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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Sex is getting to be a pain in the rear!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

18 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok I am so confused. I have had a total of 3 long term relationships in my 20 years of dating. 2 of my Xs are still dear friends and each has moved on. I have been in my current relationship with a much younger man for about 6 months now. It has not been easy and yet it just ... (269 words)

How can I reach 177cm tall?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

18 January 2011 (M) age 30-35 - Hi! I am 17 and only 168 cm tall. From young, I am the shortest in the class and in military band. All my friends are just taller and bigger than me. I feel left out when we do sports or hanging out. My family include my uncles and aunts are relatively shorter than me. I kn... (102 words)

I lied and told my boyfriend I was the same age as him, but the gig is up when we celebrate our birthdays!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

18 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - So I've done something stupid and need your advice on how to fix it...I've been with my bf for 3 months, he's amazing and I am falling for him. Now, the problem is that I told him I'm 29, but I'm actually 30 (he's 29). I didn't intentionally lie, I always seem to forget my ... (225 words)

Do I stand my ground? She wants an open relationship, but I want none of that

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

18 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - This is going to be a bit long, so I apologise. I am 22, and have never been fantastic with girls, and met my first (and current) girlfriend about 9 months ago. I had previously just come out of a failed attempt at a relationship that had left me extrememly depressed and ... (1184 words)

If he was looking for a one night stand, why did he ask me out?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

18 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So I met a guy in a club last week, we really hit it off. He lost his phone while we were out, and so lost his friends and couldn't find them. I let him come back to my flat as I felt he was stranded (something I have never done before), we ended up having amazing sex until ... (207 words)

I don't catch any attention from guys!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

18 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - There's been something that's been unnerving me for some time. I get told that I'm pretty, and funny, and a catch, yet I still don't get any attention from guys. I'm coming to the conclusion that those might just be pity lines thrown my way. The question I've been asking myse... (226 words)

I'm thinking I wasn't the only guy she slept with when we started dating!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

18 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - My Dilemma: When I started dating my girlfriend, she told me that she didnt sleep with more than one guy at a time..... well, it took me 2 months to actually have sex!! I thought she was worth it... Now i know im stupid for doing this, she left her fb acct open ... (216 words)

What's the best way to come out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

18 January 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi, i started to hav fellings for boys about 2 years ago and since then i cant seem to shake them from mi mind however i still lIke girls but i think i hav more feelings and sexual atraction for boys. Im 15 almost 16! Also there is one paticular boy i like ( we are good fri... (108 words)

I want to celebrate our 9 month anniversary, but I have a family obligation that same day!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

18 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey! Me and my boyfriend are goin out 9 months next week and i want it to be really special, we've organized a few things aswell. Its just my mam wants me to go to my cousins confirmation on the same day!:( . How can i tell her that i cant go? She's lettin me go to ... (152 words)

I surely like my best friend's uncle!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

18 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My Best Friends uncle is very handsome but he's 7 years older than me. On New Year's, we'd had a drink and shared a kiss. We now talk from time to time over text and he puts kisses and calls me beautiful and speaks fondly of me. Does this mean he likes me? Because I surely like ... (58 words)

How do I stop myself from regretting losing my virginity after its done?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5067 days ago

18 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So i've met this guy. it was through a friend of a friend and we met only briefly but i have him as a friend on facebook. So we began talking and the conversation quickly became sexual. We swapped numbers and have continued this to and fro-ing of talking, mainly about sex. He ... (243 words)

Is there always worry and heartache in relationships?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

18 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in a relationship at the moment and it is such HARD WORK. The fear he will cheat on me, the jealously of his ex girlfriends is always in my head. When he says something that hurts me. It really is torture. Being in love with someone is just really heartbreaking. Part of me ... (117 words)

He fathered a child to another woman

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

18 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been in a wonderful new relationship for 3 months with someone i have known for many years and we were best friends, we didnt get it together before because of past relationships we were in. We just found out a girl he had a one nighter with before we got together has... (301 words)

He tells alot of half truths

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5086 days ago

18 January 2011 (F) age 41-50 - im in love with my good male friend but i dont know how he feels. i met him in oct 2009 and we worked together for the last 18 months. i dont know what it is but he made me feel good about myself. i had come out of a really bad relationship the year before and was extremely ... (205 words)

I'm shy but want to tease my boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

18 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, Not asking for like real explicit stuff, don't wanna get banned haha, just a few ideas would be great. Basically, sometimes my boyfriend will finger me but first he will 'tease' me. All it is really is him well rubbing me over my clothes before he does it, and n... (110 words)

Guy at my girlfriend's work troubles me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

18 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - This guy at my gfs work seems to go the extra mile for her always. If she needs something doing he'll do it before his other tasks, he helps her when she is puzzled at her work and by the sounds of it he comes over to talk to her a lot. I know she loves me and me alone and she ... (82 words)

26 year old man 18 year old female... WRONG ?????

