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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm capable of everything but romance. Help!

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4 January 2011 (?) age 30-35 - I'm a big overachiever in the arts. I'm applying for a well-respected art college in February, I'm in 2 bands, and I'm a performing dancer now. Not to brag, but I find I don't have much difficulty getting good at things, and I do all of the things I mentioned quite well. I've ... (302 words)

Which do I choose?

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4 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, Ii'm so confused, i met this boy in town about a month ago and we have met up a few times and everything seems to be going good, but then the other day my friend told me he has feelings for me. my friend lives about 2 hour drive from me, so we haven't seen each other for a ... (212 words)

Everyday I fall more in love with my best friend, who doesn't love me!

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4 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - There’s this girl that I like a LOT. I’ve tired to see if she likes me and came up with no. We know each other for about 6 months. We talk every day for hours. She doesn’t really talk actually neither of us really talk. I’ve pretty much taken the best friend/brother roll ... (369 words)

How can I change things?

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4 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, my life is falling apart. I only have a part time job, live at home and cannot drive. My group of friends aren't talking to me as I had a argument with one of them over a boy I am texting (I know it might sound silly but she was trying to get his number to tell him I was a ... (164 words)

Is his best friend gay?

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4 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating my boyfriend for 3 years now and when it is just the 2 of us, it is the most amazing relationship I have ever been in. We totally get each other and feel comfortable talking about everything. The problem is my boyfriends friends... I know what you are ... (336 words)

"T'is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all" - yes/no

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4 January 2011 (?) age 51-59 - Just out of curiosity, what are people's thoughts on this sentiment? Are the 'highs' of being in love ALWAYS worth the 'lows' of breakup and loss?... (26 words)

Cialis, first experience & side effects?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

4 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I was wondering about using Cialis to get a firm hard erection. When I get excited, my penis does get hard a little but it doesn't point upward or straight. And I feel real embarrassed when it happens. I read about Cialis and want to give it a try but worried a little... (128 words)

I really want to be with her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5098 days ago

4 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I am in the army when I went on leave during the holidays I met this girl then I had to go back to Kentucky and now i cant stop thinking about her I don't eat much I just keep waiting for a text (which she does). She feels the same way about me but we cannot be together cause ... (78 words)

Am I over analyzing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5100 days ago

4 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, I'm looking for help to translate guy speak! My bf has been unwell, sent me a message saying the Dr told him to stay home and rest for a couple of days, so I sent him a message saying that if he needs anything, just let me know. He replied saying "You're a big part of ... (137 words)

Living with my brother after being kicked out and afraid that I'm intruding

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4 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been living with my brother and his girlfriend since my parents kicked me out when they found out I was pregnant. The other day they got engaged. I'm happy for them. I really am but the only thing running through my head is what if they kick me out. What if they dec... (115 words)

Good or bad sleeping with your ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

4 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Me my ex broke about 2 weeks now, she was so mad and fierous she dosent want to talk to me. Just last night she texted me saying she wants sex. I replyed no cause I have feelings for you still. For about an hour I texted her ok I'm giving in I want sex. She said fine come over, ... (236 words)

How can I stop hating my body? How can I ignore the media and men's opinion?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

4 January 2011 (F) age 36-40 - I hate my body, I'm 22 and I'm done growing. I don't look like the typical woman men in my country like, which is busty (even if fake) slim waist, big round butt (no cellulite though) and kind of medium sized thighs. I'm almost all that except I have cellulite all over my ... (365 words)

I do have really low self esteem and I never feel good enough for him but I don't want to lose him.

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4 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi Please can you help me? I have been going out with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years now and i really struggle being away from him i dont have many friends and i hate it when he goes out because i am always in by myself but recently my boyfriend said he is going away to ... (292 words)

Is a highly sensitive person (HSP) better suited with another with another HSP or Non-HSP?

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4 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a highly sensitive person. For those of you that have identified yourselves as one, you will know exactly what I mean by that. Through reading I've discovered both pros and cons for dating HSPs and Non-HSPs. I would like to ask fellow HSPs which they found more enjoyable to ... (87 words)

Help, do I just accept the psychopathic boyfriends' mother and her bad doings?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5100 days ago

4 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend and I get on fabulously, at least we did, until our argument just before Christmas 2010, which really has put permanent doubts about us in my mind. The thing is that his mum is a manipulative, controlling expert, whom I cannot win against. Even if I do nothing ... (1563 words)

Should I try to get the truck back from my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5100 days ago

4 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My fiance and I broke up 2 months ago. I wanted to try to work things out, but he doesn't. I still love him and keep hoping that we will get back together. Problem is I took a loan out for a truck that he is driving. I don't want to be financially attached to him for the next 4 ... (106 words)

My boyfriend's facebook "friends" make me very uncomfortable...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5100 days ago

4 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend recently added a girl he used to like on facebook. They originally kept in touch back in 2005, before i met him, and i think originally, they were intouch on msn, although i dont know where they first found each other. She lives in America but we live in England. ... (671 words)

Should I run?

