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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:ok so this guy just added me on facebook but hes like 22, and im 16 so its kind of an age gap, and we've talked and stuff , he seems nice but then he asked me if i had a bf.. i mean does it mean hes looking for anything? im not sure whether i should delete him or just keep him , because hes real nice .xD....
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2011): Hii think you should delete him and concentrate on your 'real' friends and try to find another nice guy in 'real' places. These conversations on facebook, between strangers (because he is a stranger) are not leading to serious friendships or relationships. This guy might b nice, but if you met for real, you might be totally different, u might not b able to 'talk', since it involves face to face interactions. You can build up your ideal image of this guy, but you dont know him.and you wont get to know him through facebook. My advice is: try to get out, go out, see your friends, have fun, meet new people, but not on the internet as it will fade away and u will feel you have just wasted so much time while you could have gone out and enjoy yourself with the people who u really know. Secondly , this guy is probably sending the same questions to many other girls.x x
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2011): Hi
i think you should delete him and concentrate on your 'real' friends and try to find another nice guy in 'real' places. These conversations on facebook, between strangers (because he is a stranger) are not leading to serious friendships or relationships. This guy might b nice, but if you met for real, you might be totally different, u might not b able to 'talk', since it involves face to face interactions. You can build up your ideal image of this guy, but you dont know him.and you wont get to know him through facebook. My advice is: try to get out, go out, see your friends, have fun, meet new people, but not on the internet as it will fade away and u will feel you have just wasted so much time while you could have gone out and enjoy yourself with the people who u really know. Secondly , this guy is probably sending the same questions to many other girls.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2011): well if he ain't suggesting anything between yous, there really isn't a reason you should delete him. Maybe he was just doing his nosey. But if he then starts to suggest things you should maybe think about the age gap your self and think is it really right, and is it safe if you know what i mean, but to be honest the guy deserves a chance as he might just like talking to you.
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