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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: Ok so there's this girl I've liked for a while now and a sortof got the feeling she liked me but I was to nervous to do any thing when I used to see her I was nice and happy but eventually my feelings became so strong that being around her was very hard this led to a couple of months of me being really quiet and withdrawn but eventually I started to have more confidence again but heres the thing I think she has met someone one and its killing me and I just want to tell her how feel the next time were alone together because I think it will make me feel better knowing but Im confused as to weather I should I'm sceard of what her reaction will be as I have never really opened up about my feelings like this before advice would be very helpful as I'm going out of my mind.
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reader, Dini1393 +, writes (2 February 2011):
I think you should tell her how you feel by just comming out and saying it. Girls love to hear how you feel. How will she ever know the truth without your help? Maybe she did like you, and she still might now, no sense in not telling her because the feelings may be mutual. Take a chance. Take her out to coffee, nothing to formal because in the slight case that you feel your not ready to tell her at the last minute, or something awkward happens you guys will be able to cut the visite short. If you take her out to dinner, it will be much harder to have a conversation after something awkward has been said.
Hope this helps!
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