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4 January 2011 (F)

age - I have a boyfirend who had found me after a number of years we were in love once and parted and he found me again * I'm a bit freaked out in the time we were apart he married and now has split from his wife he has a son to her his 25 year old step daughter stayed with him ... (141 words)

He's joining the military and my religion won't let me move in with him!

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4 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - ok, well i am really confused on what i should do. this guy, let's call him Patrick. Well Patrick and i have been dating for 1 year and a few months... And he is getting ready to leave for boot camp for the army. And he has asked me to wait for him, and as told me that he ... (136 words)

He won't tell his ex about us!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

4 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been seeing my boyfriend for Four months now. Our relationship didn't exactly start in a dream way, since he was at the time in a relationship with another girl when we met. He has since ended his relationship with her to be with me exclusively. The problem I am having ... (289 words)

My boyfriend gets stressed and can't communicate his feelings!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5096 days ago

4 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - what to do if your b/f gets stress easily and frustrated. please help. my b/f will keep things inside he need to say, gets easily stress and frustrated. and sometimes he run from the truth or cant face or deal with reality, so what he does is block of the problem and put hims... (121 words)

Why won't he take it to the next level?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5100 days ago

4 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been going out with my boyfriend for over a month now and I'm a bit worried about our sex life. We have yet to have sex, and though I'm not the pushiest girl when it comes to sex, I'd like to know if he's taking it slowly for a reason or if I shouldn't expect much more. We ... (161 words)

I want to know what went down when he cheated!

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4 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - my b/f cheated on me with another lady, yet he wont talk to me all he told me he have with a female. but i want to know what went down. everytime he say he have to talk to me he gets emotional about it and says its hard for him to talk to me i might break down. i told him i am ... (332 words)

Into the unknown after ending of bad relationship.

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4 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi. I am feeling scared and alone. Basically, I have never had a relationship with a girl before this year (I am a young adult). This girl was beautiful...but was egotistical, manipulative and untrustworthy. It took me months to free myself from the relationship with the help... (257 words)

Still in love with my ex but in a 2 year relationship.

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4 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently saw my ex boyfriend and we both have feelings for each other for 4 years now. Plus he is in the Army. I am in a 2 year relationship with my current boyfriend and he been there for me when I had nothing. What should I do?... (49 words)

My worry is that I do not feel like his main girl whenever another girl is around!

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4 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - So, I am having a dilemma with an insecurity problems in my relationship. My boyfriend is a bit flirtatious and has a bit of a blunt personality. My worry is that I do not feel like his main girl whenever another girl is around. I don't mean to come off as jealous and don't ... (188 words)

Lost and confused! Double standards?

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4 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright my dear friends...here we go. so im in love with my first love still. after being broken up for two years we chose to get back together. but since we've gotten back together. i dont feel confident. i feel like he's only with me bcuz im the only one that was willing... (227 words)

How many partners is too many partners?

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4 January 2011 (?) age 41-50 - I am a 29 year old woman trying to figure out if I have had too many partners or if I am just average and don't need to worry. I feel pretty average. But when men ask, I'm never sure how I measure up. I know it depends on the man. How many partners is a red flag to men?... (84 words)

My boyfriend punched my friend and said I can't see him any more

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5071 days ago

4 January 2011 (?) age 30-35 - Today I was hanging out with my best friend(a guy) at a park and we were just talking and having a great time just hanging out. Well then my boyfriend came and got really mad that I was hanging out with my friend. My boyfriend was super mad and he punched my friend in the face... (178 words)

The relationship has gone down hill. Is it time to move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5100 days ago

4 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I want to know what happens in relationships. I have been with my boy friend for three and a half years. In the beginning he was willing to take me places and he said really nice things to me. My boy friend takes a lot of pain medicine for his shoulder, he claims that the ... (241 words)

Is it too late? Did I blow my chance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5100 days ago

4 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been on and off with my ex bf for 9 months. And last week we were supposed to get back together and talk things through. So he picked me up and we ate breakfast at his place. We weren't talking much, so i decided to talk about issues that we've had before. I know I ... (531 words)

I'm scared, lost, and unable to make a decision.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5100 days ago

4 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my wonderful boyfriend for a little over two years now. We started dating when I was a junior in high school and he was a senior. Our first date was perfect. In every way, we were perfect for each other. The first eight months were totally sublime through our ... (374 words)

From girlfriend to friend but secretly not over him...how do I handle this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5100 days ago

4 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid My bf broke up with me few months back and we are now friends. My problem is, i am not over him, i still love him. He sees me just as a friend, but he knows how i feel about him. He is asking my advice about dating other girls, it really hurts like hell. I hav... (95 words)

