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writes:Me and my girlfriend just broke up recently because we did not agree on somethings in each others lifestyle (things that can be compromised but we were too stubborn). From the sounds of it, she is taking it as hard as I am (she initiated it). We were doing very well in our relationship (not a lot of fighting, no cheating, she always wanted to see me which i loved), but these disagreements on our future finally caught up and she ended it. I told her to just leave me alone so i could get over it but she texted me later that night to let me know that she made it home safe. The next day i txted her and she told me that she was dying inside because she wanted to talk to me so bad but figured i wouldn't reply. When i tried to stop talking to her because it was too much at the time, she begged me not to go telling me she needs me, cant go the rest of her life without seeing or talking to me, and wants to be with me but it just isn't right at this point in our lives. We talked on the phone later that night and i asked her could i take her out for v day ..her response was maybe and throughout the convo she randomly said "im trying to figure out if i want to let you take me out for v day" . The next day she insisted that we not talk for a few days because she felt like we were still a couple. Then she made me promise to go out and have fun for the weekend. We are both 20, i am her first love and the relationship was really good. I had just starting spending time with her and her parents. So my question is based on what i have told you, is there a chance that she will want to reconcile? I know most couples do not, but if you spent 2 years together and were friends even before that,would it be that easy to call it quits? And how should i go about this?
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reader, k_c100  +, writes (1 February 2011):
 I really cant answer this without knowing what it was that you disagreed on? What are these things about your future that has caused the break-up?
I cant tell you if this is something that can be fixed if I dont know the reason in the first place!
Any more information you could provide would be great.
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