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I need help! What can I do to make him feel better when making the first move with sex.

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Question - (31 January 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 1 February 2011)
A female Ireland age 30-35, *oungmum89 writes:

i'm with my bf 16 months, at the start we were both very shy, it took a lot longer for him to come out of his shyness. we'll we started having sex after 3 months, i'm very happy with our sex-life its just i always make the first move, our sex just keeps getting better and better as we get to know each others body. i have asked him about it a couple of times he keeps saying he will try. when he was in his last relationship it wasnt the best he always got knocked back. i'm just wondering if there's anything I can do to make him feel better when making the first move with sex.

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A male reader, Welsh Uncle Dave United Kingdom +, writes (1 February 2011):

Just go with whatever he does for starters. You say he's been knocked back in the past by his ex, and he probably fears the same will happen.

By going with it, will raise his confidence and will encourage him more in the future to make the first move.

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