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30-35,
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writes:Hi there . I need help I'm so confused with this . I want to know if I still have a chance with this guy . We have so much history .3 years ago I was introduced to this guy by my (girl)friend. I thought he was cute and told her . She tried hooking us up . I later found out the guy actually liked her and has for a couple months but she didn't like him . Me and him started to get really close and he would tell me about all his problems, including her . even though we flirted alot they ended up going out but we still talked .Fastforward a year , they broke up and we were still talking . He confessed to me many times but I refused . Even though I didn't talk to that (girl)friend of mines anymore it was still 'chicks before dicks' . I was young, didn't know what I wanted . I was just so confused with life . I ended up ignoring him for a couple months and he went out everywhere hoping to see me and ended up flirting with alot of girls and becoming a player.Fastforward another year . I tried talking to him , found out he has a girlfriend but he doesn't like her . I thought maybe he still liked me and tried talking more but he didn't seem so interested . He always seemed so busy with life so i left it be.Couple months later which is today , he told me everything . How he doesn't like his girlfriend but can't break up with her cause he's scared she might suicide(long story). But at the same time he likes this girl.... the same girl he dated 2 years ago ... He sounds like he likes her a lot .... I dont know ... as he's telling me all this I just feel like shit . I thought he might've liked me still since he kept telling me how he didn't like his girlfriend but this whole time it turns out he still likes that girl .Ever since he's told me all this we've been talking more often. i feel like we've gotten as close as we were before minus all the flirting .I have no idea what he's thinking or feeling anymore . Do I still stand a chance ? Could I possibly win him over somehow ? Or does he just see me as a friend...
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reader, Abass Abassi  +, writes (31 January 2011):
No need stick to him.
first he didnt love u from the begining and loved only ur friend.
2ndly if you marry him, then u will never be happy as u may think he loves her (your friend) not you, better move on and keep no contact with him.
There are lots of good boys there waiting for u, choose one among many who is honest and trustworthy and make him ur life partner. Never confess that much easily to love. It takes time, much time to recognise someone as ur partner. Bear in mind one thing, whoever u choose, be much much frank and honest to him, never flirt, never cheat and never break his trust.
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Abass
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reader, dollface1  +, writes (31 January 2011):
 Hi
He see's as a friend and also a girl he can get attention from when needed.
If he was interested he would have been with you a long time ago. you should watch that movie his just not that into you.
get rid of him and find someone if he really likes you he'll tell you and be with you.
don't be the rebound girl, you better than that!
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