Am I over my ex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5100 days ago

4 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hi! well basically, iv been in a long term relationship with someone previously for almost 3 years... and within the three years i have been through a lot with them for example his cheated on me and i stil took him in.. and that has messed me up alot! coz i took him in only coz... (515 words)

How to stop yourself turning into a mother- or sister- or friend-type of girlfriend,

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4 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey guys, I'd love some advice on how you stop yourself turning into a mother- or sister- or friend-type of girlfriend, if that makes sense? I've been with my bf for 4 months, think he's gorgeous, kind, caring, funny, intelligent, sexy. He's the kind of person that always ... (250 words)

Why do men not tell an ex gf, they are dating someone else

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5100 days ago

4 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello everyone, my question is mainly for men. What does it mean when a man ignores his ex's question? (broke up with 2 months back) When she asks him if he's seeing someone, knowing that she's travelling to see him where he lives Does it mean he has someone in his life?... (53 words)

How will having Herpes affect my life?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5100 days ago

4 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i feel really disgusted in myself i was diagnosed with herpes 3 months ago and it was the most painful thing i've ever had. i've slept with two people in my adult life. it seems pretty unfair to catch herpes from oral sex with a long term partner :( my question is can i not ... (139 words)

Is there a way I can get him back in my life?

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4 January 2011 (M) age 30-35 - i am student of engineering,19 in age.when i took admission in the college i had a friend A whom i liked very much. he also liked me very much as a friend ,being a gay i had crush on me. but after some time a got some other guy B who liked me very much and after sometime we had ... (216 words)

When guys ask women about their sexual pasts, do they really want an honest answer?

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4 January 2011 (F) age 36-40 - This question seems like a no-brainer at first... who's going to say they DON'T want honesty? But then I read all the posts on here from people (mainly guys, it seems) who are insecure about what their partners have done before them, and with whom, and it makes me wonder what ... (114 words)

I've liked a man who is 20 years older than me. What do you think about my situation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

4 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've liked a man who is 20 years older than me for a while now. He always winks at me when he sees me and gives me a kiss, and he says that he loves me to bits. But he has also said that he is worried about the age gap, as some men that go in the club where we met, and were i ... (511 words)

My live-in boyfriend refuses to do nice things for me asks me to pay him each favour he does for me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5100 days ago

4 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - ok me and my boyfriend been together since 1998,we broke up for 2 years 2004 to 2007 he did he left. long story and i want answers for lots of things but my question today is why dont he want to do anything nice for me?? he got nothing for me this past christmas and he knows ... (461 words)

This girl keeps coming to me, then going back to the ex, again and again, why?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

4 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I need help LADIES please answer this one, as you're the only ones that can... So I've been dating this girl, who is conflicted about her ex, but since I was so persistent, I guess she gave me a chance perhaps as a payback to her ex. My question is this one here, would a woman ... (264 words)

Can anybody lend some insights?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5100 days ago

4 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Back story: Was in a marriage for 7 yrs and it ended a little over two years ago. Neither one of us was getting what we needed and we were each cheating (yeah, I suck). I fell hard for a co-worker and things didn't end up working out (I got dumped). So, ended up playing the ... (222 words)

My boyfriend sent emails professing his love to another woman but won't admit it to me! What should I tell him?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5100 days ago

4 January 2011 (F)

age - I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years and just recently noticed that he has become quite distant. I now have discovered that my boyfriend has been communicating with another woman, has sent her a Xmas Present, went to see her for a weekend and sent her emails saying how ... (101 words)

My sister-in-law gave my brother Herpes!

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4 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I put that in the title to get people's attention, cause I really need advice on this. I'm tired of the comments my sister-in-law makes about me to my brother, and I'm mad at him for letting her feel like she doesn't have to respect me. Our whole family knows that she gave ... (265 words)

Do you think a man who gets defensive is guilty?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

4 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Do you think a man who gets defensive is guilty? I have been seeing this guy for 8 weeks at first we saw one another 3 -4 times a week suddenly after xmas we slowed down. He seems to be busy or had a quiet weekend. I am not buying it. Something had to happen. Maybe found ... (240 words)

I know he is not good for me but I can't move on either!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5100 days ago

4 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - There is a guy, we met online a few years ago.I fell crazy in love with him, he said he loved me too and we would be together though I lived in Europe and he lived in Canada and we're from different cultures(he is a muslim). So after two years I went to see him in Canada, he ... (283 words)

Is she not interested or could there be a reason why she has not responded?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5100 days ago

4 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - So here goes, I met this girl and we talked on the phone last night. We talked for about 30 min and I thought everything went really well. Out of the blue she was like " I have to take this call, can I call you back." Of course I said yes. She said she wanted to come over and ... (200 words)