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

18 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - 26yr old Male, interested in 18yr old female O.k. so their is this very cute girl who works at a local coffee shop, I have been interested in her for some time now. She beat me to the punch, by friending me of Facebook. We have been talking for a couple of days now, we hav... (215 words)

Are we going to be more than just friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5086 days ago

18 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello Agony Aunts! I am driving myself mental and need some advice. There is a particular girl I am interested in, we have been chatting, seemingly having fun (its still online only so I can't tell body language), but I am sick of just having fun. I want to put it all out t... (76 words)

Do I go for broke and tell her how I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5086 days ago

18 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm in a situation that is really frustrating me. I'm a mature student who has returned to education and I'm currently at university. My problem is like this. I attend a tutorial class once a week where a post-grad student tutors us. Well the first time I saw my tutor, ... (167 words)

My fiance walked out on me over a disagreement?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

18 January 2011 (F)

age - my fiance just walked out on me because I don't agree with him only paying 300 month in work trade after we are married. I own my house (1000 plus utility's) and he would have no right's to my estate. He also said I would have to pay him money if he worked over the 300. It just ... (71 words)

He ended the relationship because he doesn't want to waste my time!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

18 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my partner for almost two year, really happy, believe he is the one for me. But unfortunately he doesn't know if he wants to get married or have children, and doesn't want to wast my time as he knows that is what I want. He ended the relationship saying he ... (103 words)

Is my online friend more than just a friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

18 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, I'll try to be succinct! I'm learning Italian and I met an italian online many months ago through a Language Exchange Website who wanted to improve his english, so we have been engaged in a 'tandem' language exchange since the end of september (so nearly 3 1/2 months). W... (386 words)

I want to propose to my girlfriend but I think I cheated on her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

18 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I met my now girlfriend over a year ago. I am thinking about proposing here in the next few months. We met on a Friday night, hung out, ended up kissing at the end of the night and exchanged phone numbers. The following night after we met, I ended up meeting some friends ... (448 words)

Boyfriend is not the charming little prince that I thought he was

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5086 days ago

18 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I found my BF of almost 2 years lying about having a crush on a common friend before we started dating.I also found him lying about small stuff, nothing big, nothing about cheating. We are in a LDR and we were planning of living together in around 2 years. I now feel I dont ... (164 words)

I've run out of topics for discussion!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5086 days ago

18 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - i really like this girl at college and we have been speaking quite alot in person and on facebook. But sometimes i get to a point where i can't think of what to say. I don't want her to think i'm weired or anything but what kind of things should i ask her to talk about? Beca... (68 words)

Every time I push him away he comes back for more!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

18 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I got a problem basically there has been some guy who been wanting to go out with me for a year now. He wont leave me alone the problem is I do like him but I am scared to let my heart go because I have trust issues. He knows about this and however much I push him away he ... (80 words)

Should I try to start this relationship or wait until we can be around each other?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

18 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So here it is guys. I have been talking over the phone with this guy for a few years now and I have just recently realized how much I care about him but what can I do? we live 5 1/2 hours away from each other and to top it off I've never seen him in flesh! Should I try to start ... (76 words)

Why cant I move on? What's wrong with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

18 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - why can't i move on?? im still not over our breakup we had in 2004 to 2007.. he tells me that we are gona be together forever and he said aren't you happy you could never get me to say that before.. true he never said that before during our time together 1998 to 2004 he could ... (400 words)

This girl is hitting on me and I need more time, what should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

18 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I don't know, to be honest I have no idea at all what I'm thinking. You see there was this girl hitting on me in the campus, she started with a little chit chat on facebook then advance to text messages from the number she got from my friend. But the problem is we barely kno... (366 words)

