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writes:There’s this guy I really like but when it comes to kissing him I just tense up. What should I do? I’m at a loss; I want to be intimate with him but cant. I’ve liked him for two years now; even though for part of that he was in a relationship I couldn’t stop thinking about him. Recently I’d started getting over it and thought I could move on but when his relationship ended and he started being more affectionate towards me its stirred up all those feelings. A couple of times after he’s ended with this girl he tried to kiss me and I sort of dodged it saying that it was too soon. We’ve kissed since then but I still tense up. It’s not that I don’t trust him, I do. He was the first guy I’d kissed but I was sure I was ready! I really REALLY want to be, I feel its holding us back a little. Any advice, what’s wrong with me. I’m so attracted to him, he’s perfect! I feel such a fool; I should be able to do this! Thank you xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2011): Don't rush into being intimate with him. He may be perfect in your eyes but if your perfect in his he'll wait until the time is right. Relationships aren't all about the physical. Their are other ways to move forward with a person. How long have you all been dating? it does not sound like its been that long at all. You don't want to be his rebound.
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reader, Br1dgette  +, writes (31 January 2011):
I really don't know dear. I'd think that if you are tensing up when he kisses you that you don't really trust him. When something is right things like that just happen. If you truly cared about him the way you express that you do I would think you'd be jumping all over him at the chance. If your dodging there is just something wrong. It's just not right.
Don't push issue. When it's right it will be right. It's very possible maybe it won't happen with him.
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