Should I apologize?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5100 days ago

4 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I had a best guy friend and I had a crush on him. We got into a huge fight. I said some pretty nasty things to him. He was messing with me, putting me down and ditching me. He wanted to apologize to me, but i wouldn't let him. For past few months, he tried to talk to me. In ... (112 words)

He is a lot younger than me ... I am stupid!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5100 days ago

4 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello I have a problem and I feel so stupid! I am 27 years old and have slept with a 19 year old! He was asking me for my number etc I kept telling him I was too old for him,(even though I was extremely attracted to him and he acts a lot older) he lied at first told me he wa... (165 words)

How can I tell her she needs to make her mind up without risking our chances of getting back together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5100 days ago

4 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Well me and my ex-girlfriend broke up may of last year 2010.We was together 8yrs got 2 kids and was wanting to marry each other.Not going to get into the reasons we split to keep it kinda short.I have done the no contact with her i have went out and all that and still kept the ... (182 words)

This is so confusing, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5100 days ago

4 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, So there's this guy, let's call him Joe. Joe and I met online, this summer, I found out he was in my school, so we chatted from time to time. We didn't become THAT close, but our relationship was OK one way or another. So well, I went to school this October and... (239 words)

Unsure about having sex for the first time....

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4 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - recently my boyfriend and i have talked about having sex, but just never had the chance and we are waiting on the right momment.. i am still not sure of it all to be honest with my self and he said to me ive always wanted to try it doggy style, i think we should do that on ... (78 words)

How do I just tell him enough is enough so I can move on with my life without him going totally insane?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5100 days ago

4 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf and I have been together for just under 3 years. Its been a turbulent relationship especially this last year. He lies most times, conceals his whereabouts, constant accusations and I am tired of defending who I am to him. He minimized his gambling addiction to me... (325 words)

Why do men play games... how long should I wait for a call or should I call him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5100 days ago

4 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Just wondering from a man's perpective... how long should a girl wait for a guy to call? I met this guy on Facebook and we have a lot of mutual friends.. actually, he went to my high school, so I'm sure we'd have tons in common. Anyway, we kept emailing back and forth and ... (521 words)

Why was it so easy for him to leave me and forget everything that happened?

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4 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear cupid.. My heart so heavy right now.. I have a boyfriend. Well, I don't know can I call him as "boyfriend" or not because actually we never meet in rel before. I have known him for about 2 years. We met on nimbuzz. And we decided to have a relationship since 1 year ago. I ... (494 words)

I lied about the number of people I slept with.....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

4 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I told my boyfriend at the beginning of my relationship,I had been with 3 people before him,sexually wise. He believed it. Sometime later into our relationship,he became my fiancé and we are together. He asked me how many people I have been with. I forgot my first lie so I said ... (132 words)

Does it mean that the girl is not important to him because he never gives her flowers?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

4 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I are together for 11 months now... and next month will be our first year anniversary together. He is a very boring person and hardly surprise me with things. AND HE NEVER GIVES ME FLOWERS BEFORE.... I am pretty bothered by that fact. Guys does it means th... (115 words)

Opinions from neutral parties needed...

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4 January 2011 (?) age 41-50 - So I guess i'm just looking for opinions, hopefully reassurance...My girlfriend and I had been together for 3.5 years. We always fought and argued and were short with eachother and fought in front of our friends. I don't remember when it started, but for a long time I was ... (322 words)

Is he subtly trying to tell me he's not interested?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

4 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - A friend of mine often brings up "why are people gossiping, there's nothing going on between us". We do spend a lot of time together chatting, several hours at a time. We've cut back on that cos it has engendered a lot of gossip and it's detrimental to his job (another iss... (240 words)

I want a baby but my boyfriend is not ready...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5100 days ago

4 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - This is my situation. I feel i am ready to have a baby now, my boyfriend of 3 1/2 years feels he is not. he wants to wait until he is 30. when he will 30, i'll be 33. i already have a 4 year old with an ex. i know i'm still young, but my biological clock is ticking, i will be ... (82 words)

Has anyone got any ideas for a fun first date thats disabled-friendly?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5100 days ago

4 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been talking to this girl on a dating site for a month now, and now we both want to meet. However, I have got Cerebral Palsy which means I am a bit wobbly at times. Has anyone got any ideas for a fun first date thats disabled-friendly?!... (51 words)

She jokingly said she might dump me, does this mean she doesn't love me?