He never has been interested in sex with me, but he cheated on me and had a week of mad sex with his ex!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

18 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - hi my boyfriend of 20 months has never realy had much interest in sex with me or anyone else. so he says ,he said pasionate kissing is only for kids,although he is very cuddly and always pecks me thats it, i found out 6 months ago he had a week of mad sex with his ex why i wa... (159 words)

Why did my boyfriend get so mad last night?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

18 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - why did my boyfriend get so mad last night?? maybe because its not true or its true... we dated since 1998 and i want to know why we aren't married.. so i was reading 25 ways to know hes not that into you and he got almost all of them. i let him know about the last one i read ... (141 words)

My love won't even hold my hand!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5086 days ago

18 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi to everyone! my agony is somewhat simple here it is: I had past love that was very painful to me because I give everything I can give, love care and everything that makes him happy and so we break for a reason, and after 1 month of break then many guys offered me love,the... (175 words)

How to stop the vicious cycle of a sexless marriage?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

18 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I've read article after article of women who have husbands that are no longer sexually interested in them. I am in the same boat. The details of my situation can be spared because they will only make us sad. I just want to know what happens next? Is it worth staying in a ... (200 words)

Our sex life isn't what it should be!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

18 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - im 25 and my bf is 39 so far we have a good relantionship but im concern about our sex life hes sex drive isnt where i would like it to be i wanted to know do men at that age not geet in the mood to have sex as much...and how can i get hem to want to have more sex with me.? my... (91 words)

I cannot find love! Is this only me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

18 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I can not find love, Is this Only me? i was in love very much with someone 10yrs ago, but he said me cant be together with me. After that.. for 8yrs i met many guys but never feel something special for them.. 2yrs ago i met a guy, he likes me so im in relationship with him... (123 words)

Have you ever had to make up your mind? Did you ever have to finally decide?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

18 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Here is my problem, Agony Aunts: I am in a relationship where I am between a rock and a hard place. There are things I like about the girl (her looks, her sweetness, her intelligence, the thrill I get when I see her) and things that I can't stand (she is untrustworthy, manipula... (183 words)

Why does he let me think we have a chance to make something happen and then nothing happens?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

18 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've got a friend who is from a family that my own is very close to, we have grown up together. But I've seen this alot that people who grow up as close friends but aren't related tend to develop feeling for one another. I first recognised I had these feelings about 10 years ag... (317 words)

I found out everything he told me about his finances is a lie!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

18 January 2011 (F)

age - I was married in August, to a man I knew when I was a teenager...He is 21 years in the military, and I thought his word was solid... We have only lived together for a month and a half because he was sent on an 8 week mission shortly after the wedding... We lived in two dif... (453 words)

How do I deal with my girlfriend's irrational behavior?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

18 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Yesterday my girlfriend and I had another fight and she provoqued me by saying she had no money to buy the plane ticket so I should be the one doing it. I did it. When she saw I could do it she started to play victim saying that she didn't want to go. This morning she prepared ... (1030 words)

I'm at my wits end about my husband's mate who comes to my place at 6pm and they play xbox till 7 am!!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

18 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, im hoping someone will help me. me and my husband have a 1year old baby. my husband has lost alot of friends since we got together, mainly due to jealousy. He only has one mate now. They are quiet close and his mate *steve comes round every friday night to chill and play... (310 words)

Mom, it's all about her!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

18 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guys again! Ive been struggling a little with something and I just wanted to get some more brainpower at work on this, maybe you lovely aunts can help me out again. I’ve come to realize I really don’t much like my mother. She’s manipulative and sneaky in ways that people... (336 words)

Am I falling for him? Is it too soon?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

18 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been in a new relationship for 4 days now, i have been in so much pain with fallin in love because of my past, but when im around my bf i just dont care about anything else and when he holds me and kisses me he doesnt want to let go and nor do i he treats me like i want ... (109 words)

What shall I do when my wife spends the last night here with her male "friend"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

18 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife is going to another country tomorrow for a couple of months. Normally we don't spend much time together because of her job. I stronglly expected we will have a good romantic night today. I told her we will go for dinner tonight, she agreed though hesitantlly. Now it is ... (199 words)

She wouldn't remove this ex from her facebook!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

18 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - my fiance has had a threesome about 10 years ago, the guys is still on her facebook, i feel terrible to look at his pics, when i asked her to remove him, she said that it would not solve the problem, all i wanted to hear is yes, right now this is really bothering me, and i ... (68 words)

