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*ove forever
writes:I like my friend D. I told him that a month ago after I got roped into doing that. And I was happy because he reacted positively.Now, I am angry and sad. My friend J, who knew I liked him, took him from me by asking him to have sex and be in a relationship. Of course I feel betrayed but I dont know what to do.....HELP Reply to this Question
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reader, hammyj  +, writes (1 February 2011):
To be honest, some guys can take advantage of you without you realising, like he could just be making excuses, and to be honest saying that your friend is depressive and that was his excuse for having sex with her is not a good sign. A nice guy wouldn't have done it because he would realise that he could really mess a girl with problems up. Most people feel shit after a on night stand, and he should know to avoid having sex with someone who is already fragile.
I know its hard to let go and you will have the urge to make excuses for him but try and step back and see im for what he is.
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reader, love forever +, writes (1 February 2011):
love forever is verified as being by the original poster of the questionLike its not that he woulda taken advantage of me. We did talk about this and he wants a real relationsip with me but J is depressive and stuff...that and he is joining the marines and doesnt wannahurt me when he leaves
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reader, hammyj +, writes (31 January 2011):
Thats not a nice thing to have happen to you and your friend is not a good person, and she doesn't have your best interests in mind at all.
If he was so easily suade by the prospect of sex though, he hardly seems worth your while in the first place, and maybe you are lucky that you got to see his true colours before you became involved. It might be hard to believe now, but this could have been a blessing in disguise. Try to put it out of your mind and move on to a guy with better morals.
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