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4 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm in a good relationship with my GF for the past 5 yrs, i love her so much to the extent that i can do anything to make her happy. Now she said i'm too harsh to her, because i do talk to her whenever she is doing something wrong especially if guys called her on phone. Today ... (93 words)

There is a chance my little girl may not be mine, how do I handle this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5065 days ago

4 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and me have been together for nearly 3 years and we have had our ups and downs but we always stay together because we love each other. We have just had a baby together and now it turns out that she slept with someone else around 9 months ago which means our ... (188 words)

How can I talk to him without making a fool of myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5100 days ago

4 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - its really a long story but im gonna make it short so i have a crush on a guy for almost a year and were both in college well i started to like him when i knew that he likes me but im just too shy to talk to him so... he tried so many times to talk to me and show me that he ... (365 words)

I like him but he is only 14, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5100 days ago

4 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Im in serious sentimental crisis haha for the same guy who everyone thinks likes me ..because i think i like him just a little bit too, but he's 14 and i'm 16 and other people think that , that small age gap counts and would make it look weird for us to wind up together.... i ... (76 words)

How long have you waited for a lover to come back?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5066 days ago

4 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I was recently dumped after a 3 month relationship and I was wondering how long some of you guys have waited for a lover to come back? Months, years? ... (31 words)

Two women and two daughters.....

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4 January 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I am a 37 year old man married for last 8 years; have a beautiful 6 year old daughter. Ours was a love marriage. 3 years before I met and fell in love with another woman and now we have a 5 month old daughter. The day i realized i am in love with another woman, which was 2 ... (157 words)

We got back together but I cant help but be annoyed by him all the time, even though he is a great guy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5100 days ago

4 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so this is a very long and complicated story, but here goes. I've been in a relationship with this guy for almost a year and a half now. We broke up for three months recently, I 'rebounded' with someone else (as did he) then realised the other guy wasn't right for... (626 words)

He doesn't want to work, but I want a man who can be an equal partner and contribute to the relationship. Who is right here?

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4 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been dating this guy and apart from a few dates at the beginning and the occasional petrol money we split all the bills for the outings about 50/50. He pays slightly more as I am looking for work and he is working. The thing is I don't feel that he is very supportive.... (334 words)

Are pimples a turn off?

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4 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Do guys get turned off a girl if they have pimples on there chest and back?... (16 words)

Does he really love me even though he is seeing another man and refuses to give him up?

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4 January 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, I have been in a [gay] relationship for the past 4 years. he is 34 and I am 41... We live together... Last September, my boyfriend told me that he had been seeing a guy for the past 15 months, every weekend, to fulfill one of his fantasies... Now, he says that h... (356 words)

What do guys want a girl's vagina to look like?

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4 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Do guys like the Inner lips of a girls vagina to be long or small and is it normal for mine to be around 2 inches when i stretch them out?... (31 words)

I don't know how much more I can take!

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4 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - hey all, i am in a really desperate situation with my relationship, i met my boyfriend 15 years ago and we got caught out with our daughter a happy mistake we had problems pretty much straight away, him going out getting drunk ignoring my calls and leading a pretty much single ... (410 words)

Is it ok to date two guys at the same time before being exclusive?

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4 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there. I've ended up in a situation where I'm dating two blokes, and have never done this before. They are both great guys, although one seems overly obsessed with sex (which we havn't had yet). It is still early days for both of them and they are both lovely. Just wanted to ... (76 words)

Girls reject me because I'm waiting till marriage for sex!

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4 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I a guy, just turned 32 last month, and I've never had sex. The thing is, I have a sex drive, and I want to have sex, but I'm the kind of person who does not want to have sex with just anyone; I only want to have sex with a woman I am truly and completely in love with. You ... (462 words)

Is it normal to be a little anxious at the beginning of a relationship?

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4 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, Last week my friends sister who i had asked out previously texted me a few times and eventually asked to meet up.She got a little emotional and eventually just told me that she had only turned me down because she was a little scared as she was only 6 months out of a 8 year... (462 words)

What a one way street!

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4 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - There is this girl i have been dating for the past 3months. We dated 5yrs ago as well for almost a year. Anyways, its funny how early on we have both expressed we love each other (soon i know but hey) she loves spending time with me, we have an excellent time when we are toge... (272 words)

Ladies if a guy lacks in looks but is dynamite in bed, would you still date him?

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4 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Girls, If you knew of a guy who was incredible in bed, TRULY amazing, like he could give you many intense amazing orgasms and could go for as long as you needed, would that make you start flirting with him and trying to get with him on that fact alone? My friend was telli... (120 words)

Is she trying to make a point that she's not the easy type of girl?

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4 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - So there's a girl that im a little into. I met her about 6 months ago and a while ago she was drunk and was all over me at a club ( making out with me and following me around). I was texting her the week before new year's eve to make plans for our crew and all and i always ... (295 words)

I feel like all he wants to do is make out with me!

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4 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've like this guy for almost 2 years in high school and we never dated or anything. But i just saw him again after a few years and now we've talked about our feelings back in high school. he said he was naive and he didn't know what he wanted and he was trying to kiss me ... (220 words)

I don't think my boyfriend wants to have sex anymore!