What is the easiest way to talk to him without going directly to him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

18 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I want to know what the way and how to start talking with a boy that just live behind my house instead of going directly suggest any other way of talking with him. I haven't talk with that boy ever before and i really want to talk because i love that boy.please suggest the ... (124 words)

What is wrong with him, if he wants me back, why does he keep doing this stuff in my house?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

18 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Maybe I'm crazy, but I always thought there was an unwritten rule that its wrong to get with one of your ex's friends. My boyfriend and I have been broken up officially for almost a year, but after six months we got back together and were seeing each other again, just not ... (256 words)

Is he sincere with me? Should I wait for him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

18 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - i am on date with a guy thought by dating internet, we both keep on touch around 2 years, but we never meet in real, 2 years before, he plan visit me, wanted to meet in real to start a relationship with me, but the time I am not yet ready to start relationship with him, ... (593 words)

My guy friend cut me out of his life but I just cant stop thinking about him!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

18 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - i still missing my guy friend. He always said I was his best close friend, but after he fell in love to one of our friend, he cut me off completely, from facebook to MSN. He told me he wasn't pushing me away, just between us need distance. All my friends (actually really a ... (131 words)

Boyfriend seems to need something else from his ex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

18 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have a great relationship. We are both very affectionate, our sex life is great, we stimulate each other mentally and physically and we both have outside interests, we're also very well matched in our interests, our sense of humour etc and we have never had ... (699 words)

Should we go out just as friends or should I move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

18 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I met a girl who I really liked a few months ago, through some friends. I got chatting and walked her home. I got her number and a couple of days later I texted her to asked if she wanted to go for a coffee. She said yes and we arranged a date. Meanwhile, we went out clubbing ... (477 words)

Am I just demanding too much from her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

18 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - In April, my fiancee and I will finally travel to Australia to marry. She is Chinese. My time here in China has been OK. But, there is something which is seriously pushing me away. She hasn't done her overseas work for about 6 months which is fine. We used to spend a fair bit... (370 words)

Husband had sex with prostitute while on business trip and I can't get over it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

18 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - We have been married for 8 years now and were courting for almost 4 years before marriage. Everything was going great and we have had a very satisfying and fulfilling relationship. We understood each other perfectly and cared for each other. Until one day when my husband told ... (436 words)

He actually looks sincere but I know he's lying!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

18 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I love my bf to bits. We were best friends before, so I know he has a habit of falling for his friends. I still gave in and we been dating for almost 2 years. When we were friends I saw one of our friends flirting with him, and I asked him--he said he disliked it and ... (321 words)

I fall in love too quickly

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

18 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I wonder if anyone has got any tips to help me deal with this problem - I fall in love way too easy. The result of which is I give too much of myself, have sex with them before I have gotten to know them properly, ignore their bad qualities, problems and baggage because I am ... (266 words)

My boyfriend cut us up because he messed about and that's put me in harm's way?????

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

18 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm really hoping I get a lot of answers cause I need all I can get. My boyfriend bailed out last weekend. He wouldn't tell me what caused him to break us off. He wasn't mean sbout, if anything looked like he was in a dar place. He just keeping assuring me he decided for my ... (146 words)

My GF has had more sexual encounters than me...and it makes me feel like Iv missed out on stuff

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

18 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Basically im in university and have fallen in love with a beautiful girl. However she was only the second girl I ever slept with. I was her 5th. Now i do not have a problem with her sleeping with more than me as it opened my mind to girls are just like boys and enjoy sex. ... (108 words)

Should I risk a possible awkward situation and tell her how I feel? What if she doesn't reciprocate??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

18 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Ive suddenly fallen for this girl i know, our families are very close and are always visiting each other, she has just recently come back from up north were she has been working, she is back for a few months we have been hanging out quite alot lately, and over the past few days ... (141 words)

I'm really in love with him but don't want him to put his hands on me in anger again

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

18 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - ok me and my husband have been together for 5yrs now we have a daughter and everythang..will he has slapped me choked me and throw me cross the room,an not only throw me a cross the room but im late on my period like 2weeks late so i mite be pregnant again with hes 2end child,i ... (155 words)

Would it be strange to expect it to just start up in the summer where it left off?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5086 days ago

