How do I know just where this is going without asking a lot of "feelings"

A female age 41-50, *ajunlady writes:

I met a man when I was 17 and he is 11 years my senior. We had sex. Then two years later, we ran into each other and nothing happened, although you could tell we wanted it too. He then got into a relationship and I met someone and married them. The someone I met was his best friend. That was not planned. After being married for 6 years (my husband was verbally and somewhat physically abusive), this man and I became close again. Now, I am divorced and we have seen each other a few times. He is still in his current relationship, living with her. They do nothing together. He is there for his daughter. My daughter is graduated, and living away at college. His daughter has 2 years left.

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