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4 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a question that is a little difficult to ask because I don't really know how to. My boyfriend and I have been having sex problems lately. Awhile back he told me he didn't want to have sex every night. He used to say he wanted to and could and would love to have sex every ... (754 words)

I told my close friend that I liked him and now I'm wondering if I was wrong?

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4 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been very close with this guy I met and we have been friends. He emphasized on the being friends until he recently told me he liked me and was attracted to me. Then a few days later, I told him I did like him too but that's about it. Don't know what to do next or what he ... (62 words)

Leo guy has Libra female confused

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4 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Recently got chatting to a british soldier deployed overseas. Seem to really click and have been chatting nearly every day for over a month. Have agreed to meet up when he is back from duty, which will be in a couple of months. Sometimes he is quite open when I ask him ques... (243 words)

After my ex cheated on me it has changed my whole outlook on life, how can I overcome this?

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4 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I was wondering how you can change the way you feel about something. For example i used to be an all around happy person that nothing ever bothered me i always looked at the positive points in every situation. When my ex girlfriend would say hurtfull things i would be upset a ... (338 words)

My boyfriend ignores me when I talk!

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4 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of one year ignores me. When I talk sometimes he just sits and says nothing. I am not asking for a long conversation, but even a "yeah" or "sure", I mean anything. It is extremely rude and driving me crazy. The other day I talked about a coworker who was going to ... (409 words)

He's too broken to fix!

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4 January 2011 (?) age 30-35 - Hey there again. I have another issue. So I've been with my guy for about 1 year and 7 months. I love him to pieces, but I'm not sure where this is going. [I'm 21 he's 29] 1.He continues to tell me that he is not interested in marriage but would go through with it to make ... (277 words)

My boyfriend dumped me because he knew I missed my ex!

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4 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - To make a long story short: a few months ago I was sooo hooked on my ex and my bf knew it and broke up with me because of my actions. I straightened out, stopped all contact with ex because I felt so miserable without my bf. I missed him so much that I barely could concentrate ... (193 words)

I'm never going to get laid!

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4 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - hey everyone! just looking for some advice on what i should do...ive been going out with my girlfriend for 8 months and she refuses to have sex with me, will not even do oral stuff with me. she says she loves me but im not sure how to go about this. she wont even talk dirty or ... (133 words)

My ex wants to be friends and is inviting me to her party!

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4 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - This may sound really random but me and my ex's have been done for a while. I just had the feeling that i was finally over her but i also have a felling that Im not because i see her every day. I don't know what to do about it and for some reason i still text her. She invited ... (223 words)

Helpful advice wanted on my FWB situation

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4 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am looking for some advice or suggestions on what I should do in my current situation with my Friends With Benefits guy. disclaimer: this is long! Last March I broke up with my bf of 4 years as we fell too much into the "just friends" category and although i loved h... (820 words)

My boyfriend thinks there's no such thing as making love!

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4 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, My boyfriend thinks sex and love are completely different entities and that theres no such thing as making love. The other day i asked him, what if i had sex with another man is it okay? he said, no coz i wouldnt be having sex. What kind of an answer is that? ... (57 words)

Did I deserve this treatment from her?

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4 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - this is a long story but to get the full effect and so i may get honest opinions u need to know the enitre story thanks for your help everybody so here it goes I met this girl on a camping trip and it had been awhile since my last relationship but I thought i learned a lot fr... (1655 words)

Whats going on here? Have I lost him forever??

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4 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - This guy and I were communicating on Skype as friends b/c we are Long distance. We've known each other for 4 years now since we met in person. We used to email before then we turned to Skype and he erased me from his contacts so I thought he cut-ted me off and I got really ... (181 words)

Why does he ask me out but never actually come through?

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4 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I can't figure this guy out and I don't know why I'm even bothering to do so. Normally I'm not this patient, if a guy shows signs of disinterest, then I move on. Which is fine, not everyone is going to fall in love with me. But with this guy, he asks me out, he says he wants... (165 words)

She texts her ex in the same manner as she texts me, but cant see that it really hurts me

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4 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I had a fight today and it was because I saw the text between her ex and her. I noticed that she texts him the same way she texts me. She calls him honey and baby from time to time, and something it goes as calling him sexy, adorable, and cute. In general, ... (527 words)

How can I get my ex and my best friend together without meddling too much?

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4 January 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - My best friend in the whole freaking world is being an idiot. :D I say that as affectionately as I can, though there is definitely an undertone of frustration. We are freshmans, and you know, highschool drama and all that. I broke up with Dana a while ago, and JP (my best... (343 words)

What does my ex want from me?

