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36-40,
anonymous
writes:my boyfriend and i have been dating for over a year now, and we moved in together 3 months ago, and i feel like the relationship is not what it used to be he does not cuddle with me as much as he used to does not pay attention to me as much as he used to he would rather watch tv or play on his computer. I think its the little things tht matter too and he does not do them! i have to tell him to be nice to me to show me his feelings, i have to tell him to show me how he feels. now he is not like this all the time , there is times he makes me dinner, and sometimes he writes me little notes telling me how he feels, i know tht the chemistry is there and tht he really does care about me and wants to be with me and not anyone else, but how do i get him to be close to me again like he used to i feel so distant from him like the sparks are gone what do i do?? I mean he has a 9 year old daughter and he was with her mother not, married just dating for 10 years and they have been broke up for over 3 yrs but i have never met his daughter not once i dont know what to do!
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2011): That's what seems to happen about three months after couples move in together...real life happens not just dating. I mean if you guys are committed and there is chemistry then why are you complaining? When you live together it's not going to be all lovey dovey ALL the time! Sounds like you need alot of attention. You need to decide what you want most in a relationship...if you like being cuddly and have ''sparks'' ALOT then you will have to have an endless cycle of dating guys, because it's impossible to feel adored and pampered 24/7 in a serious relationship like living together or being married. I'm married and I'm sooo grateful for and adore my husband but there are times where i can't stand him and other times where I feel distant. But then I think logically and realize life isn't a fairy tale...you can't feel close all the time. Good luck!
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