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36-40,
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writes:OK i know this is a generalization buy through my dating experience i have come to stay away from girls who are very warm and friendly when you first meet them, and instead get to know the ones who are more reserved when you first meet them. The reason is i find that girls who are really warm and friendly at first sight....are usually fake. its not natural to be so outgoing when you first meet someone, because there are alot of mean people so why would you be so bubbly to someone you dont know? i think it is a lot more real to be reserved when you meet someone for the first time until you get to know them. has anyone else had the same experience? do you think that girls who are so friendly and warm at an introduction turn out to be either real shallow or really fake, or worse? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2011): Complete opposite for me.
I find that reserved girls are usually shy girls. Shy girls often have all sorts of self-esteem issues, which, in a relationship, quickly transforms to jealousy, being clingy, needy and more often than not quite unambitious.
Outgoing girls tend to be the complete opposite. They are outgoing and engaging because they believe in themselves and have something intelligent to say.
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