it properly. Once h... (76 words)

What does he get from being with them rather than our son and me?

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7 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Been with my spouse for 5 years now, but he has cheated in the past. However the past year he has been the worst to me and put me through an extreme amount of hurt. He cheated twice this year but not just gone and slept with some one he's left our family twice for 2 women he ... (240 words)

Shall we report her anonymously or hope she will stop being a bully?

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7 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Morning all. Please advise on the following.... Our team leader at work has been promoted to assistant manager and the power has gone slightly to her head. She talks down to us and is quite rude with her comments. For example 1 girl on the team was talking to another ... (325 words)

Why did he have to be so graphic about this woman?

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7 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I sometimes work on the holidays, during school vacation...so... I knew this guy for about two years. We are kinda close but I only would like us to be friends and nothing more. We would talk about many topics: marriage, sex, life...in general. So , one day he told me som... (212 words)

How can you be in a relationship without someone getting hurt? Or is this just part of the deal?

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7 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i've only been with two people. the first one last fall...well, i met him online and we hung out a few times and i wasn't even interested in him... i liked him in a friendly way - he was fun and funny company - but i knew in my heart that i was only spending time with him in an ... (773 words)

I can't love my boyfriend at the moment because I don't make enough money right now

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7 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Yeah, about a month ago I became self employed, so I am going to struggle financially at first, and it will take me time to get very well known. I run my own tattoo parlor. I'm at the pivotal moment at struggling to meet all my overhead. I cannot afford to live with my ... (349 words)

I am only really attracted to guys, but I know I want to get married and have children! What should I do?

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7 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, My problem is a bit convoluted, and I'm so conflicted over it that I just had to 'talk' to someone, but not anyone I knew. So I've known for some years now that I might like guys (I'm a guy) and the usual things that happen when one does like people of the same sex... (218 words)

How do I tell her how I feel?

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7 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - hello am a boy who live in a compound with a girl whom i love and we are just friends but i don't know how to tel her my feelings.how do i go about it pls?... (36 words)

Are these signs your boyfriend loves you?

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7 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Is these signs your boyfriend really loves you? 1.says he loves you all the time 2.kisses your hand,neck,lips 3.holds you really close and tight 4.spends time with you whenever he can even if its just coming over and cuddling and falling a sleep. 5.stays the night on wee... (104 words)

Still no love for a 22 year old virgin

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7 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I posted a thread here about a month or so ago titled “No Love for a Twenty Two Year Old Virgin” and I just wanted to let you all know I ‘m giving up. For now anyway. I just don’t understand how or why I’ve been put in this position but I hope at the very least somewhere out ... (386 words)

My girlfriend of two years suddenly wants to break up

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7 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Me and my girlfriend have been dating two years and now she wants a break up and doesnt want to be with me all of a sudden. i do not know what to do. i have been through so much. i do not know what i did. i think it might be because i am too jealous she says but i do not know... (85 words)

What exactly is 'second base'?

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7 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - what exactly is 'second base'?... (5 words)

Would any men be weirded out that their girlfriend donated her eggs?

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7 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been considering donating my eggs and have been "preliminarily accepted," meaning that I've filled out my application and sent pictures; and now they want to interview me face-to-face. While I've considered all aspects of it and now that I'm 27 I've come to terms with the ... (185 words)

Can I trust a woman who had an affair with her best friend's husband?

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7 January 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Can i trust a woman who has had a 3 year affair with her best friends husband? My previous post explained that my GF was off to Mexico with friends for Xmas. My concerns were that on the night before her departure she called me by another guy's name as she orgasmed and the name... (221 words)

He wants children but has said he would rather have our relationship without kids than no relationship at all. Will this cause problems in the future?

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7 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I am at a crisis point with my boyfriend. I am 38 (very soon 39) and he is 34. I have never been particularly interested in having children - not like many women who feel the desire to be a mother very strongly. I have been seeing my boyfriend for 5 years and we are ... (349 words)

I'm in shock over him joining the navy! How should I handle this?