18 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have always had this tiny crush on this boy 2 years ahead of me. This has been for at least 4 or 5 years - he was my friend's brother's friend. It never really meant anything to me, I just always admired him. As we all got older, our social circles crossed paths more and ... (551 words)

First boyfriend dilemma.....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5086 days ago

18 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - This is quite a long story, but basicly, I have never had a boyfriend and really want one. There is this boy I like but he's really popular but I'm just a nobody. Plus I am really short so we might look a bit awkward together. I would talk to him but he's always messing with ... (181 words)

Why doesn't my girlfriend want to tell me if she's a virgin or not?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

18 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello. I have been dating this girl for almost a month already. I usually spend at least 1 day a week with her because we both go to different schools. I can tell she feels the same way I feel about her. She has told me before that she has had several relationships with o... (205 words)

What makes a man emotionally attached to a woman?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

18 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - For the first time ever, I swallowed! Will this make a man appreciate you more? Not that I did it for that reason, but just wondering since I heard that if a female squirts she can become so attached to him. I did this because 1) I like givin my bf bj's and 2)because he had ... (160 words)

Losing my hair at 17, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

18 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Unfortunately i am one of those people who start losing their hair already at a young age and i am not panicking around ,i already accepted the fact, and i know what i am going to do. So i will get a buzz cut or get bald completely. There are just a few important things i worry ... (192 words)

Boyfriend prefers cyber sex to me, Emotionally detatched

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

18 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - So I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half. I am 22, he is 29 and this is his first real relationship, I am basically his first real love. When we first got together I was going through some medical issues and couldn't have sex for the first 2 weeks we were ... (1596 words)

Does breaking up and getting back together again actually work out for anyone??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5086 days ago

18 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello guys, i broke up with my bf of a year 2 months ago ..the reason why we broke up, he hurt me several times by his words and i caught his flirty messages to girls on fb and he cursed me because he lost his control. Then i broke up! Since we broke up, he always texted me and ... (282 words)

Away boyfriend is convinced other guys hit on me when that's not the case!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

18 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is a Marine and gets extremely jealous even at the thought of another guy flirting with me. We are many states apart and I obviously have the occasional worry of girls hitting on him. However, he takes it to another level. He is convinced that many guys hit on me ... (157 words)

Never dated or asked a guy out...but I like someone and don't know where to go from here...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5086 days ago

18 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - There is a guy that I've liked for a little while now and I'm not sure how to find out if he might feel the same way. It's not in my nature to just ask him directly, although I'm sure that would be the easiest way to know for sure, but I don't know if maybe he is waiting for ... (141 words)

My BF is overly jealous and I really don't know what to do about this!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

18 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Please give me advice.. I have a boyfriend. He is a very very jealous man. He never allows me to attend my friend's birthday party or any party in my college because he said there will be many handsome guys there. He also calls me many times in a day. He even usually wants to... (200 words)

He thinks I'm the one, but I'm not so sure if he's the one.

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18 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for about 3 1/2 months now. I had only known him for slightly less than 2 months before we started dating. I'm pretty sure he was saying he loved me from the very beginning. I held out for a while in saying it but then I finally gave in because I ... (236 words)

Sick of being gay...is there any way I can be straight??

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18 January 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm tired of being gay, and I just can't take it anymore. It's going to kill me. I'd do absolutly anything to be straight. (or atleast like girls more than guys) Well, I just don't find gay men very attractive, in fact, if they seem too fruity, it almost annoys me.. not trying ... (84 words)

How long should I wait?

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18 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been trying to make this lady have a date with me and after 5 months of trying she agrees. I kept calling and texting her but I eventually felt am pushing a door that can't open. In December 2010, I called her told her I like her and I started calling her again... ... (212 words)

Should I put myself out there or take myself out of the game?

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18 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel really lonly latly. I've always been the relationship typ ever since I was yung. The longest I went single was a year and I was about 19 to 20 and it didn't bother me then because I always had a lot of male attention. But I love being with someone. And now that I'm ... (257 words)

He's the one who cheated so why is he blaming me for the marriage problems?

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18 January 2011 (?) age 51-59 - My husband cheated on me 4 years ago yes when we fought I brought up the affairs...the one I caught him see he was on a dating site and met several women....I have been on here asking for advice..about this..now that he up and left because again I caught him on the computer ... (133 words)

Guys!! Help! My guy prefers porn and his xbox to real sex... what can I do?

