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writes: I recently lied to my fiancé about taking a pregnancy test, which I did but I didn't pee on it ..because days before he ask me to take one..he was telling me we are not ready for kids..so I decided to not take it cause I was scared to be and make him feel pressured...I lied because I didn't want him to be stressed but he said thats a big lie how can't I get his trust back again I love him dearly ?
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (31 January 2011):
I'm afraid it was quite a big lie. I appreciate that you were scared, but when it comes to matters such as pregnancy, you simply can't lie. I think now that all you can do is take the test and show him, and explain that it was a moment of terror and that you will work hard to show you can be trusted.
Also make sure he and you are using protection so there is no repeat performance.
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reader, dollface1 +, writes (31 January 2011):
ok only thing you can do is take the damn pregnancy test and show him, explain to him your feelings and that you didnt want him to feel pressured and if he doesnt understand then his an idiot after all you put him before yourself! always be open and honest with your partner don't keep secrets with out trust a relationship dies eventually and the truth always comes out.
all the best
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