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Why does my bf lie about things that are so small?

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Question - (14 January 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 14 January 2011)
A female United States age 36-40, *oveStruck22 writes:

My boyfriend of a year keeps lying to me. He recently told me that he cancel his hotmail account because his not wanting to do anything with his friends. But here is where it get a little foggy. He told me he created a gmail account. (i know it takes 270 days for a hotmail account to deactivate)So tonight we were speaking on the phone and he told me someone tried to hack into his email so he sent it to his recovery email which is the hotmail he deactivated. When I ask him "didnt you delete" he took a long pause.....stuttered then said he doesnt know why he put that email address. So i tried talking to him and explaining to him it doesnt make sense to me....he starts crying and saying why i dont believe him and sometimes he does stupid shit. Then he tries to flip it on me and says "I cant talk to you right now" So i told him noooo when u are ready to tell me the truth u call me. Whys is he lying about something sooooooooo small...and this was our fresh new start ughhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh...now im nervous cause i dont wanna go back not trusting him

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A female reader, LoveStruck22 United States +, writes (14 January 2011):

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LoveStruck22 agony auntomg!! now he's angry at me saying he needs time to think and how i did this to get back at him when he's the one who lied!!!! He told me he does stupid things...Like wth!!! does he have no respect for me....Now he's angry at me...he's making matters worst for me because when i ask him things lately is "he doesnt know" and that's what he said ughhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh...he needs to grow up!!!

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A female reader, nadea23 Malaysia +, writes (14 January 2011):

i think men tends to lie something that so small because they dont want us to be hurting. my boyfriend also do the same things. here, i tell u the story..i know that my boyfriend was using two handphone. and then he said the he left the one of his handphone at his hometown. and one evening, i asked him to send me MMS picture of him..and then i saw there's was another handphone beside him (i think he didnt notice that the other phone was left beside him).so, i know he lied. and i purposely i asked him again where's another phone, and he said the same things that he left on his hometown.in fact, i saw the another phone beside him. and i really mad at him. and i said why u should lie whereas u can tell me the truth. his reason was he dont want me to be hurting !!!

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