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18 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, so my b/f and I have not had sex for a month now. I'm 5.5 months pregnant- but I'm not overweight. I've gained 10lbs and am at 130. The first trimester sex wasn't really something that I felt good about, being nauseous, etc., but now my hormones are in full reverse swing! ... (295 words)

How can I overcome this lack of balance between love and sex in my relationship?

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18 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been dating my girlfriend for about two years now, we are both 20 years old. As far as our relationship goes, things could not be better! We both genuinely love each other with our whole hearts. She frequently talks about how she wants to get married and how I'm the love ... (457 words)

Kissing and Hugging vs. Sex

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18 January 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Here's a dilemma, guys are suppose to be all about sex but the weird thing is, I love kissing, hugging, making out as much now that I am 40 as I did as a teenager, it never abated. Aren't guys suppose to be sexually driven? However, I would rather make out more than ... (73 words)

I'm not physically attracted to my mate

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18 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Not physically attracted to my significant other, but not sure what to do. I love her in other ways. What do I do?... (23 words)

Does he like me or was I just used ?

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18 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, so this is a bit of background: ive known this guy for about a year now hes a bit shy and has been known to be a player. we have mutual friends however dont see each other that often anymore. Me and him flirt when we see each other and have slept together numerous times, r... (235 words)

Should I take a risk with my old friend....we both have our reservations, but should we go for it?

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18 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't know what to do! I ran into a old friend from highschool whom I haven't seen in 14 years, whom I always was secretly seriously attracted to. We chatted away that night and realized that we each went through pretty rough divorces in the past 2 years. He asked me out that ... (187 words)

Married and Stupid...............

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18 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I am 40 Years old. My 15 Year Marriage was stable due to one son we share together. He cheated on me only after one year of marriage. 13 Years later I fell into a relationship with a single man. Deeply loved him and had future plans of spending the rest of my life with him. We ... (258 words)

Is waiting worth it to a woman?

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18 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I am also the authority of an other article '22 Year Old Virgin: Weak or Responsible'and this will be my second article on the subject matter. I am struggling with the issue of virginity. Because I am a very disciplined individual as my previous article suggests I had ... (289 words)

He's completely clueless that I think I love him

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18 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Can someone help me? I think I'm in love with this totally amazing guy, but he's completely clueless, and he has a girlfriend, so I don't want him to know. But its been killing me lately. He started distancing himself from me, stopped texting me, tellin me hi in the halls, etc. ... (153 words)

Are all men this emotionally frigid?

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18 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Are all men this emotionally frigid? I wrote my boyfriend of 3 years a heartfelt letter detailing my doubts about our relationship. I’ve recently moved in with him (and his siblings) and things don’t seem to be working for me, due to a redundancy, light depression and g... (376 words)

Imitation isint always the best form of flattery....my friend copies my every move, behaves silly and its completely pissing me off!

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18 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My bestfriend always feels the need to judge the boys I hook up with , before we hook up she thinks their sexy but afterwards she says they're ugly. But she trys to get with them as soon as I do even after she calls them ugly. She's done it many times before and she still doing ... (195 words)

Sometimes he shows signs that he likes me, but other times there is nothing

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18 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I really like this guy in school. We used to talk at the beginning of the year online and he would say hi to me in the hallways. But now, he never comes online and just ignores me in school. But, everytime I look at him he is looking at me. I'm getting mixed feelings from him. ... (83 words)

He talked to me about having sex with other girls but I thought it was just a joke...it wasn't

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18 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating a guy for about 4 months and I have been spending the night almost every night for about 3.5... He has always been hesitant to call himself my boyfriend, but I let it go because he was always so nice to me. He took care of me when I was sick, helped me though ... (249 words)

How do you get rid of a video on youtube that someone else uploaded?

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18 January 2011 (M) age 51-59 - Does anybody knows how to get rid off a video , what someone else uploaded on you tube? I made this short movie long time ago, (not porn,or anything bad, just old friends )and it is disturbing me that someone uploaded it. I dont need the attention from 25 years ago friends.... (94 words)

Help! I'm too clingy!

