A
female
age
30-35,
*iss.Knowitall
writes:I'm getting tired of him always being busy. So I am 17 and me and my bf have been going out for a year tomorrow actually.... The thing is his number 1 passion is snowmobiles. So of course every chance he gets he is off snowmobiling. From fixing his to selling parts to everything he has been busy a lot. I get it. But it's wearing me down. I have never been on a snowmobile. The last time I went to his house it was too cold. we were suppose to got today but his motor broke .... talk about bad luck. I feel like no matter how much I try I am never going to be able to share interest in his passion with him. If I try he tells me "you don't know anything" I feel like I can only be his girlfriend when there isn't any snow on the ground and it sucks. How do I get over the fact that I am being harder on my self and him because I feel such a lack of attention. I guess I just expected for him to pick my up on his snowmobile and take me out to dinner somewhere. Since we live in the middle of nowhere and neither of us drive yet we haven't been on a real date how do I get him to realize his constant mind set of snowmobiles and snowmobiles only is hurting me. .... the one time he even said "I can ride you all year round, I can only ride a snowmobile for a few months " ... I wasn't happy. Reply to this Question
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (1 February 2011):
 "ride you"?? Boy Howdy you need to find a new boyfriend!
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