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4 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - What does it mean when your ex says she hates you and she tells you she haves a boyfriend but wont say his name. like this Saturday she call me 2 times and i didnt pick up the phone. she was mad because she said her son wanted to come over to my house and play with my kids. ... (89 words)

I am falling in love with my dead boyfriend's brother

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4 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I think I may be falling in love with my deceased father of my children / boyfriend's brother. It's been 2 months now and we have this connection where we both can't stand going a day with out speaking to eachother. He has been great with me and the kids. I have even thought ... (72 words)

My husband is paranoid I am cheating on him!

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4 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok ill make this as quick as possible. My husband is always thinking im cheating on him. I can't even go to the grosherie store without him going online to Verizon.com to see if I called anyone while I was gone. Also he's been blocking "how to catch a cheating wife" ... (195 words)

He says he loves me, yet wont discuss our problems!

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4 January 2011 (F)

age - why does my husband say he loves me more than anything in the world and yet does not want to discuss issues that hinder our relationship? ... (28 words)

Why is it said that you should hang out with people your own age?

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4 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - why do some people say that you should hang out with people your own age ?. I'm almost 27, but the men i have liked in the last few years have been between the ages of 39 and 47, and i hang out with some women who are in their thirties and forties too. I do have a few friends ... (183 words)

I'm constantly checking out women and I want to stop being so shallow!

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4 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello. I seem to have a problem. I have always followed and been under the influence of the notion: looking past the outside, for what's on the inside. But, here is the problem. I often find myself, checking out women constantly. All the time. Constantly. Sometimes I don't ev... (310 words)

He wants to work things out with me, but doesn't want to be 'official' as he wants to be single. What is going on?

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4 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So I recently asked for help about a breakup. My boyfriend of 6 months broke up with me because he wasn't sure what he wanted. He ended up going on a couple dates with another woman within a week of the breakup. Last week he finally realized he says, that he still loves me and ... (212 words)

How can I feel so deeply for someone that's been terrible to me?

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4 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay here's my problem. There's a boy that I think I'm in love with. I've always told myself that there's no way I could love him because you can't love somebody you can't trust and you can't love somebody that can't love you back. It's so confusing to me why I even still lik... (499 words)

I'm 18 and I've never had a boyfriend or been kissed.

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4 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 18 and I've never had a boyfriend or been kissed. I'm a high school senior. I'm not like the other girls. I like different music than the rest, I don't like going to the clubs, i like reading books.I am different. I can't help thinking that I'm missing an important part of ... (82 words)

Should I throw it all away and start over with something more creative or should I look for jobs that will use my legal training?

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4 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - This is not a relationship question, but I hope to get some opinions from you guys. I've been working as a lawyer for just over 3 years and have come to the realisation that I HATE it. I went to law school because I wanted a high paying, prestigious, etc job and I had the gr... (271 words)

Need help being more affectionate with new boyfriend

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4 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've posted asking for help previously already, just re posting because I need a bit more advice from the army of aunts ^^ Firstly, I've just started going out with a guy, he's my first boyfriend and I'm his first girlfriend, so naturally we're both pretty shy and unsure o... (136 words)

Is this all normal behavior during sex?

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4 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Im in a new relationship and recently had sex with this man for the first time, during the act he spoke out about what he was seeing ie youve opened your legs wide for me, he shouted out on 3 occasions while looking away "fuckoff" as if to someone else. He kept asking me to ... (98 words)

Should I go with the flow? Or is it over?

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4 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Go with the flow? Or is it over? I met a guy online in the summer. He lives out of town so we met a few times, most recently over the holidays while he was in town. I texted him on December 30th and told him that "I missed him" and he replied saying he "missed me als... (228 words)

We are 16, we have no money and have ran out of things to talk about! What can we do?

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4 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and five months. We have talked about everything and and now it seems like because of that we have nothing to talk about, i believe another person had ask a similar question to mine but some answers say "go out for dinner" ... (71 words)

Should I give it a try with him even though I've heard bad things from my friend?

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4 January 2011 (?) age 41-50 - I have had an infrequent casual sexual relationship with a friend of a friend. He is the platonic friend of my girlfriend. Lately, I get the sense that he might want to deepen the relationship with me. I am not opposed to this and at times I feel like giving it a try.... (401 words)

The dating scene seems to have changed since I was last in it

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4 January 2011 (M)

age - I'm trying to understand something since it looks like it may cause me a lot of pain in the future. I am now separated from my wife. It was a long term marriage (over 25 years) but with a lot of trials. In my state you have to be separated for at least a year before fili... (522 words)

Are my feelings justified?

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4 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello All, I am in need of some perspective due to an issue that's arisen lately in my relationship. First and foremost, I love this girl very deeply. It's very painful for me to write or talk about this, but I feel as though I need to vent it out the right way. ... (818 words)

How do I approach being 'friends with benefits' with her?

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4 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - This to me is a simple question, but first some back ground on the situation. I have a female friend, we are close friends, basically we tell each other problems and such, hang out and go out. We are friends and for me I am not really interested in her at the moment, I have ... (203 words)

How do I convince him of my love?

