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writes:Im 19 and I am still a virgin - I'm not too particularly worried because I will probably lose it this summer as this boy and I are getting more serious. The thing is, he is almost 22 and not a virgin. We havent gone very far and now we are in LDR. I feel incredibly lacking in knowledge of sexual endeavors. I am ready mentally, but am I ready physically? To be honest, he doesnt know I'm a virgin, though he might have guessed it. He is a very kind soul though and would be understanding, I know that. I dont expect it to be perfect; in fact, I know it will be awkward. Is there anything you wish you knew/did your first time? Anything to watch out for?
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reader, AuntyMaur  +, writes (31 January 2011):
 I wish I knew that he wanted to make love to me because he loved me not because we felt pressured to have sex because everyone around us was having sex. I would have wanted to know that if I fell pregnant would he stand by me and the child.
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reader, dollface1  +, writes (31 January 2011):
 HiFirstly what I regret is the fact that i didnt lose my virginity with a special person instead i lost it with someone who was using me.Make sure this person isn't really doing it because he just wants to get in your pants, and remember its gonna hurt the first time, make sure his gonna stop when you want him to stop and that his gonna be there for you.step one: make sure u use a condom, you dont wanna get pregnant or pick up anything.step two: make sure you wearing something sexy. something appealing to himstep three: make sure your legs are waxed and certain parts are smooth, most guys love the smooth feeling step four: make sure you are comfortable, you don't wanna be thinking omg his looking at my cellulite or aah i forgot to shave there, then you won't be enjoying the experiencewell then thats all i know of enjoy!
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2011): If you are in an LDR, keep in mind those have a strong possibility of not working out. So if youre looking for meaningful sex in a lasting relationship, I will caution you kindly.
Anyway, given that my first time was pathetically last year at age 25 under some rather interesting but unfortunate circumstances, I would say have it be pure without alcohol or drugs and have plenty of protection on hand. It was only awkward that I mentioned I was still holding the V card... as the woman was shocked. However, lol good thing money talks and the shock went away Ill say that. This guy however doesnt seem to care which is really good so itll help u approach things with ease and comfort. Good luck.
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