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female
age
36-40,
*ainrain
writes:Hi, I recently become sexually active with my boyfriend. I'm in my early-twenties and it is my first time having sex with anyone. I feel kind of insecure about my body and too shy to let my boyfriend see it. Whenever we have sex (it has only been 3 times), we have to do it under a blanket. I don't know if my boyfriend is enjoying the sex much that way because the most comfortable thing that we could do under the blanket is missionary position. I'm afraid of making my boyfriend bored of sex with me. What should I do? I'm not sure how to break out of my shell. I don't want to act too wild since I'm not that type and freak out my boyfriend or anything. I'm so confused.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2011): be confident with your body...if your feeling uncomfortable he can sense that. maybe stay away from sex and just play with each other get to know your own body, we all have body issues but if your bf loves you he will love ALL of you , and mist of the time we find "unattractive" about ourselves its only in our heads.
we as women put ourselves down due to our imperfections and thats a turn off for men. be proud of what you have im sure he is :)
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