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4 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Basically, I think he is doubting my love for him, I think he is feeling insecure lately. I know that he has troubles with his parents fighting at home, he hasn't really told me much more. One of his good friends has recently gotten annoyed by him, she may have invited me to go ... (132 words)

Why does he throw my notes away and not mention them?

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4 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - So I live with my boyfriend and i try to leave him little notes before I go to work in the morning. The thing is he never says anything about them, EVER. Not once has he mentioned them or what i write in them. And what bugs me more is he throws them away. I don't know why this ... (152 words)

He didnt get me a Christmas present!

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4 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 months. I love him a lot and he says he feels the same way. For Christmas I got him a Wii, when I gave it to him it was before Christmas cause I was excited and didn't want to wait. He said that he didn't get me anything yet. Well ... (85 words)

I know I don't have a future with any of these guys, but they all like me and I don't know what to do!

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4 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ahh! Ive got myself into a right daft pickle. I know im fully to blame but i dont know what to do! I split up with my ex, my first true love, of 2 years, about 8/9 months back now. Ill admit it broke me, but i thought i was over him! I got close to a couple of guys soon after ... (370 words)

Should I be worried that I look a lot like his ex?

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4 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I just saw some photos of my boyfriend's ex on facebook and she looks a lot like me. So much so, that in 1 pic she looks EXACTLY like me - I can't even tell the difference! Does that seem really weird to you? I'm wondering if he cares so much for me simply because I remind him ... (196 words)

After we broke up we were still talking and everything seemed good, but then he told me to leave him alone! What happened?

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4 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so me and my ex dated for 5 months we aggreed to dump each other because i honestly have no clue,he..is a person that has problems with expressing his feelings,but when he sis they were always honest every time,anyways after we broke up we remained freinds,and it was weird ... (148 words)

Should I keep on ignoring my mother or try to be civil with her?

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4 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - my mother and i have a horrible relationship. we dont talk anymore, and when we visit family around the holidays we dont even look at each other or go in the same room as each other. we stopped talking because she kicked me out because of one of her boyfriends she was livin... (105 words)

In love with a bad boy: Should I give him more time to change or am I being too caring?

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4 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright so, I figured I'd try a website like this out so I could get the opinions of people that arent biased. I've been dating this guy for almost 3 months now, and makes me happy, He's an overall good boyfriend, and never ceases to try to make me happy when we're together. ... (380 words)

I feel like my marriage is doomed!

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4 January 2011 (F)

- I feel like my marriage is doomed! My husband has always had a "strong" personality but since our wedding 2 months ago he has been horrible. I can be in a perfectly calm, happy mood and never know what's going to set him off and get him yelling at me over trivial things. It's ... (433 words)

Am I unlucky in love?

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4 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - here is a list of my exes.. tell me what you think.. (most recent first) just wanted a FWB ex-girlfriend and mother of kid cheated on him and it left him an emotional mess. I met him only a few weeks after she had dumped him for her other man, but he pursued a relationshi... (423 words)

What did I do that caused this?

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4 January 2011 (?) age 41-50 - I need some advice, on how I contributed to this problematic relationship. The first 2 years were fine, but the last year that we moved in together was complete hell. She was always very insecure and would accuse me of being interested in other woman. She would go through... (480 words)

How can I persuade my parents to let us in my room during the day?

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4 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 14 years old, and my boyfriend is 17. We've been together for about 2 months, he isn't one of these older boys who are just after sex or anything, he is a really decent lad. I persuaded my mum and dad to let him sleep round at the weekend. They said he has to sleep ... (141 words)

Is this girl evil?

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4 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I recently got into a fight with a girl I know about what she does. Basically, she sleeps with men for money and she leads others on by pretending she is interested in them. She sort of is, but when they get too close she pulls back----but only after she gets meals, and money ... (156 words)

Why is it that I feel like I should be with my ex even though I know it would be a bad thing to do?

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4 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so i have an ex boyfriend. We have been together for almost 3 years. we have been talking since March 20,2008. In the beginning things were so good, which is what made me fall in love with him..but sooner than later things slowly starting falling apart. Every relationship ... (188 words)

My sex drive has gone into overdrive, is this normal?

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4 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hi guys! :) not really relationship problems but i deffinately think i have a problem! when i first got with my boyfriend about 18 months ago id been in previous relationships, so had he, we'd both had a few sexual partners, nothing out of the ordinary.. we started sleeping ... (309 words)

I know he's going to hurt me again, but I cant let go.

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4 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Well... I've always been really closed with my emotions and never let myself fall for anybody properly in case I lose them. Around half a year ago, I met this boy and although I knew it would be more than likely that he'd turn out to be really bad news because of his track ... (415 words)