A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:my husband of 8 years doesnt last longer than 5 minites when we have sex,i tried talking to him but nothing works.It's like before he starts 4play hes already thinking about him cuming.his 4play will only take 2-3 minutes. I told him this is not working for me but he doesnt care,i told him that since you cant last longer can we please try for a second round but hell no he says he cant go more than one round and tells me that im addicted to sex. If i try to ask for sex he'll tell me he's tired or say wait till morning ill give you in the morning. He's always been like this i dont know what to do.Now for almost a year i have noticed that i dont feel anything even if he touches me.My feelings are dead please i need advise. He cant perfom oral nothing.the only 4play he does is using his finger sometimes no kissing. I was going down on for years until he said i make him feel like he is dirty.
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reader, FluffyPie  +, writes (31 January 2011):
 Well, most guys who can't last too long in bed try to avoid it. You two should find a therapist, because it's very important how you approach this subject with him and you need to be careful, the way you say it might hurt his feelings. Men are sensitive when it comes to their manhood, so he might be feeling guilty.
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