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18 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I joined this forum because I need help and support. I reunited with my long lost love last November after a 15 year separation. The trouble is I have been having a lot of problems with insecurities and neediness. I have had this issue all my life and it has damaged my ... (242 words)

Dating my ex's friend should I or dont?

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18 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - hello thanks for reading, well it starts like this, i use to go out with this guy 3 years ago we broke up 3 months later. this year i started going out with one of his friends, and my ex's best friends girlfriend is being a bitch and saying that i shouldnt go out with him ... (129 words)

I was a compulsive liar to hold onto his love. I must come clean to him.

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18 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - hi aunts created a mess that's spiraled out of control over a man my brother set me up with on a blind date a year and a half ago when i spent a weekend out of state with his family.it's a long story so i'll try to keep it short.her it is:our chemistry was immediate.E made no ... (504 words)

Should I confront this? A man's patience can only last so long. I feel unwanted.

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18 January 2011 (M)

age - Hi I am 47 years old, in reasonable good shape, as is my partener of 46, whom I adore. But the problem is this she been rejecting my advances, for nearly a year now. But she does still seem to enjoy making love, about 3 times a month. She says it is not me, but her, and that... (117 words)

What can I do? I'm overwhelmed because my family and I are beset with problems

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18 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am having a very hard time now. My sister is really sick. She lost her job because of her her disease. My mother has a depression problems. They are living together. I am getting a divorce and am separated of my husband and living overseas. I feel so sad and miserable. ... (254 words)

How to talk to him? Or get him to notice me? Or get over my mad feelings for him?

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18 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i feel so empty, knowing that he does not have feelings for me. I haven't asked him out front, but it's obvious in his actions that he doesn't really know i exist. It started out he'd see me, and smile. Or try and talk, but i never took action. I never stepped up and spoke to h... (191 words)

He blames me for everything. Puts me down. I really love him. But what am I supposed to do about HIS behavior?

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18 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a 36 year old gay bloke who has been with my partner for over 18 months. In november my partner moved to be near my family and i moved into the house with him. Ever since we have been together he can get moody, and when in a bad mood will put me down in front of people. ... (474 words)

How do I handle my feelings over my friend's actions? She is having a very public affair with a married man.

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18 January 2011 (F)

age - A work friend is having an affair. She is 45 he is 52. When she first started seeing him she quietly told me he was married that he was just a bit of fun but asked me to keep it Hush Hush. Over the past few months she has openly discussed what they do, people at work see him ... (206 words)

Something's wrong. All the signs are there that she's cheating. What can I do

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18 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I think my girlfriend is cheating. i've been going out with her for just over seven months now. We have only been out on a proper date once, and I only slept with her once. But that's not the main reason i think she's cheating. She was texting another man a few months ago, ... (176 words)

How can a man reject his baby daughter for his new GF? Is this just a phase? He says our baby will ruin his new relationship.

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18 January 2011 (F) age 36-40 - how can a man reject his child for another women? We were together over 6 years and i fell pregant. Soon as he heard, he did a runner. Three months later he's in a serious relationship with another girl. They are going abroad together. His child was born, but he want's nothing ... (142 words)

Hand job techniques?

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18 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hand job techniques? This will sound really stupid. But i don't have an older sibling to help me with this. Any ideas on hand job techniques?? ... (31 words)

Is it possible to decide which is more important: personality? Or who the person really is?

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18 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I was just wondering, if you ever had to choose between personality and who the person is, what is more important in a relationship? Like what I mean by who the person is: -They play sports, can bake / cook, is very artistic, like the same animals / ideas for the future. ... (84 words)

How do I make my father realize I'm not a little kid any more?

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18 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I still live with my parents. I just got out of high school, and i'm rooming here until college. But i had my boyfriend over. And we wanted to watch a movie. So we got online and found one on netflix. We got on the couch and cuddled. And we had a blanket on because it was ... (127 words)

My family tell me this crazy. The trouble starts when we're apart. What can I do?

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18 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I love being around him. When i'm with him its perfect. But as soon as he leaves i'm depressed. So depressed that my family starts yelling at me, telling me this is crazy. Is there any like way to fix this problem?... (42 words)

What she's told me about her past makes me question her character

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18 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok guys, so my GF of a year and 3 months and I had a conversation about her past relationship with her ex BF, and I think she cheated on him or rather they cheated on one another, and this worries me, why you may ask, well because the way that it sounds like it happened, was ... (402 words)