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7 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of 3 years is joining the navy, he told me about a week ago and I'm shocked I know its a good thing and I'm not against it! I just don't know what to say? He wants my opinion on how i feel about it but I'm just in shock he had never spoken of it before and just ... (101 words)

Does he like me even though he has a girlfriend?

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7 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I like a guy but he has a girlfriend and i want to know if he likes me too because it really seems like it. He sits next to me in my math class. We talk pretty much all the time. At school, he always stares at me and when im near hes all over his girlfriend and then looks ... (216 words)

How much is too much when it comes to complimenting girls?

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7 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I've had two very serious relationships in my life (they lasted one and five years respectively, and I was going to move in with the last one) and I see a common pattern between them. Okay, two relationships may not be statistically significant, but still. Both girls wer... (293 words)

Should I break up with her over this? She is texting lots of other guys and refuses to stop

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7 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - ok my girlfriend and i went on christmas break for school and as we go to the same school we texted each other and seen each other over the break some and we were both happy and stuff till christmas day. on that day we were talking as usual and she told me that she had been ... (313 words)

I want to keep my baby but I'm scared of how my family will react....

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7 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi im 16 years old and im pregant i've been pregnant before but i had an abortion..i want to keep my baby but im very scared of how my family will react im specailly scared of how my older brother will react because he has has always been "the man of the house"..my boyfriend is ... (131 words)

How should I start talking to him?

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7 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So I'm fairly new to this site, but from what I can tell there is a lot of good advice being offered so I thought I'd ask a question for myself. So basically I have a huge crush on this guy. We have a class and used to talk quite a bit (before I realized I liked him). But ... (152 words)

She has a boyfriend, me and now a new guy in her life! I don't want to be taken for granted.....

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7 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - ok so i have been attached to this girl for a while and we have been talking regularly since a month. though i know that she acts bitchy sometimes but she has portrayed her image as a very caring and concerned person about our relationship in a while. she is more active than me ... (387 words)

I am pushing him away by bringing these issues from my divorce into my new relationship....how do I stop?

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7 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been seeing this guy for 8 weeks going great we are having fun etc. But I am also at the end of a divorce and I have so many issues I am dealing with. I TRY not to bother my new friend with them. We never talk about my situation. But as of latley he has been a little ... (402 words)

Should we continue to be friends and grow apart or see if we can make it at the next step?

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7 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have liked my best friend for a long time. I think he likes me too, but its like neither of us are willing to take the plunge to further our relationship into what it might be because we are afraid that it might completely ruin our friendship. Graduation is in like five ... (151 words)

I froze him out and I feel bad about it

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7 January 2011 (?) age 41-50 - Recently I stopped talking to an old coworker. I'm not exactly sure why I did it either. We were both laid off on the same day from the same company. When we worked together before, we were work mates and friendly. He would confide in me about his personal life and ... (568 words)

My BF, my daughter, my secret lover, his pregnant wife...my life is a mess of lies and I'm miserable

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7 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 6 years. We were just kids when we got together. Our relationship has had it's ups and downs and for a while my boyfriend treated me like complete garbage. We ended up splitting up for a few months. When we got back together I ended up ... (264 words)

Do I give up on the best guy I've ever met or do I hope that things will get better?

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7 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid, I am becoming hopless and miserable.. I've been with my exboyfriend for almost 3 years fell in love during my last year of highschool. He was a prince charming I didnt believe men exisited like him Ive still never met a guy like him even without all the sweet ge... (307 words)

The ex who treated me badly and the great new guy who bores me

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7 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - A few months ago I started seeing this guy that I really liked. The funny thing is I have no idea why I like him, except that he's just really nice and pleasant to be around. In the beginning things were great, but without going into details things went down hill. So, I sta... (259 words)

He broke up with me for another girl but he stares at me whenever he sees me

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7 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My x and i never seemed to have any problems but as soon as i had sex with him, he dumped me for some lame excuse saying "I dont want attachments in the marines" you see he is a sr. and i am a sophomore. He was crying over the phone when he broke up with me, and told me how ... (295 words)

Why is sex so easy and emotionless for some guys??

