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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:So me and my ex broke up about two weeks ago. we had a two year relationship so after we stopped arguing i suggested we meet in person to sort things out.but i need advice on what to say. i want to him to trust me and stop being so jealous..to stop ttrying to make me jealous by flirting with chicks...to control his female friends flirtacious..behavior..i want to go on more dates..but when i say these things we have a argument..how can i say this without us screaming at eachother? i just need some tips
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reader, sammi star  +, writes (14 January 2011):
 If you can't even speak to each other face to face without having a screaming argument then why are you trying to get back together?
I guess you're going to try anyway though so I'd say write it all down in a letter and take it along with you. If things become confrontational then tell him you don't want to argue, give him the letter and then leave. Contact him when he's had a chance to read the letter.
Oh and also, there's no way he can control other girls flirtatious behaviour! The best he can do is not respond but he's not in control of these other girls is he.
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