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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I started talking to this guy about two months ago, that i saw in school and i thought was really cute. He added me on facebook one day, and then i IMed him on there, and we started talking and he asked for my number. We ended up texting everyday after this, and talked for about 2 months. At one point, I got annoyed because it seemed like it wasn't going anywhere, and i really liked him but figured if he wasn't going to pursue this i just was going to give up. So i decided to delete him off of my BBM, and then i got an IM from him on facebook a couple days later, asking if we were no longer talking. and i told him, the whole story. and he completly understood, and we started talking again and it seemed like things were getting much better. And we were moving forward, i really really liked him now. then all of sudden, last week we were texting and the next day i didn't hear from him. which was kind of unusual, since he texted me every day. and when i saw him in school, he just ignored me. and now he just completly stopped talking to me. and i don't understand, what happened or what i did for him to stop talking to me. like i liked him SO MUCH, and it looked like he liked me too, so it just sucks. and i am so confused, about everything. and i can't contact him, and ask him.. because i don't wanna come off as obsessive, and in my opinion if he hasn't talked to me, then obviously something happened. but i just need advice on what to do! like what do i do when i see him in school, if he contacts me in the near future? how do i get over him, and make it look like i'm perfectly fine in school? help cupid! :(
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reader, dollface1  +, writes (31 January 2011):
 Ok, relax... you won't come off as obssesive, firstly wait two to three days and ask him just as he asked you are we no longer talking? and if you don't get a reply. go to school carry on like normal, if he really likes you he will come around. after a week if he doesn't go up to him when his alone and say " did I do something wrong? because i really found your conversation interesting, and found it quiet strange that we aren't talking anymore?" and see what he says. stop thinking of being obsessive and be yourself do what you feel is right!
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