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7 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I started to fall for my fwb, and when I told him, he said ok we should stop. I cried a bit and he said sorry but he just doesn't see us as anything more than friends. I have begrudgingly accepted this...it is very hard to get over him, because we were great goofy friends for ... (277 words)

Sex hurts real bad...any advice??

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7 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everybody I'm 16 and my boyfriend is 18 and we have been dating almost 2 years and we are truly in love and we feel that we ae ready for sex we are both virgins but we have tried several times and it hurts me extremely bad he's very large and I'm tiny any advice would be ... (60 words)

Age difference....just numbers??

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7 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Do you guys think age is just a numbering am extremely attracted to a 38 year old and I am 24... (21 words)

How do I tell an acquaintance I fancy him?

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7 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey Aunts and Uncles. I was wondering how to tell an aquaintance of mine that I like him? We have known each other for a few years and I have liked him for a majority of that time. We dont talk much, but we are comfortable around each other. At least that is what I have not... (77 words)

Should I break up with him and omit the part I cheated or end it but still confess?

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7 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So my boyfriend and i have been together a year now. i really care about him but we (or i) have a lot of problems. he smokes (marijuana) constantly, is always high, and is basically obsessed with pot. thats all he wants to spend his money on, hes lazy, and i really hate it. ive ... (569 words)

He's bottling up his emotions after his friend's death.

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7 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys. Um, my boyfriend and I have been in a real rough place lately. We've been together since freshman year (now we're juniors in HS) and everything's always been pretty great. About 5 months ago, one our really good friends unexpectedly died. He and I were both really ... (220 words)

We tiptoe around our past as lovers, but I want to rekindle the romance!

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7 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Me and my ex-bf started as friends, been as lovers for about 10 months and he broke up with me 2 months back since he said he is getting very attached to me. We didnt contact for about a month, we started talking a month back as friends. I called him first to return back h... (189 words)

How do I block thoughts of my ex?

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7 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - About three weeks ago, my ex and I 'took a break' I guess. It was long distance relationship, and the break was a result of whatever attraction there was between us fading away, I guess (Long story, blah). But anyways, we took a break on the... 15th or 16th of December, and ... (180 words)

I don't know if I can tame this Mr. Big, but Aidan might be too sensitive!

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7 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello! Well, here it goes: some time ago I met an incredible guy and since the first moment I saw him I knew I would end up with him (basic instict!). That very day we started flirting, but at some point I was literally forced by him to confess how much I liked him (huge ... (246 words)

My boyfriend is planning on moving to be with me, but I still have my ex on my mind!

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7 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok ive been dating this amazing guy for 6 months now. we started dating a month after i got out of a year long relationship with my first love. Everything has been great until..my ex bf who is also my first love came back into my life. We have been talking as friends and we ... (116 words)

He thinks it's a minor detail he left out, I happen to think it's a major one!

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7 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I had made plans for today, but he said he needed a few hours alone so that he could finish working on his jeep. Later I went over and we met some friends for dinner, and one of the girls mentioned that she was over helping him on his car earlier, a detail he ... (141 words)

Trying to decode his text!

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7 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been seeing a guy for about 3 weeks. We are both 27. He didnt seem to be as serious about "us" as i hoped. yes i know 3 weeks isnt long but the other night he basically stood me up! I was furious and sent him a text and said that i wouldnt be seeing him again. He wanted ... (175 words)

I'm thinking he should have left that secret in the past.

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7 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for a long time and he just told me something my friends have probably known all along about him. He told me something about his past that made him a loser for most of his life and that was absolutely disgusting. I understand he couldn't help it but ... (74 words)

He's so on and off with me?

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7 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so I am 14 years old and I'm super confused. So my ex has been giving me signs that he likes me alot. After I had a break up recently me and my ex started chatting again alot like day and night text contact. We see eachother at school and he and his friends sit by our ... (623 words)

I need advice forgetting a guy who broke my heart. Please help me!?

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7 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, mine is a case of deeply broken heart. I think I'm finished with a guy I had a long distance relationship with for 4 years. I developed feelings for him since I met him in person in a business meeting. I don't know why I missed him dearly, but it seems as he doesn't care at ... (182 words)